Get Schooled Podcast with Marcela Alonso

Marcela Alonso
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Honest conversations about sex, desire, and relationships — with the educators, therapists, and adult-industry insiders who know these subjects firsthand. Marcela Alonso asks the questions people are often afraid to ask. New episodes weekly, plus Extra Credit Thursdays from the archive. MarcelaAlonso.com | Newsletter: untamedinthecity.substack.com

  1. 2d ago

    Bonus Episode, Part Two: Occupational Non-Monogamy with Tommy Gunn, the World of Romance as an Adult Performer and Its Realities

    Tommy Gunn is one of the most prolific and versatile male performers of his generation. Gunn has over 3800 credits to his name at the Internet Adult Film Database (IAFD), is an multi award- winning veteran with over 20 years in the industry, and a proud inductee of the XRCO, Urban X, and AVN Halls of Fame. Known for his rugged good looks and chiseled frame, Gunn enjoys acting, in adult as well as mainstream productions. Tommy had a cameo on HBO's Entourage in 2010, appeared in Louis Theroux’s Twilight of the Porn Stars in 2012, landed a part in the mainstream horror film Wolves in 2014, was on a 2014 episode of Pawn Stars, when he sold his zombie apocalypse vehicle, and appeared in the mainstream film Gangster Land in 2017. A true professional, Tommy Gunn holds a Screen Actors Guild (SAG) card and welcomes opportunities to explore dialogue and performance-driven roles in both adult and mainstream projects. Tommy’s philosophy for work and life is refreshingly simple: “Show up, be cordial, and treat your co-stars with kindness. Building a good rapport with the people you work with is key—everyone wants to collaborate with someone likable, not an egotistical person who thinks they’re above others. That’s just not a good look.” Gunn had a big year in 2025, releasing three major projects. Fans Only: The Human Side of Porn & Fans Only 2: Dreams Fame Desire, documentaries that were produced with Joel Van der Molen chronicling aspects of Tommy’s and others’ careers in the adult industry, and a memoir published through Tepris Press entitled Tommy Gunn: Unloaded. Tommy is now incorporating aspects of those, along with his expertise in fitness, nutrition, and overall male health at The Gunn Life. Through these projects, Tommy’s goal is to share his story authentically, without holding back. When he’s not working, Tommy spends his time enjoying the great outdoors, staying active with workouts, traveling, watching movies, and striving to be the best version of himself. In a world where perception holds power and opportunities are limitless, Tommy believes that staying authentic and grounded is the ultimate approach to both life and success. Follow Tommy Gunn Tommy Gunn Twitter/X: @tommygunnxxx Tommy Gunn Instagram: @theetommygunnxxx Tommy Gunn Facebook: Tommy Gunn Tommy Gunn You Tube: TheeTommy Gunn Tommy Gunn Only Fans: @tommygunnxxx Tommy Gunn Official Website: www.tommygunn.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Bonus Episode, Part Two: Occupational Non-Monogamy with Tommy Gunn, the World of Romance as an Adult Performer and Its Realities

  2. 6d ago

    Ravyn Alexa

    RAVYN ALEXA Creator, performer, entrepreneur, and influencer Ravyn Alexa is an ALT exotic mix of Iranian and Black. The stunning ALT busty nymph and self-proclaimed “fantasy slut” is known for her enthusiasm, insane sexual energy, and incredible oral skills. Before entering the adult arena, she attended school for fine arts but dropped out with only two credits left, then became a stripper for five years, and was also one of the elite, infamous ALT GodsGirls before starting her OnlyFans in 2020 and then doing pro studio work in 2025. Since then, Ravyn has shot for many top-shelf studios, including Brazzers, Adult Time, Evil Angel, Reality Kings, Bang Bros, Hookup Hotshot, Collective Corruption, Erika Lust, New Sensations, Perv City, DP Diva, Deep Lush, BaDoinkVR, Kink.com Digital Sin, and Girlfriends Films.  She’s also been nominated for multiple awards as a performer and as one of the founders of Indie BDSM and fetish studio Collective Corruption.    Ravyn won her first industry award in 2026 from the XMAs for Best Sex Scene – Orgy/Group (Mixed) for Adult Time’s “The Bottom Floor: Second Coming.” She’s been nominated for Hottest Fetish Star, Hottest Female Inked Star, Most Popular Alt Model, Best Female Performer, ALT Model of the Year and Best Rising Production from the Urban X Awards, two nominations for her scene work from the AVN Awards, Fetish Creator of the Year and Best Sex Scene – Fetish for Collective Corruption from the XMAs, and Best Female Performer of the Year and Best AltPorn Membership Site (twice) for Collective Corruption from the AltStar Awards. Ravyn has received further global recognition for gracing the pages of Petit Mort, Hustler, AVN, and NightMoves magazines.   When Ravyn isn’t creating content for her platforms or top studios or engaging with her worldwide fanbase, you’ll find her geeking out on sci-fi and fantasy fiction, watching extended editions of The Lord of the Rings yearly, painting miniature figures, doing puzzles, and playing Stardew Valley. Keep up with everything in her world by following her on X, Bluesky, Threads, and Twitch at @RavynAlexa and IG at @RavynAlexaAgain. Subscribe to her OnlyFans OnlyFans.com/RavynAlexa and Fansly Fansly.com/RavynAlexa for daily posts, exclusive content, sexting, order customs, and more. Buy her content a la carte at ManyVids ravynalexa.manyvids.com. Join Collective Corruption CollectiveCorruption.com to indulge in hardcore videos and celebrate heavy kinks. Subscribe to her pornstar-verified Pornhub pornhub.com/pornstar/ravyn-alexafor free, and find out why she has 3 million video views and 15k subscribers. And check out her official site, RavynAlexaRaw.com, to link to everything Ravyn Alexa. ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Follow Marcela For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing the stuff that doesn't make the podcast subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Ravyn Alexa

  3. Oct 23

    Bonus Episode, Part One: Occupational Non-Monogamy with Matt Valentine-Chase, London Therapist and Sex Coach

    Matt Valentine-Chase (The London Sex Coach) is a specialist therapist, relationship coach, and fierce advocate for sex workers’ rights. With over 26 years of clinical experience, and 30 years supporting the sex and kink positive community, Matt provides trauma-informed, kink-positive, and non-judgmental space for adults, couples, and industry professionals alike. Through his specialized practice as The Sex Work Friendly Therapist, Matt offers sex worker-affirmative therapy designed to challenge societal stigma, honor individual agency, and provide a safe, confidential harbour for those navigating the adult industry. Learn more at thelondonsexcoachonline.net and X: https://x.com/iammattvc This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Bonus Episode, Part One: Occupational Non-Monogamy with Matt Valentine-Chase, London Therapist and Sex Coach

  4. Oct 19

    Raissa on Good Things Will Come: Raissa Bellini on Starting Over and Shooting for the Biggest Studios in the Business

    Raissa Bellini is an Italian creator, performer and model originally from Sardinia, Italy, now based in Miami, Florida. She entered the adult industry in 2025 and quickly built momentum with major studios including Brazzers, Bang Bros, Reality Kings, MILFY and Blacked. Before entertainment, Bellini worked as a yacht stewardess, traveling extensively while developing the discipline, adaptability and confidence she brings to her work today. A former gymnast and fire performer, she brings athletic confidence, international experience and a natural sense of showmanship to her work.Find and follow Raissa Bellini on X | Instagram | OnlyFans | Pornhub | SextPanther | Mynx ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing the stuff that doesn't make the podcast subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Raissa on Good Things Will Come: Raissa Bellini on Starting Over and Shooting for the Biggest Studios in the Business

  5. Oct 16

    Extra Credit: The Kink Consultant's Guide to Unlocking Your Secret Fantasies with Amanda Dames

    AMANDA DAMES, aka The Kink Consultant, is a sexologist, Somatica® Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, podcast host, and former NYC Dominatrix specializing in kink, intimacy, and communication. Through coaching, education, media appearances, and her podcast The Kink Consultant, Amanda helps people explore desire without shame while making kink feel approachable, empowering, and rooted in consent, confidence, and connection. Known for her honest, playful, and accessible teaching style, Amanda has built an online audience of more than 300,000 followers across social media and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Women’s Health, POPSUGAR, and Court TVfor her expertise in kink and modern relationships. Her work focuses on helping individuals and couples communicate openly about fantasies, power dynamics, and emotional intimacy so they can create relationships that feel more authentic, exciting, and fulfilling both inside and outside the bedroom. MORE ONLINE: AmandaDames.com (http://amandadames.com/) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  6. Oct 12

    Sex After 50: Suzanne Noble on Pleasure, Confidence, and Breaking the Taboos

    Suzanne Noble is a sex and relationship expert, author, and host of the Sex Advice for Seniors podcast, one of the top-rated shows empowering people 50+ to embrace confident, joyful intimacy. Known for her candid, warm, and often humorous approach, Suzanne challenges age-related taboos, misinformation, and awkward conversations about sex after 50. Because life is too short for bad sex... or silence about it. Instagram: @sexadviceforseniors TikTok: @sexadviceforseniors Facebook: Sex Advice for Seniors Website: sexadviceforseniors.com This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free.Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso---## SDC | The Lifestyle CommunityCurious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. You get three days free, check it out at the link in my show notes.Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593---## ProdxHealthTake control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes.Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123---## Mums Candy | Sweet DeliveriesAnd a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes.Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m---## Follow Marcela (end of episode)For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes.Links:- OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv- OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc- Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity- Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Sex After 50: Suzanne Noble on Pleasure, Confidence, and Breaking the Taboos

  7. Oct 9

    Bonus Episode :Seeing Red: Delilah Saul Takes On a Century of Media Bias

    Delilah Saul is a writer, sex worker, filmmaker, podcaster, and the founder of Outlaw Media, a multimedia platform amplifying sex worker perspectives on gender, relationships, and society. Her film Beloved (2025) is a documentary about the love lives of sex workers. She's now co-directing Seeing Red with Em Vaughn a feature documentary confronting a century of media bias against sex workers and they're crowdfunding to finish production. Support the film here: https://seedandspark.com/fund/seeing-red-anti-sex-worker-bias-in-the-media ## My Book (show open) My new book is out — How to Bag a Latina Baddie: The Official Guide. For all the men who got intimidated because I was their first Latina, I wrote you the manual on how to do it properly. Get it on Amazon now — link in the show notes. Link: https://amzn.to/4ATfRWX --- ## BranditScan (show open or mid-roll) This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  8. Oct 5

    When You Play for Both Teams: Derek Kage

    **Derek Kage** — muscle-bound, tattooed Southern gentleman with piercing grey eyes. Born and raised in Huntsville, Alabama; did undergrad and grad school, then spent about a decade in Washington DC working a steady government job with full benefits — and walked away because he wasn't happy. He's now one of the most decorated performers in the industry in under four years: **3x XMAs Gay Performer of the Year**, GayVN Best Newcomer and Best Leading Actor (2024, for the Raging Stallion thriller *Overdrive*), Grabbys Performer of the Year, Pornhub's Favorite Daddy, and the Free Speech Coalition's Advocacy Award — 80+ nominations total. Hundreds of scenes and 20+ features across gay, trans, and straight studios: Brazzers, Adult Time, Men.com, Falcon, Kink.com, Dorcel, TransAngels, and more. ASN Magazine and GQ Africa both profiled him this year. The hook for your episode: he identifies as gay, but he's crossed into straight scenes — a transition that's basically unheard of and exactly why you flagged his viral potential. He's also open about the business side: consent on set, testing, advocacy work. His IG is [@wholesome_derek](https://www.instagram.com/wholesome_derek), TikTok @derek.kage, site derekkage.com. His publicist is Erika Icon at The Rub PR. ## BranditScan (show open or mid-roll) This episode is brought to you by BranditScan. If you create content online, you already know the nightmare — fake accounts using your photos, stolen videos, impersonators scamming your fans. BranditScan protects your name, your likeness, and your digital presence. Sign up through my link in the show notes and your first month is free. Link: https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso --- ## SDC | The Lifestyle Community Curious about the lifestyle? Whether you want to explore non-monogamy, meet open-minded people, or just learn more, SDC is one of the largest lifestyle communities online. Check it out at the link in my show notes. Link: https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 --- ## ProdxHealth Take control of your sexual wellness without the awkward clinic visit. ProdxHealth sends private at-home testing kits straight to your door — convenient, easy, and you stay informed about your own health. Shop the kits at the link in the show notes. Link: https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 --- ## Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries And a sweet one — Mums Candy delivers fun candy and treats directly to your door. Because grown-ups deserve candy too. Link in the show notes. Link: https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m --- ## Follow Marcela (end of episode) For the full unedited version of this episode, head to subs.com/Marcelasobella. For my personal writing — the stuff that doesn't make the podcast — subscribe to Untamed in the City on Substack. And everything else, my OnlyFans and all my links, is in the show notes. Links: - OnlyFans VIP: https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv - OnlyFans Free: https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc - Substack: https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity - Full unedited episodes: https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Honest conversations about sex, desire, and relationships — with the educators, therapists, and adult-industry insiders who know these subjects firsthand. Marcela Alonso asks the questions people are often afraid to ask. New episodes weekly, plus Extra Credit Thursdays from the archive. MarcelaAlonso.com | Newsletter: untamedinthecity.substack.com

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