Project Weight Loss

Fina Perez

Your best life is just one project away. The Project Weight Loss Podcast is where you will learn the tools and skills to change what is weighing you down, lose weight and above all, improve your quality of life. This reinvention of your life could have a tremendous ripple effect in all you do and everyone you touch. To learn more and work with us visit https://projectweightloss.org. 

  1. 23h ago

    Practice Being a Super Ager

    Send us Fan Mail Hi my dears! This week I'm diving into one of my favorite topics: how to strive to have a great and long life. These are the amazing folks in their 80s and beyond whose memory is as sharp as someone 20 or 30 years younger. I share what researchers at Northwestern University, Massachusetts General Hospital, and beyond have discovered about how super agers keep their brains young, and I break it down into three simple strategies you might try: challenge your brain, move your body, and get your rest. We talk about Type 2 fun (the kind that's miserable in the moment but amazing looking back), why learning to quilt might do more for your memory than easy puzzles, how walking can actually grow your brain's memory center, and why sleep is when your brain takes out the trash. And yes, I bring back the Blue Zones too! But first, I had to share my latest library jackpot: the Libby app! If you have a library card, you may have free access to hundreds of digital magazines, audiobooks, and e-books right from your tablet. I also share a little about my walks in the woods and by the bay, a story from my husband about why "it's not only about fun," and how a bedtime routine helped my kids sleep.  Quote of the Week "Stress + rest = growth. This equation holds true regardless of what it is that you are trying to grow." — Brad Stulberg & Steve Magness, Peak Performance Citations •     Rogalski, E., Mesulam, M. et al. (research from the SuperAging Program, Mesulam Center for Cognitive Neurology and Alzheimer's Disease, Northwestern University); Harrison, T. et al., Superior memory and higher cortical volumes in unusually successful cognitive aging (J. of the International Neuropsychological Society, 2012); Cook, A. et al., Rates of cortical atrophy in adults 80 years and older with superior vs average episodic memory (JAMA, 2017); Cook Maher, A. et al., Psychological well-being in elderly adults with extraordinary episodic memory (PLOS ONE, 2017) •     Barrett, L. F., "How to Become a 'Superager'" (The New York Times, 2016); Sun, F., Stepanovic, M., Andreano, J., Barrett, L. F., Touroutoglou, A. & Dickerson, B., Youthful brains in older adults (Journal of Neuroscience, 2016), Massachusetts General Hospital •     Park, D. et al., The Impact of Sustained Engagement on Cognitive Function in Older Adults: The Synapse Project (Psychological Science, 2014), University of Texas at Dallas •     Buettner, D., The Blue Zones: Lessons for Living Longer from the People Who've Lived the Longest; bluezones.com •     Erickson, K. et al., Exercise training increases size of hippocampus and improves memory (PNAS, 2011), University of Pittsburgh •     Watson, S., Weeks, B., ... & Beck, B., High-Intensity Resistance and Impact Training Improves Bone Mineral Density and Physical Function in Postmenopausal Women: The LIFTMOR Randomized Controlled Trial (Journal of Bone and Mineral Research, 2018), Griffith University •     Nedeltcheva, A. et al., Insufficient sleep undermines dietary efforts to reduce adiposity (Annals of Internal Medicine, 2010) •     Tasali, E. et al., Effect of Sleep Extension on Objectively Assessed Energy Intake Among Adults With Overweight in Real-life Settings (JAMA Internal Medicine, 2022), University of Chicago •     Nedergaard, M. (research on the glymphatic system, University of Rochester); Xie, L. et al., Sleep drives metabolite clearance from the adult brain (Science, 2013) •     Stulberg, B. & Magness, S., Peak Performance: Elevate Your Game, Avoid Burnout, and Thrive with the New Science of Success •     Libby app by OverDrive (libbyapp.com) Disclaimer I'm not a doctor. This episode is for information and inspiration only. Before starting a new health or exercise routine, especially heavy lifting, or if you have sleep concerns, please check in with your healthcare provider. Connect with Fi Website: projectweightloss.org  |  Instagram: @fina.projectweightloss In This Episode •     The Libby app: using your free library card for ebooks, audiobooks, and 550+ digital magazines like Magnolia, Better Homes & Gardens, Country Living, and Time •     What is a super ager? Northwestern University's 25-year SuperAging program, slower brain shrinkage, a thicker anterior cingulate cortex, and strong social connections •     Strategy 1, Challenge: the Fun Scale (Type 1, 2, and 3 fun), Lisa Feldman Barrett and Bradford Dickerson's research on doing hard things, and Denise Park's Synapse Project (quilting and digital photography vs. easy, familiar activities) •     Strategy 2, Movement: Dan Buettner's Blue Zones and "moving naturally," Kirk Erickson's walking study showing about 2% hippocampus growth, and the LIFTMOR trial on heavy strength training and bone density in postmenopausal women •     Strategy 3, Sleep: how short sleep shifts weight loss from fat to muscle, Esra Tasali's finding that extra sleep led to about 270 fewer calories a day, and Maiken Nedergaard's glymphatic system (the brain's "rinse cycle") •     Bringing it together: why challenge, movement, and sleep feed each other, plus one small strategy to try this week Researchers & Experts Featured •     Northwestern University SuperAging Program (Emily Rogalski, M. Marsel Mesulam, and team) •     Lisa Feldman Barrett, neuroscientist, Northeastern University •     Bradford Dickerson, Massachusetts General Hospital •     Denise Park, University of Texas at Dallas (The Synapse Project) •     Dan Buettner, Blue Zones •     Kirk Erickson, University of Pittsburgh •     Belinda Beck, Griffith University (LIFTMOR trial) •     Esra Tasali, University of Chicago •     Maiken Nedergaard, University of Rochester •     Brad Stulberg & Steve Magness, authors of Peak Performance •     Joanna & Chip Gaines, Magnolia (mentioned) Related Episodes •     Blue Zones episode   •     Sleep episode  Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  2. Sep 10

    5 Truths to Lift us Up

    Send us Fan Mail Hey friends, welcome! What if the weight we're really carrying isn't on our bodies at all? I walk through five things I've watched show up again and again in every real transformation I've witnessed — in my own life, with my coaching clients, and on the teams, I led over 31 years in public service — honesty, acceptance, commitment, humility, and love. And how each one helps you set down whatever's heavy right now, whether that's a habit, a relationship, a job, or anything else.  Quote of the Week “Do you want to be right more than you want to know the truth? It's the truth that set me free. Acceptance, peace, and less attachment to a world of suffering are all effects of doing The Work. They're not the goals. Do The Work for the love of freedom, for the love of truth.” — Byron Katie Citations•       Hayes, S.C., Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life: The New Acceptance and Commitment Therapy; ACT-for-weight research reviewed in Effectiveness of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy on Weight, Eating Behaviours and Psychological Outcomes: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis, Eating and Weight Disorders (2023) •       Ferrari, J.R., Groh, D.R., Rulka, G., Jason, L.A. & Davis, M.I., Coming to Terms With Reality: Predictors of Self-Deception Within Substance Abuse Recovery, Addictive Disorders & Their Treatment (2008) •       Ayres, I., Carrots and Sticks: Unlock the Power of Incentives to Get Things Done; Milkman, K., How to Change: The Science of Getting from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be; commitment-making research reviewed in The Effect of Commitment-Making on Weight Loss and Behaviour Change in Adults with Obesity/Overweight, BMC Public Health (2019) •       Collins, J., Good to Great (Level 5 Leadership); Chandler, J.A. et al., A Meta-Analysis of Humble Leadership: Reviewing Individual, Team, and Organizational Outcomes of Leader Humility, The Leadership Quarterly (2023) •       Waldinger, R., The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness; Harvard Study of Adult Development (adultdevelopmentstudy.org) Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  3. Sep 3

    Eyes on Your Plate, Eyes on Your Lane

    Send us Fan Mail This week I want to talk about something I've been sitting with: eyes on your plate, eyes on your lane.  I was actually writing these notes when I found out Dolly Parton had passed away, and it sent me into a whole reflection on boundaries — how easy it is to want to fix people, to give unsolicited advice about their food, their choices, their life, even when we mean well.  I'm sharing what almost thirty years in leadership, addiction training, and life coaching have taught me about staying in your own lane, what real support looks like when someone you love is struggling with serious addiction, and why doing the wellness work for yourself is the most powerful thing you can offer someone else. If you've ever gotten advice nobody asked for — or caught yourself giving it — this episode is for you.   Citations ●     Dolly Parton tribute reference — NPR, "Dolly Parton, one of country music's most singular performers, has died at age 80" (Aug. 25, 2026) — https://www.npr.org/2026/08/25/nx-s1-3650175/dolly-parton-obituary   ●     Additional source — The Washington Post, "Dolly Parton, country music singer and cultural icon, dies at 80" (Aug. 25, 2026) — https://www.washingtonpost.com/obituaries/2026/08/25/dolly-parton-country-music-singer-cultural-icon-dies-80/   ●     Film references mentioned: Steel Magnolias (1989) and 9 to 5 (1980)   ●     Weight stigma & unsolicited comments about food or weight — Rebecca M. Puhl, PhD (UConn Rudd Center for Food Policy and Health), "Weight Stigma and Barriers to Effective Obesity Care," Gastroenterology Clinics of North America (2023) — https://uconnruddcenter.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/2909/2023/05/2023-Puhl-Gastroeneterol-Clin-N-Am.pdf   ●     Supporting research — Levinson, J. A., et al., "A Systematic Review of Weight Stigma and Disordered Eating Cognitions and Behaviors," Body Image (2024) — https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11180546/   ●     Psychological reactance (why unsolicited advice can backfire) — Brehm, J. W., A Theory of Psychological Reactance, New York: Academic Press (1966) — https://search.worldcat.org/title/A-theory-of-psychological-reactance/oclc/565301131   ●     Self-determination theory / autonomy and lasting behavior change — Ng, J. Y. Y., Ntoumanis, N., Thøgersen-Ntoumani, C., Deci, E. L., Ryan, R. M., Duda, J. L., & Williams, G. C., "Self-Determination Theory Applied to Health Contexts: A Meta-Analysis," Perspectives on Psychological Science (2012) — https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1745691612447309   ●     Closing vignette ("the two monks and the river") — traditionally titled "Muddy Road," attributed to Zen teachers Tanzan and Ekido, retold in Paul Reps & Nyogen Senzaki, Zen Flesh, Zen Bones: A Collection of Zen and Pre-Zen Writings (1957) — https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/488121-14-muddy-road-tanzan-and-ekido-were-once-traveling-together Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  4. Aug 27

    The No-Willpower Guide to Ending Night Eating

    Send us Fan Mail Project Weight Loss, LLC  ·  @fina.projectweightloss  ·  projectweightloss.org   Ever finish dinner, close the kitchen, and somehow still end up back at the fridge an hour later?  In this episode, we get honest about night eating — starting with a surprisingly personal family story about where this habit actually began, before digging into five gentle, research-backed strategies (pulled from real peer-reviewed studies, not influencer hacks) to help you feel steady in your evenings, no shame required. Plus, a little fun on the side: the new hobby keeping this host moving on busy weeks — teaching herself line dancing.  Quote of the week: “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” — James Clear, Atomic Habits Leidy, H.J. et al. Higher-protein breakfast reduces appetite and evening cravings in breakfast-skipping teens. American Journal of Clinical Nutrition / Obesity. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S000291652305462X Impact of breakfast skipping compared with dinner skipping on energy balance and metabolic risk. American Journal of Clinical Nutrition. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0002916522049085 Unfavorable mealtime and meal skipping linked to circadian syndrome, NHANES 2005–2016. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11173982/ An updated review of night eating syndrome, including irregular daytime eating as a contributing pattern. Current Obesity Reports. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9713091/ Randomized trial of planning tools to reduce unhealthy snacking. PLOS ONE. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0209863 Randomized controlled trial of implementation intentions for changing snacking behavior and BMI. Appetite. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0195666325003629 Vujović, N. et al. (2022). Late eating increases hunger and lowers the fullness hormone leptin. Cell Metabolism. https://www.cell.com/cell-metabolism/fulltext/S1550-4131(22)00397-7 Newman, E., O'Connor, D.B. & Conner, M. Cortisol reactivity and distress-induced emotional eating. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22999262/ Between- and within-person effects of stress on emotional eating in women: a 49-day longitudinal study. Psychological Medicine. https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/psychological-medicine/article/between-and-withinperson-effects-of-stress-on-emotional-eating-in-women-a-longitudinal-study-over-49-days/209D0BC668D45472D4612838FF68D706 Perceived stress and sleep quality associated with emotional eating in university students. Nutrients (2024). https://www.mdpi.com/2072-6643/18/15/2434 The time-stamped effects of screen exposure on food intake in adults: a meta-analysis. Appetite (2024). https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0195666324006500 Eating while distracted: a systematic review and meta-analysis of concurrent and later energy intake. American Journal of Clinical Nutrition. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/41999952/ Eating while watching TV linked to higher intake of ultra-processed food in adolescents: a longitudinal study. Frontiers in Public Health (2024). https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/public-health/articles/10.3389/fpubh.2024.1423383/full Two decades of mindfulness-based interventions for binge eating: a systematic review and meta-analysis. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34399197/ Sala, M. et al. (2020). Mindfulness and eating disorder psychopathology: a meta-analysis. International Journal of Eating Disorders. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/eat.23247 Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  5. Aug 20

    Fear-Less: Braver Than the Fear

    Send us Fan Mail I've stood in front of a thousand people on a livestream and thought, what were you thinking, Fi? Sit yourself down. If you've ever felt that same drop in your stomach — before a flight, a hard conversation, a moment in the spotlight — you know exactly the feeling I mean. Your brain convinces you the worst is about to happen, and no amount of logic seems to shut it up.  This isn't a five-step fix, and I'm not here to hand you a formula — some things are bigger than that. By the end of this episode, I don't think you'll be asking how to get rid of your fear anymore, because honestly, that was never really the point. Stick around for a piece of brain research that surprised even me, and a quote at the end I want you sitting with all week long. Press play, give me twenty minutes, and let's talk about what's actually waiting for you on the other side of your fear. Quote of the Week "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear." — Ambrose Redmoon Citations Dartmouth College research on amygdala function, published in Nature Communications (2025) — the amygdala functions less like a primitive alarm bell and more like a mediator weighing competing responses. Referenced in-episode for context only, not as medical guidance.Williamson, Marianne. A Return to Love (1992). Quote referenced in-episode: "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure..."Quote of the week attributed to Ambrose Redmoon (pen name of James Neil Hollingworth).Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  6. Aug 13

    Temperance: Homer Figured Out Self-Control 3,000 Years Before We Did

    Send us Fan Mail The One Virtue That Makes All the Others Work Did you catch The Odyssey in theaters? I went with my daughter and my honey a couple weeks ago, and Christopher Nolan's version got me thinking about one scene in particular — Odysseus, tied to the mast of his own ship, choosing to hear the Sirens' song without letting it destroy him. That single choice is one of the oldest stories we have about self-control, and it's where I want to take you this week: temperance. Not the Prohibition-era, no-fun version — the real one, one of the four cardinal virtues, sitting right alongside courage, justice, and wisdom. This episode is the Siren Song of Your Cravings (And How to Outsmart It) In this episode I speak to where temperance actually comes from (hint: it's Latin for "the right amount, not too much, not too little"), why discretion and discipline live inside it, and how building my own "mast" — the pantry I don't stock, the friend I text before the hard moment, the lunch I pack before I even leave the house — beats white-knuckle willpower every time. I bring the Maesters, in Homer, the Stoics, Ryan Holiday, and Jud Brewer to make my case. In this episode of Sirens, Cravings, and the Art of Saying No   Quote of the Week "Temperance puts wood on the fire, meal in the barrel, flour in the tub, money in the purse, credit in the country, contentment in the house, clothes on the back, and vigor in the body." — Benjamin Franklin Citations ·       Homer, The Odyssey (epic poem, source for the Sirens/mast story I talk about) ·       The Odyssey (2026 film), directed by Christopher Nolan, starring Matt Damon, Anne Hathaway, Zendaya, Tom Holland ·       Cicero, on translating the Greek sōphrosynē into Latin temperantia ·       C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (Book III, Ch. 2, "The Cardinal Virtues") ·       Marcus Aurelius, Meditations ·       Ryan Holiday, Discipline Is Destiny: The Power of Self-Control ·       Dr. Judson Brewer, research on craving loops (trigger–behavior–reward) ·       Dwight D. Eisenhower, on freedom and self-discipline ·       Benjamin Franklin, writings on the 13 virtues Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

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Your best life is just one project away. The Project Weight Loss Podcast is where you will learn the tools and skills to change what is weighing you down, lose weight and above all, improve your quality of life. This reinvention of your life could have a tremendous ripple effect in all you do and everyone you touch. To learn more and work with us visit https://projectweightloss.org. 

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