What if self-abandonment isn’t a personal flaw—but a survival strategy you once needed, and no longer have to carry? In this episode, I’m joined by Rocio Aquino and Angel Orengo, co-authors of The Orchid: The Secret Code of Modern Goddesses and founders of For the Highest Good, an initiative devoted to expanding human consciousness through storytelling, healing tools, and community. Based in Los Angeles, Rocio and Angel bring a rare blend of lived experience, emotional intelligence, and spiritual psychology to their work. Through media, public speaking, and live events, they guide women, especially those who have learned to over-give or disconnect from themselves, back to authenticity, inner authority, and alignment with their highest good. At the heart of our conversation is The Orchid, a transformational novel following seven women from different backgrounds who gather at a retreat in Northern California. Each woman embodies a distinct struggle with identity, self-trust, and emotional survival, offering readers (and listeners) mirrors for their own patterns of self-abandonment. Together, we explore how storytelling can be a powerful healing modality—one that moves beyond intellectual insight and into the body, where real change begins. The hidden cycle of self-abandonment and how women begin to recognize when they’ve learned to leave themselves to stay connected to others Forgiveness as a nervous-system process, not a bypass—why true forgiveness requires safety, presence, and self-honesty The pathway from thought → emotion → body, and how unexamined beliefs become stored tension, disconnection, or collapse What it means to truly hold space—for yourself and for others—without fixing, rescuing, or self-betrayal The five transformational lessons of The Orchid—Awareness, Gratitude, Forgiveness, Acceptance, and Intention—and how they can be practiced in everyday life The challenges faced by the seven women in the story, and how each character reflects common patterns women carry around worth, voice, boundaries, and belonging Why storytelling bypasses overthinking and creates emotional safety, allowing women to reconnect with inner truth and intuition This episode is an invitation for the woman who is capable, self-aware, and exhausted from holding it all together to soften, listen inward, and begin choosing herself without guilt. 🌱 Healing doesn’t start with changing who you are. It starts with staying present with yourself. Connect with Rocio and Angel: https://linktr.ee/theorchidbook Connect with Kelly: drkellykessler.com ✨ Sacred Boundaries: Scripts for Saying No with Love ✨ If you’ve ever felt the pressure to say “yes” when your whole body was begging you to say “no,” you’re not alone. So many high-achieving, heart-centered women struggle with guilt, fear of disappointing others, or worry that boundaries will push people away. But the truth is: boundaries don’t break relationships—they strengthen them. 💛 That’s why I created Sacred Boundaries: Scripts for Saying No with Love. It’s a free guide filled with gentle, real-life scripts you can start using today to: 🌿 Protect your energy without guilt🌿 Say no in a way that feels kind and authentic🌿 Ask for what you need—without overexplaining🌿 Create space for deeper, more respectful connections This isn’t about being harsh or distant. It’s about finally honoring your needs while still showing up with love. 👉 Download your free guide here: www.drkellykessler.com/sacredboundaries Because your peace, your energy, and your voice matter. Milk and Butterflies: Get free shipping on your order with this link: https://milkandbutterflies.com/discount/DRKELLY
