The Liz Show: Developing the Mind of Christ & Aligning Your Life with Christ

Liz Louis (Elizabeth Louis)

Welcome to *THE LIZ SHOW * (formerly The Renewed You), where high-performing executives, entrepreneurs, and athletes come to deepen their faith, elevate their mental game, and unlock new levels of success.Hosted by Liz, an executive performance coach and pastoral counselor with advanced expertise in Christian psychology, clinical mental health, neuropsychology, and performance psychology, this podcast delves into the transformative power of aligning your life with Christ. Each episode offers insights grounded in both science and scripture, empowering you to not only succeed but to thrive as a disciple of Christ in every area of your life.Through compelling storytelling and practical guidance, Elizabeth provides tools to help you optimize productivity, manage stress, and align your work with your values—all while staying true to your faith. Whether you’re seeking to strengthen your relationship with Christ, overcome self-doubt, or gain a competitive edge, this podcast is your resource for integrating faith and performance.Join us as we explore the intersection of neuroscience, performance psychology, and Christian principles, helping you cultivate resilience, embrace a Christlike mindset, and live purposefully. If you’re ready to excel in both your spiritual journey and your professional life, *THE LIZ SHOW * is more than just a podcast—it’s your guide to mastering high performance's mental and spiritual aspects.Subscribe now and embark on your journey toward a stronger faith and a more successful, Christ-centered life!

  1. 1D AGO

    Experts Agree On BEST Ways To Handle Passive Aggressive People

    Send a text 💬 Ever had someone passively say, *"Oh, I guess you have all the answers, don’t you?"* or *"Sorry for not being perfect like you."*? Passive-aggressive comments can be frustrating, but how you **respond** matters. In this video, we break down a **biblical framework** for handling these moments with **wisdom, confidence, and grace**—without falling into defensiveness or frustration. ✔️ Learn how to **recognize passive-aggressive behavior** for what it is ✔️ Discover **biblical responses** that de-escalate tension ✔️ Set **healthy boundaries** when needed ✔️ Apply **scripture-based wisdom** from Proverbs, Romans, and Ephesians Plus, we’ll discuss when passive-aggressiveness **crosses the line** into emotional abuse—and **how to respond biblically** without enabling toxic behavior. 📖 Watch now and learn how to handle these situations with **strength and peace.** 📌 **Timestamps:** 00:00 Introduction: Handling Passive Aggressiveness 00:19 Understanding the Root of Passive Aggressiveness 01:54 Recognizing Passive Aggressive Comments 03:15 Biblical Framework for Handling Passive Aggressiveness 05:03 Practical Responses to Passive Aggressive Remarks 06:38 Maintaining Peace and Setting Boundaries 08:31 When Passive Aggressiveness Becomes Emotional Abuse 10:56 Final Takeaways and Encouragement 📌 Resources & Next Steps: 📖 Get my FREE guide:  I AM CHALLENGE  https://www.elizabethlouis.com/i-am-challenge 📲 Connect with me on Instagram: @IamLizLouis  🖥️ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/louiselizabeth/ 📩 Join my email list for exclusive insights: https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/  🔥 Comment below: What's your biggest challenge when it comes to RESPONDING with kindness and grace? 🚀 Subscribe for more high-performance strategies: SUBSCRIBE Support the show Please leave me a review on Apple Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-liz-show/id1629109236 ***LET'S CONNECT:*** Sign up for Jesus Minute - https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Website: ElizabethLouis.com Facebook:facebook.com/iamlizlouis Tik Tok - tiktok.com/@iamlizlouis Instagram: ...

    12 min
  2. FEB 11

    Breaking Free from Emotional Fusion: Understanding, Identifying, and Overcoming It Biblically (Full Tutorial)

    Send a text If someone being upset with you feels like the end of the world, if you can't rest when someone you love is struggling, if their mood determines your entire day—you're not being loving. You're emotionally fused. In this episode, I break down:  ✅ What emotional fusion is—and how to recognize it in your marriage, family, and friendships  ✅ Why your body reacts the way it does (this is your nervous system, not a character flaw)  ✅ Why fusion isn't biblical (and what Jesus modeled instead)  ✅ Step-by-step how to break it—with real scenarios, practical tools, and nervous system regulation techniques you can use today Resources mentioned (In Order Of Mentioning): 🧠 Renew Your Mind: Break Free From Toxic Thoughts the Jesus Way: https://elizabethlouis.io/products/renew-your-mind-course ✝️ Mastering the Identity of Christ: The Blueprint for Kingdom Confidence: https://elizabethlouis.samcart.com/products/identity-of-christ 📖 Healing Trauma the Jesus Way - https://elizabethlouis.io/products/healing-trauma-the-jesus-way Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Fusion 01:16 Understanding Emotional Fusion 03:31 Recognizing Emotional Fusion in Daily Life 06:30 The Concept of Enmeshment 08:16 Differentiation: The Key to Breaking Free 09:10 The Roots of Emotional Fusion 15:48 Biblical Perspective on Emotional Fusion 24:07 Jesus as a Model of Differentiation 31:04 The Emotional Cost of Fusion 32:53 Breaking Free from Emotional Fusion 34:03 Real-Life Example: Rachel's Journey 37:28 Steps to Break Emotional Fusion 39:53 Recognizing and Naming the Lies 41:28 Replacing Lies with Biblical Truths 44:41 Practicing Differentiation in Real Time 47:38 Retraining Your Nervous System 51:59 Building Your Identity in Christ| Long-Term Benefits of Differentiation | Conclusion and Further Resources Support the show Please leave me a review on Apple Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-liz-show/id1629109236 ***LET'S CONNECT:*** Sign up for Jesus Minute - https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Website: ElizabethLouis.com Facebook:facebook.com/iamlizlouis Tik Tok - tiktok.com/@iamlizlouis Instagram: ...

    59 min
  3. JAN 28

    17 Thinking Traps That Prove Jesus Is Your Tool, Not Your Savior

    Send us a text In this episode, I walk through 17 thinking traps (cognitive distortions) Christians commonly fall into without realizing it — and explain how these patterns reveal what we are functionally trusting to save us. Using Hebrews 4:12 as the framework, this teaching applies Scripture surgically, separating soul from spirit to expose where Jesus has become the means to a savior rather than the Savior Himself. I explain: The difference between faith-building seasons and stripping seasonsWhy many believers love Jesus but still operate from misplaced trustHow trials reveal what we’re actually leaning onWhy thinking traps are not just psychological patterns, but spiritual indicatorsHow cognitive distortions show up specifically in Christian language and behaviorThe connection between anxiety, overthinking, and functional saviors like control, certainty, healing, or outcomesEach of the 17 thinking traps is defined, then applied to real Christian thought patterns — toward God, toward self, and toward others — to help identify where trust has subtly shifted away from Christ. This episode is not about condemnation or questioning salvation.  It’s about awareness, discipleship, and returning Jesus to the center of trust. Resources & Next Steps 🧠 Thinking Trap Assessment: “What Thinking Trap Is Limiting Your Performance?” https://elizabethlouis.com/thinkingtrapquiz 🏆 Champions in Christ Devotional https://bit.ly/ChampinChrist 📲 Instagram: @IamLizLouis  🖥️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/louiselizabeth/ 📩 Email list: https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Support the show Please leave me a review on Apple Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-liz-show/id1629109236 ***LET'S CONNECT:*** Sign up for Jesus Minute - https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Website: ElizabethLouis.com Facebook:facebook.com/iamlizlouis Tik Tok - tiktok.com/@iamlizlouis Instagram: ...

    37 min
  4. JAN 21

    Why Even Jesus Doesn't Stop the Ache (And What That Means for Your Faith)

    Send us a text Why does nothing feel like enough? You did everything right. You chose well. You married a good man or woman. You built community. You sought God. You healed. You showed up. And yet… something still aches. Not because you're ungrateful. Not because you chose wrong. Not because your faith is weak. But because you were made for something this world can't give you. In this episode, I'm talking about the disillusionment no one prepares you for—the moment you realize that even Jesus doesn't make the longing stop the way you thought He would. Not because He's insufficient, but because you were made for unmediated communion with God, and right now, you're experiencing Him through mediation. This isn't cynicism. It's clarity. And if you've ever felt like something's missing even when everything looks right… this is for you. What we cover: Why knowing God makes the ache worse, not betterWhy we were made for unmediated communion with God (and what that means)The theology and psychology behind "eternity in the heart"The biblical truth about longing in Romans 8 and EcclesiastesHow to discern between healthy longing and relational dysfunctionWhat God actually gives (it's not what you think)What peace really looks like when the ache doesn't go awayThis episode is for you if: You feel guilty for not being "satisfied in Christ"You love your husband but still feel lonelyYou're questioning if something's wrong with youYou've been told "Jesus is enough" but it doesn't feel trueYou're not broken. You're human. And this conversation might be the permission you didn't know you needed. 📌 Resources & Next Steps: 🏆 Grab the Champions in Christ Devotional: **https://bit.ly/ChampinChrist** Support the show Please leave me a review on Apple Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-liz-show/id1629109236 ***LET'S CONNECT:*** Sign up for Jesus Minute - https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Website: ElizabethLouis.com Facebook:facebook.com/iamlizlouis Tik Tok - tiktok.com/@iamlizlouis Instagram: ...

    27 min
  5. JAN 18

    Differentiation in Marriage: Why Love Without Self-Abandonment Is Biblical

    Send us a text Most relationship breakdowns don’t happen because of conflict — they happen because one person collapses, overfunctions, or silences themselves to keep the relationship comfortable. That is a failure of differentiation. In this episode, we explore what differentiation actually is, why it is essential for healthy marriage and relationships, and how Scripture consistently addresses the dangers of self-abandonment, emotional imbalance, and false peace. You’ll learn: What differentiation means (biblically and psychologically)How emotional invalidation reveals poor differentiationWhy unrepaired conflict quietly erodes intimacyThe role of shame, pride, and avoidance in relational breakdownWhat Scripture says about responsibility, burden-bearing, and mutual submissionWhy differentiation creates holy tension — and why that tension is necessary for growthThis episode is not about blame, dominance, or emotional withdrawal. It’s about learning how to love without disappearing. If you’ve ever felt like honesty costs you connection, this conversation is for you. I didn't realize this didn't get released on the right date due to a tech issue.  Support the show Please leave me a review on Apple Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-liz-show/id1629109236 ***LET'S CONNECT:*** Sign up for Jesus Minute - https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Website: ElizabethLouis.com Facebook:facebook.com/iamlizlouis Tik Tok - tiktok.com/@iamlizlouis Instagram: ...

    25 min
  6. JAN 7

    High-Performers Are Trapped in This Control Pattern (And They Don't Know It)

    Send us a text Do You Want Freedom — Or Control? Most people say they want freedom. What they actually want is control — over pain, over outcomes, over how close anything gets. And they've been confusing the two their entire lives. In this episode, I expose the illusion keeping high-performers trapped: the belief that control equals safety. Because here's what your nervous system won't tell you — you never controlled those outcomes. You only controlled your proximity to pain. And your brain has been confusing the two ever since. In this episode, you'll learn: Why "if I don't have an exit, I'm not safe" is the real stronghold running your decisionsWhat you actually control (and what you've been exhausting yourself trying to control)The ONLY control Scripture commands — and what it looks like in real lifeHow Jesus modeled freedom: affected but not controlled, responsive not reactiveThe shift that dismantles the fortress mentality and breaks chronic anxietyThis is psychology + neuroscience + Scripture — no fluff, no spiritual bypassing, just surgical precision on the pattern controlling your leadership, relationships, and internal peace. If this lands, it's because the issue was never money, marriage, or success. It was the illusion of control masquerading as safety. Resources mentioned: 📖 Renew Your Mind: Break Free from Toxic Thoughts — the Jesus Way https://elizabethlouis.io/products/renew-your-mind-course 🏆 Champions in Christ Devotional https://bit.ly/ChampinChrist 📲 Connect on Instagram: @IamLizLouis 🖥️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/louiselizabeth/ 📩 Email List: https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Support the show Please leave me a review on Apple Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-liz-show/id1629109236 ***LET'S CONNECT:*** Sign up for Jesus Minute - https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Website: ElizabethLouis.com Facebook:facebook.com/iamlizlouis Tik Tok - tiktok.com/@iamlizlouis Instagram: ...

    14 min
  7. 12/31/2025

    Soul Ties Destroying Your Relationships? Do This

    Send us a text Let's dive into the intricate process of breaking spiritual ties through deliverance prayers, also touching on the importance of strong discipleship in Jesus. The script highlights essential prayers for breaking agreements with spirits like Leviathan, Mammon, and the orphan spirit, while stressing the critical need for caution and guidance from the Holy Spirit. Also covered are practical tips for dealing with emotionally manipulative family dynamics, setting healthy boundaries, and recognizing toxic behaviors. With a focus on maintaining spiritual alignment, viewers are encouraged to prioritize their relationship with Jesus and consider enrolling in a course aimed at renewing the mind and breaking free from toxic thoughts. Grab the Guide: elizabethlouis.ac-page.com/soul-ties 00:00 Introduction and Overview 00:17 Spiritual Malpractice and Caution 00:56 The Importance of Being Rooted in Jesus 03:32 Breaking the Spirit of Leviathan 04:32 Breaking the Spirit of Mammon 05:10 Breaking the Orphan Spirit 05:59 The Power of Reciting Declarations 06:35 Detachment Guide for Prophetic People 08:17 Setting Boundaries and Handling Manipulation 12:39 Final Thoughts and Course Promotion Support the show Please leave me a review on Apple Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-liz-show/id1629109236 ***LET'S CONNECT:*** Sign up for Jesus Minute - https://elizabethlouis.com/email-sign-up/ Website: ElizabethLouis.com Facebook:facebook.com/iamlizlouis Tik Tok - tiktok.com/@iamlizlouis Instagram: ...

    14 min
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About

Welcome to *THE LIZ SHOW * (formerly The Renewed You), where high-performing executives, entrepreneurs, and athletes come to deepen their faith, elevate their mental game, and unlock new levels of success.Hosted by Liz, an executive performance coach and pastoral counselor with advanced expertise in Christian psychology, clinical mental health, neuropsychology, and performance psychology, this podcast delves into the transformative power of aligning your life with Christ. Each episode offers insights grounded in both science and scripture, empowering you to not only succeed but to thrive as a disciple of Christ in every area of your life.Through compelling storytelling and practical guidance, Elizabeth provides tools to help you optimize productivity, manage stress, and align your work with your values—all while staying true to your faith. Whether you’re seeking to strengthen your relationship with Christ, overcome self-doubt, or gain a competitive edge, this podcast is your resource for integrating faith and performance.Join us as we explore the intersection of neuroscience, performance psychology, and Christian principles, helping you cultivate resilience, embrace a Christlike mindset, and live purposefully. If you’re ready to excel in both your spiritual journey and your professional life, *THE LIZ SHOW * is more than just a podcast—it’s your guide to mastering high performance's mental and spiritual aspects.Subscribe now and embark on your journey toward a stronger faith and a more successful, Christ-centered life!