Podcasting Is the New Kink!

Jasmine Gary

Welcome to the ultimate fangirl space where storytelling meets pop culture! On Podcasting is the New Kink!, we obsess over books that got the Hollywood treatment, break down iconic moments featuring Black characters who actually steal the show, and highlight remakes that center us—loud, proud, and in full color. If you’re all about fandoms, adaptations, and a healthy dose of obsession, then this podcast is your new favorite fix. Listen to new episodes on Wednesdays! And subscribe to be notified about new episodes! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. How much of our identity is shaped by the secrets we keep? with Dr. Nicole

    05/21/2025

    How much of our identity is shaped by the secrets we keep? with Dr. Nicole

    This is the last episode about Black Cake but this is definitely my favorite conversation! Today on Podcasting Is the New Kink!, Nicole and I discuss diversions from novel and reason why the producers of the series made the choices they did. We delve into the themes of secrets and identity and we explore how secrets shape the characters' lives and relationships, particularly focusing on the question: how much of our identity is shaped by the secrets we keep?. The conversation highlights the impact of colonialism, the portrayal of women, and the significance of familial relationships, ultimately questioning how adaptations can simplify complex narratives. We also dive into themes of family legacy, the impact of police brutality in media, character representation, and the cultural significance of the Nine Night ceremony. We emphasize the importance of identity and the connections to heritage, particularly in the context of Jamaican culture. We talk: 08:46 - Diving into character diversions 22:01 - Byron's journey and character development 30:03 - Police brutality in media 39:05 - Casting choices and audience perception 46:28 - Cultural significance of the Nine Night Ceremony Episode References: Inside Out 2 (2024) Marvel Cinematic Universe Get Millie Black (TV Series 2024) The Other Black Girl Trailer (Episode 58-64) Steve Harris Diary of a Mad Black Woman (2005) Marlan Wayans Bel-Air (TV Series 2022- ) Michael Beach Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread Connect with me on IG @pod.kink  *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    52 min
  2. Which is worse? Knowing or not knowing? with Dr. Nicole

    05/14/2025

    Which is worse? Knowing or not knowing? with Dr. Nicole

    Which is worse? Knowing or not knowing? Another important question from the story in Black Cake. I'm not sure which is worse, but if I have to know, I want to hear it from the source! My cohost, Dr. Nicole and I discuss this further in this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! Today we delve into the themes of Black Cake, focusing on the power of storytelling and the impact of cultural expectations on identity. We explore the characters' secrets, particularly Benny and Byron's struggles with identity, relationships, and societal pressures. We also discuss how the adaptation of the story from book to series affects the narrative and character development. One of the main themes we touch on is the concept of the ''Bennett Way," exploring the unrealistic expectations placed on individuals within families and the broader implications of these dynamics. We reflect on the significance of ancestry and the miracles that unfold in the story, emphasizing the importance of personal journeys and self-discovery. We talk: 08:49 - Siblings and their secrets 14:55 - Benny's journey and relationships 26:49 - Identity and agency 43:07 - Byron's Struggles and Secrets 01:01:02 - Miracles and ancestry Episode References: Finding Me: A Memoir by Viola Davis Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread Connect with me on IG @pod.kink  *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 12m
  3. How much truth do parents owe their children? with Dr. Nicole

    05/07/2025

    How much truth do parents owe their children? with Dr. Nicole

    How much truth do parents owe their children? I'm not a parent, so I definitely don't know the answer to this question, but it was fun to discuss it! In this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink!, Dr. Nicole and I dive into Black Cake, and if you've read the novel or watched the series you probably understand why that question is so important. This conversation delves into the themes of family secrets, generational trauma, and the impact of colonialism as explored in the book and series. Nicole and I reflect on personal experiences with family secrets, the importance of truth between parents and children, and how these themes resonate within Caribbean culture. They also discuss the significance of Black Cake as a symbol of identity and the adaptation of the story from book to screen, highlighting the poetic writing style and visual storytelling that brings the narrative to life. We highlight the importance of queer representation in media, the production process, and the significance of casting choices. We discuss the impact of music on storytelling and analyze the narrative structure, including cliffhangers and foreshadowing. And, we emphasize the need for authenticity in representation. We talk: 05:59 Exploring truth between parents and children 14:59 The art of adaptation from book to screen 21:04 Visual storytelling 33:59 Celebrating queer representation in media 41:12 Cinematic choices and character development 53:39 Music's role in storytelling Episode References: Queenie by Candice Carty-Williams Podcasting Is the New Kink! Season 8: The Other Black Girl Master of None (TV Series 2015–2021) Frazier (Reboot TV Series 2023–2024) Downton Abbey (TV Series 2010–2015) Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread Connect with me on IG @pod.kink  *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 5m
  4. The Other Black Girl: A Walk in Nella's Shoes! with Nicole Young-Martin

    11/20/2024

    The Other Black Girl: A Walk in Nella's Shoes! with Nicole Young-Martin

    What would you do if you were in Nella's shoes? We've done a lot of talking about her actions, motivations, and background, but now it's time to put ourselves in her place. In this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink!, Nicole and I dive into the choices we would make, emphasizing the significance of pain and resilience in shaping who we are today. We also give our predictions for a hypothetical season two, even though the series was cancelled after the first season, and we discuss the importance of having clear motivations for our protagonists, especially when they are hella messy. Great examples of messy but loveable protagonists show up in two of The Onyx Collective's other shows: "Queenie." and "Unprisoned." We compare the different worlds portrayed, the production value differences, and the relatability of the heroes in all three shows, with the protagonists from "Queenie," and "Unprisoned," being more likable than Nella, even though they were just as messy. We talk: Comparison to "Unprisoned" - 1:07 Predictions for the season we didn't get - 12:26 "What would YOU do?" questions - 25:09 This is the last episode of our series on "The Other Black Girl," novel and series, so I hope you have enjoyed our discussion. There will definitely be more. Stay tuned! Episode References: The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023) The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021) Zakiya Dalila Harris Unprisoned (TV Series 2023–2024) Queenie (TV Series 2024–) Queenie (book by Candice Carty-Williams, 2019) Black Panther (Film 2018) Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    39 min
  5. The Other Black Girl: Onyx Collective with Nicole Young-Martin

    11/13/2024

    The Other Black Girl: Onyx Collective with Nicole Young-Martin

    One thing “The Other Black Girl,” was missing was its sense of a New York setting. The book noted the resistance meeting in Harlem, but didn’t talk about where Wagner was located. And, the series used vague stock videos instead of showing specific landmarks, so we don’t know what neighborhoods they were in. This is just another thing the series was lacking. And, Nicole and I go into all of our production likes and dislikes in this episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! We liked the characterization through costuming. For example, Nella starting off wearing neutral colors and plain patterns, but ended up wearing bright hues and daring silhouettes, and we saw her experimenting along the way. Her costumes directly represented her character arc, and it was fun to watch. We also talk about the production company, The Onyx Collective, and similar shows that they have produced, like "Queenie," which we both found more engaging, well-written, and visually appealing. We emphasize the importance of genuine diversity and the need for better adaptations of black literature. Episode References: The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023) The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021) Zakiya Dalila Harris The Twilight Zone (2019–2020) American Fiction (2023) "Erasure" by Percival Everett Tara Duncan Times Review The Onyx Collective Shows Queenie (2024) "Queenie" by Candice Carty-Williams BWR Bonus: Nicole on Candice Carty-Williams' Queenie TOBG Wiki Page Dem Bois Pod Ep. 58 Culture and Cannabis PINK Ep. 61 Themes, Genres, and Cultural Relevance Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    56 min
  6. The Other Black Girl: Not a Thriller! with Nicole Young-Martin

    11/06/2024

    The Other Black Girl: Not a Thriller! with Nicole Young-Martin

    The last episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! ended with me talking about what makes a thriller and the elements that are usually included in thrillers. This episode starts with a conversation about why "The Other Black Girl" is NOT a thriller and what it lacks. We also highlight the lack of clear character motivations, the inconsistent use of time and place markers, and the unrealistic portrayal of black women greasing each other's scalps, or temples, like the series shows. We compare it to other successful thrillers like "The Blackening" and "Inside Out 2," noting the importance of suspense, a clock, and believable plot devices. The conversation also touches on the rushed production timeline and the need for better context and development of themes related to blackness/anti-blackness, respectability politics, and workplace culture. We talk: The brilliance of "Inside Out 2" - 4:36 Time/place markers in the book - 11:11 Series production time, or lack of it - 19:01 Social commentary of "the grease" - 27:26 Revising Diana's character - 34:37 In this episode, I learned that the production time for streamed series is very short. And the writers aren't usually a part of the filming process, so they don't get a chance to gel and really develop the show. These streaming companies prefer quantity over quality and it shows! Episode References: The Other Black Girl (TV Series 2023) The Other Black Girl (Novel 2021) Zakiya Dalila Harris 2023 Writers Guild of America Strike Inside Out 2 The Blackening Connect with Nicole on her website BlackWritersRead.com and IG @blackwritersread *This episode of Podcasting Is the New Kink! was produced by Pink Lady Productions --> pinkladyprod.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    38 min

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Welcome to the ultimate fangirl space where storytelling meets pop culture! On Podcasting is the New Kink!, we obsess over books that got the Hollywood treatment, break down iconic moments featuring Black characters who actually steal the show, and highlight remakes that center us—loud, proud, and in full color. If you’re all about fandoms, adaptations, and a healthy dose of obsession, then this podcast is your new favorite fix. Listen to new episodes on Wednesdays! And subscribe to be notified about new episodes! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.