Kevin Samuels (Women Over 35)

Luckily his mark on the world is too large for this podcast on feelings to make any meaningful impact.

This was a discussion in confusion. Rather thank think past an emotional trigger (“how men think about over 35) she simply stated a feeling that shows her own insecurities. There were so many “I” references all highlighting that no in-depth study had been done. What if we asked: Do a majority of men agree with this statement? Yes. Do a majority of men embrace the idea of long term commitment with women <35 as a first option? No. I wont belabor the point other than to say that Kevin was most popular because he gave a voice and clarified the frustrations of countless men that have not had the words to convey how they felt about mating and dating options in western culture.

So all you can come up with is “he’s just projecting his own insecurities onto women”? What insecurities? What would a (recently) wealthy, middle-aged, single Black man with no dependents have to be insecure about regarding relationships and women? This is why women need to stop listening to women. All they get is the same ego-oriented messages designed to make women feel better about their relationship situation. You apparently don’t understand Kevin’s message; you’re just emotionally reacting to it instead of examining his claims on the merits. The point of the message is basically this: It is UNREALISTIC for women to think that regardless of their appearance, weight, fitness level, age, attitude, personality, level of femininity, or how many kids they have for how many different men….. they can still a get a decent man, much less a high value man. Women need to hear that message. You, like most women, are saying the exact opposite. Your message is basically, “don’t listen to him, girl. He just insecure, girl. There’s somebody out there for you….”