You Are A Big Deal with Becca Jay

Becca Jay

This podcast highlights the imperfect greatness of humans who are a big deal. Episodes will include conversations with people who are doing important work in the world, choosing courage over comfort, and embracing their power. Becca has spent much of her life doing some form of movement and getting curious about how people show up. Over the years she has learned that seeing people and listening to their stories is such an empowering form of connecting. Mom, partner, advocate, personal trainer and athlete, Becca Jay, talks all things human with people who are leaning into life and who keep showing up.

  1. 113: An EMPOWERING way of looking at “PERIODS,” “PERIMENOPAUSE,” and “MENOPAUSE” - let’s ALL talk about it

    APR 29

    113: An EMPOWERING way of looking at “PERIODS,” “PERIMENOPAUSE,” and “MENOPAUSE” - let’s ALL talk about it

    This is a listen for EVERYONE, not just those who experience these transitions. The more educated all of us can be, the more supported and empowered we all become.  I have the words period, perimenopause and menopause in quotes for a reason. These transitions were not always labeled this way. Do you ever wonder WHY they were created or WHO created these labels? What if we look at these life transitions differently? Instead of seeing them as something we fear or dread or as a hardship, what if we take the approach of our indigenous elders and ancient wisdom and see them as times of shifting wisdom and times of empowerment and strength?  So instead of calling these transitions and experiences periods, perimenopause, and menopause, we go back to our elders who saw them as CYCLES and rhythms of bleeding or not bleeding, liminal spaces that allow for rest and high and low energy, paying attention to the cycles of the moon, the cycles of our bodies, the rhythms of nature.  indigenous and ancient wisdom keepers who saw these times as shifts into wisdom, new seasons, new rhythms. Shifts in our energy. Shifts in our power. Not something to fear or survive. Instead of shaming and suppressing what if we, collectively, CELEBRATED these transitions and honored the wisdom that comes within each?!  I want to notice how my body, mind and spirit shift when I bleed and how I experience each phase differently. I want to embrace this time of fluctuation in my cycle where everything looks and feels different and instead of dismissing or silencing or being angry at what is happening, I embrace curiosity and wonder WITH my body, mind, spirit about how things are shifting. And ASK myself: what do I need? What would be supportive? What is being communicated with me right now?  I’m not saying these times don’t come with challenges and pain and frustration. People’s experiences range from mild to debilitating and they can just plain suck. I’ve experienced some symptoms in every transition so far that have been rough and yet, my body and mind are always giving me information to look at in order to address whatever is showing up. And this will look different for every body. It’s not always easy but it’s also not something I want to run from or dismiss or hate. We ALL need to be educated and empowered by what half the population experiences.  Reclaim!! Have agency!! Reframe!! Empower yourself and others!! Use your cycle to your advantage. No more hiding. No more disrespecting our bodies. Work WITH your cycle not in resistance to it. Show your pride and ownership No more giving away your power and feeling shame about what you are experiencing. Name your experiences without shame. We bleed, we stop bleeding. And there are myriad experiences in between.  This is my invitation to all of you: make a tiny little shift toward embracing these major life transitions. Honor yourself. Honor your sacred wisdom. Be gentle and gracious with yourself. Support the show You are a big deal. Your story matters. Keep showing up. Support the podcast here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2051242/supporters/new Subscribe: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2051242/support For more info check out almanutrido.com and follow Becca Jay on  IG @beccajay.almanutrido & @youareabigdealpodcast

    22 min
  2. 112: Dr. Erin Stokes - Herbal remedies; WishGarden Herbs; INTERACTING WITH plants; WE LOVE PLANTS!!!

    APR 20

    112: Dr. Erin Stokes - Herbal remedies; WishGarden Herbs; INTERACTING WITH plants; WE LOVE PLANTS!!!

    Dr. Erin Stokes is a naturopathic doctor and medical director at WishGarden Herbs which is woman-owned, family-run and Colorado-based! They work toward transforming lives through the healing power of plants. We chat about: *interacting with plants in a curious, respectful and reciprocal way *the importance of kids and young people engaging with plants on their own *a few plants you can add to your kitchen or backyard garden *tinctures to support your heart health and heart opening *tinctures to support your outlook and well-being *SLEEP IS NECESSARY!!! Aim for sleeping well - there is a tincture to support sleep *Perimenopause and menopause and what we can do to be empowered; advocate for and educate yourself as much as you can because there is no "one size fits all" *talk to other women and people who are going through what you are going through - spread the knowledge and the experiences!! *TEAMWORK - plants are collaborators and work well together in teams...OF COURSE THEY DO!!!!! Shout out the plants. Round of applause. Standing ovation.  For more info, workshops, blogs about each plant, and to purchase tinctures: https://www.wishgardenherbs.com/ Reach out to Erin here: IG @erinstokesnd WishGarden Herbs:  "We believe in the profound power of the medicinal healing properties found in plants and herbs to maintain healthy lives. Our mission is to help empower people to own their health by formulating fast-acting legendary herbal tinctures for everyday life. Our herbal remedies are crafted for those real-life moments when you need a simple swift kick of nature to rebalance and revitalize." Shout out to Catherine Hunziker who emerged as a passionate environmental crusader and fervent advocate for women's rights.  "With an unwavering focus on sustainability, ethical sourcing, and scientific research, we bridge the gap between tradition and innovation. We are honored to carry on our mission of empowering people to own their health by crafting radical herbal remedies for everyday life." Support the show You are a big deal. Your story matters. Keep showing up. Support the podcast here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2051242/supporters/new Subscribe: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2051242/support For more info check out almanutrido.com and follow Becca Jay on  IG @beccajay.almanutrido & @youareabigdealpodcast

    46 min
  3. 109: ACCEPTANCE - Courageous Love

    FEB 17

    109: ACCEPTANCE - Courageous Love

    Solo episode today. I talk about ACCEPTANCE and what is means to courageously love. *FYI: I use the F-word multiple times in this podcast so if you have littles that you don't want hearing this word, save this for another time; you'll understand the use of the word as I speak... *This podcast is for people who are able to take aligned action right now *I invite you to be a little uncomfortable with me; I share some things that will challenge you and that may activate some resistance within you *“Suffering is born and raised in the gap between what is and what I believe it should have been” - Yaron Etzion; He continues, "What you resist persists. Be available to experience whatever life has to offer. It’s easier to let go. It’s harder to suffer.” *I am not saying to be complicit or just let harm happen; I’m saying, why would we want to contribute more harmful energy to an already harmful situation *get curious about how you are showing up and how it affects you which ultimately affects everyone else in the world because whether we like it or not, we are all connected and what we say matters and how we say it matters *Go the courageous route of love, not the easy route of hate *This isn’t bypassing or crap positivity; it’s a pivot to a way of existing that helps raise the vibration instead of contributing to the low frequencies of fear, hate, anger, judgment *love takes courage, hate is easy *David Hawkins - Power vs Force - high-frequency states / low-frequency states *We have to do it in a way that is loving because if we continue in this defensive hate-filled way, we’re cooked and I’m not ready to be cooked. I got stuff to do in this lifetime and I believe all of us do. We just need a lot of us to be doing the courageous work of loving *bell hooks - courageous love  *move toward acceptance, releasing resistance and control, and allowing life to move through us *How would it feel to choose acceptance of what is? *What happens in your body when you become activated by something someone does or says? What does it feel like in your body when you pause before responding or reacting? Is something reflected back to you that you can look at with love? Your habits continue to show up until you make changes.  *I allow life to move through me without resistance. *I am safe to release old patterns that no longer serve me. *I accept this moment as it is. *Let’s see what happens when we live the belief that love is more powerful than fear and hate. Go team. Follow along with my weekly oracle card pulls on IG @beccajay.almanutrido and more info about my offerings at almanutrido.com May your soul be nourished. Support the show You are a big deal. Your story matters. Keep showing up. Support the podcast here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2051242/supporters/new Subscribe: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2051242/support For more info check out almanutrido.com and follow Becca Jay on  IG @beccajay.almanutrido & @youareabigdealpodcast

    30 min
  4. 107: Anna Tsui - INTENTION IS EVERYTHING; the collective energy is catching up; Care Bears; being FEARLESS; Shadow work WORKS

    JAN 21

    107: Anna Tsui - INTENTION IS EVERYTHING; the collective energy is catching up; Care Bears; being FEARLESS; Shadow work WORKS

    Anna Tsui is INCREDIBLE!!! We started talking and it felt like we jumped into a conversation we'd been having for years. I LOVE THAT!!! Anna is a quantum optimist, an energy worker and healer, a best-selling author of the book Shadow Magic: A Business Owner's Journey (look for the next edition coming out soon); a Business Leadership Coach, and founder of The Intuitive Business School. She is a guide, a gift, a bridge!!! We talk about: *Fire area - take care of the organs to avoid burnout; period 9 is fire and it is very quick, hot and intense; blood, organs, heart, eyeballs; GO SWIMMING! *the synchronicity of me finding her on IG because of a post of hers that talked about continuing to believe in her mission and how all of her efforts paid off *the collective energy is catching up *her experience with Reiki; gateway into the energy world *intention connected with EVERYTHING!!!!!  *coaching - no doubts, pure energy, creating, helping, serving; CARE BEARS (light from the heart) *removing the guard from the heart *turning 40 and the real version of herself (spirit, heart, human); healing fears and insecurities; being present; fearless *Shadow work WORKS!! Get her book: Shadow Magic Shadow Magic — Anna Tsui *Look at the patterns; have conversations with your shadow; get to know your shadow *simple but not easy *quantum optimist - we cannot comprehend it all; the soul wants the experience; we are all connected; Divine web of creation *being open and flexible *having a 3 year old - every single day clearing his energy *the necessity of looking with compassion at our shadows and how that supports our healing, growth and soul evolution *"my soul is where my authentic self resides"- knowing your true self *making knowledge accessible to people *PODCAST MUST LISTEN: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/higher-self-spills-the-tea/id1540644983 - Higher Self Spills the Tea *love activating the world *5D relationships - living in full trust of the universe and completely connected to oneness - EVERYBODY! *Enso symbol - no beginning or end, impermanence, cyclical nature of everything, present moment *Impermanence - devotion in the creation and in the creativity; an offering *conversations with the Buddha *I can have it all, without any shame  *9 activations to wake up your business - don't keep yourself small Connect with Anna as soon as you can: Anna Tsui IG @ms.annatsui TikTok @ms.annatsui Substack: Life in 5D ✨ | Substack Support the show You are a big deal. Your story matters. Keep showing up. Support the podcast here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2051242/supporters/new Subscribe: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2051242/support For more info check out almanutrido.com and follow Becca Jay on  IG @beccajay.almanutrido & @youareabigdealpodcast

    49 min
5
out of 5
25 Ratings

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This podcast highlights the imperfect greatness of humans who are a big deal. Episodes will include conversations with people who are doing important work in the world, choosing courage over comfort, and embracing their power. Becca has spent much of her life doing some form of movement and getting curious about how people show up. Over the years she has learned that seeing people and listening to their stories is such an empowering form of connecting. Mom, partner, advocate, personal trainer and athlete, Becca Jay, talks all things human with people who are leaning into life and who keep showing up.