How to be a humane leader without losing your job

How to be a humane leader without losing your job
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Welcome to "How to be a Humane Leader Without Losing Your Job," where we dive deep into the realms of people, leadership, culture, and management. 🌟 With over 35 years of combined experience in the IT industry, we're here to impart the wisdom we've gathered over the years. 🚀 Our mission is simple: to guide and inspire individuals to embrace best practices in these critical areas. 💼 In today's world, the demand for humane leadership skills is more pressing than ever, and we've seen a gap that needs to be filled. 🌍 Join us on this insightful journey as we explore the nuances of lead

  1. 13H AGO

    129 🧠 Why human leadership is not just another corporate fad

    Roberto and Chris explore whether leading with a human touch is a lasting strategy or just another passing management trend. They dive into the history of cutthroat corporate cultures and explain why sustainable success requires more than just following the latest bestseller. ✨ Here is what we covered: 🛑 The failure of top grading: We discussed why the "rank and yank" system popularized at GE eventually destroys collaboration and creates a culture of fear. 📉 🏝️ Survivor island culture: How forced competition leads to internal sabotage and stops team members from helping each other grow. 🎭 🚩 Identifying leadership fads: Why leaders should be cautious of gurus promising instant results and strategies that do not feel right in your gut. 📖 🤝 Prioritizing human value: Why treating people as humans is a fundamental way of life that drives better long-term productivity and results. 📈 💡 The ultimate ethics test: A simple way to judge your leadership style by asking if you would be proud to tell your family about your methods. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 ⚖️ Balancing results and humanity: True leadership is about delivering value to customers while maintaining a healthy, sustainable environment for your team. 📊 Leadership is not about chasing the newest trend—it is about creating a culture where people feel safe and empowered to do their best work. This week, we focus on how to distinguish between hollow fads and authentic, humane leadership. 🎧 Make sure to subscribe and download our latest episode to keep growing as a leader today! 💬 #leadership #humaneleadership #workculture #managementtips #teambuilding #businessethics #sustainableperformance #podcast #humanleader #leadershipgrowth #corporateculture #managementstrategy #worklifebalance

    26 min

  2. FEB 11

    128 🏔️ Navigating the long haul: how humane leaders coach through discouragement and difficult goals

    Chris and Roberto explore the reality of leading when the finish line feels miles away. They discuss why being honest about challenges—and even your own discouragement—can actually empower your team to step up, find creative solutions, and share the weight of the journey. ✨ Here's what we covered: 🗣️ The power of radical honesty: We discussed why denying challenges is counterproductive and how being transparent about difficulties creates a sense of relief and trust within the team. 👀 ⚓ Shifting from orders to intent: Roberto and Chris shared insights on the "submarine captain" approach—asking "what do you intend to do?" instead of giving orders to foster true autonomy. 🚢 🤝 Cultivating leadership at every level: Why encouraging leadership qualities in individual contributors is vital for moving past barriers when the leader feels stuck. 🏃‍♂️ 💡 Safe spaces for creativity: Practical strategies for brainstorming sessions where "no idea is a bad idea," ensuring the team feels safe to iterate and innovate. 🧠 🔦 Reflecting on past victories: The importance of looking back at previously "unsolvable" problems to remind the team of their resilience and progress. 🏆 📝 The value of retrospectives: How documenting the good and the bad using modern tools ensures that the lessons learned during hard times fuel future success. 📊 Leadership isn't about having all the answers or maintaining a mask of constant certainty—it's about creating a human connection where the team can lift the leader just as much as the leader lifts the team. This week, we focus on how vulnerability and empowerment turn distant goals into shared wins. Make sure to subscribe and download our latest episode to elevate your leadership journey today! 🎧 #leadership #humaneleadership #teammanagement #authenticleadership #workculture #empowerment #coaching #professionalgrowth #leadershipdevelopment #teamwork #growthmindset #innovation #mentorship #podcast #careeradvice

    18 min

  3. FEB 4

    127 🤝 Managing your friends: how to lead when your peers become your team

    Chris and Roberto dive into the complex and often awkward reality of being promoted to lead a team that includes your friends and former peers. They share practical advice on how to navigate this transition with transparency, fairness, and empathy. ✨ Here's what we covered: 🤝 Addressing the awkwardness: Why being upfront about the change in dynamics is the first step to building trust in your new role. 🗣️ ⚖️ Avoiding the favoritism trap: Strategies to ensure your whole team feels treated fairly, regardless of your past personal connections. 📋 ⏳ Handling peer competition: How to support a friend who may have applied for the same role and is dealing with disappointment. 💔 📏 Drawing the line: The importance of setting clear boundaries regarding company policies and professional expectations from day one. ☕ 💡 Learning and adjusting: Why it is essential to admit when you have made a mistake and how to course-correct quickly as a new leader. 🛠️ 🎯 Focusing on results: How to motivate your friends by recognizing their unique skills and aligning them with the team's overall goals. 📊 Leadership changes the nature of workplace relationships, but it does not have to destroy them. This week, we focus on how to maintain your humanity and your friendships while stepping into a position of authority and driving consistent team results. Make sure to download and listen to our latest episode to gain the tools you need to lead your peers with confidence and compassion! 🎧 #Leadership #HumaneLeadership #NewManager #CareerGrowth #TeamDynamics #WorkplaceCulture #ManagementTips #FriendshipAtWork #ProfessionalDevelopment #LeadershipSkills #HumaneLeader #CareerAdvice #TeamManagement #WorkLife

    26 min

  4. JAN 10

    126 🌍 Leading through global tension: why political empathy matters at work

    Chris and Roberto tackle one of the most controversial topics in management: discussing politics at work. In this episode, they explore why the traditional "no politics" rule might be failing global teams and how humane leaders can navigate sensitive international situations, like those in Venezuela, with empathy and an open mind. They share insights on bridging the gap between government actions and the human reality of team members on the ground. ✨ Here is what we covered: 🚩 Rethinking the "no politics" rule: We discussed why staying silent on global conflicts can actually distance you from your team and how to carefully open the door for meaningful connection. 🗺️ 👂 Listening with empathy: Why it is essential to listen to the lived experiences of international team members who may be facing safety risks or economic instability that news reports overlook. 🗣️ 🛡️ Recognizing local realities: A look at how political unrest affects practical work issues, from internet reliability to the physical safety of commuting during a crisis. 🚨 🧠 Challenging your own bias: Chris shares why leaders should enter political discussions with the assumption that their information might be incomplete or wrong. 📉 🤝 Supporting displaced team members: Roberto discusses the challenges faced by workers forced to move or those unable to return home due to shifting international policies. ✈️ 🌐 Building a global bridge: How workplace conversations can help humanize people across borders and foster a culture of understanding in a divisive world. 🤝 Leadership requires more than just managing tasks; it involves recognizing the human beings behind the screens, especially when their part of the world is in turmoil. This week, we focus on how empathy and curiosity can turn a difficult political climate into an opportunity for deeper team trust. Make sure to download and subscribe to our latest episode to learn how you can lead with compassion during uncertain times. 🎧 How do you support team members living through political or social unrest? Have you had to adjust your leadership style to accommodate for global crises? Let’s discuss how we can better support our international colleagues. 💬 #leadership #humaneLeadership #globalTeams #empathyAtWork #workplaceCulture #inclusiveLeadership #managementTips #remoteWork #teamWellbeing #globalCitizenship #leadershipDevelopment #humaneLeader #conflictResolution #mentalHealthAtWork

    24 min

  5. JAN 6

    125 How to train your leadership skills through practice and observation 🎓

    Chris and Roberto dive into the reality that becoming a humane leader isn't something you learn from a single textbook or university degree. It is a continuous process of intentional practice, observing others, and refining your approach based on real-world results. They share insights on how to avoid overwhelming your team with new techniques and how to use every workplace challenge as a training ground for personal growth. ✨ Here's what we covered: 🚀 Implementing one change at a time: We discussed why coming back from training and trying to change everything at once is a mistake, and how to prioritize one skill at a time to see what actually works. 🏃‍♂️ 🥪 The feedback sandwich trap: Why the traditional method of "sandwiching" criticism between compliments often fails, and how more direct, focused communication can lead to better corrective actions. 🗣️ 🕵️ Learning through observation: Roberto and Chris shared how watching other leaders in action—both their successes and their failures—is one of the most powerful ways to develop your own style. 👁️ 🧪 The power of experimentation: How to use "what if" scenarios to test different leadership approaches and analyze the outcomes to see which style fits your company culture. 🔬 🧘 Managing your reactions: Training yourself to remain calm and humane even in high-pressure moments, such as late-night emergencies or stressful executive demands. 📞 📉 Learning from the hard stuff: Why the toughest challenges, like managing a low performer or failing a project, are actually the best opportunities to sharpen your leadership skills. 🧗 Leadership is an ongoing journey that requires both life experience and the willingness to fail smart. This week, we focus on how to turn everyday workplace interactions into a personal training program for becoming a more compassionate and effective leader. Take the next step in your professional growth by downloading the full episode and joining our community of leaders committed to making the workplace more humane! 🎧 #leadership #humaneleadership #managementtraining #professionaldevelopment #careergrowth #effectivecommunication #leadershipskills #workplaceculture #continuouslearning #mentorship #executivecoaching #leadershipgrowth #humaneleader #podcast

    26 min

  6. 12/30/2025

    124 Navigating tough performance reviews with compassion and clarity 🎯

    Chris and Roberto explore why delivering difficult annual evaluations is a fundamental part of humane leadership. They dive into the challenges of managing the "perception gap"—when a team member’s self-assessment doesn't match their actual performance—and share practical advice on how to handle these moments with honesty and fairness. ✨ Here is what we covered: 🧐 Bridging the perception gap: We discussed how to handle situations where an employee believes they are a top performer while their actual output tells a different story. 📊 The power of objective data: Why using hard metrics and facts is essential to remove bias and ensure the conversation stays focused on results rather than feelings. 📝 Documenting the journey: Roberto and Chris highlight the importance of keeping meeting minutes and using tools to track progress throughout the year so that nothing comes as a surprise. 🏁 Results versus effort: A deep dive into why high effort doesn't always equal high performance and how to keep your team focused on reaching the finish line. 🛠️ Providing resources for success: How a humane leader reflects on their own role in a team member's struggle, ensuring that the right tools, introductions, and mentorship were provided. 🤝 Honesty as a leadership tool: Why withholding negative feedback is actually unkind, and how clear, corrective action plans give employees a genuine chance to improve. Being a humane leader doesn’t mean avoiding conflict; it means navigating it with integrity and providing the support necessary for everyone to succeed. This week, we focus on how to maintain high standards while treating every individual with the respect they deserve. 📈 Take your leadership skills to the next level by listening to this insightful episode on your favorite podcast platform! 🎧 #Leadership #HumaneLeadership #PerformanceReviews #ManagementTips #ProfessionalGrowth #CareerAdvice #FeedbackCulture #WorkplaceSuccess #TeamDevelopment #Mentorship #ManagerLife #GrowthMindset #AnnualEvaluations #LeadershipSkills

    24 min

  7. 12/25/2025

    123 The art of finishing: why perfection kills productivity 🎯

    Chris and Roberto tackle two major productivity traps: the obsession with perfection and the mistake of multitasking. They explore the philosophy that "he who chases two rabbits catches neither" and explain why limiting work-in-progress is the key to sustainable leadership and delivering actual business value. 🧱 Here's what we covered: 🐇 The rabbit trap: We discussed why trying to manage too many projects simultaneously usually results in finishing absolutely nothing. 🖐️ The rule of five: Chris explains why five active projects is the practical limit before productivity collapses due to excessive context switching. 🚨 Urgent vs. important: Roberto breaks down how to distinguish between true emergencies and noise, so you don't lose sight of long-term goals. ✨ Perfection is the enemy: We explored why a project that is 80% complete and in production is infinitely more valuable than a "perfect" project that never launches. 📉 The cost of overload: How excessive multitasking destroys work quality, ruins time estimates, and fast-tracks team burnout. 💼 Delivering value: Why stakeholders care about finished results rather than a long list of halfway-done promises. Leadership isn't about saying yes to everything—it's about having the courage to prioritize so your team can actually cross the finish line. 🎧 Stop spinning your wheels and start delivering! Tune in to hear how humane leaders get things done. How do you handle the pressure when your boss says everything is a "number one priority"? Have you ever let perfectionism stop you from launching a project? Let's talk about finding the balance between quality and speed. 💬 #Leadership #HumaneLeadership #ProjectManagement #ProductivityHacks #BurnoutPrevention #Prioritization #AgileMindset #WorkSmart #TechLeadership #CareerAdvice #MentalHealthAtWork #Essentialism #StrategicPlanning #TeamEfficiency

    21 min

  8. 12/04/2025

    122 Fairness vs. favoritism: overcoming the bias trap in leadership ⚖️

    Chris and Roberto dive into a tricky topic: favoritism. They explore how even well-intentioned leaders fall into the trap of favoring employees who share their interests or background, and why recognizing this bias is crucial for a healthy team culture. 👥 Here's what we covered: 🕵️‍♂️ Spotting the bias: How to recognize when you are favoring a team member, even when it starts with something innocent like shared music tastes or hobbies. 🗣️ Listening to the team: Why sarcasm from your direct reports (like calling someone "the boss's son") is often a red flag for hidden favoritism that needs addressing. 🚩 📝 Fair performance reviews: A practical exercise to ensure you are judging performance objectively by applying the same praise and critique criteria to every team member. ⏱️ The time audit: Checking how much non-work time you spend with specific peers to detect unconscious preference and balance your attention. 🛡️ Navigating a biased boss: Strategies for employees dealing with a leader who plays favorites, from building bridges with the "favorite" to knowing when it's time to move on. 🚪 Humane leadership isn't about being perfect; it's about constant reflection. By acknowledging our natural human tendency to bond with those like us, we can work to ensure every team member gets a fair shot at success. 🎧 Ready to challenge your own biases? Tune in and level up your leadership skills today! #Leadership #HumaneLeadership #Favoritism #UnconsciousBias #ManagementTips #WorkplaceCulture #TeamFairness #LeadershipDevelopment #HR #PerformanceReview #Podcast #WorkLifeBalance #EmployeeEngagement

    22 min
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Welcome to "How to be a Humane Leader Without Losing Your Job," where we dive deep into the realms of people, leadership, culture, and management. 🌟 With over 35 years of combined experience in the IT industry, we're here to impart the wisdom we've gathered over the years. 🚀 Our mission is simple: to guide and inspire individuals to embrace best practices in these critical areas. 💼 In today's world, the demand for humane leadership skills is more pressing than ever, and we've seen a gap that needs to be filled. 🌍 Join us on this insightful journey as we explore the nuances of lead

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