Choose to Live FREE! with Kate A. Coker-Daisie

Kate A. Coker-Daisie
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Choose to Live FREE! A podcast for the woman or girl who needs a wellbeing rescue. Healing the heart and mind is not that complicated... Join the host, Kate as she shares her journey of heart transformation along with those of friends invited to sit with her and with you. A native of Ghana living and making life in America with her husband and kids, Kate unpacks the deepest parts of her heart and mind and invites you to do the same so you live joyfully FREE! So, how is your Heart dear friend? A joyful heart is within reach, a peaceful mind too. On the Choose to Live FREE podcast, Kate explores stories and tools that can help you be, live, and stay FREE as God has promised. Kate explores the heart and mind connections and how we can wholeheartedly heal the broken parts of us. While it is understood that hurt people hurt people, we want to flip the narrative in our minds that healed people heal people. Join Kate and the Dear Sister Community and lets do the work towards a joyfilled joyful, peacefilled peaceful lives thriving in the love and hope of Jesus Christ. For more information visit www.chiefjoyactivator.com and www.iamfreewoman.org

  1. Sep 21

    S8 EP205: Overcoming Rejection and Being Part of the Remnant [RO 11:1-10]

    In this episode, Kate continues her Romans teaching with a focus on Romans 11 and the theme of being the remnant chosen by grace. She connects Paul’s argument to the lived experience of rejection, abandonment, and the fear of the future, then shows how God’s covenant faithfulness steadies believers in uncertain seasons.She also shares personal reflections on trauma, identity, and moments of feeling dismissed, using them to illustrate how grace softens the heart and keeps believers anchored in Christ rather than in human approval. Key topics In this episode, Kate frames Romans 11 as a response to the question, “Did God reject his people?”She explains the difference between rejection by people and rejection by God, emphasizing that God’s covenant is not a contract.Kate unpacks the Greek idea of foreknowledge, noting that God “foreknew” his people before the foundation of the world.She draws on Paul’s own heritage as an Israelite from the tribe of Benjamin to show that he speaks as part of the story, not as an outsider.The story of Elijah in the cave becomes a major example of feeling alone, exhausted, and like the only one trying to remain faithful.Kate highlights God’s reply to Elijah—that he had reserved 7,000 who had not bowed to Baal—as proof that God always preserves a remnant.She contrasts striving through works, religious effort, and self-righteousness with the remnant life of humility, surrender, and grace.She warns that a hardened heart, spiritual dullness, and self-reliance can become a trap, while grace keeps believers soft and alert.Kate offers three practical responses: expose rejection triggers, repent of spiritual self-will, and stay near the vine.She closes with declarations and journaling prompts meant to help listeners rest in God’s foreknowledge and stop living as spiritual lone wolves. Timestamps (0:02) Opening the episode and introducing Romans 11 (2:15) Personal transparency about uncertainty and identity (3:09) Why rejection is the central theme (4:35) Defining rejection: verbal, nonverbal, and subtle forms (7:09) Why “rejection is just redirection” can feel hollow in the moment (8:25) Correcting the scripture focus to Romans 11 (9:04) God’s outstretched hands to a disobedient people (10:28) Paul’s question: did God reject his people? (10:58) Core theme: the remnant chosen by grace (12:25) Reading Romans 11:1 to 10 (14:46) Paul’s heritage as proof he speaks from within Israel’s story (17:04) Covenant, not contract (18:39) The meaning of foreknowledge and progenosco (19:08) Romans 8 and God’s purpose in foreknowing (21:02) Why no human can truly foreknow your future (23:26) God actively chose and foreknew believers (24:42) Elijah’s cave of isolation and fear (26:09) God’s response: 7,000 reserved for himself (27:10) The warning about refusing God’s assignment (29:29) A personal example of delayed obedience and the book on envy (31:13) Reconciliation with God versus reconciliation with a dying world (32:06) Grace versus works (34:00) The danger of a hardened heart (35:24) Three ways to live as a remnant today (37:02) How to show up in interviews, roles, and relationships as chosen by grace (38:30) Declarations to silence fear of rejection (39:28) Journal prompts on subtle rejection and foreknowledge (41:31) Journal prompt on moving from striving to grace rest (42:29) Final encouragement to stop fearing the future and choose freedom Connect with Kate: Instagram| chiefjoyactivator Website: www.chiefjoyactivator.com  Connect with us: Organization: Instagram| godlywomanandcompany Instagram| choosetolivefreepodcast Website| www.godlywomanandcompany.org

    S8 EP205: Overcoming Rejection and Being Part of the Remnant [RO 11:1-10]

  2. Sep 14

    S8 EP204: Our Overflow Armor and Call to be Sent [RO 10:14-21]

    In this episode, Kate reflects on two connected themes: spiritual overflow and being fitted with the gospel of peace. She invites listeners to examine what is filling their hearts, how that overflow shows up in speech and action, and how to step into God’s call with courage.Kate also ties the message to the “sent one” identity in Romans 10, encouraging believers to move from receiving the word to sharing it with others in everyday life. Key topics Kate shares a birthday reflection on four years of the Choose to Live Free podcast and the obedience journey behind it.She frames the episode around holy overflow from Luke 6:45, using the image of a water bottle under a running faucet to show how the heart fills and spills out.She teaches that believers are not filled just to hold onto truth, but to pour out encouragement, hope, and the gospel to others.Kate unpacks the “sent” blueprint from Romans 10:14-21: call, believe, hear, preach, and be sent.She emphasizes that fear, inadequacy, and excuses should not keep believers from sharing what God has given them.She explains spiritual landmines as tense, spiritually charged environments such as workplaces, family dynamics, waiting seasons, and relational conflict.Kate highlights the need to have feet “fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace” from Ephesians 6:15.She describes three attributes of fitted boots: stability, readiness, and defense/protection.She calls believers to preserve peace, stay spiritually prepared each morning, and respond to the Holy Spirit quickly.The episode closes with declarations, journal prompts, and a charge to heal others as healed people. Timestamps 00:00 - Opening worship and the message of holy overflow 01:31 - What it means to preserve peace in chaos 02:28 - Identifying your current spiritual landmine 04:05 - Journal prompt: answering the call to be sent 05:05 - Four years of obedience behind the podcast 06:44 - From consuming the word to sharing holy overflow 07:43 - Choosing freedom as an everyday godly decision 09:49 - The ascending blueprint from the lost to the sent 10:39 - The chain of evangelism: call, believe, hear, preach, sent 13:05 - Personal testimony of being called and saved 15:38 - Why the world needs your unique gifts 16:48 - Being made available for kingdom use 17:47 - The word of God looks good on you 19:26 - Why fitted boots matter in spiritual warfare 21:15 - Starting the day with the word before you step out 24:15 - Stability, readiness, and protection in the gospel of peace 26:08 - Biblical examples of battle-ready feet 27:20 - The tragedy of unbelief and spiritual deafness 28:52 - God’s vulnerable heart, held out in mercy 31:11 - The promise of Jesus being with the sent ones 32:47 - Allowing the word to flow from heart to heels 35:33 - Three deep reflection journal prompts 37:30 - Inspecting your armor and being a peacemaker 38:38 - Applying the message to a real-life spiritual landmine Action items Audit what has been overflowing from your heart this week.Identify one spiritual landmine in your life and prepare for it with peace.Start your day by getting the word of God in you first.Share what God has placed in you instead of hoarding it.Use the episode’s declarations as a personal prayer and reset.Connect with Kate: Instagram| chiefjoyactivator Website: www.chiefjoyactivator.com  Connect with us: Organization: Instagram| godlywomanandcompany Instagram| choosetolivefreepodcast Website| www.godlywomanandcompany.org

    S8 EP204: Our Overflow Armor and Call to be Sent [RO 10:14-21]

  3. Sep 8 ·  Bonus

    S8 Bonus Episode: View from Level 43 [Kate's Birthday Message]

    Kate's 43rd birthday reflection explores themes of faith, resilience, divine love, and trusting God's sovereignty through life's seasons. She shares personal insights on spiritual freedom, impact of her podcast, and embracing God's timing amidst life's uncertainties.  Key Topics Faith and trust in God's sovereignty Personal journey of spiritual freedom over 10 years Impact of the Choose to Live Free podcast Lessons from life's seasons and God's timing The significance of divine love and transformation Chapters 00:00 Introduction to a reflective birthday message 01:00 Facing peace, pain, and uncertainty at 43 02:24 Celebrating a decade of spiritual freedom 03:49 The journey from chaos to divine order 07:19 The impact of the podcast and its milestones 11:09 The power of impactful messages from listeners 14:39 Sitting in God's sovereign view 17:35 The call to bold faith and action 21:00 Embracing God's timing and divine purpose 24:29 Trusting God's plan amidst fear and uncertainty 30:36 Preparing for the next season with faith 32:24 Closing encouragement to trust and live free Connect with Kate: Instagram| chiefjoyactivator Website: www.chiefjoyactivator.com  Connect with us: Organization: Instagram| godlywomanandcompany Instagram| choosetolivefreepodcast Website| www.godlywomanandcompany.org

    S8 Bonus Episode: View from Level 43 [Kate's Birthday Message]

  4. Sep 7

    S8 EP203: Building a Resilient Faith - RO 10:1-13

    In this episode, Kate explores building a resilient faith foundation, overcoming fears about the future, and living a life rooted in Christ amidst life's storms. She shares practical insights from Romans and parables to help believers strengthen their spiritual lives.  Key Topics The importance of building on the rock of Christ The danger of building on sand of human logic How storms reveal the strength of your foundation The role of heart belief versus head knowledge Declaring Jesus as Lord in every circumstance The significance of unshakable faith in daily life The parables of the wise and foolish builders Practical steps to overcome fear and build faith Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Building an Unshakable Faith 02:12 Starting Phase Five: Dismantling Subtle Spirits 03:28 God's Control Over the World and Your Future 04:23 Romans 10: Confession of Unshakable Faith 07:42 Living in Hope Amidst Chaos 09:07 The Spirit of Fear and the 'What Ifs' 10:06 Overcoming Fear of the Future in Romans 10 11:00 The Power of Confession and Heart Belief 14:21 Zeal Without Knowledge: Religious Effort vs Relationship 16:34 Righteousness by Faith, Not Works 21:37 The Parable of the Three Little Pigs and the Builders 25:49 Building on the Rock, Sand, and Storms 32:55 Declaring Sovereignty and Building on the Rock 44:26 Personal Even-If Declarations and Faith in Action 45:59 Conclusion: Choosing to Live Free and Trust God Connect with Kate: Instagram| chiefjoyactivator Website: www.chiefjoyactivator.com  Connect with us: Organization: Instagram| godlywomanandcompany Instagram| choosetolivefreepodcast Website| www.godlywomanandcompany.org

    S8 EP203: Building a Resilient Faith - RO 10:1-13

  5. Aug 31

    S8 EP202: Living Free in the Spirit RO 8 and 9 Reflections

    In this episode, Kate reflects on her journey through Romans chapters 8 and 9, emphasizing living by the Spirit, divine mercy, and spiritual identity. She shares personal insights, biblical stories, and practical audits to help listeners walk in freedom and faith. Key Topics Living by the Spirit as the source of joy and peace The shift from moral condemnation to divine grace The significance of spiritual adoption and confidence in God's love Navigating suffering with hope and divine intercession Understanding God's sovereignty and trusting His timing Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Reflection on Romans Journey 02:16 Living by the Spirit in Stressful Seasons 04:07 The Power of Spiritual Deposits and Hope 05:34 Summary of Romans Chapters 8 & 9 07:21 Key Movements in Romans 8 & 9: From Flesh to Spirit 08:15 Shifting from Condemnation to Divine Grace 09:31 Navigating Suffering with Hope and Intercession 10:45 More Than Conquerors: God's Sovereign Mercy 12:13 Jesus' Compassion in John 8 and Our Freedom 16:42 Dropping Stones of Condemnation and Embracing Grace 18:00 Condemnation and Adoption Audits 20:34 Trusting God's Sovereignty and Timing 21:32 Final Encouragement and Call to Freedom Connect with Kate: Instagram| chiefjoyactivator Website: www.chiefjoyactivator.com  Connect with us: Organization: Instagram| godlywomanandcompany Instagram| choosetolivefreepodcast Website| www.godlywomanandcompany.org

    S8 EP202: Living Free in the Spirit RO 8 and 9 Reflections

  6. Aug 24

    S8 EP201: Trusting God's Mercy Over Human Effort [RO 9:14-33]

    In this episode, Kate shares her personal journey of faith, the importance of trusting God's sovereignty, and how righteousness comes through faith in God's mercy rather than human effort. She explores Romans 9 and emphasizes surrendering self-will to God's divine plan.  Key Topics Romans 9 and God's sovereignty Difference between human effort and God's mercy The potter and the clay metaphor The role of prayer and surrender in faith The importance of humility and trust in God's plan Chapters 00:00 Introduction and reflection on 200th episode 01:55 Personal journey from trauma to faith 05:06 Romans 9 overview and core theme 07:00 God's mercy versus human effort 09:51 The difference between righteousness by law and by faith 15:06 The potter and the clay metaphor 18:04 Why we pray and trust God's sovereignty 21:53 God's mercy preserves a faithful remnant 24:59 Jesus as the stumbling stone and cornerstone 28:04 Surrendering self-will and trusting God's plan 31:12 Living free in God's grace and mercy 31:47 Closing encouragement and call to faith Connect with Kate: Instagram| chiefjoyactivator Website: www.chiefjoyactivator.com  Connect with us: Organization: Instagram| godlywomanandcompany Instagram| choosetolivefreepodcast Website| www.godlywomanandcompany.org

    S8 EP201: Trusting God's Mercy Over Human Effort [RO 9:14-33]

  7. Aug 17

    S8 EP200: Our Human Stubbornness and God's Sovereignty [RO 9:1-13]

    Summary Join Kate as she reflects on her journey of 200 podcast episodes, sharing insights on faith, patience, God's sovereignty, and living free in Christ despite life's challenges. Key Topics Reflections on 200 podcast episodes The importance of trusting God's sovereignty How to navigate seasons of suffering and joy The role of patience and divine timing in faith Encouragement to live free in Christ despite challenges Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Reflection on 200 Episodes 01:55 The Journey of Faith and Perseverance 04:05 God's Grace in Every Season 05:52 Trusting God's Sovereignty and Providence 07:50 Lessons on Patience and Divine Timing 10:00 Navigating Joy and Sorrow Coexistence 12:00 The Power of Living Free in Christ 13:54 Encouragement for Spiritual Growth 15:46 Celebrating the Milestone: 200 Episodes 18:06 Call to Trust and Obey God 20:00 Practical Journaling for Waiting Seasons 22:14 The Role of God's Sovereignty and Providence 24:07 Children of the Flesh vs. Children of the Promise 25:46 Living Out Our Identity in Christ 28:12 Final Encouragement and Blessings Connect with Kate: Instagram| chiefjoyactivator Website: www.chiefjoyactivator.com  Connect with us: Organization: Instagram| godlywomanandcompany Instagram| choosetolivefreepodcast Website| www.godlywomanandcompany.org

    S8 EP200: Our Human Stubbornness and God's Sovereignty [RO 9:1-13]

  8. Aug 11

    S8 EP199: 5 Shifts to Embrace Freedom in Christ [RO 8 Reflections]

    In this episode, Kate reflects on Romans chapter 8, sharing personal declarations and practical heart audits to help believers live in the freedom and power of the Holy Spirit. Discover how to shift your mindset from striving to surrender and embrace your identity as an heir of God. Key topics Romans chapter 8 overview Declarations of spiritual freedom Heart audits for believers Shifts from legalism to grace Living in the Spirit vs. flesh Identity as heirs of God Groaning in hope and suffering Intercession of the Holy Spirit Chapters 00:00 Introduction and overview of Romans 8 02:25 Personal declarations of spiritual identity 03:16 Celebrating the journey through Romans 8 04:16 Living in the flesh vs. living in the Spirit 05:44 Five key heart shifts from Romans 8 07:10 The law of the Spirit: No condemnation 08:39 Heirs of God: From legal acquittal to family adoption 10:10 Groaning in hope: Confronting pain and suffering 11:26 The intercession of the Spirit in suffering 12:50 Victory through attachment to Christ 13:49 Heart audits: Holiness, identity, friction, prayer, validation 20:43 Applying Romans 8 declarations for transformation 24:30 Walking in freedom and trusting God's plan Connect with Kate: Instagram| chiefjoyactivator Website: www.chiefjoyactivator.com  Connect with us: Organization: Instagram| godlywomanandcompany Instagram| choosetolivefreepodcast Website| www.godlywomanandcompany.org

    S8 EP199: 5 Shifts to Embrace Freedom in Christ [RO 8 Reflections]
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Choose to Live FREE! A podcast for the woman or girl who needs a wellbeing rescue. Healing the heart and mind is not that complicated... Join the host, Kate as she shares her journey of heart transformation along with those of friends invited to sit with her and with you. A native of Ghana living and making life in America with her husband and kids, Kate unpacks the deepest parts of her heart and mind and invites you to do the same so you live joyfully FREE! So, how is your Heart dear friend? A joyful heart is within reach, a peaceful mind too. On the Choose to Live FREE podcast, Kate explores stories and tools that can help you be, live, and stay FREE as God has promised. Kate explores the heart and mind connections and how we can wholeheartedly heal the broken parts of us. While it is understood that hurt people hurt people, we want to flip the narrative in our minds that healed people heal people. Join Kate and the Dear Sister Community and lets do the work towards a joyfilled joyful, peacefilled peaceful lives thriving in the love and hope of Jesus Christ. For more information visit www.chiefjoyactivator.com and www.iamfreewoman.org

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