The Vow

Maria Allyn
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Join us for an "animated" discussion between yours truly and a guest expert. We'll be focusing on life before and after the vows. All done with our honest opinions and perspectives. We'll tackle the many twists and turns that make relationships so much hard work! Whether you're looking for love or trying to keep love alive, this podcast is for you! Buckle up!

Episodes

  1. 04/11/2023

    Swinging and the First 12 Dates

    This podcast episode was centered around two thought-provoking articles, "I’ve been to 12 First Dates This Year, Here’s What I Learnt" and "What I Wish I Knew Before I Became a Swinger." The first article offered insights into the lessons learned from a year of first dates, highlighting the importance of communication, self-awareness, and the art of letting go. The second article explored the world of swinging, examining the myths and misconceptions surrounding this lifestyle choice. Coach Maria Allyn and guest Coach Gayle Lynn discussed the idea of boundaries and how they play a crucial role in both dating and swinging experiences. They highlighted the value of being open and honest about one's preferences and needs in a relationship. This episode is for you if you're seeking a novel viewpoint on contemporary relationships. This episode promises to give an intelligent and thought-provoking discussion on a variety of topics, including the value of communication , self-awareness and navigating the limits that define what we're comfortable with and what we desire in a relationship. So sit back, unwind, and get ready to discover a fresh and fascinating viewpoint on the complexity of relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of what it takes to develop healthy and meaningful relationships, whether they are single, in a relationship, or just curious. Maria Allyn is a relationship coach and family mediator, dedicated to helping committed couples proactively lay a solid foundation in their relationship, all based on their unique needs and desires. Are you looking for an exclusive and inclusive community to help you and your partner grow in love? Join us in our community! Download FREE worksheets: https://maria-allyn.com/worksheets  Website: https://maria-allyn.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamcoachmariaallyn/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmariaallyn/ Gayle Lynn is a relationship coach specializing in non-traditional relationships, which include Open Relationships, Polyamory, Consensual Non-Monogamy and the Lifestyle (Swingers). She helps to navigate family and cultural beliefs, communication pitfalls, processing emotions and more. She can guide you through your evolving relationship without judgment or an agenda. Freebie on Open Relationships: freebie.relationshipsevolving.com Website: https://relationshipsevolving.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipsEvolving Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships_evolving/ Credits : I’ve been to 12 First Dates This Year, Here’s What I Learnt. https://www.vogue.co.uk/arts-and-lifestyle/article/first-date-lessons What I Wish I Knew Before I Became a Swinger https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32620605/swinging-with-partner-swinger-facts/

  2. 03/14/2023

    Navigating Relationships: Knowing Your Boundaries

    Welcome to today's episode of The Vow, where we routinely discuss a variety of interesting relationship-related topics. Joining us is an amazing Couples & Relationship Coach, professional speaker and published author, Jackie Lewis III. In this episode, Maria and Jackie discuss their views and take aways on the “4 Signs You Need to Rethink Your Boundaries”, ayayay! Knowing your boundaries is an important skill for all aspects of life. It’s crucial for developing a strong foundation for relationships.  These boundaries help us identify what we can and cannot tolerate and what we need to feel safe and valued. Many times, establishing and upholding boundaries can be difficult for us. This can result in arguments, hurt feelings, and even emotional abuse. We'll discuss the value of; knowing your limits, how to set them,  how to handle situations when your boundaries are being pushed. Most importantly, when it’s time to stop and say, “hang on, this is not healthy anymore”. This episode is intended to assist you in understanding the function of boundaries. Specifically, how to establish and uphold them.  This will help whether you're in a romantic relationship, a friendship, or a familial setting. Grab your headphones and join us. Maria Allyn is a relationship coach and family mediator, dedicated to helping committed couples proactively lay a solid foundation in their relationship, all based on their unique needs and desires. Are you looking for an exclusive and inclusive community to help you and your partner grow in love? Join us in our community! Website: https://maria-allyn.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamcoachmariaallyn/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmariaallyn/ Download FREE worksheets: https://maria-allyn.com/worksheets  Jackie Fowler-Lewis III helps couples build and maintain strong marriages by providing real-world applications across many situations. Jackie has been married for 6 years and within those years he and his wife have preserved many situations specifically designed to destroy their union. He uses this knowledge from experience to help other couples who may be going through similar situations. To date, he has 4 books to his name, a family he is devoted to (3 kids!) and has sold over 500 of his “After the Ceremony, Now What?” Books. Website: https://www.thejackielewis.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheJackieLewis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thejackielewis/ Article Mentioned: 4 Signs you need to rethink your boundaries

  3. 02/14/2023

    Sadness, Words, Cakes and Fasting

    This episode features Coaches Maria Allyn and Heike Yates, two experts on relationships and fitness & nutrition, respectively. Listen up as they give their views on a truly interesting headline. “Employee quits when bakery owner accuses her of putting her sadness into cakes” - huh? Being accountable for your words is critical for developing and maintaining healthy relationships. Words have enormous power, and the way you communicate can make or break your relationship. It's critical to consider what you say and how it may be interpreted. This entails accepting responsibility for your words and their impact, both positive and negative. When accountable for your words, you create trust and a safe, supportive environment for your relationship to grow and thrive. This energetic discussion will take you through topics on sadness, words, cakes and intermittent fasting! Curious how? Listen to this episode in full! Maria Allyn is a relationship coach and family mediator, dedicated to helping committed couples proactively lay a solid foundation in their relationship, all based on their unique needs and desires. Are you looking for an exclusive and inclusive community to help you and your partner grow in love? Find out more about ‘Hella Good Lov’n’ and be on our waitlist! https://maria-allyn.com/hgl-waitlist/hellagoodlov-n Website:  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamcoachmariaallyn/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmariaallyn/ A certified Pilates, strength, and nutrition coach, Heike Yates is passionate about helping empty-nester moms over 50 reclaim their health and strength and supercharge their energy for an active life. She has developed a reputation for creating real-life solutions and lasting results. Grab your FREE guide, 3 Simple Ways To Recapture Your Health + Thrive: https://spark.heikeyates.com/optin1656704454211 Website: https://heikeyates.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pursueyourspark/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heikeyates/ Credits Article mention: Employee Quits When Bakery Owner Accuses Her of Putting Her Sadness ‘Into Cakes’: ‘So Burd’ : https://www.intheknow.com/post/reddit-boss-bakery-sadness-cakes/

  4. 11/29/2022

    Cheating BEFORE and AFTER the VOW

    What happens when 3 sisters sit down together and discuss cheating BEFORE and AFTER the vows? You’ll have to listen to find out for yourself. But one thing is for sure, there’s a lot of opinion, sass, and juicy stuff! Cheating is cheating, whether you're married or not. If you're in a relationship , you're betraying their trust and breaking your promises. Cheating can cause a lot of pain and damage and it's one of the most difficult things to overcome. Honesty is always the best policy, even before the vows. If you're cheating, or thinking about it, sit down with your partner and talk about what's going on. Why do you feel the need to? Is there something missing from your relationship? Can the two of you work together to fix whatever is causing the problem? Cheating is never the answer, but communication and understanding can go a long way in repairing a damaged relationship. In this episode, Coach Maria and her sisters, Julia and Beverly discuss the signs you’re dating a cheater. Listen to their discussions about Sylvester and Jennifer calling off their divorce. Maria Allyn is a relationship coach and family mediator, dedicated to helping committed couples proactively lay a solid foundation in their relationship, all based on their unique needs and desires. Follow Coach Maria on her socials and visit her website for free resources! Instagram : Maria Allyn Facebook Page : Maria Allyn Free Resources : Resources - Doing It Together

  5. 11/10/2022

    Something We Don't Have Enough of - that Men Need

    On this episode of ‘The Vow’, Maria Allyn and Tim Wade discuss an article about a woman who sues for $10,000. This was all due to being stood up. Join them in that interesting discussion and also find out how some men are suffering in silence when it comes to relationships. Our guest host Tim Wade gives his expert take. Maria Allyn is a relationship coach and family mediator, dedicated in helping committed couples to proactively lay a solid foundation in their relationship all based on their unique needs and desires. Follow Maria on her socials and visit her website for free resources! Instagram : Maria Allyn Facebook Page : Maria Allyn Free Resources : Resources - Doing It Together After being blindsided by an unexpected mid-life divorce, Tim Wade turned his deepest wound into a powerful message of transformation that he has shared with thousands of men worldwide. Tim created LionHearted Men Coaching to help men thrive in their relationships and lives. He shares with them all of the counter-intuitive secrets that allowed him to become a strong, confident, and compassionate father and partner. Tim’s humorous, no B.S. style speaks to men (and women too!) in a straightforward way that they can easily relate to and enables them to create real-world results. LionHearted Men Relationships : Website Instagram : LionHearted Men Facebook : LionHearted Men Credits to Articles: Woman sues man for $10,000 for standing her up on date: ‘He lied!

  6. 10/18/2022

    BEFORE vs AFTER The Vow: Couples Spilling Truth (Article Review)

    On this pilot episode of ‘The Vow’, Maria Allyn discusses with Vanja Beric articles relating to couples’ issues before and after the vow. Maria discusses ‘Women share the tiny moment they knew their relationship was over’, sharing her own experience on how she knew that the marriage wasn’t working anymore. She shares, “One thing that I teach in my courses is that you really have to, before you even put your name on that paper, establish a foundation for your relationship. What are you going to put in place to make sure that it stays vital and vibrant and that you're growing together? And I think a lot of people just roll into a relationship.” Another article in discussion is about a woman whose father had to hunt her boyfriend down because she had gone into labor and he was nowhere to be found! Now that’s an interesting story to discuss. Vanja shares that this is one of the most important times that we need our partners. If he’s not there for this moment, he’s not going to be there next month or the moment after that, and after that. What would you have done if this were your case? They also talk about the controversial Duggard family scandal. Listen in as they uncover realizations that aren’t easy to accept as a couple, as a partner.  Maria and Vanja discuss how emotions play a larger role in decision making as a couple than many people realize. Getting into counselling or therapy can be so important. They also stress the importance of self-growth and evolution as an individual and as a couple. Finding a partner who supports these can be key to a happy relationship. Join them as they share insights, opinion and advice about relationships, challenges, and truths before and after The Vows. You might just learn a thing or two! Maria Allyn is a relationship coach and family mediator, dedicated in helping committed couples to proactively lay a solid foundation in their relationship all based on their unique needs and desires. Follow Maria on her socials and visit her website for free resources! Instagram : Maria Allyn Facebook Page : Maria Allyn Free Resources : Resources - Doing It Together Vanja Beric helps women find their belief in themselves to live their most radiant selves by breaking free of the shackles that hold them down. Instagram : Vanja Beric Facebook : Vanja Beric Counselling Credits to Articles: Women Share The Tiny Moment They Knew Their Relationship Was Over by Leah Njoki Jill Dillard Opens Up About 'Sad' Month for Duggar Family as Sister Jessa Seewald Shares Sermon About Preventing Adultery

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Join us for an "animated" discussion between yours truly and a guest expert. We'll be focusing on life before and after the vows. All done with our honest opinions and perspectives. We'll tackle the many twists and turns that make relationships so much hard work! Whether you're looking for love or trying to keep love alive, this podcast is for you! Buckle up!

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  • Creator
    Maria Allyn
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2023
  • Episodes
    6
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Maria Allyn
  • Show Website
    The Vow