Anecdotes by Nin

Nin Khalil

On a beautiful self discovery journey, that is hopefully, relatable to you. On a mission trying to be as spontaneous as possible to “let go”. Sharing stories, thoughts, motivation, healing process and with a side of humour! This is a spot where you can have casual conversations about life with your friends. Occasionally will bring in guests! Nothing too fancy. Listen with an open mind & heart. Good vibes only ❤️ Enjoy! Here’s the link for you to record and send me a message : https://anchor.fm/nina-khalil/message . Let’s have a conversation.

  1. 11/17/2024

    Ep 35 : Difficult Conversations. Have Them.

    Difficult conversations. I hate them. Especially if it's one sided and you are not being heard. But we need them in order to find alignment, to better understand each other, to bounce off each other and give ideas to making things better. To know your boundaries with each other. If you've never had any difficult conversations in your relationships, you are not in a relationship. You are in a "situationship" where it's only convenient to them and you've never discussed healthy boundaries. Having difficult conversations will make you and your partner more assertive in problem solving because marriage is a battle and you need someone you can go to war with. Critical thinking, giving inputs and to understand if this person is a right fit to your long term goal which not only includes your dream goal but marriage goal. A team by your side. So this person has got to be your ride or die even at your worst (which not many people survived). It also gives you the perspective of what you can and will tolerate when it comes to ones bad traits or habits. A bad habit that you will be tolerating long term. And if you can compliment that bad trait of theirs. And if their strength is what you need. It sounds weird but once you have these difficult conversations, you will understand what i mean. It all takes certain skills to maneuver it but with the right partner, it can work. So, have those difficult conversations. And never settle for less. Follow my Tiktok :@Nin / Nin Khalil), Youtube : Nina Khalil / @AnecdotesByNin, Instagram : @anecdotes_by_nin.

    25 min
  2. 07/09/2024

    Ep 31 : Officially In My Selfish Era

    On this episode, i will be sharing about entering my selfish era. What does that mean? That means i am prioritising myself without guilt. I am prioritising myself without thinking of others. That means i am putting my boundaries first before others. That means saying no when my emotional capacity is full to take in other people’s problems and emotions. Detaching myself from any attachments, creating new neural pathways, thinking patterns, and regulating my nervous system. Creating a safe space for myself. This phase is lonely but you will finally learn to create a healthy bond with yourself first and meeting your own needs rather than seeking it from other people. It is a scary yet exciting phase and stage in our lives because at this stage, we have left the “People Pleaser” stage and now i am focusing pleasing entirely on Allah SWT and just being a better version of myself. Give your energy to those that give the same energy as you do. Set your energy bar, high. Selfish in this case, is self love. Do not betray yourself for anyone. Remember, anything you lose by speaking your truth, isn’t a loss. It’s an alignment. Don’t forget to give ratings and review on my spotify page (at the top page of my main podcast titles). And don’t forget to follow me on my social media : TikTok (Nina Khalil/@ninkhalil), Instagram : @anecdotes_by_nin and YouTube : Nina Khalil (@AnecdotesByNin). You can leave a msg or comment to me on your thoughts! Click on the link : https://anchor.fm/nina-khalil/message

    23 min
  3. 06/19/2024

    Ep 30 : Rejection ; Not Being Chosen.

    On this episode i will be talking about rejection ; not being chosen. Most of us, when we get rejected by someone, we feel unworthy or unwanted. As if we are not good enough. Most of the time, it has nothing to do with you but more about them. Also, there is a possibility there is an unhealed emotional wound that gets you addicted to certain types of ppl. If you know what you want and who you are, what your emotional wound is, what your boundaries are, chances are you know your direction. If they reject you, sometimes it doesn’t mean you’re not good enough. It just means you’re not in alignment with him. He is not at the same phase as you are in life. Don’t be confused like he is. He is chosing convenience over consistency. He is chosing in the moment rather than long term. Chances are, he is doing it to other girls too, to seek validation. If that’s not what you want or where you are at, do not settle for less, just to be liked. What are you doing, betraying yourself like that? After all the hardwork you put in yourself to become better? Get moving forward to finding your alignment. Stop the “addiction” and focus on your intention & direction. You will thank yourself once you take yourself out from that addiction loop. Don’t forget to give ratings and review on my spotify page (at the top page of my main podcast titles). And don’t forget to follow me on my social media : TikTok (Nina Khalil/@ninkhalil), Instagram : @anecdotes_by_nin and YouTube : Nina Khalil (@AnecdotesByNin). You can leave a msg or comment to me on your thoughts! Click on the link : https://anchor.fm/nina-khalil/message

    21 min

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On a beautiful self discovery journey, that is hopefully, relatable to you. On a mission trying to be as spontaneous as possible to “let go”. Sharing stories, thoughts, motivation, healing process and with a side of humour! This is a spot where you can have casual conversations about life with your friends. Occasionally will bring in guests! Nothing too fancy. Listen with an open mind & heart. Good vibes only ❤️ Enjoy! Here’s the link for you to record and send me a message : https://anchor.fm/nina-khalil/message . Let’s have a conversation.