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Jesse Huebner

Relationship counselor and coach Jesse Huebner shares from his experience working with individuals and couples as they navigate the challenges, difficulties, and barriers of being in relationship. In this podcast you'll hear themes that are sure to resonate with your own relationship journey - whether in a romantic relationship, a career, family or friends, or even the relationship you have with yourself - this podcast is for you. I talk about relationship issues, personal development, and connection. You'll learn simple, yet effective skills and techniques to better communicate, navigate conflict, build deeper emotional connection, and best of all obtain thriving relationships.

  1. 08/03/2023

    How to Turn Defensiveness into Curiosity

    First off, I want to acknowledge my lack of consistency with releasing episodes this summer. That's not my intention but I've also been embracing a different routine with open hands. Perhaps it would be best to say I'll be releasing future episodes periodically with the hope of getting back to every other week in the coming months. I appreciate you and if you've been following along, thanks for your patience with my rhythm. In this episode I talk about one of the biggest problems in relationship - constantly taking on a defensive posture. The reality is, many couples get stuck in battle mode no matter what, when, or how your partner says something to you, even when it's truly not about you, this results in a defensive posture. When we learn to develop a mindful approach we begin to see that a curious and genuine question to seek understanding and clarification is a quick way to diffuse the tension. Listen along as I describe more about this dynamic and share some skillful ways to change defensiveness to curiosity. If you enjoyed the episode I would love to hear what you think and I'd be honored if you left a review! Ready to dive deeper? Schedule a free consult call Interested in free worksheets? Click here A couple times a month I email out some simple relationship tips and advice- Join my newsletter I occasionally post some thoughts about relationship and life on my blog - Follow it here Read more about me and my approach on my website - jessehuebner.com Follow me on Instagram - @jessehuebnercounseling Drop me an email - counseling@jessehuebner.com

    18 min
  2. 04/06/2023

    How to be a Man

    In many of the relationships I work there is often a man who is struggling significantly with identity, purpose, and life satisfaction. Now, just because the title of this episode is geared for men, what I want to share I believe can be helpful for anyone who has a man in their life - whether it be a romantic partner, a family member, friend, or colleague.  I find that many men struggle with what it means to be a man, especially in a romantic relationship. The unfortunate reality is, there is a lot of junk out there when it comes to advice for men. Many of the tips fall into what I call toxic masculinity. I usually like to talk about what to do instead of what not to do but with this topic I think it will hit home harder by talking about three of the most toxic traits men can possess - always needing to be right, never taking advice from your pattern, and believing sex is on demand. If you enjoyed the episode I would love to hear what you think. Leave a review! Want to work with me? Schedule a discovery call Interested in free worksheets? Click here Looking for more simple relationship tips and strategies? Join my free monthly workshop Ready for transformational relationship change? Join THRIVE - a group coaching program all about relationships. A couple times a month I email out some simple relationship tips and advice- Join my newsletter I occasionally post some thoughts about relationship and life on my blog - Follow it here Read more about me and my approach on my website - jessehuebner.com Follow me on Instagram - @jessehuebnercounseling Drop me an email - counseling@jessehuebner.com

    22 min
5
out of 5
4 Ratings

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Relationship counselor and coach Jesse Huebner shares from his experience working with individuals and couples as they navigate the challenges, difficulties, and barriers of being in relationship. In this podcast you'll hear themes that are sure to resonate with your own relationship journey - whether in a romantic relationship, a career, family or friends, or even the relationship you have with yourself - this podcast is for you. I talk about relationship issues, personal development, and connection. You'll learn simple, yet effective skills and techniques to better communicate, navigate conflict, build deeper emotional connection, and best of all obtain thriving relationships.