Advice From Your Advocates

Attorney Bob Mannor

A podcast dedicated to helping those who are helping our elders.

  1. 5d ago

    How to Talk to Your Aging Parents About Money and Estate Planning (Without feeling guilty)

    Why is talking to aging parents about money, estate plans, and long-term care so uncomfortable? For many adult children, asking about finances feels like reaching into a parent's private purse—or like being overly concerned with an inheritance. But avoiding these conversations doesn’t make the future go away; it just leaves families facing sudden crises when options are limited and emotions are high. In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates, host Board Certified Attorney Bob Mannor and co-host Savannah Meksto, CDP, break down how to approach these multi-generational talks without guilt, shame, or fear. They share practical icebreakers, expose common myths about outdated legal documents, and explain why failing to plan ahead can lead to costly court battles or unintended consequences for blended families. In this episode, you’ll learn: Overcoming Guilt: Why caring about your parents' finances isn't about greed—it’s about protecting their future.Simple Conversation Starters: How to bring up powers of attorney, wills, and care preferences without starting a fight.The "Doctor Visit" Rule: Why a legal plan from 20 years ago is like claiming you're healthy based on a doctor's checkup from 2001.Common Estate Planning Pitfalls: The dangers of online fillable forms and why adding an adult child to a property deed often backfires.Planning for Life, Not Just Death: Protecting assets and navigating long-term care during your lifetime.Need help starting the conversation or creating a plan for your family? Visit us at mannorlawgroup.com or call 1-800-990-6030 to schedule a consultation. We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    How to Talk to Your Aging Parents About Money and Estate Planning (Without feeling guilty)
  2. Jul 27

    What is a Caregiver Trust? (And Why Your Estate Plan Isn’t Enough)

    In this special solo episode of Advice From Your Advocates, host Bob Mannor, a nationally board-certified elder law attorney in Michigan, takes a deep dive into a revolutionary concept in long-term care: Caregiver Trusts. Most people have an estate plan that dictates what happens after they pass away. But what happens during the years prior, when you need regular assistance with daily living? Simply saying "I want to stay in my home" isn't a strategy; it often leaves adult children overwhelmed, underpaid, or facing family conflict. In this episode, Bob covers: The difference between traditional estate planning and true "life planning".How a Caregiver Trust works for both high-net-worth individuals and families utilizing government benefits.How to fairly compensate family caregivers without causing sibling rivalry.Smart financial strategies to leverage your assets, IRAs, and home equity for long-term care.How to relieve the emotional and financial burden on your loved ones before a crisis hits.Whether you have saved a substantial nest egg or are navigating limited resources, learn how a Caregiver Trust helps you maintain your quality of life on your own terms. Subscribe to Advice From Your Advocates wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! Host: Attorney Bob Mannor, CELA, CDP Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto, CDP Producer: Shalene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    What is a Caregiver Trust? (And Why Your Estate Plan Isn’t Enough)
  3. Jul 16

    Stop Waiting for a Crisis: The High-Stakes Blind Spots of Aging, Business, and Wealth

    Are you running your life or just reacting to it?  In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates, host and board-certified elder law attorney Bob Mannor sits down with wealth management expert Joe Mackey of MKD Wealth. Together, they pull back the curtain on the critical, often ignored intersections of family caregiving, estate planning, and business succession.  Whether you are a family caregiver trying to keep the peace among siblings, a business owner neglecting your personal legacy, or a professional advisor striving to give your clients the best guidance, this conversation is a must-listen. Bob and Joe break down how "ambiguity breeds conflict" and share actionable ways to transition from daily firefighting to proactive, strategic planning.  What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The Caregiver Trust & Family Harmony: Why relying on "volunteer" family caregivers without clear, legally documented compensation plans is a recipe for sibling conflict (and how to fix it.)The Danger of "Dusty" Estate Plans: Why that 10-year-old estate planning binder in your closet won’t protect your family from massive modern tax shifts like the Secure Act. The Founder’s Blind Spot: How successful entrepreneurs flawlessly run their businesses but completely neglect their personal wealth and parent-care strategies. Avoiding the "TikTok" Trap: How to filter out the overwhelming noise of generic online financial advice and focus on curated, personalized strategies for your family's specific needs. Don't wait for a medical or financial emergency to force your hand. Tune in to learn how to step out of the daily whirlwind, protect your family legacy, and gain true peace of mind.  Learn more about guest Joe Mackey & MKD Wealth: https://mkdwealth.com Host: Attorney Bob Mannor, CELA, CDP Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto, CDP Assistant Producers: Samantha Noah, Shalene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    Stop Waiting for a Crisis: The High-Stakes Blind Spots of Aging, Business, and Wealth
  4. Jun 26

    What Every Grandparent, Caregiver, and First Responder Should Know About Autism

    Supporting Neurodivergent Families with Jennifer Kaufman In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates, Elder Law Attorney Bob Mannor sits down with Jennifer Kaufman, autism advocate, educator, school principal, founder of First Response Autism, and author of Grandparenting on the Spectrum: A Journey from Both Sides of the Desk. Drawing from both her professional experience in special education and her personal journey as the grandmother of a child with autism, Jennifer shares valuable insights into the challenges and opportunities families face when navigating an autism diagnosis. She discusses how grandparents can provide meaningful support, strengthen family relationships, and better understand the communication needs of autistic children and adults. Bob and Jennifer also explore critical topics affecting individuals with autism and other neurodivergent conditions, including: Autism awareness and advocacyGrandparent support after an autism diagnosisCommunication strategies for autistic individualsSpecial needs planning and guardianship alternativesTransitioning from school services to adulthoodIndependent living, employment, and community inclusionAutism and higher education support servicesNeurodiversity in the workplaceTraining first responders, police officers, and campus security personnel to better support autistic individuals during emergenciesJennifer also discusses her work through First Response Autism, an organization dedicated to helping law enforcement, first responders, and security professionals recognize, communicate with, and safely assist individuals with autism and other neurodivergent conditions. Learn why autism-informed crisis response and de-escalation training can make a life-changing difference for families and communities. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, caregiver, educator, first responder, attorney, or advocate, this conversation offers practical guidance and compassionate insight into creating more supportive environments for individuals on the autism spectrum. About Our Guest: Jennifer Kaufman is a special education leader, autism advocate, founder of First Response Autism, and author of Grandparenting on the Spectrum: A Journey from Both Sides of the Desk. She works with families, schools, first responders, colleges, and organizations to promote autism awareness, inclusion, and effective support strategies. About Advice From Your Advocates: Hosted by Michigan Elder Law Attorney Bob Mannor, Advice From Your Advocates provides trusted guidance on elder law, special needs planning, estate planning, caregiving, dementia, disability advocacy, and the legal and practical challenges families face throughout life's transitions. Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto Assistant Producers: Samantha Noah, Shaene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    What Every Grandparent, Caregiver, and First Responder Should Know About Autism
  5. May 28

    How the Dementia Village in Amsterdam is Changing Elder Care Around the World

    What if dementia care focused less on restriction and more on dignity, independence, and quality of life? In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates, Elder Law Attorney Bob Mannor and Certified Dementia Practitioner Amy Persails explore the groundbreaking Hogeweyk Dementia Village in Amsterdam, an innovative dementia care community that is changing how the world thinks about elder care, caregiving, and memory support. Amy shares her firsthand experience visiting the world-famous dementia village, where residents with dementia live in a safe, supportive environment designed to feel like real life instead of a traditional nursing facility. Together, they discuss how care navigation, advocacy, and person-centered dementia care can dramatically improve the lives of seniors and their caregivers. Whether you are a family caregiver, healthcare professional, or someone navigating dementia care planning, this episode offers valuable insight into innovative elder care models and the future of long-term dementia care in the United States. In this episode: What makes the Hogeweyk dementia village uniqueHow dementia care can prioritize independence and dignityThe importance of care navigation and elder advocacyDaily life inside a dementia villageWhat caregivers can learn from innovative dementia care modelsCould this type of dementia care work in the United States?If you or someone you love is facing dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, or long-term care challenges, this conversation offers hope, perspective, and practical insight into what compassionate dementia care can look like. We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    How the Dementia Village in Amsterdam is Changing Elder Care Around the World
  6. May 8

    Better Dementia Caregiving: From Overwhelmed to Empowered

    In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates, Attorney Bob Mannor sits down with Amy Shaw, PA-C, author, and founder of Better Dementia, for an important conversation about navigating Alzheimer’s disease, dementia caregiving, and family advocacy. As a Physician Assistant and dementia educator, Amy brings both clinical expertise and real-world caregiving insight to the discussion. Together, they explore why dementia is so often missed or misdiagnosed, how families can better advocate for loved ones, and what caregivers need to know to improve quality of life while maintaining dignity throughout the dementia journey. Together, they discuss: Early signs and diagnosis of dementia and Alzheimer’s diseaseWhy dementia is frequently missed in the medical systemCommunication strategies for dementia caregiversManaging difficult family dynamics during caregivingEducation and support resources for caregivers and familiesEnd-of-life conversations and patient advocacyHow caregivers can move from overwhelmed to empoweredWith more families impacted by Alzheimer’s and dementia every year, this episode offers practical guidance, emotional support, and expert insight for caregivers, spouses, adult children, elder care professionals, and anyone supporting someone with memory loss. If you are caring for a loved one with dementia, this conversation will help you feel more informed, prepared, and supported. Resources Mentioned: • Better Dementia • Pattern Before Pathology: Diagnosis Begins at Home • The Ark of Conversation: How to Guide Goals of Care For more elder care, dementia caregiving, estate planning, and caregiver advocacy resources, visit Mannor Law Group. Host: Attorney Bob Mannor, CELA, CDP Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto, CDP Asst. Producer: Samantha Noah, Shalene Gaul We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    Better Dementia Caregiving: From Overwhelmed to Empowered
  7. Apr 23

    Alzheimer’s, Dementia & the Stories That Help Families Cope

    What role can stories and literature play in helping families navigate Alzheimer’s disease and dementia? In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates, elder law attorney Bob Mannor speaks with Marianne Sciucco, a registered nurse turned author whose work focuses on Alzheimer’s, dementia caregiving, and the emotional realities families face during the disease. Marianne shares her unique journey—from working as a nurse caring for dementia patients to becoming the author of the novel Blue Hydrangeas, an Alzheimer’s love story inspired by real-life experiences with patients and caregivers. She explains how witnessing the struggles and devotion of families living with dementia sparked the idea for her debut novel and eventually led her to help create AlzAuthors, a global community of writers sharing personal stories about Alzheimer’s and caregiving. Together, Bob and Marianne discuss: Why stories about Alzheimer’s and dementia are powerful tools for caregivers The inspiration behind the novel Blue Hydrangeas How the AlzAuthors community connects caregivers, families, and writers worldwide The growing collection of books about dementia and caregiving Why children’s books and young adult literature can help families explain Alzheimer’s to kids Marianne’s podcast Untangling Alzheimer’s and Dementia and the voices of caregivers and people living with the disease Marianne also shares an important message for families navigating dementia: you are not alone. Through community, storytelling, and shared experiences, caregivers can find understanding, resources, and hope. Whether you are a caregiver, family member, healthcare professional, or someone interested in dementia awareness, this episode offers insight into how storytelling can help people better understand the Alzheimer’s journey and find support along the way. Learn more about Marianne’s work: AlzAuthors: https://alzauthors.com Author website: https://mariannesciucco.com Host: Attorney Bob Mannor Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto Asst. Producers: Shalene Gaul, Samantha Noah We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    Alzheimer’s, Dementia & the Stories That Help Families Cope
  8. Mar 25

    The Shift That Changes Dementia Care Forever with Beth Nolan, PhD

    Dementia care is evolving, and understanding the brain is the key. In this episode of Advice From Your Advocates, elder law attorney Bob Mannor sits down with Beth Nolan, PhD, Chief Public Health Officer for Teepa Snow’s Positive Approach to Care, to explore a powerful new way to support people living with dementia. The Positive Approach to Care (PAC) is a brain-based dementia care model developed by internationally recognized dementia educator Teepa Snow. Instead of focusing on behaviors or limitations, this method helps caregivers understand what the brain is experiencing and how to respond with empathy, validation, and skill. Beth shares how caregivers, families, and professionals can transform everyday interactions with people living with dementia, reduce frustration, and create moments of connection and joy. In this episode, you’ll learn: • The core principles of Teepa Snow’s Positive Approach to Care • Why dementia does not mean the end of learning or living • How brain science explains common dementia behaviors • The difference between protective care vs empowering care • Why communication must focus on verification and connection • How environmental design can improve safety, dignity, and independence • Why caregiver well-being is critical in dementia support You’ll also hear practical insights on balancing risk, independence, and safety, including why the goal of “zero falls” may not always be realistic or beneficial in dementia care. Whether you’re a family caregiver, healthcare professional, social worker, or dementia advocate, this conversation will give you tools to better understand the brain, meet human needs, and create more meaningful moments with those living with dementia. Guest: Beth Nolan, PhD Chief Public Health Officer – Positive Approach to Care Teepa Snow Official Website https://teepasnow.com Positive Approach to Care Training https://teepasnow.com/positive-approach-to-care/ Teepa Snow YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/teepasnow Connect with Beth https://www.linkedin.com/in/bethnolan If you care for someone living with dementia, or support those who do, this episode will change the way you think about dementia care. Host: Elder Law Attorney Bob Mannor Executive Producer: Savannah Meksto We'd love to hear from you! Support the show Listening Options YouTube Playlist Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music iHeart Radio Podcast Addict Podchaser Deezer Listen Notes Player FM ABOUT US: Mannor Law Group helps clients in all matters of estate planning and elder law including special needs planning, veterans’ benefits, Medicaid planning, estate administration, and more. We offer guidance through all stages of life. We also help families dealing with dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, and other illnesses that cause memory loss. We take a comprehensive, holistic approach, called Life Care Planning. LEARN MORE...

    The Shift That Changes Dementia Care Forever with Beth Nolan, PhD
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