A Contagious Smile Podcast

Victora Cuore; A Contagious Smile, Who Kicked First, Domestic Violence Survivor, Advocate, Motivational Coach, Special Needs, Abuse Support, Life Skill Classes, Special Needs Social Groups

Stop surviving and start thriving. A Contagious Smile is a globally ranked podcast providing a safe haven for abuse survivors and special needs families navigating the journey of trauma recovery. Whether you are healing from domestic violence, narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma, or the daily challenges of disability advocacy, our mission is to turn your pain into power. Each episode features raw, authentic conversations with survivors, mental health experts, and advocates who share actionable resources for PTSD healing, resilience building, and emotional wellness. We go beyond the struggle to highlight the triumphs of the special needs community, offering support for caregivers and individuals with disabilities who are rewriting their own narratives. Hosted by Victoria Cuore, an award-winning trauma advocate and survivor, this podcast delivers the "blueprints" for recovery—not just Band-Aids. Join our community to find hope, humor, and the unstoppable spirit needed to rekindle your inner light.

  1. 3D AGO

    How Narcissistic Parents Lose Control When You Heal

    Send us Fan Mail Some people don’t hate you because of what you did. They hate you because you healed, and now they can’t control you. Tonight we get honest about narcissistic parents, the scapegoat role, and that gut-punch realisation Victoria shares: “She doesn’t like me because I fixed what she broke.” We talk about how toxic family systems survive on leverage, blame, and silence and what changes when a partner helps you rebuild boundaries and self-trust.  Then we go where most couples won’t go on mic: cheating, betrayal, and the slow work of rebuilding trust after infidelity. Michael owns his past and we dig into the real question listeners ask in private, can a cheater change? We break down what made change possible for us, why transparency matters, and how you protect your relationship when someone tries to plant doubt in your head. It’s raw, funny in places, and still respectful to the pain underneath.  We also talk body image and survival, including scars from surgeries, weight changes during recovery, and a real-world GLP 1 weight loss update. And we balance the heavy with the everyday love that actually keeps a marriage steady: the bath stopper, the fresh towel, the goofy routines, and yes, the frozen waffles in bed. We close with what’s next for the show, including events, new projects, and an upcoming guest we’re genuinely excited about.  If this resonates, listen, share it with someone rebuilding their life, and please subscribe and leave a review. What part of healing has been the hardest for you to protect? Support the show

    1h 14m
  2. You Can Rebuild Safety With Small Daily Steps with Guest Joshua Hess

    6D AGO

    You Can Rebuild Safety With Small Daily Steps with Guest Joshua Hess

    Send us Fan Mail Somebody can be sitting in an urgent care exam room with bruises, fear, and an abuser answering every question and still have no clear way to say, “I’m not safe.” We go there, plainly and practically, with our guest Joshua Hess, a physician assistant and former teacher who now hosts the research-driven podcast. Oh that’s a fact. We talk about what medical teams can notice when a patient can’t speak freely, plus simple ways to ask for privacy without escalating danger. From nonverbal cues to requesting a private consult or a social history update, the goal is one thing: create a moment of safety. We also dig into why leaving can be the most dangerous time, what a real safety plan can look like, and how small steps like digital hygiene, cash stashing, and changing routines can reduce risk. Then we zoom out to health and recovery. We get into power naps, sleep quality, and the very real consequences of untreated sleep apnea including the danger of falling asleep while driving. If CPAP hasn’t worked for you, we cover practical options like different mask styles, refitting, and adding humidity for comfort. We also share microhabits that rebuild agency, from mirror greetings and a written victory log to hydration, saying no, and box breathing to calm your nervous system. If you care about trauma-informed care, domestic violence support, sleep apnea education, and real-world habit change, you’ll find tools you can use today. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review with the takeaway you’re actually going to try. Support the show

    1h 18m
  3. MAR 25

    We Tried To Help His Dad And Uncovered A Nightmare

    Send us Fan Mail He’s supposed to be “Dad” and he’s supposed to be safe. Then one phone call turns into months of ambulance rides, doctor appointments, opioid red flags, and a home that slowly stops feeling like home. We share what happened when we took in Michael’s biological father after a death in the family, believing we were doing the right thing and trying to build a relationship that never had a real chance to grow. Along the way, we also talk about a different kind of vulnerability: what it takes to trust your spouse with the parts of you that still feel tender. We get honest about trauma scars, body dysmorphia after domestic violence, and the lingering medical impacts of strangulation injuries. A mammogram and follow-up breast ultrasound adds another layer, reminding us how fast fear can spike and how powerful real support can be in a moment when you feel alone. Then the story goes darker: an overdose reversed with Narcan, a demand from doctors to take over medication management, escalating manipulation, and pressure to get involved in illegal activity. When suicide enters the conversation, firearms safety becomes immediate and non-negotiable. We talk about what we found, what professionals told us, and the cost of trying to save someone who refuses help, including job loss and financial fallout. If you’re navigating elder care, addiction, caregiver burnout, mental health crisis, or family fraud, this conversation is a blunt reminder to document everything, trust your gut, and set boundaries early. If this hit home, subscribe, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What boundary do you wish you had set sooner? Support the show

    1h 27m
  4. MAR 23

    Teaching Responsibility Without Shame

    Send us Fan Mail Responsibility sounds like a boring word until life makes it personal. We kick things off with a question we’ve all wrestled with: how do you actually teach responsibility, especially to teens, without turning your house into a battleground? From a blunt teen pregnancy “what if” to the very real chaos of a brand-new puppy, we talk about how responsibility isn’t a speech, it’s a pattern: face what needs to be faced, stop procrastinating the hard talk, and follow through even when it’s inconvenient. Then we go deeper into why avoiding truth is so exhausting. We share what it’s like living around narcissistic behavior, abuse dynamics, and the “black sheep” role where the person holding the facts becomes the biggest threat. We get into why survivors cling to their word, why evidence matters when people rewrite history, and why silence gives abusers room to keep winning. We also touch on a cease and desist letter tied to Victoria’s evidence-based writing and what happens when people accidentally identify themselves by trying to shut the truth down. We also bring it back home to parenting and day-to-day life: loving your kid while still holding the line, using calm consequences instead of yelling, and giving children room to decompress after a brutal day. Along the way, we share a few lighter stories about celebrities, respect in relationships, and an upcoming co-hosting moment we’re genuinely excited about. If any of this hits close to home, listen, share it with someone who needs it, and leave us a review. What’s one boundary you’ve set that changed your life? Support the show

    56 min
  5. MAR 19

    How A Couple Protects Joy From Outside Drama

    Send us Fan Mail People love our chemistry and our laughter, but we don’t pretend life is perfect. We keep our home “drama trauma-free” by choice, even when outsiders try to pull us into mess, guilt, or old family patterns. That simple rule sparks a bigger conversation about what it really takes to protect a marriage, rebuild trust, and keep joy from being negotiable.  We go deep on relationship healing and hard honesty. Michael owns his past infidelity and talks about what finally changed when he stopped chasing ego and started choosing character. Victoria breaks down narcissistic abuse in plain language, including the way charm can turn into control, and why boundaries sometimes mean walking away from people you never expected to lose. If you’ve been through betrayal, manipulation, or an abusive relationship, you’ll hear validation plus practical mindset shifts.  We also talk family advocacy, especially the loneliness many special needs parents face when “friends” disappear. From court and restraining orders to safety planning at home, we share why we take protection seriously without letting fear run our lives. And because this is us, you’ll also get the real-life chaos: service dogs, brand-new puppies, and the kind of humor that helps you breathe again.  If you want more support, we mention our online academy with accessible courses and scholarships, plus Victoria’s books on narcissism and recovery. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs a push toward peace, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. Support the show

    50 min
  6. MAR 16

    From A Scare To A Smile With Lessons On Health Love And Healing

    Send us Fan Mail A Sunday lands us in the emergency room, and somehow it starts with a “gunshot wound” joke and ends with one of our most honest conversations yet. We walk you through what happened, what helped, and why a simple decision to get checked out can be the difference between powering through and protecting the people who depend on you. Yes, there’s a neon pediatric bandage. Yes, there’s whining about the IV. And yes, there’s also gratitude for nurses who bring skill and humor when you need both. Once we get home, real life keeps moving: we introduce our newest family members, two white golden retriever puppies, and talk about the messy, sweet reality of building a calm home. Then we pivot into heavier ground and do not sugarcoat it. We talk about cheating, the mechanics of hiding it, the exhaustion of living a double life, and the red flags partners should actually watch for if something feels off. We also connect it to the mission behind A Contagious Smile Unstoppable: domestic violence advocacy, survivor safety, and support that respects privacy. We share updates on free survivor support groups and the trauma-informed work we are growing, plus a candid check-in on GLP-1 weight loss, body dysphoria, and what change really feels like week to week. If you like unscripted conversations that swing from funny to real without losing the point, hit play. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more survivors and families can find this community. Support the show

    50 min
  7. MAR 12

    From Picture Books To Magazine Covers With A Survivor Advocate

    Send us Fan Mail A lot can happen in one night at our house: a hurting back, a clean bedroom victory, a few laughs we didn’t plan on, and the kind of deep parenting truth that only shows up when you stop pretending life is tidy. We start with something simple and powerful, our children’s book series and the “I choose my brave” moments that help kids handle embarrassment, anxiety, and new challenges with real coping skills, not empty pep talks. If you’re looking for social emotional learning tools that are actually easy to use at home, you’ll hear exactly how we build them into a story.  Then we shift into advocacy and gratitude. We talk about being welcomed into meaningful spaces, why support groups matter, and big recognition that’s coming during Domestic Violence Awareness Month, including a magazine cover feature. Even with awards and headlines, we keep coming back to the same point: the work is about survivors, special needs families, and the people who need a safe next step, not about collecting titles.  We also pull back the curtain on what we’re writing next, including a new teen series and a supernatural story that pushes us outside our comfort zone. Along the way, we share new puppy news, a few home-life updates, and the kind of marriage banter that keeps things honest. We close with our strongest parenting takeaway: listen to your kid all the way through, because trust decides everything.  If this conversation hits home, subscribe, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more families and survivors can find us. Support the show

    50 min
  8. MAR 9

    What If Healing Is Control You Take Back

    Send us Fan Mail The jokes land fast, but the truth lands harder. We pull back the curtain on how narcissism doesn’t end with parents—grandparents can cross lines too, using children’s stories or medical needs to win attention, favors, even faster restaurant tables. That’s not quirky family drama; it’s exploitation. We talk through the damage it causes, how to set boundaries that actually hold, and the real-world signs that tell you it’s time to pull the plug on access. From there we get practical. Victoria reads prompts from her new healing workbook on life after narcissistic abuse, sharing why survivors overwork, how identity gets tangled in roles, and what it feels like when safety finally returns to your body. We revisit a harrowing NICU memory to show how institutions often misread trauma—calm abusers are believed, panicked victims are questioned—and how journaling can help you reclaim facts and voice before systems try to tidy your story. It’s raw, it’s specific, and it leads to tools you can use today. We balance the heavy with hope: a new humanitarian award, a call for sponsors who believe in survivor advocacy, and a live read from the Stucco Squad children’s series that teaches little ones to “choose your brave” in simple, everyday moments. There’s golden retriever love, craft bracelets, and shoutouts to upcoming guests whose humor and heart keep us going. We also reflect on public figures who quietly serve—visiting children’s hospitals, standing up in court—and why that kind of integrity matters for anyone rebuilding after abuse. If you’re tired of being told to calm down while the abuser charms the room, you’ll feel seen here. Come for the candor, stay for the tools: boundary scripts, reflective questions, and proof that messy truths still change lives. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs strength today, and leave a review telling us the boundary you’re ready to enforce. Your brave counts. Support the show

    1h 3m

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About

Stop surviving and start thriving. A Contagious Smile is a globally ranked podcast providing a safe haven for abuse survivors and special needs families navigating the journey of trauma recovery. Whether you are healing from domestic violence, narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma, or the daily challenges of disability advocacy, our mission is to turn your pain into power. Each episode features raw, authentic conversations with survivors, mental health experts, and advocates who share actionable resources for PTSD healing, resilience building, and emotional wellness. We go beyond the struggle to highlight the triumphs of the special needs community, offering support for caregivers and individuals with disabilities who are rewriting their own narratives. Hosted by Victoria Cuore, an award-winning trauma advocate and survivor, this podcast delivers the "blueprints" for recovery—not just Band-Aids. Join our community to find hope, humor, and the unstoppable spirit needed to rekindle your inner light.