Get Schooled Podcast with Marcela Alonso

Marcela Alonso
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  • Sexuality
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Welcome to Get Schooled: Time for Class, a candid and curiosity-driven podcast hosted by your teacher, Marcela Alonso. This show explores sexual expression, adult entertainment, and modern intimacy with an honest look at the realities beyond stereotypes. Get Schooled creates space for thoughtful conversations about how people experience desire, relationships, identity, and pleasure in the real world. Each episode, Marcela brings on sex educators, adult performers, therapists, and lifestyle voices, alongside LGBTQ+ guests and advocates supporting trans rights, to unpack topics like consent, stigma, boundaries, communication, and sexual autonomy. The focus isn’t shock it’s understanding, education, and lived experience. This podcast is for anyone who’s curious about sexuality without judgment, wants to learn beyond outdated narratives, or is interested in how adult entertainment and sexual expression intersect with everyday life. No shame. No assumptions. Just real conversations you never got in school. Raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic. Hosted by Marcela Alonso, Untamed in the City takes you beyond the surface with honest conversations on relationships, personal growth, and city life. 📥 Join the Substack community for exclusive content and weekly deep dives: https://untamedinthecity.substack.com 🎙️ Hit Follow or Subscribe to catch every episode as soon as it drops! Full Video Episodes Only On https://subs.com/Marcelasobella

  1. 18h ago

    When You're Poly and Your Husband Isn't ,with Courtney Boyer

    After 17 years of marriage, Courtney Boyer asked her husband a terrifying question: what if we opened the marriage? She discovered she was polyamorous — he wasn't. He's still monogamous. And they're still together. Courtney joins Marcela to talk about what really happens when one partner opens a marriage the other didn't ask for. How do you tell your husband of 17 years you need something he doesn't? What does a mono-poly marriage actually look like day to day? And where does purity culture fit into all of it? Raw, honest, and full of the conversations most couples are too scared to have. **About Courtney:** Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a relationship and sexuality expert, former therapist, and the author of *Not Tonight, Honey* and her memoir *Opened*. She helps people question the relationship rules they inherited, reconnect with their desire, and build lives that actually feel like their own. A polyamorous mother of three in a mono-poly marriage, she has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and CNBC. Connect with Courtney: courtneyboyercoaching.com | Instagram: @courtneyboyercoaching BranditScan This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  2. Sep 7

    The Science of Joy in Love: Dr. Marie Thouin on Compersion & Non-Monogamy

    Marie Thouin, PhD is a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coach and the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including The New York Times, ELLE, The Times of London, and HuffPost. In her coaching practice, she supports individuals and couples of all backgrounds and orientations to create intentional, authentic, and vibrant love lives.Learn more at www.MarieThouin.com. *. RANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity Full Unedited Episodes Only On https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  3. Aug 31

    The Ethics of Power Exchange with Tripp Terrier

    Tripp Terrier is a 40-year-old lifestyle BDSM dominant, kink theorist, and D/s advisor who works with couples and individuals to help foster healthy, committed, long-term power exchange dynamics. Tripp's viral popularity developed through sharing his personal experience with power exchange relationships on social media and extrapolating fundamental concepts that both honor and challenge the BDSM status quo. His work asks essential questions in regards to the interplay of sexuality, gender constructs, agency and consent. It is work that is always incomplete but accessible to all who are up for the journey. Tripp is also a co-founder of Buzzkeepr, a safety app that provides affordable criminal and sex offender background checks for individuals navigating the dating scene. Buzzkeepr is launching soon on Google Play and in the Apple App Store.  *BRANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  4. Aug 24

    The Kink Consultant's Guide to Unlocking Your Secret Fantasies with Amanda Dames

    AMANDA DAMES, aka The Kink Consultant, is a sexologist, Somatica® Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, podcast host, and former NYC Dominatrix specializing in kink, intimacy, and communication. Through coaching, education, media appearances, and her podcast The Kink Consultant, Amanda helps people explore desire without shame while making kink feel approachable, empowering, and rooted in consent, confidence, and connection. Known for her honest, playful, and accessible teaching style, Amanda has built an online audience of more than 300,000 followers across social media and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Women’s Health, POPSUGAR, and Court TVfor her expertise in kink and modern relationships. Her work focuses on helping individuals and couples communicate openly about fantasies, power dynamics, and emotional intimacy so they can create relationships that feel more authentic, exciting, and fulfilling both inside and outside the bedroom. MORE ONLINE: AmandaDames.com (http://amandadames.com/) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  5. Aug 17

    Biohacking Intimacy: Passion, Connection & Longevity with Susan Bratton

    SUSAN BRATTON, “Intimacy Expert to Millions," is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. Susan is co-founder and CEO of two companies: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of the Better Lover brand of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills. She is a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs, including Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. Susan speaks eloquently from the stage and frequently appears on ABC, CBS and NBC as well as being the #1 downloaded episode guest on myriad podcasts. Find Susan Online: BetterLover.com *BRANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity*ProDx Health | Wellness From Home** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  6. Aug 10

    Decrim 305: Sex Work, Advocacy, and Humanizing the Hustle with Miss Mei

    Class is in session! On this episode of *Get Schooled*, we’re diving deep into the realities of sex work, policy reform, and community action with Miss Meiauthor, advocate, and co-founder of Decrim 305. Drawing on over 14 years of personal experience, Miss Mei breaks down the urgent push to decriminalize, destigmatize, and decarcerate sex work right here in Miami. From mutual aid and policy organizing to using cosplay as a tool to challenge stereotypes and humanize sex workers through an intersectional lens, Miss Mei shares what it takes to build a future where sex work is respected, protected, and fully understood. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  7. Aug 3

      The Wearable Revolution in Men’s Sexual Health with Dr. Elliot Justin

    ELLIOT JUSTIN, MD, FACEP, is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men’s erectile fitness. He has a background in Emergency Medicine and healthcare technology consulting. Dr. Justin is also a serial healthcare entrepreneur, having founded and sold Pegasus Emergency Group and Swift MD. He has provided guidance to various services, telemedicine, and tech startups. Dr. Justin pursued Slavic Studies at Harvard University and studied medicine at Boston University. Happily married for 35 years, and father of three children, Elliot and Ann live in Montana with three energetic mares and a flock of chickens. He is a passionate trail rider who sometimes imagines, to his wife’s chagrin, that he’s a centaur.  https://www.instagram.com/myfirmtech BRANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity*ProDx Health | Wellness From Home** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  8. Jul 27

    Everything you wanted to know about Dolls but were afraid to ask with Violet Bordeaux and Lady Dahlia Trieu

    Lady Dahlia Trieu is a transfemme prodomme and kink educator. Her career in the sex industry began in queer porn, performing with AORTA Films, and later, Colorblock Films. In her past lives she has been an educator, combat soldier, and poet—all of which have been surprisingly useful in her practice as a dominatrix. She is based in Brooklyn with her two feline familiars. Violet Bordeaux is a trans-femme NYC-based Dominatrix and Sex Educator. She specializes in religious play and medical fetish; kinks that resulted from her past devotion to her Catholic faith and her fascination with sharp objects.*BRANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity*ProDx Health | Wellness From Home** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome to Get Schooled: Time for Class, a candid and curiosity-driven podcast hosted by your teacher, Marcela Alonso. This show explores sexual expression, adult entertainment, and modern intimacy with an honest look at the realities beyond stereotypes. Get Schooled creates space for thoughtful conversations about how people experience desire, relationships, identity, and pleasure in the real world. Each episode, Marcela brings on sex educators, adult performers, therapists, and lifestyle voices, alongside LGBTQ+ guests and advocates supporting trans rights, to unpack topics like consent, stigma, boundaries, communication, and sexual autonomy. The focus isn’t shock it’s understanding, education, and lived experience. This podcast is for anyone who’s curious about sexuality without judgment, wants to learn beyond outdated narratives, or is interested in how adult entertainment and sexual expression intersect with everyday life. No shame. No assumptions. Just real conversations you never got in school. Raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic. Hosted by Marcela Alonso, Untamed in the City takes you beyond the surface with honest conversations on relationships, personal growth, and city life. 📥 Join the Substack community for exclusive content and weekly deep dives: https://untamedinthecity.substack.com 🎙️ Hit Follow or Subscribe to catch every episode as soon as it drops! Full Video Episodes Only On https://subs.com/Marcelasobella

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