Adulting with Horses

Adulting with Horses

Welcome to Adulting with Horses, the podcast for horse girls and the only place to be if you can’t be at the barn! As crazy horse girls and adult amateurs, we don’t take ourselves too seriously in the saddle or out. We celebrate the things that make us different! Join co-hosts and best-selling equine authors Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert as they chat about important topics for amateur riders with a lot of humor and a little sass. Listen on all major podcasts platforms, including Equine Network, Spotify, Apple, Google, Amazon, iHeart Radio, and Stitcher.

  1. Aug 7

    Ferrous Gets a Fan Club and the Power of Barn Family Presented by Farnum Endure Gold

    Join Heather and Natalie in this episode presented by Farnum Endure Gold Killer Fly & Mosquito Control as they battle the heat (and the hum of the emergency AC unit) during Natalie's trip to New Jersey. Ferrous gets a fan club of one, Natalie confuses the horses, and Heather makes Natalie question whether she might need a barn family of her own. To be fair, she is quite good and getting people to question their lives. In this episode:Heather's unexpected guest (a.k.a. her horse Ferrous) and their humorous anticsThe hilarious misunderstanding about horse names and personalitiesPony meeting tales and the surprises of horse personality quirksBehind the scenes of a Maryland book signing and the vibrant local market sceneThe charm and chaos of pet care, including cats' independence and horses' sensitivitiesPractical tips on managing animal health and environmental concernsThe joy of sharing farm and horse life with friends and future plansLighthearted banter about household chores, laundry fails, and favorite adulting winsThe episode concludes with garden fantasies, flower updates, and estate zonings Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

  2. Jul 31 ·  Bonus

    Saratoga to Saugerties: An New York Adulting Adventure

    On this episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, join us as we share hilarious stories from garden mishaps, epic travel adventures from Saratoga to Saugerties, and behind-the-scenes tales from the HITS horse show circuit. This episode will keep you laughing while offering insights into our crazy equestrian life. Main Topics:Personal stories of accidents and recoveryTravel adventures including wildfires, storms, and cross-border escapesInsights into horse show experiences, trainer quirks, and rider tipsAdulting wins—celebrating small victories amidst chaosUpcoming book signings, fairs, and the upcoming cruise Resources & Links:Maryland Equestrian Book & Market Fair Cruise to the Caribbean - Book Today Connect with the Hosts:Natalie Keller Reinert - Twitter | LinkedInHeather Wallace - Instagram | Website Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

  3. Jul 17

    The Downfall of the Equestrian Center: Is Board Becoming Impossible to Afford? By Farnam Endure Gold

    In this episode brought to you by Farnum Endure Gold Killer Fly & Mosquito Control, Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert explore the challenges and opportunities in the equestrian industry, focusing on boarding facilities, costs, sustainability, and innovative solutions to keep the sport accessible and thriving. Keywords equestrian industry, boarding facilities, horse boarding costs, sustainability, horse sport economics, horse community, equestrian business models Key Topics The rising costs of horse boarding and its impact on ridersInnovative boarding models like dry stalls and self-care optionsThe importance of community and collaboration in the horse industryEconomic challenges faced by large and small barnsPotential for nonprofit and grassroots initiatives to support amateursThe influence of real estate and land ownership on facility sustainabilityThe role of regulation, licensing, and legal issues in boarding facilitiesStrategies for affordability and accessibility in horse sports Upcoming Events: August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors! November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA. Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center. August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here. (Horse husbands very welcome!) Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

  4. Jul 10 ·  Bonus

    Adulting with Horses Clubhouse LIVE: The Wild, Witty Ride with Saddle Talk

    On this LIVE bonus episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie join with their podcast bestie, Ashley K. Winch and Sandy and Cara from Saddle Talk, newly on the HRN network. Buckle up, folks! Today's episode is a cocktail of hilarious adulting adventures, horse tales, ghost exorcisms, and enough sarcasm to keep your spirits high. If laughter, good friends, and a little bit of horse chaos sound like your jam, this one's a must-listen. In this episode:The chaos of Thursday night with kittens and cats conspiring against productivitySecret game reveal: drink every time someone says the magic word "hint it begins with an 'F'"Horse talk, Mustangs, and the art of turning bad decisions into epic adventuresSpooky ghost tales and haunted houses, complete with flaming tornadoes and uninvited spiritsDrinking, dating, and the hilarious truths about podcasting and friendship goalsHow to build a community without buying followers, just pure authenticityThe scoop on upcoming horse radio network cruises and plans for Montana dude ranchesThe art of social media burnout and how to keep it real while promoting your passion Special Note:Stay tuned for that upcoming cruise! Book now, bring your friends, and prepare for two days at sea, Bimini, and plenty of margaritas. Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

  5. Jul 3

    Canter is a Four-Letter Word

    Show Notes: The Canter Is a Four-Letter Word This episode is brought to you by pure chaos, cruise dreams, and the emotional journey back into the canter. Natalie and Heather kick things off with the kind of live, slightly unhinged energy only horse people can sustain before coffee fully kicks in. They share big news about their upcoming “Hijinx on the High Seas” cruise, a five-night adventure packed with theme nights, happy hours, games, prizes, and all the shenanigans a horse-loving adult could want away from the barn. Then the conversation turns to the real beast of the episode: cantering. Why does it suddenly feel scarier in adulthood than it ever did before? Natalie and Heather unpack the mental blocks, balance issues, fitness struggles, horse behavior, and the deeply relatable experience of feeling like your body and your brain are both negotiating terms with gravity. They also remind us that sometimes the horse is doing exactly what they should be doing, and we’re the ones falling apart at the seams. In this episode:Cruise announcement: “Hijinx on the High Seas”Why cantering feels harder as an adult amateurBalance, confidence, and rebuilding riding fitnessAdulting wins: AC survival, dinner mishaps, and bargain burgers If you’ve ever thought, “I used to love this gait, why am I suddenly terrified of it?” this one’s for you. Upcoming Events: July 15, 2027 Impressions of Saratoga with Natalie. Learn more. August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors! November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA. Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center. August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here. (Horse husbands very welcome!) Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

  6. Jun 26

    Book Barn: BTS of Author Life

    Behind the Scenes of a Writer’s Life: One Coffee Spill at a Time Ever tried writing a novel between horse quarantines and housekeeper surprises? Welcome to the anthology of chaos, caffeine, and creativity! In this bonus episode of Adulting with Horses, you’ll learn how two authors navigate the wilds of writerly life — from the perils of distraction to the magic of whimsical garden spaces. In this episode, we discuss:How daily distractions — dogs, housekeepers, and the ocean — fuel or hinder writing progressThe importance of hobbies outside of writing, from craft projects to garden adventuresHow to carve out those rare, precious two-hour writing blocks in a busy lifeThe mental and physical toll of juggling multiple projects, from books to Cruise Ship gift exchangesThe power of whimsy to keep creativity alive when life gets realReal talk about the grind, including timelines for books and the realities of editing and revisions Upcoming Events: July 15, 2027 Impressions of Saratoga with Natalie. Learn more. August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors! November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA. Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center. August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here. (Horse husbands very welcome!) Links:www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

  7. Jun 19

    The Positives of Peer Pressure and Other Beyond the Barn Chaos

    Ready for a wild ride through the mundane and the magnificent? In this episode, Heather and Natalie explore everything from garden surprises to the joys (and chaos) of horse shows. Plus, how to survive the wild world of adulting without losing your mind. Expect laughs, lightbulb moments, and plenty of equine insights sprinkled with a healthy dose of humor. Key Topics Covered: The joys of chaos gardening and accidental plant discoveriesReal talk about horse show anxiety and the magic of persistenceBalancing responsibilities, passions, and social lives as adult horse enthusiastsThe surprisingly meditative nature of horses' daily routinesWhy daydreaming about trips and horse shows is actually good for mental healthThe absurdity (and necessity) of braiding and show prepHow to manage anxiety, expectations, and maintaining authenticity around horsesOffbeat insights into the lives of cats, dogs, and other beloved companions while traveling Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

  8. Jun 5

    POV: Your Farrier Ghosts You and Being Alaska "Famous'

    Ever wonder what your horses really think? Or how a trip to Alaska turned into a real-life reality show? Buckle up, because this episode is part confessional, part how-to, with a healthy sprinkle of "wait, did that really just happen?" In this episode:The power of authenticity and ditching "book event Heather" for your real selfThe wild, weird, and wonderful world of horse care, from hoof drama to boundary settingThe importance of book cover control and keeping your sanity in the horse world Timestamps: 00:00 - Why the first words out of your mouth matter more than you think 00:10 - From Patreon to OnlyFans: the weird world of online content 00:45 - Authenticity wins: lessons from trips, conferences, and real life 01:55 - How I turned a tired horse trip into a confidence booster 05:52 - You’re not a celebrity, but you can feel like one (sometimes) 09:05 - When books, booties, and beefy men all collide: the art of cover veto rights 11:00 - Shopping, leather jackets, and feeling fabulous (horse included) 13:00 - Alaska adventures: wildlife, native tribes, and being Raven or Eagle in the clan 15:00 - Land clearing chaos: the truth about debris, permits, and wildlife disturbances 17:00 - The surprising mental health benefits of a simple 20-minute walk with your horse 19:30 - The crazy stalker stories that remind us: horse world is full of surprises 22:00 - Horse care horror stories: hoof abscesses from crazy weather and fill-in vets 24:00 - How to handle unresponsive farriers and landmines in your schedule 28:00 - Why regulation matters and how to maintain control over your horse’s image 33:00 - The race for the perfect horse cover (with a pee picture to prove it) 37:00 - Protect your horses from chaos: the importance of boundaries & leadership 42:00 - The dark side of horse community: stalking, abuse, and the need for better rules 48:00 - Rethinking horse training: the importance of rest, recovery, and smart work routines 54:00 - Liberty work fun: making your own rules and avoiding overcomplication 58:00 - Building trust through consistent signals and energy—no fancy gestures needed 63:00 - How to handle naughty or anxious horses—chances are, they’re just trying to tell you something 66:00 - Why a good horse is a reflection of a good human And remember:Be authentic, set boundaries, and never underestimate the power of a well-timed “Whoa”! Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

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Welcome to Adulting with Horses, the podcast for horse girls and the only place to be if you can’t be at the barn! As crazy horse girls and adult amateurs, we don’t take ourselves too seriously in the saddle or out. We celebrate the things that make us different! Join co-hosts and best-selling equine authors Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert as they chat about important topics for amateur riders with a lot of humor and a little sass. Listen on all major podcasts platforms, including Equine Network, Spotify, Apple, Google, Amazon, iHeart Radio, and Stitcher.