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Welcome to ConVersate After Dark where we have open and thought provoking discussions that are sure to be provocative, stimulating and enlightening.

  1. 56m ago

    CVAD Episode 116: Live Episode...Ethical Non-Monogamy and No Job, No Hall Pass.

    On this episode of conVersate After Dark, Marv and Tay reunite in person for the first time in a while and discuss childhood discoveries in their parents' rooms, whether relationship podcasts are actually helping people, agreeing to disagree vs. compromise, getting fired (twice), what it's really like dating someone who's unemployed, and an honest breakdown of their experiences with ethical non-monogamy — rules, boundaries, veto power, and where family and friends fit in. Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/WqdCRM2a-QI 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 0:00 – Intro / catching up in person 2:30 – Icebreaker: what you found in your parents' room 10:00 – Condoms, "Spanish fly," and gas station pills 14:00 – Do relationship podcasts actually help people? 20:00 – Agree to disagree vs. compromise 26:00 – The married couple exaggeration story 30:00 – Who cleans the house / gender roles at home 33:00 – Getting fired stories (telemarketing + bowling alley) 40:00 – Dating someone unemployed: hustle vs. excuses 46:00 – "You get more women when you're unemployed" 48:00 – Ethical non-monogamy: how men vs. women approach it 54:00 – Rules, boundaries, and veto power 58:00 – Would you stay or leave: family at a swinger party 1:00:00 – Outro / where to find us #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #ethicalnonmonogamy

  2. Jul 25

    CVAD Episode 115: Matchmaker vs. Dating Coach: Would You Let Your Parents Pick Your Spouse?

    On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Tay and Marv get into it starting with the icebreaker: the sexual thing you tried once and never needed to do again. From there the conversation goes deep — arranged marriages and whether you'd trust your parents to pick your spouse, matchmakers vs. dating coaches, the "traditional man" trap on Married at First Sight, solo trips and ownership in marriage, Pinky Cole and Slutty Vegan's "friendly competition," MC Hammer's bankruptcy and what it actually means, family members who keep score, and a "would you or wouldn't you" celebrity crush round with Lorenz Tate, Idris Elba, Mary J. Blige, and Tocarra Jones. Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/VdKky0qnl3c 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 – Intro / what's up with Tay  00:45 – Icebreaker: a sexual thing you tried but couldn't get into  01:00 – Analingus, the "eating groceries" trend, and the 69 scam  05:30 – Fleece Johnson and the "eating groceries" origin story  09:00 – Anal sex, prostate talk, and the prep problem  15:00 – Prep, gay relationships, and "I'm YOLO so I'll try it eventually" 17:00 – Arranged marriage: a coworker's story  23:00 – Would you trust your parents to pick your spouse?  27:00 – Hitch: dating coach vs. matchmaker  30:00 – Being too picky, past setups gone wrong  32:30 – Married at First Sight and matchmaking on paper  36:00 – The "traditional man" mixup and chauvinism debate  38:30 – Marriage dynamics: solo trips and not "owning" each other 42:00 – Pinky Cole, Slutty Vegan, and competing with your spouse  44:00 – Vegan food rant: the "chick-naan" nachos story  46:00 – MC Hammer's bankruptcy, explained  48:30 – Family members who keep score  50:00 – Would you or wouldn't you: Lorenz Tate, Idris Elba, Mary J. Blige, Tocarra Jones  51:00 – Outro / where to find the show #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

  3. Jul 3

    CVAD Episode 114: Work Wives, Celebrity Crushes, And Are You A Exhibitionist or Voyeur

    Grown and unfiltered. On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Marv and Tay get into the honest stuff most people will not say out loud. They open with a wild icebreaker, then get into exhibitionist versus voyeur, how trust and comfort unlock real intimacy, and the difference between jealousy and intuition. From there it turns into astrology, overthinking, and why everybody has a tell, before the debate everyone has an opinion on: the work wife and work husband, and whether there is always a hierarchy in relationships. They close with the fun stuff, celebrities pulling fans on stage and where the line is, a hilarious Tank meet and greet story, celebrity crushes that get a pass, and the ultimate would you or wouldn't you: could you date someone who cannot stand your favorite artist. Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/VdKky0qnl3c 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 Intro and where to find us 01:00 Icebreaker: intimacy behind the wheel 04:30 Why some risks are not worth it 07:00 Exhibitionist or voyeur 10:00 Where it started, first exposure and experiences 12:30 The couple exchange and learning to trust 16:00 Comfort, initiating, and opening up about fantasies 19:00 Jealousy versus intuition 22:00 Signs, astrology, and reading people 25:00 Everybody has a tell 27:00 The work wife and work husband debate 30:00 Is there always a hierarchy 31:30 Celebrities, the stage, and where the line is 34:00 The Tank meet and greet story 37:00 Celebrity crushes and who gets a pass 39:00 Would you or wouldn't you, the favorite artist test 41:00 Stevie Wonder and the great sight debate #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

  4. Jun 12

    CVAD Episode 113: Bad Date Horror Stories, Setting Boundaries & Would You Wait?

    On this episode of Conversate After Dark, we get into the stuff people feel but don't always say out loud. We open with doing nice things for yourself, why it's so hard for the dependable one to set a boundary, and the difference between saying no and just backing away from people. Then it gets fun. We trade our worst date stories: the drunk date who got tossed from a Charlie Wilson show, the night a date pulled over to confront her other man, and the lunch-on-the-beach that turned out to be a married man holding checks hostage. Plus the question everybody has an answer to: would you wait if your person had to do a bid, and what does holding somebody down actually mean? We also get into crazy-chick red flags, why "good guys finish last" is a choosing problem, and the line between hood and street. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/R-a1LP7Ecy4 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 Welcome back and where to find us 01:00 Icebreaker: the last nice thing you did for yourself 03:30 Being a man's man and learning to receive 05:30 Caretaking and protecting your weekends 08:30 Being the dependable one who gets used 11:30 Learning to say no without backing away 15:00 Courtesy dates and who pays 17:30 The date that pulled over to confront her man 21:00 The drunk date at Charlie Wilson 26:00 Almost fighting at the Erykah Badu concert 30:00 Good dates: the WNBA night 32:00 Lunch on the beach with a married man 36:30 Would you wait if he had to do a bid? 40:00 Crazy-chick red flags and good guys finishing last 43:30 Hood vs. street, and wrap up #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

  5. May 31

    CVAD Episode 112: Money, Marriage & Boundaries: What Nobody Tells You About Relationships

    Are finances tearing couples apart before they even get started? Marvin and Tay get into the real conversations people avoid: loaning money to family, who should have a say in how your partner spends, and whether marriage actually benefits men or women. Plus, would you stay in a relationship just because your family loves your partner? And what happens when your ex is still treated like family? This episode hits every nerve. Subscribe and drop your thoughts in the comments. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DhXSGQA2Wvw 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 Icebreaker: What Would Your Mom Disown You For? 06:45 Parenting Standards: Raising Sons and Daughters the Same Way 14:20 Loaning Money: Where Do You Draw the Line? 27:10 Should Married Couples Clear Every Financial Decision Together? 38:00 Does Marriage Benefit Men or Women More? 48:30 Would You Stay Because Your Family Loves Them? 55:15 Exes as Family: When Does It Cross the Line? 59:00 Lifestyle Misconceptions and Wrapping Up #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

  6. May 23

    CVAD Episode 111: Can You Really Rebuild Trust After It's Broken?

    Once trust is broken, can you ever really get it back? Mar B and Tay go deep on rebuilding trust, lying in relationships, what it means to be equally yoked, dating someone without a strong male role model, and whether asking your partner to cut off opposite-sex friends is controlling or just smart. Plus a would you or wouldn't you that gets real very fast. This is Conversate After Dark — no filter, all the way Black. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iOsxefcnWbM 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 — Intro + show open 01:00 — Icebreaker: Once trust is broken, can you get it back? 05:30 — "I used to lie and cheat" — Mar B's confession and accountability 09:00 — Small lies vs big lies: where does it start? 13:30 — Equally yoked: background, class, and who your family approves of 20:00 — Raised on love vs raised on survival 26:00 — Would you date someone with no strong male role model? 33:00 — Cutting off opposite-sex friends: controlling or valid? 41:00 — Men see things women don't and vice versa 46:00 — Would you or wouldn't you: skinny dipping + naturist lifestyle 51:00 — Outro + where to find CVAD #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

  7. May 8

    CVAD Episode 110: Self Love Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries

    Masturbation, Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries: The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/T1c97Yg8cCA 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 Cold Open 00:30 Show Intro and Where to Find Us 01:45 Icebreaker: Bedroom Names and Alter Egos 07:00 Facebook Jail, Alternate Pages, and May Awareness Months 13:30 The History of Shame Around Self-Pleasure and the Gender Double Standard 22:00 Toys, Preferences, Desensitization, and When Solo Pleasure Becomes a Relationship Problem 31:30 The Amazon Package That Went to Grandma Twice and Our Most Embarrassing Caught Stories 38:00 Mental Health Awareness Month: Can You Date Someone Who Refuses to Get Help 45:00 Marv Opens Up About Depression and Suicidal Ideation 51:30 Male Role Models, How They Shape Relationship Behavior, and Mentoring Young Men 55:30 Final Thoughts and Show Close 57:20 End #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #selflove

  8. May 1

    CVAD Episode 109: Sex Tapes,Cheating Celebs Bedroom Communication: What Couples REALLY Won't Say

    What would you do if your sex tape leaked online? Marv and Tay go there — and don't stop there. This episode covers Ray J's wild claims, Klay Thompson fumbling Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez, and the real reason couples stay silent about what they want in the bedroom. Are you a pleaser or a controller? Can two pleasers actually work? Plus, would you date someone who refuses to meet your people after 6 months? CVAD brings the real conversations nobody else is having. Subscribe and tell a friend. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nLFHdsyjlV0 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 0:29 Intro & Where to Find Us 1:45 Icebreaker: Your Sex Tape Just Leaked — Now What? 13:30 Ray J Claims 12,500 Partners — Do We Believe Him? 23:50 Klay Thompson Fumbled Megan Thee Stallion 32:20 Tory Lanez, Accountability & Why People Still Hate Meg 41:10 Do Couples Actually Talk About What They Want in Bed? 50:30 What Happens When Two Pleasers Collide 59:45 Would You Date Someone Who Won't Meet Your People After 6 Months? 1:11:00 Introducing Partners to Family — Where's the Line? 1:18:45 Final Thoughts & Outro #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #meganthestallion #klaythompson #rayj

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    conVersate After Dark
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    116
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