Real Unfiltered Dad Journeys

Steve-sharing journeys of dads.

Dads and fathers are real and I love to talk with dads about how they get through life because, I enjoy hearing the stories and life journeys they encounter along the way. It’s real and unfiltered all the way.

  1. FEB 15

    Bo-When the Dream Changes, But the Love Doesn’t.

    What happens to a man when fatherhood doesn’t look anything like he imagined? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Bo, a 33-year-old dad from Kansas City who has spent the last seven years living on high alert. His son Elgin suffered a severe brain injury at birth and requires 24-hour care. Every day, Bo watches oxygen levels. Every night, he sleeps beside a monitor that could change everything in a second, keeping in mind this is after tragically losing his daughter 1 year before Elgin was born. But this isn’t just a story about special needs parenting, it’s more than that. It’s a story about identity. About losing a child and still choosing to love again. About radical acceptance when life doesn’t bend. About loneliness, exhaustion, fear — and the quiet, relentless decision to stay in the ring and fight Bo speaks with brutal honesty about what it costs to keep showing up… and why he refuses to walk away from the ring. There are times when I feel we forget the mic is on and Bo says ‘I need him more than he needs me’. It felt like something went off for me, he was right and I think so many parents would think the same, but not say out loud… such a brave dad on all levels. This episode is for any dad who has ever felt overwhelmed, unseen, or stretched to his limits. It’s about resilience, perspective, and the kind of strength that doesn’t shout — it just stays. Check out Bo’s social media and get into how he does life… it’s real unfiltered dad journeys. https://youtube.com/@theimaginarydad?si=aULOBUacr8jJ02ON https://www.tiktok.com/@theimaginarydadproject?_r=1&_t=ZS-93vvn5dMlYu https://linktr.ee/theimaginarydadproject?utm_source=linktree_profile_share https://tr.ee/EyFKkNDy0v

    1h 58m
  2. 08/22/2025

    Bryan’s Story: A Father’s Love Through Loss

    In this heartfelt conversation, Bryan opens up about his journey as a father of four—Virginia, Dexter, and twins Celia and Ben. From the earliest days of medical challenges, including cancer diagnoses, surgeries, and a liver transplant, to the sudden heartbreak of losing his wife and partner of 25 years, Bryan shares his story with honesty and vulnerability. We talk about what it really means to be present for your kids, how grief reshapes the way you see life, and why expressing love—out loud and often—matters so much. Bryan also reflects on the weight of tough conversations about mortality, the importance of mental health support, and the need to give ourselves permission to heal at our own pace. This episode is a powerful reminder that behind every family is a story of resilience, love, and struggle. Bryan’s words will leave you thinking about how we show up for the people we care about—and why empathy and connection matter more than ever. This conversation with Bryan was had earlier this year and he has been battling like anything to keep going. Recently he has shared that he is really struggling, not only with finances but also his own demons - alcohol. The following is a direct copy of his post on his social media “I feel like a piece of crap for doing this and I wouldn't be doing it unless I was out of options. Over the past 8 months we've gone through a lot of change, unwanted growth, trying to fit in, in our new world attempting to see a future without Leslie Paige. During this time normal day to day operations have for the most part halted. Finding myself in a mountain of debt, medical bills, depression, anxiety, kids who need stronger support than their weak father and me buried under empty bottles of Gin. 95% of this is my fault. Leslie was always the money and insurance manager. I know I'm losing the prior because of my lack of knowledge of the latter. Im taking the first step towards my recovery from alcohol, but it is costly. I also found out that we may be charged the full amount for Ben's tablet($18,000) I know everyone is tired of hearing my sob stories (and i can't say that | blame you ), "woe is me" ( paraphrasing a relative ) but my family and I can use the help. Even if it's just good company and a meal together. I appreciate everything you all have already done and I feel like a schmuck asking for more. Share if you want. Thanks again. Truly undeserved of you all's support and love . Love, Bryan” https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-the-hughan-familys-journey-to-healing

    1h 30m
5
out of 5
3 Ratings

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Dads and fathers are real and I love to talk with dads about how they get through life because, I enjoy hearing the stories and life journeys they encounter along the way. It’s real and unfiltered all the way.