In this episode of the Witnessing Christ Podcast, Mike and Molly are joined by Dr. Mark Paustian, professor at Martin Luther College, for a conversation about one of the most important—and often overlooked—aspects of witnessing: listening. With decades of experience in pastoral ministry, teaching, and Christian apologetics, Mark shares how learning to listen transformed his approach to evangelism. What began as an intimidating challenge for an introverted young pastor became a lifelong appreciation for genuine curiosity, meaningful questions, and the incredible opportunities that come from simply taking the time to understand another person. The conversation explores how Christians can approach their Latter-day Saint friends, family members, and missionaries with genuine love rather than an agenda to win arguments. Instead of focusing entirely on what we want to say, what happens when we begin by asking what another person believes, why they believe it, and what their beliefs mean to them personally? In this episode, you'll hear: How an unexpected conversation with an atheist helped shape Mark's approach to witnessing.Why listening can be more valuable than having the perfect argument.How introverts can use their natural strengths to share the gospel.What makes a question genuinely thoughtful, loving, and productive.Why curiosity should come from a desire to understand rather than a hidden agenda.How vulnerability and honesty about our own struggles can help build trust.Why sharing the certainty of forgiveness in Christ can open meaningful conversations with Latter-day Saints.How Christians can use LDS Come, Follow Me readings to begin respectful, Scripture-centered discussions.What to do when conversations with missionaries become uncomfortable or tense.How hospitality, friendship, and genuine compassion can communicate the love of Christ.Why spending time in God's Word prepares our hearts to share his love with others.Four essential qualities for meaningful conversations: curiosity, high regard, mutual openness, and carrying one another's burdens.One of the central lessons of this conversation is that we don't need to prove someone wrong before we can show them Jesus. Too often, witnessing becomes a contest of arguments. We prepare answers, study theological differences, and search for the perfect question that will finally convince someone to agree with us. But in doing so, we can forget the person sitting across from us. Mark encourages Christians to approach witnessing differently. Be genuinely curious. Ask questions you actually want answered. Listen without immediately preparing your response. And when the opportunity comes, share what Jesus means to you and the incredible peace that comes from knowing your sins are forgiven. For Christians witnessing to Latter-day Saints, this creates opportunities to discuss questions that go beyond theological definitions. How do you know God loves you? What does forgiveness mean to you? How can you be certain that God accepts you? These questions allow us to move beyond arguments and point to the beautiful promises of Scripture. And that is where our confidence ultimately rests. We don't have to manufacture the perfect witnessing experience. We have a Savior who has already accomplished everything necessary for our salvation. Through his death and resurrection, Jesus has secured our forgiveness and given us peace with God. The more we listen to Jesus in his Word, the more his love, mercy, and promises fill our hearts. And when our hearts are full of Christ, we have something wonderful to share with the people around us. Listen to Jesus. Then listen like Jesus. Music used in this episode under license. License code: BSIPX0EWJ87RCGZL Share this podcast with your Christian friends and subscribe on your favorite podcasting platform! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. Subscribe to our YouTube channels!