BoyManKing Podcast

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The Boy Man King Podcast is a safe space that amplifies real conversations between real men. BMK empowers, equips, and educates the community with important tools about the never ending journey that is manhood.

  1. Sep 28

    Parenting Adult Children: How to Let Go of Control & Trust the Foundation You Built

    What happens when your children grow up and you realize you can't control their decisions anymore? GET UPDATES FOR LOCAL EVENTS, CONFERENCES AND MORE: https://www.boymankingpodcast.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boymankingtalk/    Guests:   https://www.instagram.com/theking_coach/   https://www.instagram.com/chizzybda/ In this episode of the Boy Man King Podcast, Coach Crump and Chizzy have a raw and relatable conversation about one of the hardest transitions a parent can experience: learning to let go. As their children grow into teenagers and young adults, parenting changes. The rules, schedules, and authority that worked when children were young don't necessarily work when they're older. Coach Crump shares his experience of entering a new stage of parenting where patience, waiting, prayer, and accepting reality have become more important than trying to control every outcome. The conversation explores a powerful question: How do you continue to guide your children while allowing them to make their own decisions? As children grow older, parents can offer wisdom, insight, support, and boundaries—but ultimately, young adults have their own free will and must learn from their own choices. In this episode, Coach Crump and Chizzy discuss: -The different stages of parenting -Parenting teenagers and young adults -Why parents struggle to let go of control -The importance of patience -Trusting the seeds you've planted -Parenting through prayer and faith -Giving children room to make their own decisions -Why over-controlling children can affect their development -Teaching responsibility and accountability -How parents can respond when children make mistakes -The transition from authority to guidance -Parenting adult children -Entitlement parenting -Guilt parenting -Family expectations and boundaries -The importance of understanding your own triggers -How faith can reduce parenting anxiety -Why parents can't guarantee their children's choices or salvation -Learning to support instead of dictate -The emotional challenges of watching your children become independent CHAPTERS 01:07 The Different Stages of Parenting 02:47 The Anxiety of Losing Control 04:05 Prayer, Patience & Wise Counsel 06:29 The Shift From Authority to Guidance 07:49 Letting Kids Learn From Their Decisions 10:00 The Anxiety of Letting Go 13:51 The Reality of Parenting Struggles 15:30 Trusting God With Your Children 16:08 Why Parenting Styles Must Change 16:41 Parenting 105

  2. Sep 14

    Men Need to Heal: Dr. Myron Edmonds on Trauma, Masculinity, Marriage & Transformation

    What happens when success on the outside hides struggles on the inside? GET UPDATES FOR LOCAL EVENTS, CONFERENCES AND MORE: https://www.boymankingpodcast.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boymankingtalk/    Guests:   https://www.instagram.com/theking_coach/   https://www.instagram.com/chizzybda/ https://www.instagram.com/itsmyronlive/ In this powerful episode of the Boy Man King Podcast, Coach Crump and Chizzy sit down with Dr. Myron Edmonds for a deeply honest conversation about what it really means to become a healed, healthy, and intentional man. Dr. Edmonds opens up about his own journey—from growing up in a ministry-centered family and experiencing the effects of his parents' divorce, to becoming a successful pastor and leader while simultaneously struggling in his marriage, family life, and personal healing. His story challenges a common idea of masculinity: being successful, disciplined, educated, and accomplished doesn't necessarily mean you're healed. At one point, Dr. Edmonds realized that he had become highly successful professionally while neglecting his own soul and relationships. Reaching out to other men for help eventually created a community of accountability that helped save his marriage, ministry, and personal life. In this episode, the conversation goes deep into: -Why successful men can still be deeply unhealed -Childhood trauma and how it can shape adult relationships -The impact of divorce and family dysfunction -Father wounds and generational cycles -Why men need safe spaces to talk about their pain -The difference between knowledge and transformation -Why healing requires vulnerability and asking for help -The importance of male friendships and accountability -Therapy, counseling, and emotional maintenance -How marriage and parenting can expose unresolved issues -Why men need community instead of isolation -How to build systems that support personal growth -Why healing should become a lifelong practice -The role of faith in men's healing journey -Why men should mentor other men -How to become a better husband, father, and leader CHAPTERS 04:35 Family, Divorce & the Father Wound 06:28 When Achievement Hides Unhealed Pain 08:10 How Brotherhood Saved His Marriage 09:22 Recognizing Unhealed Trauma 15:48 Achievement vs. Healing 16:21 When Did the Healing Begin? 29:02 Choosing Healing Over Six-Figure Success 32:49 The Power of Male Community 33:50 Why Men Need Safe Spaces 35:39 Healing Through Brotherhood & Accountability

  3. Aug 31

    From Incarceration to Impact: How Donnie Landon Is Helping Men Heal & Empower Youth

    What happens when a man turns his deepest struggles into a mission to help others? GET UPDATES FOR LOCAL EVENTS, CONFERENCES AND MORE: https://www.boymankingpodcast.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boymankingtalk/    Guests:   https://www.instagram.com/theking_coach/   https://www.instagram.com/chizzybda/ In this powerful episode of the Boy Man King Podcast, Coach Crump and Chizzy sit down with Donnie Landon, a successful entrepreneur, speaker, husband, father, community activist, and advocate for at-risk youth. Donnie opens up about growing up with an incarcerated father, experiencing instability and trauma, struggling with identity, and eventually becoming involved in the streets. His story takes a dramatic turn when a courtroom experience leads him to make a promise to God to change his life. That decision ultimately led him to the military, higher education, and a career in intelligence, including serving as chief of staff for the President's Daily Brief and coordinating intelligence for President Obama. But Donnie's journey didn't stop with personal success. Today, he focuses on fatherhood programs, re-entry work, schools, detention centers, and empowering young people—using his own experiences to help others see what is possible. In this conversation, you'll hear about: -Donnie's childhood and the impact of an incarcerated father -How trauma and instability shaped his identity -His journey from the streets to the military -The courtroom moment that changed his life -Faith, forgiveness, and surrendering control to God -Why men need to become more involved in the lives of young people -The importance of authentic male mentorship -His “Feel It, Flip It, Flex It” framework for healing -Why your past trauma can become part of your credibility -How men can turn their pain into purpose -Why healing can happen through helping others -The importance of surrounding yourself with men who are committed to service 09:18 Growing Up Around Incarceration 10:15 Identity, Pressure & the Streets 13:10 A Promise to God 13:46 An Unexpected Second Chance 14:21 From the Navy to Intelligence 15:34 Finding Purpose Through Faith 19:11 Donnie's "Feel It, Flip It, Flex It" Framework 23:25 Finding Purpose Through Helping Youth 24:36 Character, Responsibility & Service 28:12 Stop Carrying What Belongs to God

  4. Aug 17

    The Secret to Building Strong Relationships as a Man | Character, Respect & Self-Care | Boy Man King

    Success isn't just about talent, degrees, or credentials—it's about how you treat people. GET UPDATES FOR LOCAL EVENTS, CONFERENCES AND MORE: https://www.boymankingpodcast.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boymankingtalk/    Guests:   https://www.instagram.com/theking_coach/   https://www.instagram.com/chizzybda/ In this episode of the Boy Man King Podcast, Coach Crump and Chizzy unpack the principles that have opened doors throughout their lives and careers. From building authentic relationships to leading with respect, adding value, serving others, and protecting your own well-being, this conversation offers practical wisdom for men who want to become better leaders, husbands, fathers, friends, and professionals. Together they discuss: -Why character enters the room before you do -How respect creates opportunity -The importance of bringing positive energy into every relationship -Why serving people creates long-term influence -How gratitude changes your perspective -Why authenticity beats performance -Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care -Building relationships that last a lifetime CHAPTERS: 00:00 Character shows up before you do 02:05 Why relationships create opportunities 03:38 Character is your greatest advantage 06:40 Respect earns trust and influence 09:34 The power of positive energy 11:52 Authenticity over performance 13:56 Gratitude changes everything 17:03 Add value instead of using people 24:30 Learning to genuinely care 30:12 Why self-care isn't selfish

  5. Aug 3

    Why Picking the Right Woman Changes Everything

    In this powerful episode of the Boy Man King Podcast, Coach Crump and Chisy dive deep into marriage, masculinity, communication, faith, emotional growth, and the importance of choosing the right partner. GET UPDATES FOR LOCAL EVENTS, CONFERENCES AND MORE: https://www.boymankingpodcast.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boymankingtalk/    Guests:   https://www.instagram.com/theking_coach/   https://www.instagram.com/chizzybda/ Coach Crump opens up about his 25-year marriage journey, sharing honest reflections about insecurity, leadership, communication struggles, forgiveness, and the role faith plays in sustaining a covenant relationship. Together, they discuss the reality of marriage beyond social media, why men must grow emotionally and spiritually, and how both partners must choose each other daily through life’s challenges. This conversation explores: -Why choosing the right partner matters -Communication gaps in relationships -Marriage, leadership, and masculinity -Faith-centered relationships -Emotional vulnerability in men -Healing, forgiveness, and personal growth -The role of accountability in marriage -Building healthy long-term relationships -Marriage mentorship and wisdom for singles Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this episode offers real-life wisdom, -transparency, and practical insight on building stronger relationships rooted in faith, honesty, and commitment. CHAPTERS: 00:48 Coach Crump & Chissy Open the Conversation 09:46 Communication Problems in Relationships 10:20 Accountability, Growth & Faith 12:31 Learning from Marriage & Mentorship 14:50 Spirituality vs The Reality of Marriage 16:16 Marriage Through Pain, Growth & Healing 17:22 Brutal Honesty in Marriage Counseling 18:50 Trusting God and Your Partner’s Free Will 25:34 From Lovers to Roommates — Keeping Marriage Healthy 26:58 Why Married Couples Should Mentor Others

  6. Jul 20

    Jason Lowe on Faith, Family, Fatherhood & Building a Legacy | Boy Man King Podcast

    In this powerful episode of the Boy Man King Podcast, Coach Crump and Chizzy sit down with Bermudian entrepreneur, investor, husband, father, and community leader Jason Lowe. GET UPDATES FOR LOCAL EVENTS, CONFERENCES AND MORE: https://www.boymankingpodcast.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boymankingtalk/    Guests:   https://www.instagram.com/theking_coach/   https://www.instagram.com/chizzybda/ Jason opens up about growing up as the son of a legendary pastor, moving between Ohio and Bermuda, navigating faith as a young man, and overcoming life's challenges through strong family values and spiritual grounding. The conversation explores grief after losing his father at a young age, the lessons he carries into fatherhood, the importance of marriage, raising daughters, and why family remains the foundation of strong communities. This episode is filled with wisdom on manhood, leadership, faith, parenting, friendship, mentorship, and building a legacy that lasts for generations. If you're looking for inspiration on becoming a better husband, father, leader, or man of faith, this conversation is for you. Topics Covered: -Faith and Christian leadership -Growing up in Bermuda -Lessons from a pastor father -Overcoming grief and loss -Marriage and lifelong partnership -Fatherhood and raising daughters -Family values and community impact -Entrepreneurship and leadership -Mentorship through sports -Building a meaningful legacy CHAPTERS: 10:24 Adapting to Change and Finding Community 11:23 Living Under the Legacy of a Respected Father 17:12 Faith, Freedom and Navigating College Life 21:39 Losing His Father at Age 24 23:56 Grief, Dreams and Healing Through Loss 27:34 Carrying Family Legacy Forward 30:39 Marriage, Friendship and Lasting Relationships 32:32 The Joy and Responsibility of Fatherhood 34:26 A Daughter's Miracle Story 36:34 Final Reflections on Family, Faith and Purpose

  7. Jul 6

    Black Men in Education, AI & Mentorship | Edward DeShazer on Boy Man King Podcast

    In this powerful episode of the Boy Man King Podcast, Coach Crump and Chizzy sit down with Milwaukee educator, entrepreneur, speaker, and mentor Edward DeShazer for a transformational conversation about mentorship, education, AI, emotional intelligence, and the future of Black youth leadership. GET UPDATES FOR LOCAL EVENTS, CONFERENCES AND MORE: https://www.boymankingpodcast.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boymankingtalk/   Guests:   https://www.instagram.com/theking_coach/   https://www.instagram.com/chizzybda/ https://www.instagram.com/edwarddeshazer/ Edward shares his journey from chasing NFL dreams to becoming a leader in education and community impact after life-changing adversity redirected his purpose. Together, the hosts unpack the importance of Black male representation in schools, how AI is reshaping education, why emotional intelligence matters for young men, and how mentorship can transform communities. This episode dives deep into: - Black men in education - AI and the future of learning - Mentorship for young Black boys - Entrepreneurship and leadership - Emotional intelligence for men - Social media, streaming culture & youth development - Parenting, conflict resolution & communication - Building stronger communities through service If you care about education reform, youth mentorship, Black leadership, entrepreneurship, or personal growth, this conversation is a must-watch. CHAPTERS: 04:08 Why Men Must Mentor Young People 10:33 NFL Dreams, Getting Shot & Finding Purpose 12:19 Coaching, Mentorship & Leadership 16:16 Breaking Stereotypes for Black Youth 17:44 AI, Technology & The Future of Schools 20:23 Social Media vs Human Connection 21:52 Protecting Kids from Screen Addiction 28:17 Adults Must Model Emotional Health 30:17 Success Strategies for Youth Development 32:29 Three Things Men Can Do to Help Young People

  8. Jun 22

    The 7 Primal Questions Every Man Must Answer | Benjamin Lundquist on Purpose, Identity & Leadership

    In this powerful episode of the Boy Man King Podcast, hosts Coach Crump and Chisy sit down with leadership coach, speaker, and author Benjamin Lundquist to explore the transformative framework of the 7 Primal Questions. Benjamin shares how these seven core questions—Am I safe? Am I secure? Am I loved? Am I wanted? Am I successful? Am I good enough? Do I have purpose?—shape our identity, relationships, leadership, and emotional well-being. Through personal stories of overcoming insecurity, addiction, and self-doubt, Benjamin reveals how understanding your dominant primal questions can help you break free from the “scramble” and live with clarity, confidence, and purpose. In this episode, you'll learn: -What the 7 Primal Questions are and why they matter -How childhood experiences shape adult behavior -Why many men struggle with purpose and identity -How to identify your dominant primal questions -Practical steps to move from confusion to clarity -The role of faith in overcoming insecurity and fear How to strengthen your marriage, fatherhood, and leadership through intentional affirmation This episode is a must-watch for men seeking personal growth, stronger relationships, and a deeper understanding of their God-given purpose. GET UPDATES FOR LOCAL EVENTS, CONFERENCES AND MORE: https://www.boymankingpodcast.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boymankingtalk/    Guests:   https://www.instagram.com/theking_coach/   https://www.instagram.com/chizzybda/ Connect with Benjamin Lundquist: Instagram: @BenjaminLundquist Podcast & Assessment: RiseAndLead.com CHAPTERS: 01:06 - Meet Benjamin Lundquist 05:23 - Benjamin’s Story: Insecurity, Addiction & Identity 11:01 - The Framework Behind the 7 Primal Questions 17:19 - What Are the 7 Primal Questions? 19:19 - How Fear of Failure Shapes Men’s Lives 22:30 - Understanding the “Scramble” 26:57 - Moving from Awareness to Transformation 33:26 - Why Men Avoid Their Calling 36:23 - Faith, Identity & God’s “Yes” 41:10 - How to Give Your Family the “Yes” They Need

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The Boy Man King Podcast is a safe space that amplifies real conversations between real men. BMK empowers, equips, and educates the community with important tools about the never ending journey that is manhood.

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