SHE Grows

Cultivate Women

Women face many challenges when it comes to finding their place and value in the middle of toxic thoughts, challenging relationships, and limiting beliefs. We're here to come along side you to help walk in the best God has for you while building up the girl beside you!Keep growing! The SHE Grows podcast is an extension of Cultivate Church and is hosted by Danielle Doss and Jen Matthews. They are both pastors at Cultivate Church in Shelby County, Alabama and both have a huge heart for seeing the women alongside them be able to fully embrace the purpose God has on their life. Saying yes to follow Jesus is simple, but walking it out is not easy. It takes community and this is one of their favorite ways to dig deeper with you.  Connect with SHE www.cultivatechurch.tv/she Instagram - www.instagram.com/shewomen.cc Facebook - www.facebook.com/shewomen.cc Support the MinistryOnline - https://cultivatechurch.tv/online-giving Text - an amount and "SHE" to 84321 About Jen Matthews Jen is the worship and creative pastor at Cultivate Church, and author of Every Yes. She loves to create atmospheres and visuals that engage our senses to fully experience the presence of God and the people around us. Her husband, Brandon Matthews is her best friend and one of the lead pastors of Cultivate Church and founder of the Mind Your Business Podcast, and her son, Asher is their little pastor in training. Connect with Jen www.jenmatthews.tv Instagram - www.instagram.com/jenkmatthews Facebook - www.facebook.com/porcelainandpink About Danielle Doss Danielle is the directional pastor of Cultivate Church. She has a gift for seeing people and recognizing gifts and callings in them and calling them out. She is married to her high school sweetheart who is one of the lead pastors at Cultivate Church and also works for the NAE. She has two kiddos, Bella and Shep, with big hearts and strong wills.  Connect with Danielle Instagram - www.instagram.com/danielledoss Facebook - www.facebook.com/danielle.doss

  1. 3d ago

    When Familiarity Becomes a Trap | Are You Still Letting God Lead?

    Sometimes familiarity feels like faithfulness. We know the routine. We know the songs. We know the Bible stories. We know how we’ve always done things—and before we realize it, we can stop asking a really important question: Is this what God is asking me to do now, or am I just doing what I’ve always done? In this episode of SHE Grows, Jen and Danielle talk about the tension between familiarity, faithfulness, and growth. Because God isn’t calling us to chase something new just for the sake of being new. He’s calling us to stay responsive to Him. We talk about the Israelites wanting to return to Egypt because the Promised Land felt too unfamiliar, the rich young ruler walking away from Jesus when obedience became costly, and Peter letting down his nets even when his experience told him it wouldn’t work. And we go deeper into the danger of spiritual autopilot. You can be familiar with Scripture without being formed by Scripture. You can know the language of faith without actually listening for God’s direction. And when we don’t know the Word for ourselves, we can become vulnerable to believing whatever sounds spiritual. That’s why this conversation ends with a simple challenge: get back in the Word. October 1 marks the beginning of the New Testament in our annual Bible reading plan, so whether you’ve been reading all year or you’ve completely fallen off, this is your invitation to begin again. You don’t have to catch up. You don’t have to wait until January. Just open the Bible and start showing up. Because the goal isn’t to become more familiar with the Bible. The goal is to become more like Jesus. Where has the familiar become your answer before you’ve given God room to lead? Partner with SHE! Help us continue to spread the message the Lord has for women. Link arms with us and let's see this message go farther! Just choose SHE in the drop-down menu using the link below. Thank you for being so generous! We're in this together!  https://cultivatechurch.churchcenter.com/giving  Connect with us! INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK  YouTube CULTIVATE CHURCH SHE : Cultivate Women SHEGrowsPodcast.com hello@shegrowspodcast.com

  2. Sep 24

    You Don't Have to Find Your Purpose | Stop Waiting for the Whole Plan | Jen Matthews

    What if the reason you haven't “found your purpose” isn't because God is keeping it from you? What if you've been asking the wrong question? We often imagine purpose as something God will eventually reveal—a calling, a career, a ministry, a big assignment, or a five-year plan that suddenly makes everything make sense. But what if purpose isn't something you have to find before you can move forward? In this episode of SHE Grows, Jen Matthews takes us through the story of Peter and four lies we can believe about purpose: • Purpose is something I have to find. • God will show me the whole plan before I have to obey. • Purpose is for people more gifted than me. • Purpose is about me. The truth is much simpler—and much more challenging: follow Jesus, take the next step, and trust Him with what you can't see yet. Peter didn't know where his yes would lead. He didn't know he'd preach to thousands, help shape the early church, or leave behind words generations of believers would still read. He just dropped his nets and followed Jesus. And that's often how purpose works. The greatest moments of our lives can be built through the quiet obedience nobody applauds. One yes becomes another yes. One step becomes another step. And eventually, we can look backward and see what God was building all along. You don't have to see the whole path to take the next step. You don't step into purpose. You walk with Jesus, and purpose meets you along the way. If you've been wondering whether you've missed your purpose, whether you're too old, too young, too ordinary, too flawed, or simply too far behind—this conversation is for you. As long as there's breath in your lungs, there is still purpose in your life. Subscribe to SHE Grows for more conversations about following Jesus, growing deep, and living out the life God has called you to. #SHEGrows #Purpose #ChristianWomen #FollowingJesus #Obedience #Faith #ChristianPodcast Partner with SHE! Help us continue to spread the message the Lord has for women. Link arms with us and let's see this message go farther! Just choose SHE in the drop-down menu using the link below. Thank you for being so generous! We're in this together!  https://cultivatechurch.churchcenter.com/giving  Connect with us! INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK  YouTube CULTIVATE CHURCH SHE : Cultivate Women SHEGrowsPodcast.com hello@shegrowspodcast.com

  3. Sep 17

    What Actually Matters in Eternity? | Danielle Doss

    What if we lived our everyday lives with eternity in view? Not just the big, obvious moments, but the ordinary ones. The way we love our families. The way we serve. The way we show up when nobody is watching. The way we steward our time, money, relationships, opportunities, and the things God has placed in our hands. In this message, Danielle challenges us to think beyond what matters right now and consider what carries eternal weight. Scripture tells us that one day we will stand before Jesus, and what we have built with our lives will be revealed. So what are we building that cannot burn? Not because we can earn our salvation. We can't. Salvation is a gift of grace through Jesus. And Jesus isn't simply the prize at the end of the race. Jesus is the prize. But if we're going to live for Him, our lives should reflect what matters to Him. The hidden prayer. The faithful yes. The hard marriage you refuse to abandon. The child you're raising through the mundane. The person you choose to forgive. The opportunity to serve when nobody notices. The simple decision to be fully present with the people God has put in front of you. What feels ordinary to us may carry eternal weight. This conversation is an invitation to lift our eyes, examine what we're building, and ask God to help us see the significance in what He's already entrusted to us. Because one day, we will see the full weight of it. And we want to hear, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” SHE Grows is a conversation about growing deeper in our relationship with Jesus, walking out biblical truth, and becoming who God has called us to be. Subscribe to SHE Grows for more conversations, teachings, and honest discussions about faith, discipleship, leadership, and following Jesus in everyday life. Partner with SHE! Help us continue to spread the message the Lord has for women. Link arms with us and let's see this message go farther! Just choose SHE in the drop-down menu using the link below. Thank you for being so generous! We're in this together!  https://cultivatechurch.churchcenter.com/giving  Connect with us! INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK  YouTube CULTIVATE CHURCH SHE : Cultivate Women SHEGrowsPodcast.com hello@shegrowspodcast.com

  4. Sep 10

    What Are You Really Rooted In? | Coffee Talk

    There’s always more to the conversation. After every SHE gathering, Jen and Danielle grab a cup of coffee and sit down to talk through the message—the things they didn’t have time to say, the questions that kept coming up, the parts that deserve a little more unpacking, and sometimes the things that are easier to say when you’re just sitting around a table with a friend. In this Coffee Talk, we’re going deeper into SHE is Established and what it really means to build a life with Jesus as the cornerstone. Five years of SHE means five years of watching women navigate a world that has changed quickly and dramatically. And if we’re honest, those years have changed us, too. Some of that change has been beautiful. Some of it has been painful. Some of us have grown deeper roots in Jesus, while others have developed ways of coping that were never meant to become permanent. So what does it actually look like to become established in God when everything around you keeps moving? We’re talking about shallow roots, spiritual maturity, unhealthy coping, the things that quietly become our foundation, and why being established isn’t about becoming stagnant—it’s about becoming strong enough to keep growing. Because roots take time. And sometimes you don't realize how deep they've grown until the heat comes. We’re also talking about what comes next. God doesn't establish us just so we can look back and celebrate how far we've come. He establishes us because there is still something ahead of us to build, something in us to grow, and something through us to bear. So grab your coffee and join the conversation. SHE Grows is a ministry of Cultivate Church, hosted by Jen Matthews and Danielle. Partner with SHE! Help us continue to spread the message the Lord has for women. Link arms with us and let's see this message go farther! Just choose SHE in the drop-down menu using the link below. Thank you for being so generous! We're in this together!  https://cultivatechurch.churchcenter.com/giving  Connect with us! INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK  YouTube CULTIVATE CHURCH SHE : Cultivate Women SHEGrowsPodcast.com hello@shegrowspodcast.com

  5. Sep 3

    What Are You Building Your Life On? | SHE is Established

    Five years ago, SHE began on the edge of a world that was about to change dramatically. Five years later, we’re looking back with gratitude for everything God has built, and honestly acknowledging what these years have built in us. Culture has changed. Life has changed. We’ve changed. Some of us have grown stronger in our faith, while others have discovered unhealthy ways of coping, places where our roots have become shallow, or areas where we’ve allowed something other than Jesus to become our foundation. So on SHE’s 5th birthday, we’re asking a bigger question: What is your life actually built on? Colossians 2:7 says, “Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him.” Jesus is not meant to be one part of our lives. He is the cornerstone. The reference point for everything we build. In this message, we’ll talk about what it means to: BUILD on Him. ROOT in Him. BEAR for Him. Because being established in God doesn’t mean nothing changes. It means that when everything around us changes, we have something—and Someone—strong enough to keep us standing. The last five years have revealed what we’re rooted in. The next five years will reveal what we’re established for. And the question is simple: What are you building the next 5 years on? Whether you’ve been following Jesus for decades, you’re realizing your roots have gotten shallow, or you’re ready to surrender your life to Him for the first time, this message is an invitation to see clearly, go deeper, and build your life on Jesus. Scriptures: Colossians 2:7, 1 Corinthians 3:11, Ephesians 2:19–20, 1 Peter 2:4–9, Matthew 13:1–23, Jeremiah 17:7–8, Ephesians 3:16–17, Job 14:7–9. #SHEIsEstablished #SHEGrows #CultivateChurch #Jesus #ChristianWomen #Faith #Christianity Partner with SHE! Help us continue to spread the message the Lord has for women. Link arms with us and let's see this message go farther! Just choose SHE in the drop-down menu using the link below. Thank you for being so generous! We're in this together!  https://cultivatechurch.churchcenter.com/giving  Connect with us! INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK  YouTube CULTIVATE CHURCH SHE : Cultivate Women SHEGrowsPodcast.com hello@shegrowspodcast.com

  6. Aug 27

    You’re Not Bad at Balance. You’ve Been Measuring It Wrong!

    What if the reason you feel like you're failing at work-life balance is because you've been measuring it wrong? We live with an impossible picture of balance - giving equal time and attention to our work, marriage, kids, friendships, faith, health, ministry, and everything else on our plates. But real balance doesn't mean everything gets an equal portion of our time. It means the things God has entrusted to us are in their proper place. In this conversation, we're talking honestly about what it looks like to build a full life without becoming overwhelmed by it. We unpack the tension between productivity and rest, how unrealistic expectations create unnecessary stress, why work isn't the enemy, and what it looks like to stop separating the sacred from the secular. Most importantly, we're talking about what changes when we stop trying to squeeze God into one small part of our lives and instead invite Him into all of it. We'll talk about: • Why balance doesn't mean everything is equal • How to recognize unrealistic expectations • Why meaningful work can actually bring fulfillment • Practical ways to organize your time and reduce mental overload • Caring for your body as an act of stewardship • Why Sabbath and rest are biblical, not selfish • How serving others can pull us out of ourselves • What it looks like to live aware of God's presence throughout the day • And why sometimes the answer isn't another system, but simply coming back to Jesus If you're carrying too much, constantly feeling behind, or wondering how you're supposed to hold all the pieces of your life together, we hope this conversation leaves you feeling less defeated and more equipped. You don't have to do everything. You don't have to make everything equal. You just have to learn what belongs where, and let God lead you. #WorkLifeBalance #ChristianWomen #FaithAndWork Partner with SHE! Help us continue to spread the message the Lord has for women. Link arms with us and let's see this message go farther! Just choose SHE in the drop-down menu using the link below. Thank you for being so generous! We're in this together!  https://cultivatechurch.churchcenter.com/giving  Connect with us! INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK  YouTube CULTIVATE CHURCH SHE : Cultivate Women SHEGrowsPodcast.com hello@shegrowspodcast.com

  7. Aug 20

    What Does it Mean to Be the Bride of Christ?

    What if we've become so comfortable with the culture around us that we've stopped noticing where we've compromised? Jesus is coming back. And Scripture gives us a powerful picture of who He is coming for: His Bride. But what does it actually mean to live as the Bride of Christ? In this episode of SHE Grows, Jen and Danielle are talking about holiness, surrender, cultural compromise, and what it really means to belong completely to Jesus. Because following Jesus isn't simply about going to church, doing Bible studies, or knowing the right answers. It's about covenant. It's about devotion. It's about becoming a people who are set apart because we belong to Him. We're asking some uncomfortable—but incredibly important—questions: • Have we blurred the line between following Jesus and following culture? • What have we normalized that God may be asking us to surrender? • Are we measuring our Christianity by what we're allowed to do instead of asking what belongs in our relationship with Jesus? • What voices are discipling us? • Are we actually living like we're waiting for the Bridegroom? This isn't a conversation about legalism or trying to earn God's love. It's about something so much better: realizing that holiness is the beautiful response of a woman who knows she belongs to Jesus. The Bride is getting ready. And the question is: Are we? If this conversation challenges you, send it to a woman who needs to hear it, and subscribe to SHE Grows for more conversations designed to help us uncover blind spots, grow deeper in our relationship with Jesus, and actually live out what we say we believe. #SHEGrows #Holiness #BrideOfChrist #ChristianWomen #FollowingJesus #ChristianPodcast #Surrender Partner with SHE! Help us continue to spread the message the Lord has for women. Link arms with us and let's see this message go farther! Just choose SHE in the drop-down menu using the link below. Thank you for being so generous! We're in this together!  https://cultivatechurch.churchcenter.com/giving  Connect with us! INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK  YouTube CULTIVATE CHURCH SHE : Cultivate Women SHEGrowsPodcast.com hello@shegrowspodcast.com

  8. Aug 13

    What if Culture is Quietly Changing Your Faith?

    What if the biggest threat to your faith isn’t something you would obviously call sin? Compromise rarely looks like rebellion. Sometimes it looks reasonable. Normal. Harmless. And little by little, we can allow culture to shape the way we think, live, make decisions, and even understand what it means to follow Jesus. In this episode of SHE Grows, we’re doing a personal inventory. We’re asking the uncomfortable questions: Are we being discipled by Jesus, or by the culture around us? Where have we allowed the world to blur our convictions? Does our daily life actually reflect what we say we believe? And have we become so comfortable that our faith has become passive instead of active? We’re getting into Scripture, examining our own hearts, uncovering blind spots, and talking about what it looks like to move from a complacent faith to a faith that is fully surrendered, Christ-centered, and kingdom-minded. Because following Jesus isn’t just about what we say we believe. Our faith should produce something in the way we live. Grab your Bible, take some notes, and be willing to let God show you what you might not be seeing clearly. “Examine yourselves to see if your faith is genuine. Test yourselves.”  2 Corinthians 13:5 This one might challenge you—but we believe that’s where growth begins. In this episode: • How culture can quietly influence our faith • Why compromise often feels reasonable rather than rebellious • How to recognize spiritual blind spots • What our conduct reveals about what we actually believe • The difference between passive Christianity and active faith • How to examine whether Jesus is truly shaping our lives • Practical questions for identifying areas of compromise • What it looks like to live a Christ-centered, kingdom-minded life SCRIPTURES: 2 Corinthians 13:5 Proverbs 16:2 Philippians 3:18 Titus 1:16 Genesis 3 If this conversation challenges you, share it with a woman who is serious about growing in her faith. Subscribe to SHE Grows for conversations that help women grow deeper in their relationship with Jesus, lead well, and live with purpose. Partner with SHE! Help us continue to spread the message the Lord has for women. Link arms with us and let's see this message go farther! Just choose SHE in the drop-down menu using the link below. Thank you for being so generous! We're in this together!  https://cultivatechurch.churchcenter.com/giving  Connect with us! INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK  YouTube CULTIVATE CHURCH SHE : Cultivate Women SHEGrowsPodcast.com hello@shegrowspodcast.com

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Women face many challenges when it comes to finding their place and value in the middle of toxic thoughts, challenging relationships, and limiting beliefs. We're here to come along side you to help walk in the best God has for you while building up the girl beside you!Keep growing! The SHE Grows podcast is an extension of Cultivate Church and is hosted by Danielle Doss and Jen Matthews. They are both pastors at Cultivate Church in Shelby County, Alabama and both have a huge heart for seeing the women alongside them be able to fully embrace the purpose God has on their life. Saying yes to follow Jesus is simple, but walking it out is not easy. It takes community and this is one of their favorite ways to dig deeper with you.  Connect with SHE www.cultivatechurch.tv/she Instagram - www.instagram.com/shewomen.cc Facebook - www.facebook.com/shewomen.cc Support the MinistryOnline - https://cultivatechurch.tv/online-giving Text - an amount and "SHE" to 84321 About Jen Matthews Jen is the worship and creative pastor at Cultivate Church, and author of Every Yes. She loves to create atmospheres and visuals that engage our senses to fully experience the presence of God and the people around us. Her husband, Brandon Matthews is her best friend and one of the lead pastors of Cultivate Church and founder of the Mind Your Business Podcast, and her son, Asher is their little pastor in training. Connect with Jen www.jenmatthews.tv Instagram - www.instagram.com/jenkmatthews Facebook - www.facebook.com/porcelainandpink About Danielle Doss Danielle is the directional pastor of Cultivate Church. She has a gift for seeing people and recognizing gifts and callings in them and calling them out. She is married to her high school sweetheart who is one of the lead pastors at Cultivate Church and also works for the NAE. She has two kiddos, Bella and Shep, with big hearts and strong wills.  Connect with Danielle Instagram - www.instagram.com/danielledoss Facebook - www.facebook.com/danielle.doss

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