That's Scary with Meloney P.

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Welcome to the That's Scary with Meloney P. podcast family. A podcast discussing the SCARY TRUTHS of Dating, Relationships and everything in between! Subscribe to the #1 Podcast in America. We specialize in keeping it real, raw, and unfiltered. No topic is off-limits.

  1. Sep 7

    What I Actually Need From a Relationship in My 40s: It’s Not What You Think!

    What do you **actually need from a relationship in your 40s**?I’ve been married. I’ve been divorced. I’ve been single. I’ve been engaged. And now, navigating relationships in my 40s has forced me to ask myself a question I probably should’ve asked a long time ago: **What do I actually need from a relationship at this stage of my life?**Because the truth is… **love isn’t enough.**In this episode of **Yap Session with Meloney P**, we’re talking about dating and relationships after 40, being a “lover girl” while still protecting your heart, the importance of emotional safety, consistency, communication, intentionality, partnership, leadership, affection, friendship, peace—and having a CLEAR direction for where your relationship is going.I also get into why dating in your 40s feels so different, why I’m no longer interested in relationships that aren’t progressing, the conversations I believe couples need to have upfront, and why knowing what you need is just as important as knowing who you want.💗 **SUBSCRIBE to Yap Session with Meloney P** and join me for real, unfiltered conversations about relationships, womanhood, life after 40, personal growth, motherhood and figuring this thing called life out together.👍🏾 Like this episode if it resonated with you.📤 Share it with another woman who needs to be part of this conversation.### CHAPTERS00:00 What Do I Actually Need From a Relationship in My 40s?03:00 What I Thought Love Was When I Got Married Young05:00 The Pressure Women Put on Themselves to Find Love07:20 Why Dating in Your 40s Feels Different08:22 Being a “Lover Girl” While Protecting Yourself08:56 I Need GROWTH in My Relationships11:17 “I’m Not a Girlfriend — I’m a Wife”13:04 Is It Even Safe to Be a Lover Girl Anymore?15:05 What I’m Looking for in a Man in My 40s17:23 Emotional Safety, Consistency & a CLEAR Direction18:17 What Do You Actually Want From a Relationship?21:00 Why I Compare Relationships to Business23:03 The Conversations We Need to Have UPFRONT25:29 Stop Ignoring the Signs When Things Change27:04 Why God Needs to Be Part of My Relationship27:33 Dating With Strategy — Not Just Love29:00 Final Thoughts: Know What You Need#DatingOver40 #RelationshipsOver40 #LoveAfter40 #WomenOver40 #RelationshipAdvice #YapSession #MeloneyP“Yap Session with Meloney P.” is a women-centered podcast that feels like a safe space to vent, laugh, heal, and have real conversations about life. The show focuses on topics women deal with every day — relationships, stress, overstimulation, self-worth, body image, dating, work-life balance, motherhood, friendships, sex, and figuring life out in your 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond. The vibe is honest, relatable, fun, conversational, and empowering — like late-night girl talk with your favorite homegirl, where nothing is too deep or too taboo to discuss. Men are welcome too, but the heart of the show is creating a comforting, authentic space for women to just “yap” freely without judgment.Make sure you drop a comment below and SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE PAGE!! Support the podcast If you have a situation that you want to be discussed on the podcast send me a message on IG or email me at: thatsscarypodcast@gmail.com! Make sure and leave a podcast review. It helps the show out TREMENDOUSLY! Follow and engage with us on IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@Links:YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@yapsessionmp Instagram - https://www.youtube.com/@yapsessionmpTik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thatsscary_podcastSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1PBikYYfJPC4iRBejIh7KW?uid=dc98469f245848b9aef4&uri=spotify%3Aepisode%3A2NBK5H8emQGeG0zkfNMPu1Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-scary-with-meloney-p/id1629360940NAMA - https://namacbd.therave.co/YKWTKSYVEQH6DC4O - $5 Dollars Off!!Opus link - https://www.opus.pro/?via=a00088

  2. Sep 6

    I Tried Wellbutrin for ADHD at 40: Why I Had to Stop

    Link to products - https://amzn.to/46esPjQDid I suddenly develop ADHD after 40… or has my brain ALWAYS been like this?! 😩In this episode of **Yap Session with Meloney P**, I'm sharing my real experience taking **Wellbutrin (bupropion)** after struggling with focus, productivity, motivation, exhaustion, and feeling like I had 50-11 things happening in my brain at the same time.Like a lot of women over 40, I started wondering if I could have **adult ADHD**. I kept seeing women online talking about being diagnosed with ADHD later in life, and so much of what they were describing sounded like ME.Then I tried Wellbutrin.⚠️ **DISCLAIMER:** This video is about my personal experience only and is not medical advice. Everyone can respond differently to medications, including Wellbutrin/bupropion. Please speak with a qualified healthcare professional before starting, stopping, or changing any medication or supplement.💬 **LET'S YAP:** Have you been diagnosed with ADHD later in life? Have you tried Wellbutrin? What was YOUR experience—the good, the bad, or somewhere in between? Tell me in the comments because I really want to hear from the women on this one!Yap session“Yap Session with Meloney P.” is a women-centered podcast that feels like a safe space to vent, laugh, heal, and have real conversations about life. The show focuses on topics women deal with every day — relationships, stress, overstimulation, self-worth, body image, dating, work-life balance, motherhood, friendships, sex, and figuring life out in your 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond. The vibe is honest, relatable, fun, conversational, and empowering — like late-night girl talk with your favorite homegirl, where nothing is too deep or too taboo to discuss. Men are welcome too, but the heart of the show is creating a comforting, authentic space for women to just “yap” freely without judgment.Make sure you drop a comment below and SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE PAGE!! Support the podcast If you have a situation that you want to be discussed on the podcast send me a message on IG or email me at: thatsscarypodcast@gmail.com! Make sure and leave a podcast review. It helps the show out TREMENDOUSLY! Links:YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@yapsessionmp Instagram - https://www.youtube.com/@yapsessionmpTik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thatsscary_podcastSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1PBikYYfJPC4iRBejIh7KW?uid=dc98469f245848b9aef4&uri=spotify%3Aepisode%3A2NBK5H8emQGeG0zkfNMPu1Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-scary-with-meloney-p/id1629360940NAMA - https://namacbd.therave.co/YKWTKSYVEQH6DC4O - $5 Dollars Off!!And don't forget to **SUBSCRIBE to Yap Session with Meloney P!** We're on the road to 1,000 subscribers, and every subscription, comment, like and share helps us get there. ❤️**CHAPTERS**00:00 Do I Have ADHD After 40?!00:55 Help Me Reach 1,000 Subscribers!01:17 Why I Thought Something Was Wrong02:14 Women Over 40 & ADHD03:02 How I Ended Up Trying Wellbutrin04:43 What TikTok Told Me About Wellbutrin05:22 At First… I LOVED It06:24 The Productivity & Energy Were REAL06:31 Then My Heart Started Racing08:56 The Side Effects Started Taking Over09:01 The Insomnia Kicked In09:29 The Jitters & Restlessness10:39 “Uppers & Downers?!” — I Had a Problem11:30 Why I Finally Said NO to Wellbutrin12:11 The Pros I Actually Liked12:23 What I'm Doing Instead13:16 Why I Stopped Taking Wellbutrin14:16 Why Are So Many Women Over 40 Struggling to Focus?14:41 You're NOT Lazy — Give Yourself Grace

  3. Sep 6

    Is Dating Just the New Situationship? The Truth About Relationships in 2026!

    Is dating in 2026 just the new situationship—with a title? 👀We used to think becoming someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend meant the relationship was progressing. But what happens when you’re exclusive, committed, spending your life together…and still have no clear idea where the relationship is actually going?In this episode of Yap Session with Meloney P, we’re having a real conversation about modern dating, relationships, commitment, and why dating after 35 and dating in your 40s can make the traditional boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic feel very different.Because if a situationship means you’re emotionally invested without a clear destination, what separates that from a committed relationship that has no conversations about marriage, future plans, next steps, or progression?We’re talking about the difference between dating and courting, whether boyfriend/girlfriend titles still mean what they used to, the “comfortable girlfriend” trap, exclusivity vs. actual commitment, dating over 40, relationship progression, and why simply putting a title on something may not remove the ambiguity.And here's the question I really want you to answer:If you removed the words “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” from your relationship, what evidence would be left that the relationship is actually progressing?Men AND women—I want to hear from you in the comments. 👇🏾If you enjoy conversations about modern dating, relationships, love after 40, situationships, dating after divorce, emotional intimacy, and figuring life out as a grown woman, subscribe to Yap Session with Meloney P and join the conversation.CHAPTERS00:00 Is Dating the New Situationship?00:48 Dating vs. Courting: Is There a Difference?02:01 “I Don't Need to Be Anybody's Girlfriend”03:01 When Boyfriend & Girlfriend Actually Meant Something04:03 Situationship vs. Relationship: What's the Difference?05:02 Does the Title Actually Change Anything?06:01 Does “Boyfriend/Girlfriend” Remove the Ambiguity?07:02 A Relationship With No Goals or Next Steps08:02 Why Dating After 35 Is Different10:01 Are We Too Grown for Boyfriend & Girlfriend?11:00 Convenience vs. Real Partnership12:01 Why Calling Someone “My Boyfriend” Feels Different Now13:00 Is “Partner” Any Better?14:02 Who Should Initiate the Future Conversation?15:01 Why People Are Saying “Dating Is a Trap”16:00 Asking for Commitment Without Having Direction17:03 The Comfortable Girlfriend Trap18:07 Taking Yourself Off the Dating Market for What?19:01 How Ambiguity Creates Relationship Anxiety20:00 What Does Relationship Progression Look Like?21:02 The Questions We SHOULD Be Asking22:01 Is It Just an Elevated Situationship?#DatingOver40 #Situationship #ModernDating #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #Relationships #DatingInYour40s #WomenOver40 #YapSessionJoin this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcZqnopkZRRNCVFtjrJGFKg/joinMake sure you drop a comment below and SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE PAGE!! Support the podcast If you have a situation that you want to be discussed on the podcast send me a message on IG or email us at: thatsscarypodcast@gmail.com! Make sure and leave a podcast review. It helps the show out TREMENDOUSLY! Follow and engage with us on IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatsscary_podcast Follow Me:That's Scary with Meloney P. - all podcast streaming platformsLinks:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thatsscary_podcast/Tik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thatsscary_podcast?lang=enSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1PBikYYfJPC4iRBejIh7KWOpus link - https://www.opus.pro/?via=a00088

  4. Aug 30

    Women Want Emotional Safety...But Do MEN Understand What That Means??

    No Men Allowed - https://youtu.be/pCud1hznJj0?si=bWHzMzwEurezehV_Women Ask for TOO Much - https://www.youtube.com/live/D9tujOvl30c?si=JAICnB0dSYwvrnmcChapters00:00 Intro00:41 Tik Tok Evidence02:55 My Initial Thoughts04:33 - The Spiritual Conversation08:13 - What Does Emotional Safety Look Like?09:52 - The Presidents Secretary - Xavier Lied Too18:49 - Closing and your homeworkWhat do women REALLY mean when they say they want to feel emotionally safe with a man?Lately, I’ve been having conversations with women who keep expressing the same frustration: they’re tired of relationships with men who may be good men, successful men, or even loving men—but lack the **emotional maturity and emotional availability** needed to create a deeper connection.In this episode, we’re talking about **emotional safety in relationships**, emotionally unavailable men, emotional intelligence, communication, vulnerability, and why so many women are becoming emotionally exhausted in dating and relationships.What does it actually mean for a woman to feel emotionally safe? Why do some men struggle to understand what women are asking for? And can a relationship survive when there’s love and attraction—but very little emotional intimacy?And men, I REALLY want to hear from you on this one. Do you think women expect too much emotionally from men, or is emotional safety something more men need to understand?👇🏾 **LET’S TALK IN THE COMMENTS:**What do women actually want—and what does emotional safety look like to YOU?👍🏾 Like the video💬 Join the conversation below🔔 Subscribe for more honest conversations about dating, relationships, men, women, and the things we’re ALL thinking but may not say out loud.#EmotionalSafety #EmotionallyUnavailableMen #Relationships #DatingAdvice #EmotionalMaturity #RelationshipAdvice #MenAndWomen #EmotionalIntelligenceJoin this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcZqnopkZRRNCVFtjrJGFKg/joinMake sure you drop a comment below and SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE PAGE!! Support the podcast If you have a situation that you want to be discussed on the podcast send me a message on IG or email us at: thatsscarypodcast@gmail.com! Make sure and leave a podcast review. It helps the show out TREMENDOUSLY! Follow and engage with us on IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatsscary_podcast Follow Me:That's Scary with Meloney P. - all podcast streaming platformsLinks:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thatsscary_podcast/Tik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thatsscary_podcast?lang=enSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1PBikYYfJPC4iRBejIh7KWOpus link - https://www.opus.pro/?via=a00088

  5. Aug 23

    The 9-5 Is Breaking Women & No One's Talking About It!

    Being a working woman shouldn't feel this hard. If you're feeling depressed at work , anxious, exhausted, and burnt out from trying to balance your 9-5, your mental health, and your real life — you're not alone and you're not lazy.In this YAP Session, I'm getting real about corporate burnout women face every day — the stress, depression, and pressure to keep smiling and clocking in while you're falling apart inside. We're talking about why so many women are burning out, how it affects our mental health, and what we can actually do to cope and protect our peace.“Yap Session with Meloney P.” is a women-centered podcast that feels like a safe space to vent, laugh, heal, and have real conversations about life. The show focuses on topics women deal with every day — relationships, stress, overstimulation, self-worth, body image, dating, work-life balance, motherhood, friendships, sex, and figuring life out in your 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond. The vibe is honest, relatable, fun, conversational, and empowering — like late-night girl talk with your favorite homegirl, where nothing is too deep or too taboo to discuss. Men are welcome too, but the heart of the show is creating a comforting, authentic space for women to just “yap” freely without judgment.Make sure you drop a comment below and SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE PAGE!! Support the podcast If you have a situation that you want to be discussed on the podcast send me a message on IG or email me at: thatsscarypodcast@gmail.com! Make sure and leave a podcast review. It helps the show out TREMENDOUSLY! Follow and engage with us on IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@Follow Me:Links:YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@yapsessionmp Instagram - https://www.youtube.com/@yapsessionmpTik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thatsscary_podcastSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1PBikYYfJPC4iRBejIh7KW?uid=dc98469f245848b9aef4&uri=spotify%3Aepisode%3A2NBK5H8emQGeG0zkfNMPu1Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-scary-with-meloney-p/id1629360940NAMA - https://namacbd.therave.co/YKWTKSYVEQH6DC4O - $5 Dollars Off!!Opus link - https://www.opus.pro/?via=a00088

  6. Aug 22

    Whoopi Was Right? Why Women Want Separate Bedrooms Now!

    Whoopi Goldberg has made it clear: she loves her peace, her space, and her solitude — and she doesn’t necessarily want a man living in her house! But is she onto something? 👀 In this episode of That’s Scary with Meloney P, we’re talking about Whoopi Goldberg, Jessie Woo, relationships, living alone, separate bedrooms, and why some women miss their independence even when they’re happily in love. Jessie Woo has spoken about being in a great relationship while still sometimes missing the solitude she had when she was single. And she’s definitely not the only woman who feels this way. Can you deeply love someone and STILL not want to be around them 24/7? Is sleeping in separate bedrooms actually healthier for some couples? And why does admitting that you miss living alone sometimes make people question whether you’re happy in your relationship? We’re getting into: 🔥 Whoopi Goldberg choosing peace and solitude🔥 Jessie Woo missing aspects of living alone🔥 Why some women prefer separate bedrooms🔥 Losing your personal space after moving in together🔥 Marriage vs. independence🔥 Why women may crave solitude more as they get older🔥 Whether living separately can actually HELP a relationship🔥 Loving your partner without wanting them in your space ALL the time Because maybe the real question isn’t “Do I want a relationship?” Maybe it’s… “Do you have to live together to have a GOOD relationship?” Sound off in the comments: Could you be happily married and live in separate bedrooms — or even separate homes? 👍🏾 LIKE the video💬 COMMENT your opinion🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more conversations on relationships, dating, Black culture, celebrity hot topics and the conversations everybody is thinking about but might be scared to say out loud. #WhoopiGoldberg #JessieWoo #Relationships #LivingAlone #Marriage #Dating #SeparateBedrooms #WomenAndRelationships #RelationshipTalk #ThatsScaryWithMeloneyP

  7. Jul 30

    Cheyenne Bryant's Aunt Just EXPOSED Everything... The Family Knew All Along!

    Cheyenne Bryant's aunt just broke her silence — and what she allegedly told me changes EVERYTHING about the Cheyenne Bryant doctorate controversy. While the internet is still laughing at the viral Netflix meme, a member of Cheyenne Bryant's own family reached out to me with insider information the public has never heard. In this episode, I break down what the family allegedly knows, why Pastor Jamal Bryant walked away after receiving a cease and desist, and how the "Dr." Cheyenne Bryant fake degree scandal keeps getting worse.We're covering it ALL in this one:▶️ What Cheyenne Bryant's aunt allegedly told me — the EXCLUSIVE inside scoop▶️ The viral Netflix documentary meme in full graduation regalia — flex or cover-up?▶️ Jamal Bryant's apology for platforming her on the Let's Be Clear podcast▶️ The cease and desist letter Cheyenne allegedly wrote HERSELF▶️ Indiana Southwest Christian University — the school allegedly created in May 2026, AFTER she was already calling herself a doctor▶️ The "theocentric psychology" Ph.D and why real licensed therapists are speaking out▶️ The Breakfast Club interview that started it all▶️ Why fake experts and fake credentials are a much BIGGER problem in our communityThis is bigger than one woman and one degree. When we can't trust the people calling themselves doctors, life coaches, and relationship experts, who do we trust? Let's talk about it.⚠️ DISCLAIMER: This video is commentary and opinion based on publicly available information and statements allegedly made by a family member. All claims discussed are alleged. Cheyenne Bryant has not been convicted of any wrongdoing, and viewers are encouraged to do their own research.Join this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcZqnopkZRRNCVFtjrJGFKg/joinMake sure you drop a comment below and SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE PAGE!! Support the podcast If you have a situation that you want to be discussed on the podcast send me a message on IG or email us at: thatsscarypodcast@gmail.com!

  8. Jul 30

    Tuskegee BANS Bonnets & Durags... Then Women Got CHECKED For Wearing One In Public!

    ✨ Tuskegee University just BANNED bonnets, durags, slippers, and pajamas on campus — and the whole internet is picking sides. ✨In today's episode, we're getting into the Tuskegee HBCU dress code ban and the viral video of a woman confronting a total stranger IN THE STORE for wearing her bonnet in public. Is this about pride and presentation... or is policing Black women's hair going too far?We'll break down:🔹 What Tuskegee University's new dress code ACTUALLY says (bonnets, durags, slippers & pajamas banned for the 2026–27 school year)🔹 Why President Dr. Mark A. Brown says the ban is about "restoring standards" — and why students are pushing back🔹 The viral Instagram moment: a woman stops a younger lady in a store over her bonnet 😳🔹 Mo'Nique's original "bonnets in public" message and how this debate started🔹 Respectability politics vs. personal freedom — where do we draw the line?🔹 My unfiltered opinion on bonnets, durags, and how we show up in publicWhose side are you on — Tuskegee or the students? Drop your take in the comments and let's talk about it! 👇🏾🔔 SUBSCRIBE for new episodes every week: https://www.youtube.com/@thatsscarywithmeloneyppodcast📸 Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thatsscary_podcast⏰ TIMESTAMPS00:00 – Was She Wrong?01:10 - My Opinions05:09 - Tuskegee Bonnet Ban#Tuskegee #BonnetBan #HBCU #Bonnets #Durags #BlackCulture #ThatsScaryPodcast

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