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Mitchell Bastock

Deep, open & amusing conversions with curious, honest & conscious people.

  1. Oct 19

    The Art of Staying Connected | Julie Tenner

    What if the secret to a lasting relationship isn't found in the big moments, but in the small things we do every day? In this episode, I sit down with intimacy and relationship therapist Julie Tenner to explore the complexities of love, connection and what it really takes to sustain a meaningful relationship. Drawing on more than two decades of experience, Julie shares her insights into the emotional patterns that shape our relationships, the balance between masculine and feminine energy, and why understanding ourselves is often the first step towards understanding our partners. We explore why couples get caught in the same arguments, how our past experiences influence the way we communicate, and the importance of creating emotional safety. Julie also challenges some common assumptions about intimacy and desire, explaining why relationships can gradually lose their spark and how seemingly insignificant moments of appreciation, affection and presence can help bring it back. From navigating the demands of parenting to understanding the different seasons of long-term relationships, this conversation is an honest and thought-provoking exploration of what it means to love and be loved. Whether you're in a relationship or simply looking to better understand yourself, Julie offers practical wisdom on building deeper connections and becoming more intentional with the people who matter most. Connect with Julie Instagram | @julietenner.love Website | www.julietenner.love Connect with Mitchell Instagram | ⁠mitchellbastock⁠ Email | mitchell.bastock@gmail.com

  2. Jul 19

    7,000 Waves. One Purpose | w/Josh Levey

    What drives someone to catch 7,000 waves in a single month? In this episode, I sit down with professional surfer Josh Levey to unpack the mindset behind one of Australia's most remarkable endurance challenges. What started as a personal test on New Year's Day, with a goal of 5,000 waves, grew into something far bigger: a month long battle against the ocean, his own body, and sickness, that ultimately raised $106,000 for Newcastle homelessness charity Soul Hub and reshaped Josh's perspective on success, purpose and the impact one person can have. We talk about growing up between Japan, where he was born, and Newcastle, where he moved at age seven; the discipline of competing on the World Surf League's Qualifying Series; and the physical and mental toll of surfing up to eight hours a day, including the final stretch of the challenge, when food poisoning nearly ended it all. Josh opens up about why serving others became more important to him than chasing personal records, how his Christian faith shapes the way he approaches life, competition and community, and why he believes our greatest gifts are meant to be used for others. Whether you're an athlete, a surfer, or simply someone looking for more purpose and perspective, this conversation is full of lessons on resilience, discipline, generosity, and what it really means to live a life that leaves a positive mark on others. Connect with Josh Levey Instagram | joshlevey_ Connect with Mitchell Instagram | ⁠mitchellbastock⁠ Email | mitchell.bastock@gmail.com

    7,000 Waves. One Purpose | w/Josh Levey
  3. May 18

    Performing Under Pressure & The Attributes of Elite Performers | w/Rich Diviney

    Life has a funny way of reminding us that no matter how much we plan, uncertainty is always lurking around the corner. The question isn't whether it'll show up, it's whether we're ready when it does. Rich Diviney spent 21 years as a Navy SEAL officer, commanding teams in combat, running assessment and selection, and learning firsthand what separates people who fall apart under pressure from those who somehow get calmer. Since retiring, he's channelled all of that into two books, The Attributes and his latest Masters of Uncertainty, and a mission to help people understand how and why they perform the way they do, especially when the shit hits the fan. This one is jam-packed with real, practical stuff. From the difference between skills and attributes and why knowing your own performance picture is a total game changer, to the neuroscience behind how we learn faster under pressure, and a beautifully simple tool called Moving Horizons that'll change the way you think about getting through hard moments. We also get into identity, dopamine, instinct vs rational thinking, the power of breath, and how the best teams are built on trust. Rich is the real deal. Grounded, sharp, and genuinely passionate about helping people show up better. I loved every minute of this one and I think you will too. Connect with Rich Instagram | rich_diviney and theattributes Website | theattributes.com  Connect with Mitchell Instagram | ⁠mitchellbastock⁠ Email | mitchell.bastock@gmail.com

    Performing Under Pressure & The Attributes of Elite Performers | w/Rich Diviney

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