" I Am Her , You Are Me"

DiJanae Gholston

“I Am Her You Are Me Together as One We Could Be” now stop! I want you to go back and read that first sentence very slowly. It's very interesting. The reason why I came up with that name is because, I truly feel like we as the women have been through a lot. It's like if you sit and talk to a woman about life. You will really start to understand her as a person. After talking to her for some time and she's opening to you. You might even say to yourself “Wow I’ve been through the exact same thing.” However, we don’t because we are too afraid to open and push each other to do better. Instead, it's like we tear each other down, or we do not want them to know that we have been there before. Well, I am here to say over here we don't compete. We are going to eat with each other. I want to win so, I want you to win. I started this podcast for women like me. My girl like this is very personal and needed. That is why I’m thankful that you are taking your time out to read it and listen. I just want to tell you I love you for taking time out of the day.  Girl, you obviously you get it. See the ones that get it, they get it. My sister I just want you to know. That you are not alone. We are all hit with unexpected challenges; I know for sure I have been. We have been left in hurtful situations, we had friends/family/coworkers that betrayed us, surrounded ourselves with people with no good intentions. Like the list goes on and on I get it. Now trust me I know that feeling. Especially when you get to the point of when you have had enough. When we feel like enough is enough this, that is when it all comes to an end. I am here to tell you, we are strong over here, we are going to get through it together, I am going make sure you have a great outcome.   All you need to do is stay strong, be pretty, be yourself, most importantly. You have to put yourself first. We are all in need of some positive words of encouragement. Just some motivational words to get is going throughout the day. You know especially living in the world we are in today. It just seems like we can never catch a break. (Don’t get discouraged) it is all a part of the plan. Just think of it, as if God is just trying to get your attention. Now us as woman have a tendency of being very vulnerable. Which is why we are left hurt at the end of many of our so called “relationships.” It just leaves us in many hurtful situations like I said, I’ve been there before I have experienced a lot under 30. So, I just wanted to use what I have been through and help others. Everybody needs somebody I know that I can help, leading  you to help someone.  I am not afraid of expressing myself or opening to any situations. I said I’m going to share my hurts and my pain.See pain is something that you gain and when you gain. You must turn it all into fame. Now, that is my message to you, my friend. Now welcome to “I Am Her; You Are Me Together as One We Could Be.” Over here it's an authentic vibe, it's not scripted it's really from within. What you hear is really me, being the person that I was called to be. With all being said, I need you to need me that way we can heal each other together.  I'm telling you my friend, together we can be one and build each other up. Please subscribe and leave your honest review hope to hear from you.

  1. APR 13

    Saying Yes to God: Trusting the Process with Michael Vincent Lollis

    Send us Fan Mail This episode is especially meaningful to me. Not only is this my first time having a male guest on the show, but it’s also someone who plays a very special role in my life in this current season. It’s truly an honor to have him here, and I’m deeply grateful for his presence, his heart, and his willingness to share openly. In this conversation, we dive into what it truly means to say yes to God not just in words, but through action, obedience, and surrender. We talk about the reality of walking with God in seasons of preparation, trusting Him when the timing doesn’t make sense, and allowing Him to shape and refine us into who we’re called to be. What you’ll hear is real and unfiltered. It’s a reflection of two individuals choosing to trust God fully, even when it requires patience, growth, and letting go. This episode isn’t about perfection it’s about process. It’s about learning how to keep God at the center, how to move with intention, and how to remain grounded in faith while navigating life, purpose, and relationships. Our lives in this season are a testament to what it looks like to be fully surrendered and to say yes to Him daily. And my prayer is that through this conversation, you’re encouraged to trust God deeper, listen more closely, and boldly say yes to whatever He is calling you to do. Because on the other side of obedience… is purpose, alignment, and everything God has already prepared for you. 🙏🏽✨ Support the show https://www.instagram.com/himynameisdijanae_anyouare?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

    1h 1m
  2. MAR 25

    Becoming Her: Arkeya Ford’s Story of Strength, Faith, and Growth

    Send us Fan Mail Arkeya Ford is a living testament to resilience, growth, and the transforming power of faith. Her journey began with becoming a teenage mother at just 16 years old a life-altering moment that came with challenges, responsibilities, and hard lessons far beyond her years. Like many, she found herself searching for love and acceptance in the wrong places, navigating heartbreak, setbacks, and seasons of uncertainty while trying to find her identity and purpose. Through every trial and tribulation, Arkeya refused to give up. Instead, she allowed her experiences to shape her, strengthen her, and ultimately draw her closer to God. What once felt like obstacles became stepping stones, building a foundation of unwavering faith and inner confidence. Now at 33, she is pursuing her cosmetology instructor license, walking boldly into a new chapter of purpose, passion, and calling. Arkeya’s story is not just about survival it’s about transformation. It’s about what happens when you choose growth over defeat, faith over fear, and purpose over past pain. With a heart dedicated to mentoring and uplifting women, she is deeply passionate about helping others break cycles, avoid the mistakes she once made, and recognize their true worth. In this powerful episode, Arkeya opens up about her journey with honesty and vulnerability, sharing the lessons, wisdom, and spiritual insight she’s gained along the way. Her story is one of healing, redemption, and empowerment reminding us all that no matter where you start, God can rewrite your story and lead you into something greater. Support the show https://www.instagram.com/himynameisdijanae_anyouare?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

    35 min
  3. MAR 13

    Empowering Women Through Faith: A Conversation with Rashanda Williams of Sisters United Under God

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when women come together under God with a mission to uplift, strengthen, and encourage one another? In this powerful episode, I talk with Rashanda Williams, the founder of Sisters United Under God, a ministry devoted to inspiring women not to give up on God or on themselves. As I continue stepping into my 30-day podcast marathon, this conversation is filled with faith, purpose, and a reminder that God is still moving in the lives of women everywhere. Rashanda shares the heart behind her ministry and the calling God placed on her life to create a community where women can come together, be encouraged, and grow stronger in their faith. Through her work with Sisters United Under God, she is passionate about reminding women that no matter what they have faced, what mistakes they have made, or what challenges they are currently walking through, God still has a purpose for their lives. Her motto is simple but powerful: “If we want to make America great again, help as many women as possible.” Through uplifting and empowering women spiritually, emotionally, and mentally, she believes we can create stronger families, stronger communities, and a stronger nation. In this episode, we talk about faith, perseverance, unity among women, and what it truly means to stand on God’s promises even during difficult seasons. This conversation is for the woman who feels discouraged, the woman who has questioned her worth, and the woman who needs a reminder that God has not forgotten about her. As this 30-day marathon continues, conversations like this remind us that when women unite under God, healing happens, strength is restored, and purpose begins to rise again. If you’ve ever felt like giving up, this episode will encourage you to keep believing, keep trusting, and keep moving forward in faith. Because when women come together under God, lives are changed, faith is strengthened, and purpose is awakened. Support the show https://www.instagram.com/himynameisdijanae_anyouare?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

    44 min
  4. 08/05/2025

    She Was, Now I Am ft. Dre Said That: Life With & Without Christ Day One/Week One

    Send us Fan Mail This is just the beginning the first of 21 weekly episodes diving deep into my 21-Day Deliverance Journal, a raw and real journey born from my darkest moments. This isn’t just a book it’s a lifeline, a roadmap to breaking free, stepping into your God-given purpose, and living fully empowered.✝️🙏🏾 I’m honored to be joined by my co-host, “Dre Said That” who will walk this path with me, helping to unpack each day’s lesson and revelation. Together, we lay it all bare  the pain, the chaos, the emptiness of living without Christ and the radical, life changing hope that comes when you surrender everything to Him.✝️💕👏🏾 In this episode, I’m in the hot seat  answering tough questions, sharing my vulnerable story, and opening my heart like never before. This is real. This is raw. And it’s for anyone who’s ever felt lost, broken, or stuck.💕✝️❤️ Grab your copy of the journal on Amazon or through the link in the bio  don’t just listen, live it with us. Drop your thoughts in the comments and join a community committed to rising, thriving, and fulfilling God’s calling. Your breakthrough starts here.  🎙️ Watch the journey. 💫 Be encouraged. 👇🏾📚 Ready to get your copy? Here’s how:👇🏾 1️⃣ Head over to Amazon.com 2️⃣ Type Di’Janae Gholston in the search bar 3️⃣ Find my book: She Was, Now I Am: 21-Day Deliverance Experience & Journal 4️⃣ Click to order and start your journey today! Support the show https://www.instagram.com/himynameisdijanae_anyouare?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

    20 min
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“I Am Her You Are Me Together as One We Could Be” now stop! I want you to go back and read that first sentence very slowly. It's very interesting. The reason why I came up with that name is because, I truly feel like we as the women have been through a lot. It's like if you sit and talk to a woman about life. You will really start to understand her as a person. After talking to her for some time and she's opening to you. You might even say to yourself “Wow I’ve been through the exact same thing.” However, we don’t because we are too afraid to open and push each other to do better. Instead, it's like we tear each other down, or we do not want them to know that we have been there before. Well, I am here to say over here we don't compete. We are going to eat with each other. I want to win so, I want you to win. I started this podcast for women like me. My girl like this is very personal and needed. That is why I’m thankful that you are taking your time out to read it and listen. I just want to tell you I love you for taking time out of the day.  Girl, you obviously you get it. See the ones that get it, they get it. My sister I just want you to know. That you are not alone. We are all hit with unexpected challenges; I know for sure I have been. We have been left in hurtful situations, we had friends/family/coworkers that betrayed us, surrounded ourselves with people with no good intentions. Like the list goes on and on I get it. Now trust me I know that feeling. Especially when you get to the point of when you have had enough. When we feel like enough is enough this, that is when it all comes to an end. I am here to tell you, we are strong over here, we are going to get through it together, I am going make sure you have a great outcome.   All you need to do is stay strong, be pretty, be yourself, most importantly. You have to put yourself first. We are all in need of some positive words of encouragement. Just some motivational words to get is going throughout the day. You know especially living in the world we are in today. It just seems like we can never catch a break. (Don’t get discouraged) it is all a part of the plan. Just think of it, as if God is just trying to get your attention. Now us as woman have a tendency of being very vulnerable. Which is why we are left hurt at the end of many of our so called “relationships.” It just leaves us in many hurtful situations like I said, I’ve been there before I have experienced a lot under 30. So, I just wanted to use what I have been through and help others. Everybody needs somebody I know that I can help, leading  you to help someone.  I am not afraid of expressing myself or opening to any situations. I said I’m going to share my hurts and my pain.See pain is something that you gain and when you gain. You must turn it all into fame. Now, that is my message to you, my friend. Now welcome to “I Am Her; You Are Me Together as One We Could Be.” Over here it's an authentic vibe, it's not scripted it's really from within. What you hear is really me, being the person that I was called to be. With all being said, I need you to need me that way we can heal each other together.  I'm telling you my friend, together we can be one and build each other up. Please subscribe and leave your honest review hope to hear from you.