Friendship University Podcast

Friendship University Podcast
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Welcome to Friendship University! A weekly podcast that explores how to create, develop, and maintain the lost art of friendship because friends are worth fighting for. So, let's fight! You can find us at: Twitter: @funipodcast Instagram: @funipodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/FuniPodcast Email: friendshipuniversitypodcast@gmail.com funipodcast.substack.com

  1. Learn How To Stop People Pleasing Today!

    4D AGO

    Learn How To Stop People Pleasing Today!

    "Loyalty without boundaries is self-abandonment." In this lecture, Christan and Tarrah tackle the exhausting dynamic of anxious attachment. If you feel like your "cup" is always being emptied but never refilled, it’s time to recalibrate your connections and build internal safety. In this lecture: Friendship Court: A ruling on the friend who needs too much reassurance. Take Out The Trash: A life-changing review of How We Love. Why your childhood "Love Style" is the secret key to your current relationship drama. 📚 The Lesson: Breaking the people-pleasing cycle and learning that your needs aren't a burden—they’re a requirement for real intimacy. Weekly Homework: Take the Attachment Style Quiz to find out if you're a Secure Connector or if you're stuck in a "Pleaser" or "Avoider" loop. https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz/ Class Dismissed! If you're ready to stop performing and start connecting, leave us a 5-star review! Peace!

    39 min
  2. This One Trait Reveals Your Attachment Style

    FEB 13

    This One Trait Reveals Your Attachment Style

    "Feelings are signals, not facts." In this lecture, Christan and Tarrah explore the world of Avoidant Attachment. Learn why you might be "Heisman-ing" the people you love and how to transition from survival mode into true intimacy. In this lecture: Friendship Court: A ruling on "Conflict Avoidance" and the danger of the "I'm Fine" response. The Artist Corner: Why your bedroom environment dictates your mental stability. Lesson: The difference between guarding your heart and barricading it. Class Dismissed! If you're ready to stop hiding and start healing, leave us a 5-star review! Peace!

    56 min
  3. What Effort In A Friendship Looks Like

    FEB 6

    What Effort In A Friendship Looks Like

    "Loyalty without boundaries is self-abandonment." In this lecture, Christan and Tarrah tackle the exhausting dynamic of lopsided friendships. If you feel like your "cup" is always being emptied but never refilled, it’s time to recalibrate your connections. In this lecture: Friendship Court: A ruling on the friend who makes everything about themselves. The Artist Corner: The lost art of Silence. Why doing "nothing" is the best thing you can do for your mental health. Lesson: Breaking the "Strong Friend" cycle and learning that your needs aren't a burden... they’re a requirement for real intimacy. The Solution: How to step back and let the actions in the relationship speak for themselves. Class Dismissed! If you're tired of being the only one showing up, leave us a 5-star review and share this with your circle. Peace!

    44 min
  4. What Are Standards and Why Do They Matter

    JAN 30

    What Are Standards and Why Do They Matter

    "You teach people how to treat you through what you communicate and what you accept." n this lecture, Christan and Tarrah tackle the root cause of friendship disappointment. We’re moving past "vibes" and getting into the clarity required for lifelong community. In this lecture: Friendship Court: A ruling on reciprocation and the "Long Distance" dilemma. The Artist Corner: Why a Study Bible is the original "untrash your life" manual. The Main Topic: Learn the difference between a standard (safety) and a preference (extra credit). The "Judas" Principle: Understanding that you don't have to love people instead of yourself. Class Dismissed! If you're ready to stop settling for crumbs, leave us a 5-star review and share this with your friends. Peace!

    1h 1m
  5. How Do I Control My Emotions

    JAN 23

    How Do I Control My Emotions

    "Life is going to life... the question is, how will you respond?" In this lecture, Christan and Tarrah explore why "people-control" often masquerades as a lack of self-control and how to start "untrashing" your emotional habits. In this lecture: Friendship Court: Is a new relationship a valid excuse for blowing off your friends? The Artist Corner: Why Atomic Habits by James Clear is a life-changer for building intentional connections. The 4 Pillars of EQ: A masterclass Featured Resource: Book: Atomic Habits by James Clear Watch the Visual Lecture: See the Friendship Court drama in HD on our YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/9BhDjMjBAyM Weekly Homework: Complete your Strengths & Triggers Map to start building a system that works with your brain, not against it. Class Dismissed! If this lecture helped you, leave us a 5-star review and share it with a friend. Peace!

    47 min
  6. Why Emotions Are Controlling You

    JAN 16

    Why Emotions Are Controlling You

    School is back in session for Season 5! Christan and Tarrah explore why so many of our modern connections are suffering from a "system problem" rather than a "you problem." We’re breaking down why R&B music changed, how to handle the "left on read" anxiety, and the biblical blueprint for handling conflict without losing your peace (or your friends). This week’s homework: We challenge you to name your emotions this week instead of just "feeling some type of way." Listen in for the full 5-day breakdown! Join the University:If this episode helped you, please leave us a 5-star review and share it with a friend who needs a "system upgrade." #FriendshipUniversity #FRNDSU #EmotionalIntelligence #Season5 #RelationshipGoals #SelfGrowth

    45 min
  7. Protecting Your Peace: What It Really Means

    12/19/2025

    Protecting Your Peace: What It Really Means

    As the year comes to a close, Christan and Tarrah reflect on what it truly means to protect your peace... beyond the buzzwords. The episode closes with a faith-based reflection on leaving to heal: seasonal separation obedience over familiarity choosing long-term purpose over short-term comfort Perfect for anyone navigating family dynamics, friendship shifts, or personal growth during the holidays. Setting boundaries during the holidays Recognizing manipulation and control Why protecting your peace isn’t selfish Self-preservation in creativity and purpose Letting go of people, habits, or environments Faith, obedience, and future-focused thinking Why memories matter more than material things 🎄 No homework this week — just permission to rest, reflect, and choose yourself. Thank you for listening all year. Friendship University Podcast is on winter break and will return in the new year. Happy Holidays. Merry Christmas. Happy New Year. We’ll see you next season. Peace!

    45 min
  8. If You Struggle Talking To People, Watch This

    12/12/2025

    If You Struggle Talking To People, Watch This

    If you’ve ever felt awkward, disconnected, or unsure how to build deeper relationships, this episode is for you. Christan and Tarrah unpack why conversation feels difficult for so many people today and how curiosity, listening, and emotional awareness can transform the way you connect with others. In Artist Corner, they discuss happy accidents; how mistakes in art often become defining moments, and why releasing perfection can unlock creativity. Why conversation is the foundation of friendship How to stop over-talking and start connecting The role of curiosity in building community Navigating friendships when you don’t support a partner choice Why listening is more powerful than advice Letting go of perfection in creativity and relationships Think about your most recent conversation: Who talked more? Who asked questions? Who listened? Honest reflection builds stronger connections. New episodes drop every Friendship Friday. #FRNDSU

    49 min
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Welcome to Friendship University! A weekly podcast that explores how to create, develop, and maintain the lost art of friendship because friends are worth fighting for. So, let's fight! You can find us at: Twitter: @funipodcast Instagram: @funipodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/FuniPodcast Email: friendshipuniversitypodcast@gmail.com funipodcast.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Friendship University Podcast
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    154
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Friendship University Podcast
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