Parents: Is Your Teen College Ready?

Shellee Howard

Your teen is in middle school or high school, and college is on the horizon! Do you know where to begin? It can be overwhelming! Which college will be a good fit? Can you afford it? What is my teen passionate about? This can be an exciting time, but a stressful one! College admission is at an all time high in both competitiveness and cost. How do you navigate this? Your host Shellee Howard with College Ready has helped countless families in the college admissions process while saving them thousands of dollars in tuition! In her podcast, she sits down with new and past clients to share their experiences with College Ready, along with financial advisors and other experts who understand the importance of financial awareness when it comes to graduating from college debt free. This year's College Ready seniors earned over 17 million dollars in scholarships and grants! The information you hear on this show is priceless, you really can’t afford to not tune in!

  1. Raising Resilient Teens with Sarah Morgan

    10H AGO

    Raising Resilient Teens with Sarah Morgan

    In this enlightening conversation on the "Parents is Your Teen College Ready?" show, Shellee Howard interviews Sarah Morgan, a former corporate trainer turned school assembly speaker who focuses on teaching students about emotional resilience and recovery. Sarah shares her compelling personal story of a horseback riding accident that nearly left her quadriplegic, highlighting how her mindset and belief system played a crucial role in her recovery. She emphasizes the importance of understanding emotions through Dr. Albert Ellis’s ABC theory, which explains how our beliefs mediate emotional responses rather than the activating events themselves. Sarah discusses the challenges students face today, including bullying, rigid expectations, and the emotional toll of social media and AI, offering practical advice for parents to help their children build emotional resilience. She advocates for leveraging school counselors and educational resources to support teens and encourages parents to foster healthy belief systems in their children to prepare them for college and life beyond.   Highlights Sarah Morgan transitioned from corporate leadership training to inspiring teenagers nationwide on emotional resilience.The ABC theory of emotions (Activating event, Belief system, Consequence) is key to managing emotional responses.Sarah’s personal story of a near-quadriplegic horseback riding accident underscores the power of mindset in recovery.Addressing bullying and social challenges is central to Sarah’s school assemblies, focusing on resilience rather than victimhood.Social media and AI amplify rigid expectations and comparison, increasing anxiety and anger among teens.Parents are encouraged to collaborate with school counselors and use available resources to support their child’s emotional health.Embracing failure as a learning tool is critical for long-term success and emotional strength.Key InsightsResilience is a skill that can be taught and cultivated: Sarah’s shift from corporate training to youth education reflects a growing recognition that resilience and emotional literacy are essential life skills for young people. By addressing real-life challenges and emotional management, she equips students to navigate uncertainties, setbacks, and social pressures. This proactive approach contrasts with traditional academic focus and prepares teens for holistic success.The ABC model reframes emotional reactions: Sarah highlights Dr. Albert Ellis’s ABC theory to illustrate that emotions do not directly result from external events but from the interpretation or belief about those events. This insight is empowering, encouraging students (and adults) to examine and adjust their belief systems, reducing emotional distress and promoting healthier responses. For parents, this model offers a practical framework to help children understand their feelings and reactions constructively.Personal adversity as a teaching tool enhances authenticity: Sarah’s detailed recounting of her accident and recovery lends credibility and emotional weight to her message. Her experience illustrates how controlled decisions, like accepting help (helmet use) and maintaining a calm belief system, can dramatically influence outcomes. This personal narrative resonates deeply with students, making the abstract concept of resilience tangible and relatable.Bullying and social challenges are symptoms of broader emotional struggles: Sarah addresses bullying not just as isolated social conflict but as part of the larger emotional resilience framework. She encourages students to recognize their power over their reactions and belief systems rather than letting negative social interactions define their emotional state. This shift from victimhood to empowerment is crucial in creating a supportive school environment.The pervasive influence of social media creates rigid expectations and emotional distress: Sarah points out how constant exposure to curated lives online raises unrealistic standards, fostering anxiety and anger, both manifestations of rigidity in thinking. She teaches the importance of flexible thinking and “lightly held desires,” helping teens manage disappointment and uncertainty in a healthier way. This insight is vital as parents and educators seek to mitigate the negative psychological impacts of digital culture.Failure is an unavoidable and necessary part of growth: Drawing on Dr. Henry Cloud’s advice, Sarah stresses that learning to fail and recover is more valuable than avoiding failure altogether. This mindset prepares teens for real-world challenges by building endurance and adaptability. For parents, this means supporting children through setbacks and helping them see failure as a stepping stone to resilience rather than a catastrophe.Parental involvement combined with school resources strengthens emotional support: Sarah urges parents to engage with school counselors and make use of educational materials to foster emotional awareness at home. She recognizes that parents often struggle with their own rigid expectations, which can inadvertently add pressure on children. By working collaboratively with schools and focusing on belief systems, families can create a nurturing environment that prepares teens for the emotional demands of college and adulthood.Extended Analysis Sarah Morgan’s approach to emotional resilience is both practical and deeply human. By integrating personal experience with psychological theory, she connects with students on a level that traditional educational programs often miss. Her emphasis on belief systems as the filter for emotional responses challenges the common misconception that external events alone dictate feelings. This insight is revolutionary in emotional education, empowering young people to reclaim control over their mental states, fostering independence and confidence.Moreover, Sarah’s recognition of the unique pressures faced by today’s youth, exacerbated by social media and AI, reflects an acute understanding of generational challenges. The concept of “rigid expectations” as a root cause of anxiety and anger is particularly insightful. It highlights that emotional difficulties often stem from cognitive inflexibility rather than the events themselves. Teaching teens to hold desires lightly and to accept uncertainty equips them with psychological tools to maintain equilibrium in a rapidly changing world.Her story of survival and recovery from a life-threatening injury adds a powerful narrative dimension, showing resilience not as an abstract ideal but as a lived reality. The specific example of how wearing a helmet and making deliberate choices in the moment saved her from permanent paralysis underscores the intersection of mindset, preparedness, and practical action.For parents, Sarah’s advice to utilize school counselors and educational resources acknowledges the complex ecosystem influencing teen emotional health. It reflects the reality that parents cannot do it alone but can play a critical role by fostering open communication and supporting professional guidance. Her caution against conditional self-esteem, a prevalent but harmful mindset, encourages a more stable, intrinsic sense of worth for young people.In sum, Sarah’s work exemplifies a modern, nuanced approach to emotional education, one that balances theory, personal experience, and practical strategies to empower the next generation for college and life beyond. Parents, educators, and students alike can benefit from her insights on resilience, emotional awareness, and the power of belief systems to shape our emotional landscapes.Connect with Shellee Howard:  Website YouTube Instagram   LinkedIn   Connect with Sarah Morgan:  Website Facebook LinkedIn Instagram LinkedIn 🎁 Episode Gift & Contact   🎓 College Planning Support for ParentsWant help organizing next steps and avoiding costly college mistakes?   📘 Workbook Gift:https://go.collegereadyplan.com/podcast-gift-workbook   🤝 Interested in Collaborating with College Ready?Email Julienne at julienne@collegereadyplan.com

    23 min
  2. College on the Brink: What Parents Need to Know About Student Debt and Financially At-Risk Schools

    10/29/2025

    College on the Brink: What Parents Need to Know About Student Debt and Financially At-Risk Schools

    In this insightful discussion, Shellee Howard interviews Gary Stocker, an expert on college financial health and viability, to shed light on the often-overlooked financial challenges facing many colleges today. Gary, originally trained as a medical laboratory scientist, transitioned into higher education administration and research, focusing on the financial stability of colleges, especially smaller private institutions. He reveals alarming trends, such as the closure of private colleges at an unprecedented rate, with one closing per week in early 2024. Despite the public perception of wealthy, stable institutions, many colleges, particularly small, rural, and non-urban private colleges, are struggling financially, often keeping these struggles hidden from prospective students and parents. Gary explains how colleges mask the reality of their financial trouble by offering significant tuition discounts, which are often misrepresented as scholarships, to attract students. He warns parents to be cautious and to prioritize evaluating a college’s financial health before considering other factors like campus beauty or program offerings. Gary introduces tools he developed at College Viability, including a free report platform (mycollegeviability.com) that allows families to assess the financial health of over 1,400 private colleges and a college majors completion app that tracks graduation numbers in specific majors to help identify programs at risk of closure. He highlights the risks students face if a college closes mid-education, emphasizing the importance of teach-out agreements that transfer students to other institutions, though these partner colleges may themselves be financially unstable. Gary also discusses the differences between public and private institutions, noting that while public colleges have similar low graduation rates, they rarely close due to government funding. He underscores the importance of transparency and independent analysis for families navigating college choices in a financially volatile higher education landscape.   Highlights Over 50% of private colleges graduate less than half their students on time, signaling systemic issues in higher education.  Small, rural private colleges are most at risk of financial instability and closure, often without public warning.  Tuition "scholarships" are frequently just discounts, not additional funds, misleading families about the true cost.  Parents should make financial health the first criterion when evaluating colleges, not just campus appeal or programs.  Teach-out agreements help students finish degrees if their college closes, but quality and stability of partner schools vary.  Gary’s tools (mycollegeviability.com and the majors completion app) provide critical data for assessing college viability and program strength.  Public colleges rarely close due to state funding but share similar challenges with graduation rates and funding cuts.  Key Insights Financial Health is the New Priority in College Selection: Gary stresses that parents and students must prioritize the financial stability of colleges over traditional factors like campus tours or program variety. This shift in focus is crucial because financially unstable colleges may cut programs, reduce quality, or close outright, disrupting students' education and costing families time and money.  Rapid Rise in College Closures Indicates a Crisis: The fact that one private college closed every week in the first half of 2024 (though the rate has slowed) reveals a deep financial crisis in higher education, particularly among smaller and private institutions. This trend underscores the urgent need for transparency and proactive financial assessment tools for families.  Tuition Discounts Mask True Costs and Financial Realities: Colleges use high sticker prices with large discounts framed as scholarships to attract students and impress families. This marketing tactic hides the actual financial challenges colleges face and can create false expectations for families about the value and sustainability of a college education at these institutions.  Teach-Out Agreements Are a Safety Net but Not a Guarantee of Quality: When colleges close, teach-out agreements can transfer students to other schools to complete their degrees. However, Gary highlights that many receiving institutions may themselves be financially fragile or unable to provide the same educational quality, potentially compromising students’ outcomes despite the transfer.  Data-Driven Decisions Empower Families: Gary’s development of tools like mycollegeviability.com and the majors completion app equips families with objective information about college financial health and program viability. These tools help identify risks such as low graduation rates, declining enrollments, and majors at risk of being cut, enabling informed decision-making rather than relying solely on marketing or reputation.  Small Colleges Face Unique Challenges: Small, non-urban private colleges are disproportionately impacted by financial difficulties, facing enrollment declines, increased expenses, and infrastructure maintenance backlogs. Their smaller scale and limited resources make them more vulnerable to closure and program cuts, which parents must consider carefully.  Public Colleges Are Not Immune but Benefit from Subsidies: Although public colleges share many challenges like low graduation rates, they are less likely to close due to state subsidies and government support. However, they still face budget pressures that can impact program offerings and campus conditions, which families should also monitor, especially as many public institutions cut programs or raise tuition.  Lack of Transparency Harms Families’ Ability to Assess Risk: Colleges often avoid publicizing financial problems or program cuts to protect their image and enrollment. This secrecy makes it difficult for families to assess risks effectively without independent data sources, reinforcing the value of third-party resources like those Gary provides.  Graduation Rates Affect Financial and Opportunity Costs: With over half of colleges graduating fewer than 50% of students within four years, many students face extended education timelines, increased tuition costs, and lost income opportunities. This hidden cost significantly impacts families and should be a key consideration when choosing a college.  Parents and Students Must Ask Tough Questions on Tours: Prospective students and parents should inquire about the health and future of low-enrollment majors during campus visits. Declining or small programs may be at risk of elimination, affecting students’ ability to complete their desired field of study, highlighting the need for critical questioning beyond surface-level marketing.  Independent Fiduciaries Are Needed to Advocate for Families: Gary positions College Viability as an independent advocate for parents and students in a landscape where college presidents and boards prioritize institutional survival. This independent oversight helps balance the interests of families against the colleges’ financial realities.  Caveat Emptor (Buyer Beware) Applies to College Selection: The age-old Latin warning is especially relevant for today’s college market. Families must approach college selection with a critical eye and data-driven mindset, recognizing that traditional trust in higher education institutions may no longer be sufficient to ensure a safe investment for their children’s futures.  Conclusion This conversation underscores the critical need for families to adopt a more analytical and cautious approach to college selection. The financial instability of many colleges, especially small private institutions, poses real risks to students’ educational trajectories and families’ investments. By leveraging independent data tools and focusing on financial health first, parents and students can make more informed decisions, avoid surprises like sudden college closures, and better ensure a quality and stable college experience. Gary Stocker’s expertise and resources provide a powerful antidote to the opaque and often misleading narratives promoted by colleges, empowering families in an increasingly complex higher education environment.   Connect with Shellee Howard:  Website YouTube Instagram   LinkedIn   Connect with Gary Stocker:  Website Facebook LinkedIn YouTube Podcast 🎁 Episode Gift & Contact   🎓 College Planning Support for ParentsWant help organizing next steps and avoiding costly college mistakes?   📘 Workbook Gift:https://go.collegereadyplan.com/podcast-gift-workbook   🤝 Interested in Collaborating with College Ready?Email Julienne at julienne@collegereadyplan.com

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Your teen is in middle school or high school, and college is on the horizon! Do you know where to begin? It can be overwhelming! Which college will be a good fit? Can you afford it? What is my teen passionate about? This can be an exciting time, but a stressful one! College admission is at an all time high in both competitiveness and cost. How do you navigate this? Your host Shellee Howard with College Ready has helped countless families in the college admissions process while saving them thousands of dollars in tuition! In her podcast, she sits down with new and past clients to share their experiences with College Ready, along with financial advisors and other experts who understand the importance of financial awareness when it comes to graduating from college debt free. This year's College Ready seniors earned over 17 million dollars in scholarships and grants! The information you hear on this show is priceless, you really can’t afford to not tune in!