Mad About... with Maddy Alexander-Grout

Maddy Alexander-Grout

Welcome to Mad About… the podcast for the bold, brilliant, and beautifully unconventional.Each week, Maddy Alexander-Grout, The Alternative Business Coach shares raw real life money stories and messy business lessons, this podcast isn’t designed for the people who’ve never felt like they belonged in the business world. It’s for the people who have been told they are  “too much,” “too different,” or “not business-minded enough,” Maddy helps AWESOME humans to get Mad About Money Mad About Money in a way that actually works for your brain, your values, and your vibe. No hustle culture BS, no “shoulds”. Just honest, empowering insights and real human stories to help you build a business and life that feels right for you.It’s sweary, unfiltered and Neurodivergent AF just like Maddy. This podcast isn’t just for the Neurodivergent crowd, it’s for people who have felt like they are flailing at life and business, the people who have spent most of their lives drowning in mishaps and not feeling good enough. Maddy had made all the money and business mistakes in her past so you don’t have to. She now runs a 6-figure business, is debt free and loves her life. And wants you to thrive in your own imperfect way.

  1. FEB 9

    What It’s Really Like to Love as a Neurodivergent Woman with Sara-Louise Ackrill | Ep 101

    This episode got real. I sat down with Sara-Louise Ackrill, founder of Wired Differently and co-author of The ND Lovers Club, to talk about something that's not spoken about enough: what it really means to be neurodivergent when it comes to love, money, and healing from trauma. We covered everything from late autism and ADHD diagnoses (Sara at 38, me at 37), to the impact of coercive control and abusive relationships, and how financial instability often shows up alongside neurodivergence. Sara opens up about going bankrupt at 26, the weight of debt and mental health, and why she refuses to be ashamed of any part of her journey. She also shares the behind-the-scenes of writing a book on ND relationships, the concept of limerence (yep, obsessive love was a big theme for both of us), and how masking, infatuation, and rejection sensitivity show up in romantic dynamics. It’s raw, it’s funny, and it’s brutally honest - from both of us. Resources mentioned: StepChange, Freedom Programme, Own My Life. Connect with Sara-Louise: https://www.sara-louise.co.uk/ Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Neurodivergence and Entrepreneurship 01:24 Personal Journeys of Neurodivergence 04:24 The Impact of Diagnosis on Self-Understanding 06:19 Navigating Financial Challenges and Debt 14:37 Experiences with Coercive Control and Relationships 20:37 Experiencing Coercive Control 23:44 The Impact of Neurodivergence on Relationships 24:44 The Endy Lovers Club: A Safe Space for Neurodivergent Women 28:14 Understanding Limerence and Obsession 33:41 Navigating Relationships and Neurodivergence ---------------------- Visit Maddy's ⁠⁠⁠Stan Store⁠⁠⁠ Follow Maddy on ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠

    37 min
  2. 09/29/2025

    The Messy Middle of Grief, PMDD, and Keeping It All Together | Ep 99

    This episode was hard to record - but also deeply needed. I'm in the thick of it right now.  My dad passed away suddenly, and I've been trying to navigate the heartbreak, PMDD, business, burnout, and the wild mess that is life with ADHD. And today, I'm sharing what it's really like to grieve with a neurodivergent brain. I talk about the guilt, the impulsive spending urges, the dark thoughts, the small victories (like showering!), and the strange comfort of laughing in the middle of it all. If you're in the "messy middle" too, whether it's grief, depression, burnout, or just being human, I hope this episode reminds you that you're not alone, and that showing up messily is still showing up. I also open up about the financial impact of losing my Access to Work support, why this will be the last podcast episode for a little while (spoiler: we’ll be back for episode 100 in the new year), and how I’m coping one tiny step at a time. Whether you’re neurodivergent or not, if you’ve ever felt like life is a bit too much, I hope this makes you see you're not alone, and this is what you need right now. Not in a fluffy way. In a "holy shit, how am I still standing?" kind of way. Come for the raw truth, stay for the stories about my ADHD dad, impulsive motorbike buys, and why I might be turning into a runner (???). ---------------------- Visit Maddy's ⁠⁠⁠Stan Store⁠⁠⁠ Follow Maddy on ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠

    29 min
  3. 09/01/2025

    Why “Not Disabled Enough” Is a Lie That’s Holding You Back with Beth Thomas | Ep 95 | MONEY

    This week I’m joined by the incredible Beth Thomas from Unbound Mind Coaching for a raw, relatable conversation about perfectionism, money stories, and what it really takes to love yourself as you are. We talk about growing up with mixed money messages, the shame that comes from feeling “not good enough,” and the messy middle seasons of business nobody sees on Instagram.  Beth shares powerful insights on internalised ableism, from feeling “not disabled enough” to the quiet ways scarcity mindset seeps into our self-worth, and how acceptance is the first step to changing it. You’ll hear us cover everything from neurodivergent entrepreneurship, RSD, and people-pleasing, to mobility struggles, personal boundaries, and the pressure to “look” a certain way before putting yourself out there. If you’ve ever felt like you had to be perfect before you could start, this conversation will set you free. Whether you’re here for the mindset shifts, the money talk, or just to feel less alone in your journey, you’ll walk away knowing you’re already enough – exactly as you are. “I’m Not Disabled Enough” “F*** Perfection – I’m Just Me” “Money, Ableism, and Feeling Good Enough” “If You Don’t Like Me, Leave” “Your Worth Isn’t Up for Debate” ---------------------- Visit Maddy's ⁠⁠⁠Stan Store⁠⁠⁠ Follow Maddy on ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠

    51 min

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Welcome to Mad About… the podcast for the bold, brilliant, and beautifully unconventional.Each week, Maddy Alexander-Grout, The Alternative Business Coach shares raw real life money stories and messy business lessons, this podcast isn’t designed for the people who’ve never felt like they belonged in the business world. It’s for the people who have been told they are  “too much,” “too different,” or “not business-minded enough,” Maddy helps AWESOME humans to get Mad About Money Mad About Money in a way that actually works for your brain, your values, and your vibe. No hustle culture BS, no “shoulds”. Just honest, empowering insights and real human stories to help you build a business and life that feels right for you.It’s sweary, unfiltered and Neurodivergent AF just like Maddy. This podcast isn’t just for the Neurodivergent crowd, it’s for people who have felt like they are flailing at life and business, the people who have spent most of their lives drowning in mishaps and not feeling good enough. Maddy had made all the money and business mistakes in her past so you don’t have to. She now runs a 6-figure business, is debt free and loves her life. And wants you to thrive in your own imperfect way.