Burn it Down

Alexis Doss
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Welcome to Burn It Down, a podcast for people who are done pretending things are fine. Hosted by Alexis Doss, life pivot and identity reinvention coach, these episodes are part pep talk, part truth serum, and all permission to walk away from the life that no longer fits. If you’re ready to stop performing and start becoming - light the match, and let’s go.

  1. Sep 29

    Ep 105: Leo Raleigh on the mental load in relationships

    I saw Leo's content on social media and was immediately drawn in. They got it. They understood the struggle of dating or being married to someone that isn't the worst, but is far from the best and so we sat down to chat about the relationship that women can take on when dating a man. Let's get into it 😈 Leo's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loudly.leo Leo's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loudly.leo/ --------------------------------- Download my FREE 10 Minute Identity Detox ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  SOCIALS: -Check instagram (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@burnitdownpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) - Find me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thetoughlovecoach⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- The Reinvention Room on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   The Burn It Down Podcast is about raw stories and shifts in life, relationships, and business. While I’m here to share what I know, nothing on this show is a substitute for medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. This is a space for expansion, but you are the CEO of your own life. Use your judgment and consult with the right professionals before making major moves. By hitting play, you’re owning your results, your interpretations, and your journey.

    Ep 105: Leo Raleigh on the mental load in relationships

  2. Jul 28

    Ep 104: LIVE Coaching Call with Bree Louise

    This call is from over year ago, but I wanted to share with you a live coaching call I did with someone so you can get a tiny glimpse of what coaching with me could be like, as well as gain some perspective for yourself. This is all about self trust. Check out @breelouise____ on instagram! --------------------------------- Download my FREE 10 Minute Identity Detox ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠  SOCIALS: -Check instagram (⁠⁠⁠⁠@burnitdownpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠) - Find me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thetoughlovecoach⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- The Reinvention Room on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠   The Burn It Down Podcast is about raw stories and shifts in life, relationships, and business. While I’m here to share what I know, nothing on this show is a substitute for medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. This is a space for expansion, but you are the CEO of your own life. Use your judgment and consult with the right professionals before making major moves. By hitting play, you’re owning your results, your interpretations, and your journey.

    Ep 104: LIVE Coaching Call with Bree Louise

  3. Jul 7

    Ep 103: My dog died. Here is what it made me realize about growth

    A totally unscripted, raw conversation on what happened when I had to let go of my best friend and why I think I'm handling it way better than I ever expected. -------------------------------------- Download my FREE 10 Minute Identity Detox ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠  SOCIALS: -Check instagram (⁠⁠⁠@burnitdownpodcast⁠⁠⁠) - Find me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thetoughlovecoach⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- The Reinvention Room on ⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠   The Burn It Down Podcast is about raw stories and shifts in life, relationships, and business. While I’m here to share what I know, nothing on this show is a substitute for medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. This is a space for expansion, but you are the CEO of your own life. Use your judgment and consult with the right professionals before making major moves. By hitting play, you’re owning your results, your interpretations, and your journey.

    Ep 103: My dog died. Here is what it made me realize about growth

  4. Jun 22

    Ep 102: I quit (this isn't clickbait)

    Well...let's see where this goes.

    Ep 102: I quit (this isn't clickbait)

  5. May 27

    PART 2 - The “He’s Not That Bad” Stayer & The Self Silencer

    If you've ever stayed in a relationship because "at least he doesn't cheat" or if you've been quietly shrinking yourself so your partner doesn't feel less than, this episode is going to HIT :) Today we're going deep on the last two of the four Settling Style patterns. And I'll be REAL honest...these are the two I lived the longest. By the end of this episode you're either going to feel so seen you have to pause it or you're going to immediately send it to someone you love. You know you want to 😈 And if you want to know which pattern is yours, the Settling Style Quiz is available ONLY inside The Good Enough Trap workshop. One thing you need to know: the workshop goes from $27 to $97 in one week. If you've been listening to this series and feeling it, now is the time. Get in at $27, take the quiz, and get your personalized game plan before the price goes up. 🔗 Join here → www.alexisthetoughlovecoach.com/the-good-enough-trap-376222 DM me on Instagram @thetoughlovecoach and let me know if you watched! -------------------------------- Download my FREE 10 Minute Identity Detox ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠  SOCIALS: -Check instagram (⁠⁠⁠@burnitdownpodcast⁠⁠⁠) - Find me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thetoughlovecoach⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- The Reinvention Room on ⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠   The Burn It Down Podcast is about raw stories and shifts in life, relationships, and business. While I’m here to share what I know, nothing on this show is a substitute for medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. This is a space for expansion, but you are the CEO of your own life. Use your judgment and consult with the right professionals before making major moves. By hitting play, you’re owning your results, your interpretations, and your journey.

    PART 2 - The “He’s Not That Bad” Stayer & The Self Silencer

  6. May 12

    Ep 100: PART 2- The Safety Seeker & The Bread Crumb Accepter

    Last week we named the trap. This week we go inside it 😈 There are four patterns that keep high-achieving women stuck in relationships that aren't working and in this episode we're breaking down the first two. If you've ever felt completely alone inside a relationship, or caught yourself thinking "that's kind of a big deal for him" about something that should be the bare minimum, this episode is going to hit. I get personal about how being cheated on and coming out of an abusive relationship rewired what I considered acceptable and how finally finding someone trustworthy felt like winning the lottery. I break down exactly who the Safety Seeker and the Bread Crumb Accepter are, what they're doing, what they're telling their best friends, and what it's actually costing them beyond just the relationship. Join the Good Enough Trap Workshop (May 25th-26th) https://www.alexisthetoughlovecoach.com/the-good-enough-trap-376222 -------------------------------------- Download my FREE 10 Minute Identity Detox ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠  SOCIALS: -Check instagram (⁠⁠@burnitdownpodcast⁠⁠) - Find me on Instagram: ⁠⁠@thetoughlovecoach⁠ ⁠⁠⁠- The Reinvention Room on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠   The Burn It Down Podcast is about raw stories and shifts in life, relationships, and business. While I’m here to share what I know, nothing on this show is a substitute for medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. This is a space for expansion, but you are the CEO of your own life. Use your judgment and consult with the right professionals before making major moves. By hitting play, you’re owning your results, your interpretations, and your journey.

    Ep 100: PART 2- The Safety Seeker & The Bread Crumb Accepter

  7. May 5

    Ep 99: Are You In The "Good Enough Trap"?

    Nothing is technically wrong. He's not cheating. He's not abusive. But something feels off and you can't stop thinking about it. That feeling has a name. In this episode, I share the blind spot that kept me stuck in my marriage for years, the four patterns that keep high achieving women settling, and the question I wish someone had asked me before I wasted another year going in circles. If something feels off: this episode is for you. And if it's not for you...send it to someone it is. DM me @thetoughlovecoach and tell me which of the four patterns you think you are. 🖤 Use code PODCAST99 for $20 off The Good Enough Trap workshop → www.alexisthetoughlovecoach.com/the-good-enough-trap-376222

    Ep 99: Are You In The "Good Enough Trap"?

  8. Apr 29

    Ep 98: I just broke out of the victim mentality cycle

    I FINALLY caught myself before I spiraled back down the hill a few nights ago and I had to share this revelation and has already changed my life. If you struggle with pity party, "woe is me" thinking, or a victim mentality - listen to this Also P.S. I am now attending the Taozen Aya retreat in September in Europe from 17-20th! If you are interested in going and want more details, DM me or email me "SEPTEMBER RETREAT" and we can chat! 3 -------------------------------------- Download my FREE 10 Minute Identity Detox ⁠HERE⁠  SOCIALS: -Check instagram (⁠@burnitdownpodcast⁠) - Find me on Instagram: ⁠@thetoughlovecoach ⁠- The Reinvention Room on ⁠Youtube⁠   The Burn It Down Podcast is about raw stories and shifts in life, relationships, and business. While I’m here to share what I know, nothing on this show is a substitute for medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. This is a space for expansion, but you are the CEO of your own life. Use your judgment and consult with the right professionals before making major moves. By hitting play, you’re owning your results, your interpretations, and your journey.

    Ep 98: I just broke out of the victim mentality cycle
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Welcome to Burn It Down, a podcast for people who are done pretending things are fine. Hosted by Alexis Doss, life pivot and identity reinvention coach, these episodes are part pep talk, part truth serum, and all permission to walk away from the life that no longer fits. If you’re ready to stop performing and start becoming - light the match, and let’s go.

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  • Creator
    Alexis Doss
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    105
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Alexis Doss
  • Show Website
    Burn it Down