Dancing With Ourselves: A Totally RAD 80's Podcast

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80s kids Jimmy, Eric, Josh, Kane & Jeremy are celebrating the greatest decade of all time! The party includes: A PLETHORA of guests, storytelling, totally RAD events, and much more. Join us on this epic 80s adventure!

  1. 1d ago

    #152 - Never Gonna Give You Logic | The Paradoxes Hidden in '80s Songs

    What happens when four Gen-X guys put the lyrics of the 1980s on trial—and demand that every promise, contradiction, and ridiculous statement survive a logic test? Welcome to Dancing With Ourselves, Episode 152! It starts with the Rick Astley paradox: If Rick gives you Pixar's Up, hasn't he broken his promise to never give you up? But if he refuses, hasn't he let you down? From there, Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh, and Kane drag an entire decade of classic songs into the court of completely unreasonable logic. No musicians were actually served with subpoenas. On the musical docket: Romeo Void, Rick Springfield, The Clash, The Smiths, Limahl, Tears for Fears, Simple Minds, Wang Chung, U2, Cher, and Depeche Mode. Then we pit Joy Division against INXS. Does love tear us apart—or can nothing ever tear us apart? And how does Blondie's Call Me hold up against Tommy Tutone's 867-5309/Jenny? As usual, the conversation goes gloriously off-road. Expect classic Match Game nostalgia, the Marine Corps birthday, Grandmaster Flash and Duran Duran, Rick Springfield's Vietnam story, dental disasters, GTA VI, Steven Seagal's unexpected reggae career, misheard lyrics, and November 10 Gen-X stumper trivia. PLUS: A new DWO Good News closing! Before our traditional “Goodnight,” we share the true story of Dan Simpson, a Domino's delivery driver in Boise, Idaho, whose simple act of kindness inspired thousands of people to help celebrate his retirement. Because after all the arguments, absurdity, and laughter, it's worth remembering the good people out there. 🎵 Featured Auditory Ecstasy outro — Algebraic Ratios Our closing song is “Algebraic Ratios” by Auditory Ecstasy, a high-energy, darkly funny pop-punk track about questionable decisions, drinking, self-deception, and trying to turn emotional chaos into mathematical certainty. It's a fitting musical callback to the entire episode: just because you can explain something with an equation doesn't mean it makes sense! Watch the official music video: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C9O8kaR-274 YouTube audio release: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QBNKo6UrRDY Follow and stream Auditory Ecstasy: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7dgHdfahWKySAfxtrODYLC Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/auditory-ecstasy/1673506127 SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/auditory-ecstasy Amazon Music: https://amazon.com/music/player/artists/B0BDV4MR36/auditory-ecstasy?marketplaceId=ATVPDKIKX0DER&musicTerritory=US&ref=dm_sh_at9wf7o8tKpkx1I8vU0QqDu2U AE VEVO Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@AuditoryEcstasyVEVO Music produced under Eagle Bradley Productions LLC. ⏱️ Episode chapters 00:00:00 — Opening Banter: Monster Match and the Match Game 00:03:52 — Marine Corps Birthday, Veterans Day and Catching Up 00:05:11 — The Rick Astley Paradox: Can He Give You Up? 00:09:51 — White Lines: Grandmaster Flash, Duran Duran and Irony 00:12:27 — Romeo Void: Never Say Never 00:15:38 — Rick Springfield, The Clash and the Vietnam War Detour 00:20:35 — The Smiths: How Soon Is Now? and Dental Detours 00:25:32 — The Smiths in Film, Charmed and t.A.T.u. 00:28:14 — Limahl: Can The NeverEnding Story Really End? 00:31:51 — Unexpected Detour: Vaping and Technology 00:33:50 — Tears for Fears: Everybody Wants to Rule the World 00:38:26 — Simple Minds: Don't You (Forget About Me) 00:41:11 — Wang Chung: Mandatory Fun, Movie Hits and GTA VI 00:46:50 — U2: With or Without You 00:48:32 — Steven Seagal's Unexpected Reggae Career 00:50:41 — Cher: If I Could Turn Back Time 00:53:47 — Depeche Mode: Enjoy the Silence and Songwriting Talk 00:58:01 — Joy Division vs. INXS: Will Love Tear Us Apart? 01:04:49 — Blondie vs. Tommy Tutone: Call Me or 867-5309? 01:16:02 — Misheard Lyrics, Billy Idol and Eyes Without a Face 01:19:55 — November 10 Stumper Trivia: History, Tech and Pop Culture 01:28:02 — Iran-Contra, Reagan and the Baby-Name Bracket 01:35:07 — Stealth Fighters, World History and Music Trivia 01:42:35 — Good News: Dan Simpson's Pizza Delivery and Goodnight Auditory Ecstasy outro — final chapter timestamp will be added after the final master is verified. ❤️ Good News story source Dan Simpson's original retirement fundraiser, organized by Brian Wilson: https://www.gofundme.com/f/tip-for-dan-the-pizza-mans-retirement About Dancing With Ourselves A totally rad '80s podcast hosted by Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh, and Kane. We revisit the music, movies, television, technology, memories, and bizarre experiences that shaped Generation X—and argue about all of it. What classic '80s song should we put on trial next? Thanks for listening, and until next time—Goodnight! Support the show Follow us on:  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  YouTube Check out our Totally RAD Merch Store!

    #152 - Never Gonna Give You Logic | The Paradoxes Hidden in '80s Songs

  2. Oct 30

    #151 — The Commercials Raised Us Too | How Advertising Got Inside Gen X’s Head

    Why the hell do we still remember commercials from 40 years ago? Before targeted ads, social media influencers, streaming platforms, and algorithms tracking our every click, Generation X grew up in a world where millions of people watched the same commercials — and somehow memorized every damn word. This week on Dancing With Ourselves, Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh, and Kane take a hilarious, occasionally outrageous journey through the television commercials that helped shape an entire generation. It starts with a simple question: What's the earliest commercial you remember? From there, the conversation takes off. Jeremy remembers a bizarre vintage M&M's commercial featuring a multi-armed woman. Kane brings up the legendary Doublemint Twins. The guys revisit childhood toy commercials, cereal advertising, and unforgettable marketing slogans. Jeremy even puts everyone to the test with a spontaneous advertising-jingle challenge. From Domino's "Avoid the Noid" to Kentucky Fried Chicken, Folgers, and Volkswagen, the crew discovers just how much commercial advertising is still living rent-free inside their brains. But the conversation goes deeper. The guys examine television advertisements that haven't aged particularly well, including vintage cigarette campaigns, beer commercials, stereotypical marketing, old-fashioned family expectations, and public-service announcements. They also revisit the famous crying-Indian environmental advertisement, discuss littering and the effectiveness of public messaging, and explore how advertising techniques evolved from the three-network television era into modern online marketing. And because this is DWO, expect plenty of unexpected detours — forgotten toys, local memories, old-school consumer products, internet applications, weird purchases, and the usual Gen-X chaos. The big question running through the episode: Did commercials simply sell us products, or were they conditioning our memories, shaping our expectations, and teaching us what we were supposed to want? The show also features the traditional October 27th trivia challenge, with difficult questions drawn from the 1980–1990 historical period. Featured Auditory Ecstasy music This episode closes with "Not My Mind" by Auditory Ecstasy. The track is a fitting companion to our discussion of persuasion, perception, and how outside influences shape what we think. "Not My Mind" also has an accompanying music video. Music video: https://youtu.be/s-EHeCczvpY?si=Vnzxo1Upt1ldvbyR Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/2p310beE6qjXlvRxG3Zxun?si=87351afce9014dfc Join the conversation What's the first commercial you remember? Which jingle can you still sing without thinking? And what product did television convince you that you absolutely had to own? Join Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh, and Kane for another unfiltered trip through the memories, absurdities, and cultural experiences that made Generation X. Dancing With Ourselves — A Totally Rad 80's Podcast. Explicit language, adult humor, and unscripted conversation. Support the show Follow us on:  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  YouTube Check out our Totally RAD Merch Store!

    #151 — The Commercials Raised Us Too | How Advertising Got Inside Gen X’s Head

  3. Oct 23

    #150 — Wait… Do I Work Here Now? | How Customer Service Became Customer Labor

    Remember when customer service actually meant someone served the customer? Somewhere between the 1980s and 2026, we became the cashier, the bagger, the travel agent, the tech-support department, and apparently the unpaid employee of every business we visit. Welcome to Episode 150 of Dancing With Ourselves: A Totally RAD 80's Podcast! Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh, and Kane are back for a hilarious, unfiltered Gen X conversation about the disappearing art of customer service. It all starts when Jimmy walks into a McDonald's and discovers a sea of ordering kiosks, no traditional ordering counter, and an older woman struggling to place her order. Who steps in to help her? Another CUSTOMER. Wait… do we work here now? From the personal service of the 1970s and 1980s to today's automated everything, the guys explore how businesses are changing the customer experience—and who is actually benefiting. In this episode: McDonald's ordering kiosks, missing cashiers, and Josh's disastrous table-number experience.Self-checkout, mobile apps, automated systems, and whether customers ever see the savings.Why customer service used to mean something different.The difference between helpful employees and companies that promise more than they deliver.Kane's firsthand perspective on retail operations, customer expectations, and employee accountability.Jeremy's experiences with frustrating business services and surprisingly helpful government offices.Automated tech support, phone trees, and the frustration of trying to reach a real human being.Technology, artificial intelligence, and the gradual disappearance of everyday human interaction.Gen X memories, service horror stories, road-trip adventures, and more.And just when everyone thinks the madness is over, Jimmy unleashes October 20 Gen X trivia, featuring historical stumpers from 1980–1990 and a redemption round that may not be quite as easy as advertised. Is modern customer service really getting worse? Or have our expectations—and our willingness to do everything ourselves—changed? EPISODE CHAPTERS 00:00 — Opening Banter, Family Life & Pigeon Forge Adventures 08:10 — What Does Good Customer Service Look Like? 11:03 — McDonald's Kiosks: Where Did the Employees Go? 15:06 — Whatever Happened to "The Customer Is Always Right"? 19:37 — Bad Service, Marketing Failures & Broken Promises 24:54 — Dunkin' Donuts, Ordering Apps & Kiosk Frustration 26:38 — Josh's McDonald's Table-Number Disaster 28:00 — Good vs. Bad Service and Customer Expectations 32:37 — Plumbers, Repairs & Service Calls Gone Sideways 36:52 — The Nightmare of 1-800 Technical Support 45:18 — Are Companies Making Customers Do the Work? 48:07 — Automation, Car Parts & Confusing Technology 51:19 — Government Services: Can the DMV Get It Right? 54:29 — Retro Current Show & Jeremy's Amusement-Park Book 1:00:07 — Remembering Human Customer Service 1:02:08 — Phone Etiquette, Texting & Changing Generations 1:06:29 — Customer Attitudes, Employees & Human Interaction 1:11:31 — October 20 Gen X Trivia: The Hard Stumpers 1:40:28 — The Redemption Round! 1:44:41 — Final Debate: Customer Satisfaction & Survey Scores 1:50:56 — Auditory Ecstasy Outro: "The Dirty Work" FEATURED OUTRO MUSIC — AUDITORY ECSTASY 🎵 "The Dirty Work" — Auditory Ecstasy A gritty, swagger-filled celebration of the people who roll up their sleeves and keep things running. The perfect musical send-off for an episode asking who is really doing all the work. 🎧 Stream "The Dirty Work": https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/auditoryecstasy/the-dirty-work 🎬 Explore Auditory Ecstasy music videos on the official VEVO channel: https://www.youtube.com/@AuditoryEcstasyVEVO 🎬 Auditory Ecstasy on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@auditoryecstasy Music produced by Auditory Ecstasy / Eagle Bradley Productions LLC. MORE FROM THE DWO FAMILY 📺 Retro Current Show — Gen X music, nostalgia, and retro entertainment. https://www.youtube.com/@RetroCurrentShow 🎙️ Dancing With Ourselves: https://dancingwithourselves.buzzsprout.com/ JOIN THE CONVERSATION Do you prefer self-checkout or a real cashier? And if you're scanning your own groceries, bagging your own purchases, troubleshooting their app, and filling out their customer-service survey… Shouldn't you at least get an employee discount? Gen X memories. 1980s nostalgia. Four friends. Zero filters. Dancing With Ourselves — A Totally RAD 80's Podcast! Explicit language and adult humor. #GenX #DancingWithOurselves #CustomerService #SelfCheckout #80sNostalgia #AuditoryEcstasy Support the show Follow us on:  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  YouTube Check out our Totally RAD Merch Store!

    #150 — Wait… Do I Work Here Now? | How Customer Service Became Customer Labor

  4. Oct 19

    #149 — DWO Takes on Who Will Save Generation X | Gen X Trivia & ’80s Game-Show Chaos

    This episode is a special crossover event. Instead of a standard in-house Dancing With Ourselves recording, Jimmy, Kane, and Josh head into the trivia arena to appear on Who Will Save Generation X, the game-show-style podcast hosted by Zabe. *ALSO, this was recorded before Jeremy was a co-host. We would never leave him out of this sort of thing! If you love Gen X nostalgia, ’80s pop culture, trivia, and a little competitive chaos, this one is right in the DWO wheelhouse. In this special episode, the DWO guys compete against each other in Zabe’s uniquely Gen-X world of games, memory tests, and pop-culture challenges. Expect laughs, friendly rivalry, deep-cut references, and the kind of useless-yet-essential knowledge only Gen X seems to carry around forever. Who Will Save Generation X is devoted to remembering, celebrating, and preserving the pop culture of the ’70s, ’80s, and ’90s, as host Zabe tests contestants with trivia games and retro challenges. It’s a perfect crossover match for DWO, and we’re proud to bring this appearance to the DWO feed. So if you’ve ever wondered how the DWO crew would do when the nostalgia turns competitive… here you go. Support / Follow Who Will Save Generation X Website: https://www.whowillsavegenx.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/whowillsavegenx Be sure to check out Zabe’s show, subscribe, and support a fellow Gen-X creator. Outro Music This episode closes with “Atomic Tassel Bazaar” by Auditory Ecstasy. Support the show Follow us on:  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  YouTube Check out our Totally RAD Merch Store!

    #149 — DWO Takes on Who Will Save Generation X | Gen X Trivia & ’80s Game-Show Chaos

  5. Oct 9

    #148 — Wait… This Was a Reboot Too? | 80s TV Reboots, Remakes & Revivals

    Nothing’s ever new… apparently not even in the 1980s. We love to complain that Hollywood has run out of ideas—but what if Gen X grew up watching recycled ideas without even realizing it? In Episode 148, Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh and Kane look at TV reboot culture from both directions in time. First, we dig into the shows and movies from earlier generations that were already being revived, remade, continued or re-imagined during the 1980s. Then we flip the timeline and look at what happened when the television Gen X grew up with became source material for somebody else. From The Twilight Zone and Mission: Impossible to The Fall Guy, The Equalizer, MacGyver, Magnum P.I., Miami Vice, and modern versions of Matlock, the guys try to figure out what actually has to survive for a reboot to still feel like the same property. Is it the character? The actor? The premise? The theme music? The era? And if Tom Selleck isn't Magnum… is it really Magnum P.I.? The deeper question becomes harder than the trivia: when somebody reboots a show you grew up with, are you protecting the story—or the memory of who you were when you watched it? Same idea. New cast. New era. Nothing’s ever new. The conversation includes a particularly strong example with The Equalizer: the crew follows the concept across radically different incarnations while recognizing that the underlying premise survives even when the performer and character presentation change. We close Episode 148 with “La Señal” by Auditory Ecstasy, an unreleased AE track that fits the episode’s theme of signals, echoes, and old ideas finding new life. Support the show Follow us on:  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  YouTube Check out our Totally RAD Merch Store!

    #148 — Wait… This Was a Reboot Too? | 80s TV Reboots, Remakes & Revivals

  6. Oct 2

    #147 — Why the Hell Is Everything Sealed? | How Gen X Watched America Get Safer

    Why the hell is everything sealed now? On September 29, 1982, the Chicago Tylenol murders began—and American consumers would never look at an unopened bottle quite the same way again. In Episode 147 of Dancing With Ourselves, Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh, and Kane use the Tylenol crisis as the starting point for a much bigger Gen X conversation: we didn’t just grow up in a world that seemed more dangerous—we grew up while the modern safety world was being built around us. Lawn darts. BB guns. Fireworks. Homemade bike ramps. Kids disappearing into the woods for hours. Riding around without seat belts. Playground equipment seemingly designed by people who hated children. Halloween candy inspections. Warning labels. Tamper-resistant packaging. Stranger danger. And parents who often had absolutely no idea where we were until dinner. Some of those changes unquestionably made life safer. But did something else change with them? The guys dig into the classic Gen X claim that “we survived,” the survivorship bias hiding inside it, and the difference between eliminating genuine hazards and eliminating the kinds of manageable risks that once taught kids independence and judgment. Then, because this is DWO, the conversation escapes containment. The discussion expands into how social media changed the visibility—and perhaps the incentives—around bad behavior, whether young people today are actually more violent or whether we simply witness more of it, IRL streamers turning chaos into content, technology progressively removing human attention from everyday tasks, and the rapidly approaching world of personal AI systems. Maybe the real story isn’t that Gen X grew up before safety. Maybe Gen X grew up during the transition—from a world where individuals were expected to recognize and manage much of their own risk to one where packaging, engineering, warning labels, laws, technology, and institutions increasingly manage it for us. So what did we gain? What did we lose? And what dangerous thing did your parents routinely let YOU do that would get them absolutely destroyed on social media today? 🎵 Featured Auditory Ecstasy outro: “Know Your History” “Know Your History” is an unreleased Auditory Ecstasy track featured in this episode. Dancing With Ourselves — A Totally Rad 80’s Podcast Gen X memories, 1980s culture, music, movies, technology, history, questionable childhood decisions, and four guys trying to figure out how the hell we got from there to here. Support the show Follow us on:  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  YouTube Check out our Totally RAD Merch Store!

    #147 — Why the Hell Is Everything Sealed? | How Gen X Watched America Get Safer

  7. Sep 25

    #146 — How the Hell Did This Hit No. 1? The Worst No. 1 Hits of the ’80s

    How did some of these songs actually become No. 1 hits? Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh and Kane put the Billboard charts of the 1980s on trial in Episode 146 of Dancing With Ourselves: A Totally RAD 80s Podcast. The mission sounds simple: take one questionable No. 1 hit from each year, examine the evidence, and decide whether the song deserved its place at the top—or whether America collectively lost its mind for a week. But this is DWO, so before the musical court comes to order there are Chewbacca cake pans, vintage collectibles, windshield-wiper warfare, toddlers, technology, radio memories and the usual collection of conversational rabbit holes. Then the prosecution begins. Captain & Tennille bring “Do That to Me One More Time.” Stars on 45 turns Beatles songs into an early-’80s mashup experiment. Paul McCartney and Stevie Wonder face questioning over “Ebony and Ivory.” Patti Austin and James Ingram defend “Baby, Come to Me.” Stevie Wonder returns with “I Just Called to Say I Love You.” And then comes the prosecution’s star witness: Starship — “We Built This City.” From there the guys move through “Rock Me Amadeus,” “Shake You Down,” “Baby, I Love Your Way/Freebird Medley,” “Hangin’ Tough,” and finally cross the decade line into 1990 with “Ice Ice Baby.” Along the way, the conversation becomes bigger than bad songs. What actually made a record No. 1 in the 1980s? How much came from record sales, radio airplay, promotion, movies, MTV and the machinery of the music business? Can an overplayed song still be great? Can a bad song create an incredible memory? And how much does nostalgia change the verdict forty years later? Jeremy brings the music-history ammunition, Josh and Kane dig through the chart evidence, and Jimmy keeps asking the question that started the whole thing: Was it actually a bad song—or are we remembering it wrong? The episode closes by turning the question around and asking which No. 1 songs from the decade actually deserve to be remembered among the best. Jeremy immediately goes to a-ha’s “Take On Me,” while the conversation expands into Bon Jovi, Whitney Houston, The Police and other records that still survive the test of time.  DWO_EP146_How_The_Hell_Did_This… Recorded: September 22, 2026 Featuring: Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh & Kane 🎵 Episode Outro: “Saxual Intelligence” — Auditory Ecstasy A NeuroWave Metal / Psy-Jazz / electronic fusion track closing out a show devoted to what makes music memorable, strange, successful—or impossible to explain. So what’s your verdict? What ’80s No. 1 hit never deserved the top spot—and what supposedly “bad” song will you defend forever? Dancing With Ourselves — A Totally RAD 80s Podcast. The actual episode explicitly establishes this “song on trial” framework and then repeatedly tests whether chart placement really represented lasting quality. Support the show Follow us on:  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  YouTube Check out our Totally RAD Merch Store!

    #146 — How the Hell Did This Hit No. 1? The Worst No. 1 Hits of the ’80s

  8. Sep 18

    #145 — Nostalgia Is a Beautiful Liar: Ryan Reynolds, Gen X & Were the ’80s Really Better?

    Was the 1980s really better—or were we just younger? Dancing With Ourselves EP145 puts Gen X nostalgia on the witness stand after Ryan Reynolds sparked a fresh debate over how people remember the ’80s. Are we remembering the decade that actually happened, or the edited highlight reel that survived in our heads? Jimmy, Jeremy, Josh and Kane start with Reynolds, Top Gun and the idea that nostalgia naturally preserves the things we loved while pushing the fear, boredom and ugly parts of history toward the background. From there, the conversation goes exactly where a DWO conversation should go. We get into Transformers and the toys we suddenly want back now that we have adult money, MTV and the arrival of cable culture, Weird Al and misheard lyrics, music as a memory machine, Randy Johnson, the Miracle on Ice, Live Aid, New Coke, the early AIDS crisis, Challenger, Chernobyl, the Berlin Wall and the strange way major events become fused to wherever we were when we first experienced them. And that leads to the bigger question: Do we really miss the ’80s—or do we miss who we were in the ’80s? Maybe nostalgia does lie about some of the details. Maybe it deletes the boring parts. Maybe it turns fear into stories, junk into collectibles and ordinary childhood moments into sacred artifacts. But maybe that doesn't make the memories false. Maybe nostalgia isn't trying to preserve history. Maybe it's trying to preserve meaning. So dear listener: what are you nostalgic for? 🎙️ Dancing With Ourselves — A Totally Rad ’80s Podcast Featuring: Jimmy Jeremy Josh Kane Recorded: September 15, 2026 🎵 Episode Outro: “Timelines & Hooks” — Auditory Ecstasy Explicit language. Gen X opinions. Rabbit holes guaranteed. #DancingWithOurselves #DWO #GenX #GenXPodcast #1980s #80s #80sNostalgia #Nostalgia #80sKids #80sMusic #80sPopCulture #MTV #TopGun #Transformers #RyanReynolds #AuditoryEcstasy Support the show Follow us on:  Facebook  |  Twitter  |  Instagram  |  YouTube Check out our Totally RAD Merch Store!

    #145 — Nostalgia Is a Beautiful Liar: Ryan Reynolds, Gen X & Were the ’80s Really Better?
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