Putting It Together Again When It's All Fallen Apart: Saddleback Small Group Series

Putting It Together Again When It's All Fallen Apart: Saddleback Small Group Series

Life crises can throw you into a tailspin, a lost job, a failed relationship, a struggling business, a financial mess. Where do you start? How do you pull it together? How do you begin again? Tom Holladay experienced a catastrophe first-hand when a sudden flood in California destroyed his home, his church, and the homes of many church members. Tom and his congregation had to rebuild, and they used the principles in the book of Nehemiah to get back on their feet. Now a teaching pastor at Saddleback Church, Tom will help you discover seven principles for putting it together again that will give you the direction you need to get rolling on that fresh start. Holladay will walk you through seeing every problem as an opportunity, facing the obstacles head on and taking your first step, knowing how to expect and reject opposition, build on your success, and dedicating yourself to the One who rebuilds our souls. The task of starting again can seem impossible. And sometimes you just need to rebuild your confidence and regain a sense of purpose. If you're trying to find the emotional energy, but you just don't have it in you, let Tom Holladay encourage you. He understands how difficult and rewarding the business of rebuilding is. Download the study guide with each episode. And of course, check out the book "Putting It Together Again When It's All Fallen Apart" by Tom Holladay on Amazon or your favorite bookstore.

Episodes

  1. EPISODE 1

    Session 1: Find The Strength To Start

    When you've just suffered loss, crisis, or disaster, how can you get your life put back together? How can you become a rebuilder when you're still reeling from the loss? Tom Holladay shares from the Bible beginning in the book of Nehemiah how to be encouraged to become a rebuilder. CATCHING UP/LOOKING AHEAD  If you’re meeting for the first time as a group, go around the room and share your name, where you were born, and something about your life. What picture comes to your mind when you hear the word rebuild? KEY VERSE  The God of heaven will give us success. We his servants will start rebuilding.  Nehemiah 2:20  DISCOVERY QUESTIONS  Remember, it’s not vital to get to every question every week. The goal is to find just one question that prompts some good discussion and encouragement.  What is it that you would like to put together again? How do you find yourself reacting to your problems right now—with faith, doubt, fear, anxiety, hope, or some other response? Is there a place in your life where you are currently mourning a loss? How has prayer helped you see an opportunity for faith? What do you do when you don’t feel full of faith as you pray? LIVING ON PURPOSE  God’s five purposes for each of us are evangelism, discipleship, fellow- ship, ministry, and worship. In this section, we’ll look at how we can take practical steps to fulfill one of those purposes based on the truths we’ve looked at in this study. WORSHIP  Plan to do a one-day fast in the week ahead or to have a more extended time in prayer if you’re not able to fast. Start by focusing on who God is and then open your heart to what he wants to impress on you about who you are.  A tip on this one: If all you’re hearing are negatives about you, listen more closely. God is love, and he has words of encouragement as well as correction for his children.  PRAYING TOGETHER  Ask for God’s strength and blessing in those “this is what I want to put together again” areas that each group member shared.

    10 min
  2. EPISODE 2

    Session 2: Take The First Step

    For most of us, the hardest step is the first step. That's not only true for you, but for many in the Bible, including Nehemiah and Isaiah. We're going to be looking at people from the Bible, just like you, who overcame the challenges of rebuilding. CATCHING UP/LOOKING AHEAD  1. Talk about what you experienced in your fasting or prayer times during this last week.  2. When you think about how a baby takes his or her first steps, what does it say to you about first steps in our lives as adults?  KEY VERSE  The king said to me, “What is it you want?”  Then I prayed to the God of heaven, and I answered the king, “If it pleases the king and if your servant has found favor in his sight, let him send me to the city in Judah where my ancestors are buried so that I can rebuild it.”  Nehemiah 2:4–5  DISCOVERY QUESTIONS  Is there some point where you already have taken—or still need to take—a stand for what God wants to rebuild? What can you do to prepare for what you’re dreaming God will do? How have you seen God work to calm your fears as you’ve faced a risk of faith? Is it easy or difficult for you to ask for help? LIVING ON PURPOSE  God’s five purposes for each of us are evangelism, discipleship, fellow- ship, ministry, and worship. In this section, we’ll look at how we can take practical steps to fulfill one of those purposes based on the truths we’ve looked at in this study. FELLOWSHIP  Who can stand with you as you rebuild? Who do you need to ask for help?  Start with this group and ask them to specifically pray for you. To see how God works during these seven weeks of meeting, start a group prayer request sheet.  PRAYING TOGETHER  Pray for the requests you shared a moment ago, as well as for other needs your group members might have.

    8 min
  3. EPISODE 4

    Session 4: Expect And Reject Opposition

    Wouldn't it be great if rebuilding was done with only help from friends? But that rarely happens! You're going to face opposition and challenges. How did Nehemiah handle opposition and how can we learn from it? CATCHING UP/LOOKING AHEAD  Talk about your experiences of writing a thank-you note to someone each day (or even one day) this last week. When you face opposition, is your first reaction to want to engage or to want to escape? KEY VERSE  Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm.  Ephesians 6:13 NLT  DISCOVERY QUESTIONS  What helps you redirect your thoughts in the face of negative talk or gossip? Is there a new strategy you need to consider in order to reposition your forces as you face some kind of attack on your faith, family, or business? Is there an area of discouragement you’re facing where the group could pray for you? When you face distraction, what helps you regain your focus? LIVING ON PURPOSE  God’s five purposes for each of us are evangelism, discipleship, fellow- ship, ministry, and worship. In this section, we’ll look at how we can take practical steps to fulfill one of those purposes based on the truths we’ve looked at in this study.  DISCIPLESHIP  Scripture memory has proven to be one of the keys to victory in the lives of many believers. Memorize the key verse for this week, or one of these verses that address the four strategies for winning the battle.  When you are ridiculed  Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.  Romans 8:1 When you are attacked  We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; per- plexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.  2 Corinthians 4:8–9  When you are discouraged  Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.  1 Peter 5:6–7  When you are distracted  I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.  Philippians 3:14  PRAYING TOGETHER  Share and pray for one another’s needs as you close your group meeting.

    7 min
  4. EPISODE 6

    Session 6: Celebrate To Sustain Your Joy

    How are you being restored in order to rebuild? God is working in your life to restore you in order to give you the strength to rebuild. Find out how God is doing so and in what ways. CATCHING UP/LOOKING AHEAD  Did you have the opportunity to encourage someone this week? Did God give you some ideas for a ministry to others that can grow out of what he is restoring in your life? Would you rather celebrate quietly or celebrate loudly? KEY VERSE  “The joy of the LORD is your strength.”  Nehemiah 8:10  DISCOVERY QUESTIONS  Is there someone you need to put things right with so you can deepen your celebration in worship? Describe a time when the truth of God’s Word shone out to you as you worshiped with others. How have you found celebration in feasting, in sharing with others, or in stillness? How do you relate to the following sentences from this chapter? “You find yourself grinding away at spiritual habits, trying to become more powerful, when the real intent is that you become more joyful. Feeling powerful is not your strength; the joy of the Lord is your strength.”  LIVING ON PURPOSE  God’s five purposes for each of us are evangelism, discipleship, fellow- ship, ministry, and worship. In this section, we’ll look at how we can take practical steps to fulfill one of those purposes based on the truths we’ve looked at in this study.  EVANGELISM  A burst of joy often comes when we share with someone else the good news of what God is doing in our lives. Go around the group and have each person share the name of someone they’re praying for to begin a relationship with Christ.  In the week ahead, pray for these people whose names have been shared—that they will come to faith in the Lord Jesus.  PRAYING TOGETHER  Pray for this group of people you just mentioned and for one another’s needs.  Talk about whether there is another book you’d like to read together and discuss after you finish this study next week.

    10 min
  5. EPISODE 7

    Session 7: Dedicate It To God

    Where do you get the power to be dedicated? In this episode we look at Jesus's own answer to that important question. CATCHING UP/LOOKING AHEAD  What has been most meaningful to you in what we have studied together during these seven weeks?  KEY VERSE  Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.  Romans 12:1  DISCOVERY QUESTIONS  Are there ways you’ve discovered that help thankful joy take the lead in your life? How have you seen purity expressed in what you pursue? How have you personally experienced the truth that the greatest joy in life comes not from what you get but from what you give? What are some specific places you’d like the group to pray for as you seek to keep your dedication refreshed? LIVING ON PURPOSE  God’s five purposes for each of us are evangelism, discipleship, fellow- ship, ministry, and worship. In this section, we’ll look at how we can take practical steps to fulfill one of those purposes based on the truths we’ve looked at in this study.  WORSH I P  Spend some time this next week reviewing and thanking God for the truths that grow out of the book of Nehemiah. Dedicate yourself to living these truths through the power that God gives in Christ.  PRAYING TOGETHER  Pray for one another’s needs. As you finish this study, talk about whether there is another  book you’d like to read together and discuss as a group.

    9 min
  6. BONUS EPISODE: Friend of God series from Simple Faith With Rusty George

    BONUS

    BONUS EPISODE: Friend of God series from Simple Faith With Rusty George

    Check out the Simple Faith podcast with Rusty George, the lead pastor at Crossroads Christian Church. Rusty and the Simple Faith podcast are doing a brand new limited experience in the month of June called, "Friend of God" This is a sneak peek at the first of the 40 episode series, for the full series, look for "Simple Faith With Rusty George" on your favorite podcast app or by clicking here: http://www.pastorrustygeorge.com This first episode: Ever thought about what it means to be "the one Jesus loves"? In today's devotional, we're kicking off our series with a deep dive into this incredible concept. John faced unimaginable trials, yet he defined himself by Jesus' love. Join me as we explore how viewing ourselves as loved by Jesus can reshape our identity and transform our daily lives. About Rusty: Rusty George is the Lead Pastor at Crossroads Christian Church in Grand Prairie. Under his dedicated leadership, Crossroads Christian Church aspires to flourish as a vibrant community committed to guiding individuals in their journey to discover and follow the path of Jesus. Beyond leading Crossroads Church, Rusty is a global speaker, leader and teacher focusing on making real life simple. Rusty has also written several books and can be heard weekly on his podcast, Leading Simple with Rusty George. Aside from being a loyal Chiefs, Royals, and Lakers fan, Rusty is first and foremost committed to his family. Rusty has been married to his wife, Lorrie, for over twenty-five years, and they have two daughters, Lindsey and Sidney. As a family, they enjoy walking the dogs, playing board games together, and watching HGTV while Rusty watches ESPN on his iPad.

    5 min
  7. BONUS New Series: Making Time - Chapter 1

    BONUS

    BONUS New Series: Making Time - Chapter 1

    Introducing a new series: Making Time! DIGITAL GROUP GUIDE How are you at making time? Do you feel like you have enough time in the day? Do you know if you have enough time in the day? Is there a difference between how you feel about time and what you think about your time? This is the first of a 6 part series on Making Time. Everyone has the same number of hours in the day so why do some people seem to get so much more done? Why do some other people seem so rushed and others seem so casual? While this series can be listened to on your end, you’ll get more out of it if you listen to it together with someone else, your spouse, family, small group, book/podcast club or whatever. If you want to make it more fun and interactive with your group, download the GROUP Method discussion guide here: https://lumivoz.com/making-time/ And we are giving away 50 free GROUP Method  Notebooks. Each notebook has premium BLACK paper and comes with a white pen. To get a free notebook, you can do 1 of the following: 1. Leave a review on your podcast app of choice.2. Share the podcast on social media. Take a screenshot of either one and email it to makingtime@lumivoz.com This podcast is just launching and still very small so if you enter, you are probably going to win! But here’s the catch, only 1 notebook and pen per email entry. If you want one for each member of your group, they each have to enter. Sorry, we can only afford to ship to the US and Canada at this time but will hopefully have some more international options soon, especially if y’all share this podcast and it gets popular enough ;) Music in this episode comes fromArtlist.com and Musicbed.com- Good Time by Ben Fox- The Sin by Francesco D’Andrea- Theater Maginus by Marco Martini- String Arpeggios- The Great Wild by Out of Flux- The Sky Within by Romeo- I Owe It To You- Premiere by Adrian Berenguer- Lily’s Bounce Edited using Descript And for more great podcasts check out https://lumivoz.com

    12 min

About

Life crises can throw you into a tailspin, a lost job, a failed relationship, a struggling business, a financial mess. Where do you start? How do you pull it together? How do you begin again? Tom Holladay experienced a catastrophe first-hand when a sudden flood in California destroyed his home, his church, and the homes of many church members. Tom and his congregation had to rebuild, and they used the principles in the book of Nehemiah to get back on their feet. Now a teaching pastor at Saddleback Church, Tom will help you discover seven principles for putting it together again that will give you the direction you need to get rolling on that fresh start. Holladay will walk you through seeing every problem as an opportunity, facing the obstacles head on and taking your first step, knowing how to expect and reject opposition, build on your success, and dedicating yourself to the One who rebuilds our souls. The task of starting again can seem impossible. And sometimes you just need to rebuild your confidence and regain a sense of purpose. If you're trying to find the emotional energy, but you just don't have it in you, let Tom Holladay encourage you. He understands how difficult and rewarding the business of rebuilding is. Download the study guide with each episode. And of course, check out the book "Putting It Together Again When It's All Fallen Apart" by Tom Holladay on Amazon or your favorite bookstore.

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