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Still struggling with your thought patterns? Tune in to Navigate the Day, a daily podcast where I share my personal journey learning stoicism in pursuit of self-mastery, perseverance, and wisdom. You'll learn how to control your thoughts and live a more content life. Listen now! Meditations and Prompts are based on Ryan Holidays The Daily Stoic book and companion journal.As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

  1. 6D AGO

    Watch Over Your Perceptions

    In this episode of Navigate the Day, I reflect on what it really means to guard my perceptions—not in a rigid or emotionless way, but as an ongoing, imperfect practice. Epictetus reminds us that peace of mind isn’t something that gets taken from us; it’s something we quietly trade away through careless judgments. And if I’m honest, I’ve been selling mine far too cheaply. I’m an opinionated person by nature. Nearly everything that happens gets labeled instantly, usually with a negative slant. This week, I found myself questioning whether that habit is actually helping me navigate life or just exhausting me. Watching over my perceptions doesn’t mean denying reality or pretending things don’t hurt—it means slowing down enough to notice when my interpretations are making things heavier than they need to be. I talk openly about how anger, fear, desire, and avoidance still shape my days. Anger doesn’t explode outward like it used to, but it often turns inward now, showing up as frustration and self-blame. I’ve also noticed how easily I trade long-term freedom for short-term comfort—whether that’s overspending, avoiding responsibility, or distracting myself from discomfort instead of addressing it. Each time I do that, I’m choosing relief over clarity, and comfort over growth. This episode is also about mistrust—specifically, my struggle to trust my own judgment. I’ve made choices I regret, and that history makes it hard to believe that pausing and reflecting will lead to better outcomes. Still, Marcus Aurelius reminds us that many of our strongest reactions come from mental images and stories, not from reality itself. When I don’t question those stories, I let fear and pessimism run the show. Watch Over Your Perceptions isn’t about achieving perfect self-mastery or eliminating emotion. It’s about practicing vigilance in small moments—pausing before giving my peace away, questioning whether my judgments are true, and remembering that inner freedom depends on what I choose to value. I’m still struggling, still uncertain, and still learning. But this week reminded me that guarding my perceptions isn’t about becoming someone else—it’s about giving myself a better chance to live with steadiness, honesty, and hope. Say Hello Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery! Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books Please if you enjoy this content checkout Ryan's work

    31 min

  2. FEB 8

    Suspend Your Opinions

    In this episode of Navigate the Day, I explore one of the most challenging Stoic ideas I’ve wrestled with: suspending judgment. Marcus Aurelius reminds us that events themselves don’t disturb us—our opinions about them do. Between what happens and how we react, there’s a brief pause where choice exists. And lately, I’ve been realizing just how rarely I use that pause. I have a strong pull toward negativity. When something goes wrong, I feel almost obligated to label it as bad, unfair, or proof that I’ve failed. Part of me resists the Stoic idea of withholding judgment because I’ve spent years ignoring my emotions, and I’m afraid that suspending opinion means silencing them again. This episode is me trying to untangle that tension—how to acknowledge emotions without letting them run the show, and how restraint doesn’t have to mean denial. Over the past week, I’ve noticed how fear, anxiety, and overthinking have been shaping my choices—or more accurately, my lack of choices. I worry about the future, regret the past, and end up living reactively instead of intentionally. I talk openly about how avoidance, distraction, and impulsive habits have become ways I cope with discomfort, even though they keep me stuck in the same patterns I complain about. Suspending judgment, for me, isn’t about pretending things don’t hurt or forcing optimism. It’s about questioning the stories I automatically tell myself—that I’m powerless, that it’s too late, that nothing I do will matter. When I rush to those conclusions, I hand over what little agency I do have. But when I slow down and refuse to label every experience as a verdict on my worth or future, something softens. This episode isn’t about mastering emotional control or eliminating anxiety. It’s about practicing restraint in small moments—pausing before spiraling, before blaming, before assuming the worst. I’m still struggling. I still doubt my ability to choose well. But I’m beginning to see that not every situation needs my opinion attached to it. Suspend Your Opinions is a reminder that peace doesn’t come from fixing everything or having certainty. Sometimes it comes from letting things be what they are, loosening our grip on the judgments that exhaust us, and learning—slowly—to trust that clarity can exist without a verdict. Say Hello Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery! Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books Please if you enjoy this content checkout Ryan's work

    30 min

  3. FEB 1

    Focus On The Present Moment

    In this episode of Navigate the Day, I reflect on what it really means to focus on the present moment—not as a productivity hack or a feel-good slogan, but as a discipline that’s uncomfortable, demanding, and deeply human. Marcus Aurelius reminds us that life doesn’t ask for grand gestures or constant expansion. It asks us to do what’s in front of us with care, dignity, and honesty, and to let go of the mental noise that makes simple things feel unbearable. Lately, I’ve been noticing just how scattered my attention has become. Distraction has turned into a default response—something I lean on to avoid discomfort, dissatisfaction, or the reality of where I am. Whether it’s doom scrolling, escaping into games or shows, or replaying frustrations in my head, I’ve been anything but present. And the truth is, it’s not the task itself that drains me—it’s the resistance, the complaints, and the drama I add on top of it. This episode is also an honest look at my resistance to tools like mantras, affirmations, and intentional focus. I’m skeptical of anything that feels performative or disconnected from reality, yet I’m forced to admit that the thoughts I repeat—whether I choose them or not—shape how I experience my days. If I’m already living by unhelpful internal scripts, maybe the work isn’t rejecting intention altogether, but choosing it more carefully. I talk about my ongoing struggle with desire, fear, and avoidance—how wanting things I can’t control and resisting what’s in front of me keeps me stuck. Stoicism doesn’t promise that focusing on the present will magically make life satisfying, but it does suggest that attention, when practiced with integrity, can restore a sense of agency even in circumstances we don’t like. This week, being sick slowed me down in ways I didn’t choose, forcing me to confront how much I rely on distraction just to get through the day. It reminded me that philosophy isn’t meant to be a rigid rulebook or a badge of moral superiority—it’s meant to be medicine. Something private, practical, and grounding. Something that helps us meet each moment as it is, not as we wish it were. Focus On The Present Moment is about learning to show up without drama, to simplify without numbing out, and to accept that progress doesn’t always look impressive. Sometimes it just looks like staying with the task at hand, letting go of complaint, and doing one small thing well. That may not solve everything—but it’s enough to begin. Say Hello Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery! Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books Please if you enjoy this content checkout Ryan's work

    30 min

  4. JAN 25

    A Little Better Every Day

    In this episode of Navigate the Day, I reflect on what it really means to get “a little better every day.” Epictetus reminds us—through Socrates—that true progress isn’t loud or dramatic. It’s quiet, internal, and often invisible. Just as someone might take pride in improving a farm or a craft, Stoic progress is about tending to the self daily: how I judge, how I respond, and how I choose to act, regardless of circumstances. This week, I wrestled with how easy it is to forget that no matter where I find myself in life, I still have choices available to me. I often catch myself excusing my behavior based on circumstances, past mistakes, or disappointment with how things have turned out. But Stoicism doesn’t allow for that kind of escape. Even when life feels stagnant or discouraging, my responses still belong to me. The moment I tell myself I have “no choice,” I give up the only kind of freedom that really matters. I also question whether my daily practices—journaling, reflection, learning—are actually leading to change, or if they’ve become ways to stay busy without acting. Awareness alone isn’t enough. Improvement requires follow-through, even when motivation is low and progress feels unimpressive. I’m realizing that character isn’t built by waiting for clarity or perfect conditions, but by choosing to show up honestly and deliberately, again and again. A Little Better Every Day isn’t about fixing everything at once or erasing the past. It’s about renewing attention in the present. Even when I feel stuck, discouraged, or uncertain, there’s still work worth doing—quiet work, internal work. A good life isn’t built through breakthroughs, but through steady effort, patience, and the willingness to try again today, even if yesterday fell short. Say Hello Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery! Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books Please if you enjoy this content checkout Ryan's work

    30 min

  5. JAN 18

    The Wake Up

    In this episode of Navigate the Day, I reflect on what Epictetus calls a true “wake up”—not just opening our eyes in the morning, but waking up to responsibility, agency, and the role our own mind plays in shaping the day ahead. Before the world pulls at our attention, Epictetus urges us to ask harder questions: where we’ve lost our serenity, how we’ve acted toward others, and whether we’re living as rational beings or simply reacting to impulses, fear, and habit. This week, I found myself wrestling with how difficult that kind of self-honesty really is. Letting go of what’s outside my control still feels uncomfortable, even discouraging at times. I struggle with surrender, with trust in my own judgment, and with the feeling that my choices haven’t moved my life in the direction I hoped they would. When progress feels slow or nonexistent, it’s tempting to withdraw, distract myself, or stop believing that my actions matter at all. But this episode isn’t about pretending things are fine—they’re not. It’s about recognizing that peace doesn’t come from fixing circumstances or forcing optimism. It comes from examining how I meet each day: how I respond, what assumptions I make, and whether I’m willing to pause long enough to choose deliberately instead of reacting automatically. Even when my direction feels unclear, the way I carry myself still matters. The Wake Up is a reminder that serenity isn’t found in outcomes, certainty, or control. It begins with attention—paying honest attention to my thoughts, my habits, and the ways I drift away from what really matters. I may not have all the answers, but each morning offers another chance to practice restraint, clarity, and kindness. And sometimes, simply waking up to that responsibility is enough to begin again. Say Hello Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery! Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books Please if you enjoy this content checkout Ryan's work

    32 min

  6. JAN 11

    The Sphere Of Choice

    In this episode, I sit with one of the hardest Stoic ideas to live by: the sphere of choice. Epictetus draws a sharp line between what belongs to us—our judgments, intentions, and actions—and everything else we spend our lives worrying about. I explore what it looks like to actually confront that boundary when life feels aimless, heavy, and stripped of direction. I speak honestly about drifting through my days without a clear purpose, about surviving rather than striving, and about how fear of regret, failure, and repeating past mistakes has left me hesitant to choose anything at all. I reflect on how much of my exhaustion comes from placing importance on outcomes, identities, and circumstances that were never truly mine to control in the first place. This episode also touches on addiction, distraction, and attachment—both obvious and subtle—and how they quietly pull attention away from what I still have power over. Even after years of studying Stoicism, I admit how difficult it is to stop blaming circumstances, the world, or even my past self, instead of taking responsibility for the judgments I’m making right now. What I come back to, again and again, is this: even if I can’t find a grand purpose, even if the future feels unclear, I still have my choices. I may not control outcomes, stability, or how others act—but I do shape my character through how I respond. This episode isn’t about having answers. It’s about learning to stop fighting reality, to release claims over what isn’t mine, and to begin practicing responsibility without self-punishment. If you’ve been feeling stuck between knowing what you should focus on and struggling to actually do it, this episode is a reminder that steadiness doesn’t come from fixing life—it comes from tending to the small, difficult work of choosing well, one day at a time. Say Hello Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery! Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books Please if you enjoy this content checkout Ryan's work

    32 min

  7. JAN 4

    Dichotomy Of Control

    In this episode, I reflect on the Stoic idea that so much of our suffering comes from trying to control what was never ours to begin with. Epictetus reminds us that the real work of life is learning to separate what’s within our control from what isn’t—and then having the courage to live by that distinction. This week, I wrestle honestly with gratitude, frustration, and responsibility. I talk about how easy it is for me to focus on what’s missing in my life while overlooking what’s already here: time, shelter, income, and the ability to reflect and choose differently. I explore how chasing comfort, distraction, and short-term relief has kept me stuck, and how resisting reality only adds to the weight I’m already carrying. I also confront how deeply I rely on external circumstances—relationships, outcomes, timing—to determine how steady I feel inside. Even when I understand the dichotomy of control intellectually, letting go emotionally has been far harder. This episode is about acknowledging that gap without giving up on closing it. Ultimately, this is a conversation about responsibility without self-condemnation. About choosing to act, even when motivation is low. About redirecting energy away from what I can’t change and toward the choices that still belong to me—my judgments, my habits, and how I show up today. I may not feel certain about the future, but I’m learning that freedom starts the moment I stop fighting reality and start taking ownership of what’s mine to carry. If you’ve ever felt stuck between knowing better and doing better, this episode is for you. Say Hello Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery! Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books Please if you enjoy this content checkout Ryan's work

    32 min

  8. 12/28/2025

    Turn Words Into Works

    In this episode of Navigate the Day, I reflect on Seneca’s reminder that philosophy is meant to be lived, not collected. Wisdom isn’t proven by how much we read, quote, or admire—it’s proven by how we act when life becomes uncomfortable, uncertain, or demanding. Noble ideas only matter if they change how we show up in the world. This past week forced me to confront how often I confuse understanding with progress. I’ve spent a lot of time studying Stoic ideas, journaling, and reflecting, yet I can’t always say those insights have translated into action. It’s easy to feel like growth is happening simply because I’m thinking deeply, but Seneca makes it clear: without application, reflection becomes another form of avoidance. I talk openly about fear—fear of failure, fear of choosing wrong, fear that too much time has already been wasted. That fear has led me to grip tightly to distractions, comfort, and habits that feel safe but don’t move me forward. Whether it’s overconsumption, escapism, or staying stuck in situations I dislike, I’ve had to admit that knowing better hasn’t always meant doing better. At the same time, this episode isn’t about self-condemnation. It’s about responsibility. I’m learning that turning words into works doesn’t require a dramatic transformation overnight. It starts with small, deliberate choices—choosing effort over avoidance, balance over extremes, and action over endless analysis. Even imperfect action builds more character than perfect intentions ever could. Seneca reminds us that philosophy succeeds only when it reshapes conduct. That idea challenges me, but it also gives me hope. If growth is measured by what I practice—not by how far I’ve fallen behind—then today still matters. I may not have everything figured out, but I can choose to live more intentionally, even in uncertainty. This episode is a reminder to myself, and to anyone listening, that wisdom isn’t something we wait to discover someday. It’s something we create by how we live today—one decision, one habit, one honest effort at a time. Say Hello Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery! Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books Please if you enjoy this content checkout Ryan's work

    32 min
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Still struggling with your thought patterns? Tune in to Navigate the Day, a daily podcast where I share my personal journey learning stoicism in pursuit of self-mastery, perseverance, and wisdom. You'll learn how to control your thoughts and live a more content life. Listen now! Meditations and Prompts are based on Ryan Holidays The Daily Stoic book and companion journal.As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

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    Navigate The Day
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
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