Things That Matter with Martie McNabb

Martie McNabb

It may be true that the best things in life aren’t things…. Things have a way of holding onto the memories of some of the best things in life. Join me as I invite guests to share the stories of the Things that matter to them. Show & Tales was “born” in the backroom of Branded Saloon in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn a decade ago. 160+ S&T’ later I’ve never tired of listening to the stories of the THINGS that matter. About me: I’m a personal historian/visual artist who creates visual narratives from my client’s photo, document & memorabilia archives. In other words, I tell stories with other people’s stuff.I’m also an interactive story-sharing heartist who helps people create connections by holding space for them to share the stories of the Things that Matter. What photo or object do you hold dear? Building connections one story of stuff at a time.

  1. Sep 17

    Episode 68: The Dreams Our Mothers Leave Behind with Diane Amelia Read

    Sometimes the things that matter aren’t valuable at all—at least not in dollars. In this episode of Things That Matter, Diane Amelia Read shares a simple piece of paper she brought with her when she moved from Massachusetts to Mexico: a poem written by her mother, Evelyn, when she was just 14 years old. Diane discovered the poem while cleaning out her mother’s apartment after she moved into skilled nursing. Written in Auburn, Nebraska, in 1935, the poem imagines seagulls, oceans, pirates, and adventures—a remarkable glimpse into the imagination of a young girl living far from the sea. For Diane, it revealed something she already knew about her mother in a completely different way. Evelyn was endlessly curious and adventurous in spirit, even though she didn’t have many opportunities to travel. Diane, however, has lived many of those adventures herself. That led us to a thought I love: What if her mother’s job was to dream? Maybe our dreams don’t always end with us. Maybe they inspire our children, our students, our friends, or people we may never even realize we’ve touched. The poem also reminds us why telling these stories matters. To someone else, it might simply look like an old piece of paper. But once you know its story, it becomes part of a family’s history. So look around your own personal museum. Is there something that reveals a side of someone you love that others may not know? Tell that story. Because sometimes the things our loved ones leave behind also carry the dreams they left for us. To find out more about this beautiful human doing important healing work in the world, visit:  Eventbrite YouTube LinkedIn Thrive Park Partner In Your Pocket Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked, “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

  2. Sep 3

    Episode 67: The Dragonflies That Taught Me It’s Never Too Late to Soar with Wendi Knox

    What if growing older isn’t about becoming less of who we were, but becoming more of who we are? In this episode of Things That Matter, I sit down with Wendi Knox, whose relationship with dragonflies began during a major turning point in her life. At 50, Wendi lost her job as an advertising creative director and wondered if she was too old to reinvent herself. Then something extraordinary happened: hundreds of red dragonflies appeared in her backyard. When Wendi learned more about the dragonfly’s life cycle, she discovered a metaphor that changed her perspective. Dragonflies spend much of their lives in the muck, repeatedly shedding their old skin before eventually emerging and taking flight. Wendi realized she was doing the same thing. Since then, dragonflies have become part of her personal museum. Friends and strangers have gifted her dragonfly pins, artwork, pottery, clothing, and other meaningful objects. Each one has become another reminder of transformation and possibility. But Wendi’s real legacy isn’t the collection. Through her book, The Way of the Dragonfly, and her work with women in midlife and beyond, she wants the dragonfly to represent a new way of thinking about aging, one where we shed the beliefs that no longer serve us, show our true colors, and continue growing new wings. As Wendi beautifully reminds us, it’s never too late to soar. To find out more about this beautiful human doing important healing work in the world, visit:  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendiknox/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wendiknoxauthor/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendiknoxuplifter Website: https://wendiknox.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@wendiknox/videos Order “The Way of the Dragonfly: Flight instructions to transform the way we age.”  Featured Profile in Ageist Magazine. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked, “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

  3. Aug 20

    Episode 66: The Ashtray That Came Back: When the Things We Keep Carry Our Stories with Xanthe Golenko

    Sometimes the smallest things carry the biggest stories. In this episode of Things That Matter, I sit down with Xanthe to hear the story behind a small black ashtray she acquired in 1986 after moving from Australia to France at just 18 years old to dance at the Lido de Paris. The ashtray stayed with her through that chapter of her life before eventually being packed away for decades. When Xanthe and her husband moved back to France years later, they brought it out for a housewarming party. Then a storm blew it off their balcony, and it disappeared. Just days later, while walking through a local flea market, Xanthe spotted another black Lido ashtray. It was €5. Was it the same ashtray that had blown away? She and her husband still debate that question. But for Xanthe, it didn’t really matter. Whether it was the original or simply a remarkable coincidence, she felt that it was meant to come back to her. And I understand why. That little ashtray represented so much more than an object. It represented being 18, moving across the world, dancing in Paris, taking risks, and becoming someone new. Finding it again 40 years later connected Xanthe to that younger version of herself while also reminding her of how much her life had changed. We also talked about the things we inherit from our parents and how objects can keep us connected to people we’ve lost. Xanthe shared how going through her mother’s belongings after her death helped her feel connected to her, even through the sentimental objects she left behind. That’s why I don’t believe we need to keep everything. We need to curate the things that matter and, most importantly, tell the stories behind them. Our children may not want every object we leave behind. But they may want to know why it mattered to us. And even if they eventually let go of the thing, they can still keep the story. So take a look around your own personal museum. What is one ordinary-looking object that carries an extraordinary story? And have you told someone that story? Because as I always say, it’s not the things that matter. It’s the stories attached to them. To find out more about this beautiful human doing important healing work in the world, visit:  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/xanthe-golenko-b0993752 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/xanthe.golenko Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getting_artsy_after_50/ Website: https://gettingartsyafter50.com/ Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked, “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

  4. Aug 6

    Episode 65: The Power of a Letter: Why Handwritten Notes Become Our Greatest Legacy with Felice Cohen

    Some collections are built with expensive treasures. Others are built one envelope at a time. In this episode of Things That Matter, I had the joy of sitting down with my longtime friend, author and professional organizer Felice Cohen, whose collection of more than 1,000 handwritten letters tells the story of an entire lifetime. What fascinated me most wasn’t simply that she kept every letter; it was what happened when she reread them years later. During the pandemic, Felice began organizing decades of correspondence from friends, family, teachers, former partners, and loved ones. As she arranged them chronologically, she realized something remarkable: these letters had become an autobiography written by everyone else. Instead of seeing herself through her own memories, she was able to see herself through the eyes of the people who knew and loved her. That’s an extraordinary gift. Our conversation naturally wandered into so many of the themes I love exploring: rejection letters, thank-you notes, sympathy cards, caregiving, organizing our possessions, and the stories that give ordinary objects extraordinary meaning. One of my favorite moments came when we realized that sympathy cards and thank-you notes are love letters, too. They remind us that every handwritten message represents someone who paused their busy life to connect with another human being. As always, I asked my legacy question: “What would you want to happen to these letters when you’re gone?” Felice shared that her growing collection is becoming the foundation for her next book, a memoir built around the voices of the people who wrote to her throughout her life. It’s a beautiful reminder that our belongings become infinitely more valuable when we preserve the stories attached to them. I often say that our homes are our personal museums. The objects themselves may not be priceless. But the stories they carry absolutely are. I hope this conversation encourages you to write a letter, save a meaningful one, or simply ask someone about the story behind an object they’ve kept for years. Because those stories are the real legacy we leave behind. To find out more about this beautiful human doing important healing work in the world, visit:  Website: www.felicecohen.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felicecohen90/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/felicecohenauthor Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked, “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

  5. Jul 23

    Episode 64: The Sobriety Chip That Saved My Life | Maria Leonard Olsen on Recovery, Legacy & Second Chances

    The Sobriety Chip That Represents an Entirely New Life. One of my favorite questions to ask every guest is: “What did you bring to show and tell?” Sometimes the answer is a family heirloom. Sometimes it’s a photograph. Sometimes it’s something incredibly unexpected. In this episode, Maria Leonard Olsen shared something small enough to fit in the palm of her hand, but powerful enough to represent an entirely different life. Her AA sobriety chip. Maria has been sober for nearly fourteen years, and she carries her chip with her every day. It’s more than a token. It’s a reminder of where she has been, what she survived, and the life she fought to reclaim after addiction nearly took everything from her. Listening to Maria describe her journey was both heartbreaking and inspiring. She spoke openly about alcoholism, nearly dying from liver failure, losing her marriage, and finding the courage to rebuild her life one day at a time. That’s what I love about these conversations. An object that might look ordinary to someone else becomes extraordinary once we understand its story. As always, I asked my legacy question: “What happens to this object when you’re gone?” Maria shared that her son is also in recovery, and she hopes one day he may choose to keep her sobriety chip. The thought of that small token continuing to remind another generation of hope, resilience, and second chances perfectly captures what Things That Matter is all about. We also talked about her bestselling memoir 50 After 50, her TED Talks, her upcoming book about DNA testing, and how she’s helping people reframe the next chapter of their lives. One of my favorite takeaways from our conversation was that recovery isn’t simply about quitting something. It’s about becoming someone new. When we take time to share the stories behind the objects we treasure, we give our families something far more valuable than the objects themselves. We leave them context. We leave them connection. We leave them a piece of who we are. So today, I invite you to look around your own home. What object tells the story of your greatest transformation? Because it’s never really about the thing. It’s always about the story attached to it. To find out more about this beautiful human doing important healing work in the world, visit:  www.MariaLeonardOlsen.com All Social Media: @FiftyAfter50 Maria Leonard Olsen on LinkedIn and YouTube Subscribe for More Conversations About the Stories That Shape Our Lives. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

  6. Jul 9

    Episode 63: When Love Crosses Cultures: Two Pendants That Changed Everything with Leslie Powell Ahmadi

    The Story Hidden Inside Two Wedding Pendants Sometimes the smallest objects carry the biggest stories. In this episode of Things That Matter, I had the privilege of sitting down with author Leslie Powell Ahmadi to hear the remarkable story behind two wedding pendants gifted to her by her Iranian in-laws nearly four decades ago. What first appeared to be simple pieces of jewelry became lasting symbols of unconditional acceptance, intercultural understanding, and love. Leslie shares her journey as a Black American woman who unexpectedly fell in love with an Iranian graduate student she met while attending Ohio State University. Before moving to Iran, she quietly wrestled with fears fueled by cultural assumptions and uncertainty about whether she would truly be accepted by her husband’s family. Those fears quickly dissolved. The first pendant she received featured the word “God.” Initially unsure of its meaning, Leslie soon noticed an engraved cross, a deeply thoughtful acknowledgment of her Christian faith from her Muslim in-laws. That simple gesture communicated love, respect, and acceptance without saying many words. The second pendant celebrated her marriage itself, depicting a couple united as one. Together, the two gifts became lasting reminders that meaningful relationships are built on understanding rather than assumptions. Our conversation also explores: navigating intercultural and interracial marriage finding common ground through faith challenging stereotypes through personal experience preserving family stories through meaningful objects creating a legacy for future generations Leslie also shares her memoir, The Road Between Hearts, which chronicles her experiences living in Iran and the lessons she learned about humanity, compassion, and connection. One of my favorite reminders from this conversation is that stories have the power to soften hearts in ways that facts alone often cannot. The objects we keep are rarely valuable because of what they’re made of. They’re valuable because of the stories they continue to carry. Leslie Powell Ahmadi’s captivating memoir, The Road Between Hearts: A Black American Woman Discovering Iran, details a journey into an unfamiliar culture.  Grab your copy today on Amazon or Barnes & Noble to experience this story. To find out more about this beautiful human doing important healing work in the world, connect with her here: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lesliepowellahmadi/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leslieahmadi/ Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

  7. Jun 25

    Episode 62: How Memories Out of the Box® Launched My Entrepreneurial Journey

    One of the questions I am most frequently asked is, “How did you begin doing this work?” How did I go from being a New York City public school teacher to helping people preserve family stories and creating show-and-tell experiences around the world? The answer begins with a missing photograph. Many years ago, after leaving my position as a high school biology teacher in New York City, I found myself at a crossroads. I loved teaching and loved my students, but I had promised myself that if I ever felt truly burned out, I would make a change. While figuring out what might come next, I enrolled in an entrepreneurial training program called Workshop in Business Opportunities (WIBO). Although I didn’t yet know what kind of business I wanted to start, I remained curious and open to possibilities. During this time, I traveled to Asheville, North Carolina, to visit a dear friend I hadn’t seen in years. One of the biggest changes in her life since we’d last connected was that she had become an aunt. She was absolutely delighted by this new role and wanted desperately to share that joy with me. There was just one problem. The story she wanted to tell depended on a particular photograph, and she couldn’t find it. For much of my visit, she repeatedly disappeared into another room, returning with envelope after envelope filled with printed photographs. She searched through stack after stack, hoping to locate that one special image. Despite all of her efforts, she never found it. Watching her struggle sparked an important question: How many other people have meaningful photographs, letters, keepsakes, and memorabilia hidden away in boxes, unable to be easily found or shared? That single question became the inspiration for my first business: Memories Out of the Box®. The mission was simple but powerful: help people organize, curate, preserve, and tell the stories hidden within their personal archives. Whether working with photographs, letters, travel souvenirs, family documents, children’s keepsakes, or treasured heirlooms, I wanted to help people transform collections of “stuff” into meaningful visual narratives. At one point, I even opened a storefront in Brooklyn where clients could attend workshops, work alongside me, or have projects completed for them. Over time, I discovered that the work wasn’t really about scrapbooks, photographs, or memorabilia. It was about stories. I often tell people that our homes are personal museums. Every object we keep represents a relationship, a memory, a transformation, a loss, or an important chapter in our lives. The challenge isn’t simply preserving these things; it’s preserving the stories attached to them. Because without the story, even our most treasured possessions can lose their meaning. Today, through Things That Matter, Martifacts, and Show & Tales, I continue to explore the same question that inspired my first business decades ago: What stories are hidden within the things we keep? And perhaps more importantly: Are we taking the time to share them? Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

  8. Jun 11

    Episode 61: The Ring That Carried Generations with Mary Reilly

    Some objects become far more than possessions. They become bridges connecting us to people we’ve loved, places we’ve never seen, and stories that continue shaping our lives long after they’re told. In this episode of Things That Matter, I sat down with my longtime friend Mary Reilly, someone I’ve known since the earliest days of Show & Tales. More than a decade ago, when I was searching for a Manhattan venue to host my storytelling events, Mary generously opened the doors of Picnic Market & Café on New York City’s Upper West Side. That act of kindness began a friendship that continues to this day. For her “show and tell” item, Mary shared a beautiful aquamarine ring that once belonged to her mother. The ring was purchased during a round-the-world trip taken by her grandparents, entrepreneurial business owners who built a remarkable life despite having only limited formal education. Although Mary never met her grandmother, the ring has become a tangible connection to the woman whose determination, ambition, and resilience continue to inspire her. As Mary reflected on the ring’s history, the conversation expanded into stories of family legacy, the American Dream, entrepreneurship, addiction, recovery, cancer, and generational healing. Through this single object, she connected the experiences of multiple generations that have revealed how family stories continue to shape who we become. Mary also shared her current journey toward becoming a digital nomad, a lifestyle that requires thoughtful decisions about what possessions are worth carrying forward. When your life must fit into a few suitcases, every object must earn its place. The aquamarine ring remains because it represents so much more than jewelry. It represents identity, history, resilience, and connection. One of the most powerful moments of our conversation came when Mary spoke about her recovery journey. Now more than thirteen years sober, she reflected on breaking cycles of addiction that have affected multiple generations of her family. Looking at the ring reminds her not only of where she came from but also of how far she has traveled on her own path of healing and growth. Together, we explored one of the central themes of this podcast: it isn’t really the things that matter most. It’s the stories attached to them. Objects become meaningful because they help us remember who we are, where we’ve been, and the people who helped shape our lives. Mary’s story is a beautiful reminder that even the smallest heirloom can hold a lifetime of memories, and sometimes generations of them. As always, I encourage you to look around your own home and ask yourself: What objects tell your story? And more importantly, have you shared those stories with the people you love? Because stories, not things, are the true legacy we leave behind. To find out more about this beautiful human doing important healing work in the world, connect with her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryeuphemiareilly/ and Instagram at https://instagram.com/themaryreilly Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

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It may be true that the best things in life aren’t things…. Things have a way of holding onto the memories of some of the best things in life. Join me as I invite guests to share the stories of the Things that matter to them. Show & Tales was “born” in the backroom of Branded Saloon in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn a decade ago. 160+ S&T’ later I’ve never tired of listening to the stories of the THINGS that matter. About me: I’m a personal historian/visual artist who creates visual narratives from my client’s photo, document & memorabilia archives. In other words, I tell stories with other people’s stuff.I’m also an interactive story-sharing heartist who helps people create connections by holding space for them to share the stories of the Things that Matter. What photo or object do you hold dear? Building connections one story of stuff at a time.