Anxiety I’m So Done with You!

Doctor Jodi

You're here with Dr. Jodi, and this is "Anxiety… I'm So Done With You!" This podcast is a teen and young adult guide to ditching toxic stress and hardwiring your brain for happiness. If you're new here, grab a copy of my book "Anxiety… I'm So Done With You!" because this series goes section by section through it, going a little bit deeper, giving more examples, and telling more stories. Stick with us as we give mental health advice to educators, parents, counselors and generation Z themselves.

  1. My Therapist Hot Takes: World Premier of Dr. Jodi's Livestream Talk Show

    EPISODE 1

    My Therapist Hot Takes: World Premier of Dr. Jodi's Livestream Talk Show

    Hi everyone, it’s Dr. Jodi Aman here, and welcome to Anxiety, I’m So Done With You! I’m thrilled to have you join us from wherever you’re tuning in. Tonight, we’re coming to you live from Rochester, New York, and I’m passing the mic to Lily, who will be interviewing me. We’ll explore my journey, the roots of my passion for helping people overcome anxiety, and some of the most transformative insights I’ve learned in my nearly three decades as a social worker. If you’re with us on Facebook or YouTube, drop us a comment, and our producer will share your questions! Episode Summary:In this premiere episode of Season 6, Lily dives deep into Dr. Jodi Aman’s story, unraveling her early experiences with anxiety and what inspired her to dedicate her life to emotional healing. Dr Jodi shares how her understanding of anxiety evolved, from learning about death as a five-year-old to becoming a passionate advocate for mental wellness. The conversation sheds light on why anxiety is not a mental illness but rather a natural response to contextual stressors and how our modern world exacerbates these feelings. Dr Jodi also explains the biological underpinnings of anxiety, the role of adrenaline, and why our brains are hardwired for protection. Key moments include discussing how anxiety manifests differently in people and how it often isolates sufferers, making them feel misunderstood. They also touch on the power of language, the importance of interdependence, and Dr. Aman’s “hot takes” on common therapy myths. Through her vivid storytelling and compassionate advice, listeners are guided to understand their struggles better, know they aren’t alone, and learn that healing is possible. Plus, there’s practical guidance on taking action to lessen anxiety’s grip. Key Takeaways:Anxiety isn’t a life sentence: Healing is possible, and emotional struggles don’t have to define your future.The power of belief: Trusting in your capacity to get better is a game-changer for overcoming anxiety.Action trumps stillness: Taking steps, even small ones, signals to your brain that you are safe, helping to reduce anxiety.Language matters: The words we use shape our experience and can either perpetuate or alleviate suffering.Humans are interdependent: Healthy connections are crucial for emotional well-being, and seeking help is a strength, not a weakness.Resources mentioned in this show: Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/therapist-hot-takes/Lily's Instagram @c.lily_aman and TikTok @c.lilyamanDr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Anxiety, I'm So Done With You! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!    ASK DR. JODI Join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time.  📣ALL NEW episodes are now on Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health and Relationship Advice Podcast.📣 Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the show message group. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week, PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live.  Contact Doctor Jodi: • Website: jodiaman.com • TikTok: @doctorjodi • YouTube: @doctorjodi • Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi:  Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi You’re listening to the Anxiety I'm So Done with You! Podcast with Doctor Jodi.  We hope to ease the minds of “the anxious generation.” To do that, this show will guide emerging adults, their parents, and helpers, galvanizing them to release toxic stress, achieve emotional wellness, and hardwire their brains for a happy and meaningful life.   Ask Dr. Jodi Live Do you, or does someone you love, have anxiety or ADHD? Do you struggle with motivation and worry about your future? Keep listening.  As a psychotherapist, I have worked with young people for 28 years, and I’ve seen and understood the nuances of Generation Z from this rare perspective. Guess what I discovered? Your brain is not broken. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. You don’t have to feel like this; you can feel better! Tune in live every Monday at 8 PM E on @doctorjodi or binge the recordings. We’ll have relieving conversations, exciting guests, and inspirational stories that will show you how to get rid of worry, recover your energetic bandwidth, and grok a socially conscious life of overflowing joy.

    47 min
  2. The Pitfalls of Self-Diagnosis:TikTok Diagnoses

    EPISODE 2

    The Pitfalls of Self-Diagnosis:TikTok Diagnoses

    Hi everyone, it’s Dr. Jodi, and welcome to Anxiety, I’m So Done With You! Thanks for joining me for another episode. Tonight, we're diving into a topic that’s more relevant than ever: self-diagnosis. With so much medical and mental health information available online, diagnosing yourself can feel empowering—but it also comes with significant risks. Let’s explore what truly helps and what can hinder us on our journey to emotional well-being. Episode Summary:In this episode, Dr. Jodi unpacks the complexities of self-diagnosis in our digital world. While access to abundant information can be validating and liberating, there are also hidden dangers that can negatively impact mental health. Dr. Jodi shares her own childhood experiences with anxiety, describing how physical symptoms like nausea were linked to emotional struggles long before she had the language to understand them. The discussion covers why our desire to “name the problem” can either empower us or become a trap that reinforces feelings of helplessness. Dr. Jodi highlights how labels like anxiety, ADHD, and OCD can limit healing when they become part of our identity. She explains why validating the person, not just the symptoms, is crucial for true recovery. You’ll also hear about the harmful impact of perfectionism and how understanding anxiety as a natural response to feeling out of control can help us regain our power. Key Takeaways:Pros and Cons of Self-Diagnosis: Explore the benefits, such as access to information and validation, alongside the risks of negative identity conclusions.Words Carry Weight: Diagnoses are subjective and can shape how we view ourselves and our potential for healing.Validation Matters: Focus on recognizing the hard work you put into coping and growing, rather than feeling defined by your struggles.Understanding Anxiety: Anxiety is a natural response to feeling powerless; contextualizing it can help you take back control.There Is Hope: Emotional struggles are not permanent. With the right tools and mindset, you can heal and thrive.Resources Mentioned & Links:Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/self-diagnosisDr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Anxiety, I'm So Done With You! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!   ASK DR. JODI Join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time.  📣ALL NEW episodes are now on Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health and Relationship Advice Podcast.📣 Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the show message group. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week, PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live.  Contact Doctor Jodi: • Website: jodiaman.com • TikTok: @doctorjodi • YouTube: @doctorjodi • Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi:  Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi You’re listening to the Anxiety I'm So Done with You! Podcast with Doctor Jodi.  We hope to ease the minds of “the anxious generation.” To do that, this show will guide emerging adults, their parents, and helpers, galvanizing them to release toxic stress, achieve emotional wellness, and hardwire their brains for a happy and meaningful life.   Ask Dr. Jodi Live Do you, or does someone you love, have anxiety or ADHD? Do you struggle with motivation and worry about your future? Keep listening.  As a psychotherapist, I have worked with young people for 28 years, and I’ve seen and understood the nuances of Generation Z from this rare perspective. Guess what I discovered? Your brain is not broken. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. You don’t have to feel like this; you can feel better! Tune in live every Monday at 8 PM E on @doctorjodi or binge the recordings. We’ll have relieving conversations, exciting guests, and inspirational stories that will show you how to get rid of worry, recover your energetic bandwidth, and grok a socially conscious life of overflowing joy.

    44 min
  3. What Your Dreams Mean: Interpreting Dreams and Stopping Nightmares

    EPISODE 3

    What Your Dreams Mean: Interpreting Dreams and Stopping Nightmares

    Hey everyone, it’s Dr. Jodi, and welcome to Anxiety, I’m So Done With You! Tonight, I’m joined by my daughter, Lily, as we dive into the world of dreams and nightmares. We’re discussing everything from recurring nightmares to dream theories, and I’m sharing my therapist-tested strategies for resolving nightmares so they don’t disturb your peace. If you’ve ever wondered about the meaning behind your dreams or want to learn how to stop the ones you don’t want, this episode is for you! Episode Summary:In this episode, Dr. Jodi and her daughter, Lily, have a fascinating conversation about dreams, including why we dream and how to interpret them. They explore various dream theories, from emotional detoxing to Carl Jung's ideas about unresolved emotions. Dr. Jodi explains the biological processes that occur during sleep, emphasizing how our brains work to cleanse themselves and manage emotions. The discussion also touches on how to approach nightmares in a therapeutic way, with practical steps to resolve and reframe them. Dr. Jodi shares powerful stories, including a nightmare she resolved using visualization, and how this method has successfully helped her clients eliminate recurring bad dreams. You’ll also hear about common dream themes, like falling teeth or snake encounters, and why they reflect our deeper sense of being out of control. Plus, they answer live questions, explore how lucid dreaming works, and offer tips on interpreting the emotional core of your dreams. Key Takeaways:Dreams Reflect Emotional Detox: Understand that dreams often act as a way for your brain to process unresolved emotions.How to Stop Nightmares: Use visualization techniques to resolve and reframe nightmares until they lose their emotional power.Lucid Dreaming Explained: Learn how to harness your awareness in dreams and use it to control the narrative.Interpreting Dreams: Focus on where the strongest emotions lie in your dream to uncover its deeper meaning.Recurring Themes: Teeth falling out and snakes are among the most common dream symbols and usually relate to feeling out of control.Resources Mentioned & Links:Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/dream-interpretation/Dr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodiLily's Instagram @c.lily_aman and TikTok @c.lilyamanGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Anxiety, I'm So Done With You! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!     ASK DR. JODI Join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time.  📣ALL NEW episodes are now on Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health and Relationship Advice Podcast.📣 Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the show message group. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week, PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live.  Contact Doctor Jodi: • Website: jodiaman.com • TikTok: @doctorjodi • YouTube: @doctorjodi • Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi:  Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi You’re listening to the Anxiety I'm So Done with You! Podcast with Doctor Jodi.  We hope to ease the minds of “the anxious generation.” To do that, this show will guide emerging adults, their parents, and helpers, galvanizing them to release toxic stress, achieve emotional wellness, and hardwire their brains for a happy and meaningful life.   Ask Dr. Jodi Live Do you, or does someone you love, have anxiety or ADHD? Do you struggle with motivation and worry about your future? Keep listening.  As a psychotherapist, I have worked with young people for 28 years, and I’ve seen and understood the nuances of Generation Z from this rare perspective. Guess what I discovered? Your brain is not broken. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. You don’t have to feel like this; you can feel better! Tune in live every Monday at 8 PM E on @doctorjodi or binge the recordings. We’ll have relieving conversations, exciting guests, and inspirational stories that will show you how to get rid of worry, recover your energetic bandwidth, and grok a socially conscious life of overflowing joy.

    47 min
  4. How to Write Songs: An Interview with Singer/Songwriter, Frances Lovett

    EPISODE 4

    How to Write Songs: An Interview with Singer/Songwriter, Frances Lovett

    Welcome to Anxiety, I’m So Done With You! I’m your host, Dr. Jodi, and I’m thrilled to be here with you today. I’m excited to introduce a special guest today: Frances Lovett, a talented singer-songwriter who is just finishing up her junior year in high school. We’ll dive into her inspiring journey of writing and performing music, discuss the impact of vulnerability, and even get to hear a live performance. So stay tuned for an uplifting and empowering conversation! Episode Summary:In this heartwarming and insightful episode, Dr. Jodi sits down with Frances Lovett, a young and accomplished singer-songwriter from Brighton, Rochester, NY. Frances opens up about her passion for music, having learned her first instrument at the age of six and now mastering multiple, including the bassoon and guitar. Together, they explore the power of vulnerability in songwriting and how expressing emotions through music can be a healing experience. Frances shares how she writes songs in unexpected moments, like driving or in class, and explains her meticulous process of crafting lyrics that resonate deeply. They discuss the struggles of perfectionism, balancing academics and creative pursuits, and the challenges of performing deeply personal songs. In a touching moment, Frances performs her original song, highlighting her raw and relatable storytelling. Dr. Jodi and Frances also talk about the therapeutic aspects of music, its ability to save lives, and the shared human experiences that connect us all. Key Takeaways:Embrace Vulnerability: True emotional healing often comes from being authentic and honest in your creative expression.Music as Therapy: Songwriting and performing can serve as powerful outlets for processing and transforming emotions.Trust Your Journey: Everyone’s path is unique, and embracing your passions can lead to unexpected and fulfilling experiences.Supportive Criticism: Surround yourself with people who can give constructive feedback and help you grow in your craft.Relatable Art Moves People: Creating from a place of authenticity can deeply resonate with audiences and build meaningful connections.Resources Mentioned & Links:Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/how-to-write-songsDr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodiFollow Frances Lovett Music on Instagram: @franceslovettmusic  and TikTok: @franceslovettmusicGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Anxiety, I'm So Done With You! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!   ASK DR. JODI Join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time.  📣ALL NEW episodes are now on Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health and Relationship Advice Podcast.📣 Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the show message group. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week, PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live.  Contact Doctor Jodi: • Website: jodiaman.com • TikTok: @doctorjodi • YouTube: @doctorjodi • Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi:  Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi You’re listening to the Anxiety I'm So Done with You! Podcast with Doctor Jodi.  We hope to ease the minds of “the anxious generation.” To do that, this show will guide emerging adults, their parents, and helpers, galvanizing them to release toxic stress, achieve emotional wellness, and hardwire their brains for a happy and meaningful life.   Ask Dr. Jodi Live Do you, or does someone you love, have anxiety or ADHD? Do you struggle with motivation and worry about your future? Keep listening.  As a psychotherapist, I have worked with young people for 28 years, and I’ve seen and understood the nuances of Generation Z from this rare perspective. Guess what I discovered? Your brain is not broken. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. You don’t have to feel like this; you can feel better! Tune in live every Monday at 8 PM E on @doctorjodi or binge the recordings. We’ll have relieving conversations, exciting guests, and inspirational stories that will show you how to get rid of worry, recover your energetic bandwidth, and grok a socially conscious life of overflowing joy.

    48 min
  5. What to Say When You Talk to Yourself

    EPISODE 5

    What to Say When You Talk to Yourself

    Hi everyone, welcome to Anxiety, I’m So Done With You! I’m your host, Dr. Jodi, and I’m so glad you’re here today. We’re talking about something crucial: self-talk and the power of self-compassion. In our Western, individualistic culture, there’s a pandemic of self-criticism that leads to stress, anxiety, depression, poor relationships, and even analysis paralysis. I’ll break down why we judge ourselves so harshly and teach you life-changing techniques to stop self-criticism in its tracks. Let's get started! Episode Summary:In this episode, Dr. Jodi addresses the widespread issue of negative self-talk and how it impacts emotional well-being. She explains how our culture’s unrealistic standards feed into a cycle of self-judgment, causing stress and anxiety that feels impossible to escape. With stories and examples, Dr. Jodi demonstrates how self-criticism creates layers of unnecessary emotional turmoil. Dr. Jodi introduces the concept of the “monkey mind” and explains how self-criticism is biologically rooted in our need for survival and acceptance. She shares inspiring stories about her clients and her own experiences, revealing practical methods to reframe negative self-talk and replace it with self-compassion. The episode also features a sneak peek at her new Redirect card deck, designed to help you transform negative thoughts into empowering ones. Throughout the episode, Dr. Jodi emphasizes that healing is possible and that our brains are not broken. Instead, they’re responding normally to a chaotic world. By the end, you’ll learn how to embrace self-compassion and start releasing the toxic stress that keeps you stuck. Key Takeaways:Understand the Monkey Mind: Your brain has evolved to protect you, but its habit of finding problems can work against you.Self-Compassion as a Solution: Replacing self-criticism with understanding and compassion can decrease anxiety and improve overall well-being.Reframe Negative Thoughts: Using Dr. Jodi’s practical techniques, learn how to identify and reframe self-critical thoughts into supportive ones.Healing Is Possible: Emotional struggles are not a sign of brokenness; they are natural human responses that can be managed and healed.Practical Tools for Change: Discover Dr. Jodi’s new Redirect flashcards to transform negative thinking patterns.Resources Mentioned & Links:Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/what-to-say/Dr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodiLily's Instagram @c.lily_aman and TikTok @c.lilyamanGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Anxiety, I'm So Done With You! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!   ASK DR. JODI Join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time.  📣ALL NEW episodes are now on Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health and Relationship Advice Podcast.📣 Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the show message group. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week, PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live.  Contact Doctor Jodi: • Website: jodiaman.com • TikTok: @doctorjodi • YouTube: @doctorjodi • Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi:  Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi You’re listening to the Anxiety I'm So Done with You! Podcast with Doctor Jodi.  We hope to ease the minds of “the anxious generation.” To do that, this show will guide emerging adults, their parents, and helpers, galvanizing them to release toxic stress, achieve emotional wellness, and hardwire their brains for a happy and meaningful life.   Ask Dr. Jodi Live Do you, or does someone you love, have anxiety or ADHD? Do you struggle with motivation and worry about your future? Keep listening.  As a psychotherapist, I have worked with young people for 28 years, and I’ve seen and understood the nuances of Generation Z from this rare perspective. Guess what I discovered? Your brain is not broken. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. You don’t have to feel like this; you can feel better! Tune in live every Monday at 8 PM E on @doctorjodi or binge the recordings. We’ll have relieving conversations, exciting guests, and inspirational stories that will show you how to get rid of worry, recover your energetic bandwidth, and grok a socially conscious life of overflowing joy.

    46 min
  6. Setting Awesome Personal Boundaries in Your Relationships

    EPISODE 6

    Setting Awesome Personal Boundaries in Your Relationships

    Hey everyone, welcome to Anxiety, I’m So Done With You! I’m Dr. Jodi, and I’m excited to have you here with me. Tonight, we're diving into a topic that’s essential for maintaining our well-being: setting awesome personal boundaries. As a psychotherapist for over 28 years, I've seen firsthand how crucial it is to establish boundaries for our relationships, schedules, and even with ourselves. Whether you’re a teen, a parent, an educator, or simply someone navigating this overwhelming world, today’s episode will equip you with the tools you need to feel safer, more respected, and empowered. So grab a pen and paper because I’m giving you all the details you need to create positive boundaries that transform your life! Episode Summary:In this empowering episode, Dr. Jodi dives deep into the art and science of setting personal boundaries. She breaks down the importance of boundaries for emotional safety, respect, and a sense of belonging, and explains why they are vital for managing anxiety and stress. You’ll learn about the five different types of boundaries: physical, time, conversational, relationship, and personal. Dr. Jodi provides practical guidance on how to determine your boundary needs and gives examples of how to implement them in various contexts. The episode also covers the tricky territory of dealing with people who don’t respect your boundaries, including tips for energetically and physically distancing yourself from toxic behaviors. Dr. Jodi introduces powerful visualizations to help protect your energy and offers heartfelt advice for those who struggle with people-pleasing. Throughout the episode, you’ll get answers to listener questions and discover actionable insights that will inspire you to feel more in control and less overwhelmed in your relationships and life. Key Takeaways:Why Boundaries Matter: Boundaries create emotional safety, personal space, and mutual respect in relationships, which are essential for well-being.Five Types of Boundaries: Understand physical, time, conversational, relationship, and personal boundaries, and when to apply each.Practical Implementation: Learn specific strategies for setting and maintaining boundaries, including visualization exercises for energetic protection.Dealing with Boundary Violations: Discover how to respond effectively when people overstep your boundaries, and understand when it’s time to set unbreakable limits.The Connection to Self-Worth: Your sense of worth is at the core of boundary-setting. Respecting your own needs is crucial for mental and emotional health.Resources mentioned in this show: Watch the video of this episode at the blog and get the free download "Setting Awesome Personal Boundaries" worksheet: https://jodiaman.com/blog/setting-boundaries/Lily's Instagram @c.lily_aman and TikTok @c.lilyamanDr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Anxiety, I'm So Done With You! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!   ASK DR. JODI Join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time.  📣ALL NEW episodes are now on Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health and Relationship Advice Podcast.📣 Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the show message group. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week, PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live.  Contact Doctor Jodi: • Website: jodiaman.com • TikTok: @doctorjodi • YouTube: @doctorjodi • Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi:  Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi You’re listening to the Anxiety I'm So Done with You! Podcast with Doctor Jodi.  We hope to ease the minds of “the anxious generation.” To do that, this show will guide emerging adults, their parents, and helpers, galvanizing them to release toxic stress, achieve emotional wellness, and hardwire their brains for a happy and meaningful life.   Ask Dr. Jodi Live Do you, or does someone you love, have anxiety or ADHD? Do you struggle with motivation and worry about your future? Keep listening.  As a psychotherapist, I have worked with young people for 28 years, and I’ve seen and understood the nuances of Generation Z from this rare perspective. Guess what I discovered? Your brain is not broken. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. You don’t have to feel like this; you can feel better! Tune in live every Monday at 8 PM E on @doctorjodi or binge the recordings. We’ll have relieving conversations, exciting guests, and inspirational stories that will show you how to get rid of worry, recover your energetic bandwidth, and grok a socially conscious life of overflowing joy.

    47 min
  7. Act the Way you Want to Feel

    EPISODE 7

    Act the Way you Want to Feel

    Hi everyone, welcome to Anxiety, I’m So Done With You! I’m Dr. Jodi, your guide on this journey to empower and heal the anxious generation. Whether you're a teen, parent, or educator, I’m thrilled to have you join me. Tonight’s topic is crucial: "Act the Way You Want to Feel." There’s a lot of confusion around this idea, and I’m here to break it down. We’ll explore why this advice often feels invalidating and how to use actionable steps to shift your energy and mindset for real, lasting change. Let’s get into it! Episode Summary:In this episode, Dr. Jodi unpacks the concept of "Act the Way You Want to Feel," a common piece of advice that can feel dismissive when you’re struggling emotionally. She emphasizes that emotional turmoil, like anxiety or sadness, is a natural human response to our environment and validates the pain that comes with it. Dr. Jodi explains how taking compassionate action is key—not just faking happiness but understanding the science behind how actions influence emotions. Through relatable stories, research findings, and practical examples, Dr. Jodi explores how to use physical posture, smiling, and even visualization to shift your emotional state. She also shares a three-step process to help you when you’re feeling overwhelmed: compassion for yourself, stepping back for perspective, and deciding on meaningful action. By understanding the mechanics of how feelings and thoughts work together, you'll gain new tools to override negative emotions and transform your mental landscape. Key Takeaways:Validate Your Feelings First: Compassion for yourself reduces emotional attachment and helps you move through negative feelings.Three-Step Process: Start with self-compassion, take a step back for perspective, and then decide on an empowering action.Actions Influence Feelings: Even simple actions, like smiling or changing your posture, can biologically shift your mood and reduce stress.Replace Negative Thoughts: Instead of trying to suppress worries, actively engage your mind with something positive or constructive.Motivation Follows Action: Don’t wait to feel motivated; taking action first often leads to a positive emotional shift.Resources mentioned in this show: Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/want-to-feel/Lily's Instagram @c.lily_aman and TikTok @c.lilyamanDr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Anxiety, I'm So Done With You! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!   ASK DR. JODI Join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time.  📣ALL NEW episodes are now on Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health and Relationship Advice Podcast.📣 Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the show message group. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week, PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live.  Contact Doctor Jodi: • Website: jodiaman.com • TikTok: @doctorjodi • YouTube: @doctorjodi • Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi:  Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi You’re listening to the Anxiety I'm So Done with You! Podcast with Doctor Jodi.  We hope to ease the minds of “the anxious generation.” To do that, this show will guide emerging adults, their parents, and helpers, galvanizing them to release toxic stress, achieve emotional wellness, and hardwire their brains for a happy and meaningful life.   Ask Dr. Jodi Live Do you, or does someone you love, have anxiety or ADHD? Do you struggle with motivation and worry about your future? Keep listening.  As a psychotherapist, I have worked with young people for 28 years, and I’ve seen and understood the nuances of Generation Z from this rare perspective. Guess what I discovered? Your brain is not broken. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. You don’t have to feel like this; you can feel better! Tune in live every Monday at 8 PM E on @doctorjodi or binge the recordings. We’ll have relieving conversations, exciting guests, and inspirational stories that will show you how to get rid of worry, recover your energetic bandwidth, and grok a socially conscious life of overflowing joy.

    44 min
  8. Grounding Techniques to Calm Your Mind and Improve Your Performance

    EPISODE 8

    Grounding Techniques to Calm Your Mind and Improve Your Performance

    Hi, I’m Dr. Jodi, and welcome to another episode of Anxiety, I’m So Done With You! In this podcast, we explore practical techniques to help emerging adults, parents, teachers, and counselors ease the stress of our anxious generation. Today, I'm joined by my daughter, Lily, to talk about grounding techniques that can help settle your nervous system and bring you back to the present moment. We’re diving into both familiar and creative ways to calm anxiety, with real-life examples and exercises to get you feeling centered. Episode Summary: In this episode, Dr. Jodi  and Lily explore a range of grounding techniques designed to help you manage heightened emotions and anxiety. Grounding, as explained, is about reconnecting with the present moment when your mind feels scattered or overwhelmed. They discuss why grounding is so effective, using vivid metaphors like "rooting into the earth" to establish stability. Dr. Jodi and Lily break down practical exercises such as mindful breathing patterns, sensory engagement (like the 5-4-3-2-1 technique), and movement activities like taking walks in nature. Lily shares her personal experiences, revealing how listening to music has grounded her before nerve-wracking events like auditions or social interactions. They even explore the idea of sensory kits for emergency grounding and the unique benefits of somatic exercises. The conversation emphasizes that grounding doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes, it's about engaging in simple, enjoyable activities like taking a warm shower, eating a comforting snack, or listening to empowering music. This episode is filled with relatable stories, laughter, and actionable insights. Key Takeaways: Grounding Techniques Explained: Discover why grounding helps manage stress and simple ways to do it.Sensory Engagement: Use your senses to connect with the present moment through exercises like the 5-4-3-2-1 method.Mindful Breathing: Try patterns like "in for five, hold for five, out for five," to bring focus and calm.Music as a Tool: Listening to music intentionally can influence your mood and give you confidence.Movement Matters: Walking in nature, exercising, or gentle somatic practices can ground your energy effectively.Resources mentioned in this show: Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/grounding-techniques/Patterned Box Breathing video: https://jodiaman.com/blog/box-breathing/Hand and Heart Somatic Experience: https://jodiaman.com/blog/somatic-experiencing/Lily's Instagram @c.lily_aman and TikTok @c.lilyamanDr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Anxiety, I'm So Done With You! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!   ASK DR. JODI Join me live every Monday at 8 p.m. Eastern on YouTube, @doctorjodi, where you can ask your questions in real time.  📣ALL NEW episodes are now on Ask Dr. Jodi - Mental Health and Relationship Advice Podcast.📣 Text JODI to 8334583845 to get in the show message group. 👉👉Get on the list to get reminders about the show, including the topic for the week, PLUS, receive my Gen Z Mental Health Resource Guide here: jodiaman.com/live.  Contact Doctor Jodi: • Website: jodiaman.com • TikTok: @doctorjodi • YouTube: @doctorjodi • Instagram: @doctorjodiaman About Dr. Jodi:  Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression. You can find her live-streamed talk show on her YouTube channel @doctorjodi, where she discusses topics unique to Generation Z. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi You’re listening to the Anxiety I'm So Done with You! Podcast with Doctor Jodi.  We hope to ease the minds of “the anxious generation.” To do that, this show will guide emerging adults, their parents, and helpers, galvanizing them to release toxic stress, achieve emotional wellness, and hardwire their brains for a happy and meaningful life.   Ask Dr. Jodi Live Do you, or does someone you love, have anxiety or ADHD? Do you struggle with motivation and worry about your future? Keep listening.  As a psychotherapist, I have worked with young people for 28 years, and I’ve seen and understood the nuances of Generation Z from this rare perspective. Guess what I discovered? Your brain is not broken. You are having a regular human response to the context of this crazy world. You don’t have to feel like this; you can feel better! Tune in live every Monday at 8 PM E on @doctorjodi or binge the recordings. We’ll have relieving conversations, exciting guests, and inspirational stories that will show you how to get rid of worry, recover your energetic bandwidth, and grok a socially conscious life of overflowing joy.

    35 min

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You're here with Dr. Jodi, and this is "Anxiety… I'm So Done With You!" This podcast is a teen and young adult guide to ditching toxic stress and hardwiring your brain for happiness. If you're new here, grab a copy of my book "Anxiety… I'm So Done With You!" because this series goes section by section through it, going a little bit deeper, giving more examples, and telling more stories. Stick with us as we give mental health advice to educators, parents, counselors and generation Z themselves.