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Welcome to ConVersate After Dark where we have open and thought provoking discussions that are sure to be provocative, stimulating and enlightening.

  1. 1d ago

    CVAD Episode 113: Bad Date Horror Stories, Setting Boundaries & Would You Wait?

    On this episode of Conversate After Dark, we get into the stuff people feel but don't always say out loud. We open with doing nice things for yourself, why it's so hard for the dependable one to set a boundary, and the difference between saying no and just backing away from people. Then it gets fun. We trade our worst date stories: the drunk date who got tossed from a Charlie Wilson show, the night a date pulled over to confront her other man, and the lunch-on-the-beach that turned out to be a married man holding checks hostage. Plus the question everybody has an answer to: would you wait if your person had to do a bid, and what does holding somebody down actually mean? We also get into crazy-chick red flags, why "good guys finish last" is a choosing problem, and the line between hood and street. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/R-a1LP7Ecy4 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 Welcome back and where to find us 01:00 Icebreaker: the last nice thing you did for yourself 03:30 Being a man's man and learning to receive 05:30 Caretaking and protecting your weekends 08:30 Being the dependable one who gets used 11:30 Learning to say no without backing away 15:00 Courtesy dates and who pays 17:30 The date that pulled over to confront her man 21:00 The drunk date at Charlie Wilson 26:00 Almost fighting at the Erykah Badu concert 30:00 Good dates: the WNBA night 32:00 Lunch on the beach with a married man 36:30 Would you wait if he had to do a bid? 40:00 Crazy-chick red flags and good guys finishing last 43:30 Hood vs. street, and wrap up #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

    45 min

  2. May 31

    CVAD Episode 112: Money, Marriage & Boundaries: What Nobody Tells You About Relationships

    Are finances tearing couples apart before they even get started? Marvin and Tay get into the real conversations people avoid: loaning money to family, who should have a say in how your partner spends, and whether marriage actually benefits men or women. Plus, would you stay in a relationship just because your family loves your partner? And what happens when your ex is still treated like family? This episode hits every nerve. Subscribe and drop your thoughts in the comments. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DhXSGQA2Wvw 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 Icebreaker: What Would Your Mom Disown You For? 06:45 Parenting Standards: Raising Sons and Daughters the Same Way 14:20 Loaning Money: Where Do You Draw the Line? 27:10 Should Married Couples Clear Every Financial Decision Together? 38:00 Does Marriage Benefit Men or Women More? 48:30 Would You Stay Because Your Family Loves Them? 55:15 Exes as Family: When Does It Cross the Line? 59:00 Lifestyle Misconceptions and Wrapping Up #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

    1h 3m

  3. May 23

    CVAD Episode 111: Can You Really Rebuild Trust After It's Broken?

    Once trust is broken, can you ever really get it back? Mar B and Tay go deep on rebuilding trust, lying in relationships, what it means to be equally yoked, dating someone without a strong male role model, and whether asking your partner to cut off opposite-sex friends is controlling or just smart. Plus a would you or wouldn't you that gets real very fast. This is Conversate After Dark — no filter, all the way Black. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iOsxefcnWbM 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 — Intro + show open 01:00 — Icebreaker: Once trust is broken, can you get it back? 05:30 — "I used to lie and cheat" — Mar B's confession and accountability 09:00 — Small lies vs big lies: where does it start? 13:30 — Equally yoked: background, class, and who your family approves of 20:00 — Raised on love vs raised on survival 26:00 — Would you date someone with no strong male role model? 33:00 — Cutting off opposite-sex friends: controlling or valid? 41:00 — Men see things women don't and vice versa 46:00 — Would you or wouldn't you: skinny dipping + naturist lifestyle 51:00 — Outro + where to find CVAD #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

    52 min

  4. May 8

    CVAD Episode 110: Self Love Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries

    Masturbation, Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries: The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/T1c97Yg8cCA 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 Cold Open 00:30 Show Intro and Where to Find Us 01:45 Icebreaker: Bedroom Names and Alter Egos 07:00 Facebook Jail, Alternate Pages, and May Awareness Months 13:30 The History of Shame Around Self-Pleasure and the Gender Double Standard 22:00 Toys, Preferences, Desensitization, and When Solo Pleasure Becomes a Relationship Problem 31:30 The Amazon Package That Went to Grandma Twice and Our Most Embarrassing Caught Stories 38:00 Mental Health Awareness Month: Can You Date Someone Who Refuses to Get Help 45:00 Marv Opens Up About Depression and Suicidal Ideation 51:30 Male Role Models, How They Shape Relationship Behavior, and Mentoring Young Men 55:30 Final Thoughts and Show Close 57:20 End #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #selflove

    58 min

  5. May 1

    CVAD Episode 109: Sex Tapes,Cheating Celebs Bedroom Communication: What Couples REALLY Won't Say

    What would you do if your sex tape leaked online? Marv and Tay go there — and don't stop there. This episode covers Ray J's wild claims, Klay Thompson fumbling Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez, and the real reason couples stay silent about what they want in the bedroom. Are you a pleaser or a controller? Can two pleasers actually work? Plus, would you date someone who refuses to meet your people after 6 months? CVAD brings the real conversations nobody else is having. Subscribe and tell a friend. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nLFHdsyjlV0 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 0:29 Intro & Where to Find Us 1:45 Icebreaker: Your Sex Tape Just Leaked — Now What? 13:30 Ray J Claims 12,500 Partners — Do We Believe Him? 23:50 Klay Thompson Fumbled Megan Thee Stallion 32:20 Tory Lanez, Accountability & Why People Still Hate Meg 41:10 Do Couples Actually Talk About What They Want in Bed? 50:30 What Happens When Two Pleasers Collide 59:45 Would You Date Someone Who Won't Meet Your People After 6 Months? 1:11:00 Introducing Partners to Family — Where's the Line? 1:18:45 Final Thoughts & Outro #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #meganthestallion #klaythompson #rayj

    1h 3m

  6. Apr 19

    CVAD Episode 108: Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?

    In this episode of Conversate After Dark, we dive into real conversations about relationships, intimacy, and boundaries. We break down: • How important alone time is in relationships • Clingy vs independent partners • Does porn negatively impact intimacy? • Can good sex actually save a bad relationship? • Revenge sex, toxic habits, and relationship truths This episode gets honest, funny, and real about modern dating and connection. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZtgjcPI3bqw 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 0:00 Intro + where to find the show 0:38 Icebreaker: how important is alone time in a relationship 3:30 Clingy vs independent partners 4:03 Nonchalant partners and getting too used to being single 12:12 “Nothing is worse than being touched when you don’t want to be touched” 13:20 Does porn mess up intimacy in relationships? 14:27 Porn and unrealistic expectations 16:26 Can porn desensitize you sexually? 21:18 What if your partner’s porn preference is the opposite of you? 22:37 Race preferences and dating outside your race 28:16 Black men and Black women discussion 28:49 Can good sex save a struggling relationship? 32:19 Can you have sex while still mad at your partner? 36:23 Would you ever have revenge sex? 43:30 Friends, loyalty, and crossing relationship lines 50:17 Outro #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    51 min

  7. Mar 21

    CVAD Episode 107: Sometimes You Just Want To Sleep In The Car

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the viral clip of the man sleeping his car to avoid his wife, and can you be with someone who does not think sex is important.  Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RPqwmg_vLC8 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email cvadthepodcast@gmail.com #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    49 min

  8. Mar 6

    CVAD Episode 106: Manifesting A Marriage

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about is it weird to manifest a marriage. Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JiRKZrimOoA 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email cvadthepodcast@gmail.com #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    40 min
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    2022 - 2026
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