Wendy Valentine is an internationally published author of Women Waking Up: The Midlife Manifesto for Passion, Purpose, and Play, an inspiring book that became a #1 Amazon New Release, Founder of Midlifology™, and Keynote Speaker. She's also the host of the top 1% globally ranked podcast, The Midlife Makeover Show, inspiring women worldwide to embrace midlife as a powerful new beginning. After navigating divorce, menopause, job loss, debt, and an empty nest—all at once—Wendy stopped living on autopilot and started designing a life that finally felt like her own. Her journey from breakdown to breakthrough fuels everything she does. Today, Wendy empowers women to kick fear to the curb, reconnect with their purpose, and create bold, joy-fueled lives. She's been featured on Good Day New York, CBS News Los Angeles, NBC News Philadelphia, and numerous top-rated podcasts and media outlets, where she shares her empowering message that midlife isn't a crisis—it's a catalyst. Splitting her time between Portugal and traveling the USA in her RV, Wendy is living proof that life gets better—not smaller—with age. 🌐 Website: wendyvalentine.com 📱 Instagram & Facebook: @hellowendyvalentine Episode Summary: In this episode, host Lyndsay Dowd sits down with Wendy Valentine, founder of Midlifeology, #1 Amazon new release author, keynote speaker, and host of a top 1% globally ranked podcast. Wendy shares her raw, honest journey from a childhood shaped by abandonment to a midlife pile-up at age 46 that left her staring at a stranger in the mirror — broke, sick, divorced, and alone. Instead of disappearing, she made a bold decision: she would bet on herself. Key Takeaways: - Rock bottom can be a launchpad - You can't connect the dots looking forward - The greatest abandonment is self-abandonment - Midlifeology is about self-study, not crisis - Give yourself permission to pivot - The number one regret of the dying is living for everyone else Episode Chapters: 00:00 Teaser — Three things you'll learn from this episode 00:35 Welcome & guest introduction: Who is Wendy Valentine? 01:54 Connecting the dots: Wendy's story begins 02:26 Little Wendy — childhood, intuition, and abandonment 04:12 Fast-forward to 46: the midlife pile-up 05:57 The mirror moment — not recognizing herself 06:19 The breakdown, the vision, and the RV dream 08:02 The crossroads: stay comfortable or chase the dream 09:18 The comeback — real estate, $45M in sales, debt-free 10:07 Healing little Wendy: therapy, yoga, journaling 11:34 Getting the RV and quitting the job 14:46 What is Midlifeology? 17:04 Midlife losses as pivots, not endings 18:25 Life is short — no woulda, shoulda, couldas 19:45 From the RV to Portugal: how Madeira became home 21:06 Living with less — from 5,000 sq ft to 100 23:05 Sponsor break — Cozy Earth 23:39 Back to Portugal: 9–10 months a year on the island 24:06 RV life, Felicia, and US national parks 25:07 What is Women Waking Up? 25:29 What inspires Wendy 26:16 Wendy's legacy: making people smile 26:39 What's next: video podcast, keynote speaking & Netflix dreams 27:08 Where to find Wendy 27:34 Closing thoughts