The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast

The Real Ex's

Become a Paid Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/therealexs/subscribe Grab a glass of wine and listen in as Heather, Amy, and Sofie (The Real Ex's) tell their story of how they all dated (and in one case married) the same man. Their story has been criticized or people were completely shocked, but in the end they all wanted to hear more! So the Ex’s took their monthly half-off “Wine-Wednesday” girls-night-out (GNO) to a weekly podcast. They laughed so much on their GNO that after 4 hours they were told to get their ‘laughing-beautiful-asses’ (#LBA) out! BTW ½-off Wine was nixed! Happy Wine-Wednesday! CHEERS! Heather, Sofie, and Amy

  1. 07/19/2025

    Ep 68: Mid-Life Energy - How to use energy and intuition to ignite your light during menopausal changes

    The Real Ex's have a great conversation with Brenda Winkle, she is an energetic guide, who has taken her personal story about blowing up her life to reclaim her empathic and intuitive gifts. Sofie and Amy learn a lot about how low estrogen during perimenopause reflects your energy, not just just the energy you need to clean the house, but the lack of energy you admit to the world. When this energy is low, you end up soaking up all the energy from your environment (even the negative energy), like a raisin in water.  This 90 minute podcast will make you rethink your energy differently. Brenda Winkle: https://www.brendawinkle.com/ https://www.instagram.com/brendawinkle https://www.brendawinkle.com/audit More about The Real Ex's: Check out our website: https://www.TheRealExs.com Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast Spotify | Apple | iHeart Radio | Amazon Podcast | Audible | Anchor.fm | YouTube Don’t forget to check out our sponsors! https://www.therealexs.com/sponsors Here's to strength, connection, and holistic well-being! Love to all! xo   Amy & Sofie - The Real Ex’s - DISCLAIMERThe Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast and content posted by Sofie and Amy are presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk.  Our intention is not to be a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professionals, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have, and they should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for such conditions or situations.

    1h 37m
  2. 03/21/2025

    Ep 67: Embracing Change: The Overlap Between Menopause, Divorce Recovery, and Your True Calling

    he Real Ex's spend time with their new tribe member, Kim. Kim is a mother of three grown daughters navigating the exciting chapters of life. She inspires any woman who wants to reconnect with your passions between perimenopause, post-divorce, and starting new businesses. She is a passionate entrepreneur and runs her company, Rustic Home Organizing, helping people transform spaces into organized havens. Kim is also launching The Day Dream Project event on May 1st in Carlton, Oregon (thedaydreamproject.com).  More about Kim: The DayDream Project information: May 1, 2025  https://www.thedaydreamproject.com/ https://www.thedaydreamproject.com/eventdetails https://www.facebook.com/ hello@thedaydreamproject.com Rustic Home Organizing: https://rhorganizing.com More about The Real Ex's: NEW! Check out our website: https://www.TheRealExs.com Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast Spotify | Apple | iHeart Radio | Amazon Podcast | Audible | Anchor.fm | YouTube Don’t forget to check out our sponsors! https://www.therealexs.com/sponsors Here's to strength, connection, and holistic well-being! Love to all! xo   Amy & Sofie - The Real Ex’s - DISCLAIMERThe Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast and content posted by Sofie and Amy are presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk.  Our intention is not to be a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professionals, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have, and they should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for such conditions or situations.

    1h 22m
  3. 03/08/2025

    Ep 66: Symptoms of Perimenopause: How do you know?

    The Real Ex's third episode with Stacy Marie,NP, a double board-certified Family Nurse Practitioner (FNP-BC) and Adult-Gerontology Acute Care Nurse Practitioner (AGACNP-BC) who specializes in Functional Medicine. Sofie and Amy ask Stacy, how do you really know when you are in perimenopause? What is happening to us? When can it all start? What should I do? All questions we should be asking ourselves as young as 35. More about Stacy Marie, NP: Stacy is a double board certified Family & Acute Care Nurse Practitioner with a gift for making intricate functional medicine interventions simple, accessible and manageable. Stacy Marie Ronquillo, NP, brings over 18 years of healthcare experience, including more than a decade spent in the fast-paced and demanding environment of the emergency room. During her time in the ER, she witnessed the immense challenges patients face when navigating the conventional healthcare system. Time and again, individuals arrived at their breaking point—often because they lacked the proper guidance, preventive care, or time with their primary provider to address issues before they escalated. Stacy’s firsthand experience revealed a troubling pattern: patients waiting for hours in overcrowded, stressful environments, only to receive temporary solutions that failed to address the root cause of their concerns. Many would return to the ER weeks later, caught in a cycle of frustration and uncertainty. The same issues were prevalent in primary care, where rushed visits, long wait times, and one-size-fits-all approaches left patients feeling unheard and unsupported, without a clear plan to address their health. Motivated to provide a better solution, Stacy founded Remedy Functional Medicine to redefine healthcare through a functional medicine lens. Her practice is rooted in the belief that every patient deserves time, understanding, and a personalized approach to care. At Remedy Functional Medicine, patients receive more than symptom management—they receive thorough assessments, individualized plans, and tools to address the root causes of their health concerns. By focusing on prevention, metabolic health, and whole-body wellness, Stacy helps her patients regain control of their health while avoiding unnecessary prescriptions or emergency visits. Stacy’s mission is to bridge the gaps in conventional medicine, offering a compassionate and empowering approach that ensures patients never feel like a number. Through Remedy Functional Medicine, she delivers the kind of care that prioritizes connection, clarity, and lasting results. Stacy's Contact information: https://www.remedyfunctionalmedicine.com/ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stacymarienp/⁠ Terms of Service and Disclaimer: https://www.remedyfunctionalmedicine.com/terms-of-service During the podcast there is a discount code revealed! Don’t miss out if you want to visit Stacy! More about The Real Ex's: NEW! https://www.TheRealExs.com www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs rxop.yourstory@gmail.com The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast Don’t forget to check out our sponsors! https://www.therealexs.com/sponsors Here's to strength, connection, and holistic well-being! Love to all! xo   Amy & Sofie - The Real Ex’s - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555156183768DISCLAIMERThe Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast and content posted by Sofie and Amy are presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk.  Our intention is not to be a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professionals, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have, and they should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for such conditions or situations.

    1h 6m
  4. 01/16/2025

    Ep 65: Why your gut and metabolic health is important during menopause

    The Real Ex's continue with another episode with Stacy Marie, RN, a double board-certified Family Nurse Practitioner (FNP-BC) and Adult-Gerontology Acute Care Nurse Practitioner (AGACNP-BC). Sofie and Amy visit Stacy at her new office to continue talking to the resident functional health expert for the podcast. They dig into Sofie’s first 90-minute visit with Stacy. They talk about not only gut health, but also how there is more to HRT than estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone.  Stacy is a double board certified Family & Acute Care Nurse Practitioner with a gift for making intricate functional medicine interventions simple, accessible and manageable. Stacy Marie Ronquillo, NP, brings over 17 years of healthcare experience, including more than a decade spent in the fast-paced and demanding environment of the emergency room. During her time in the ER, she witnessed the immense challenges patients face when navigating the conventional healthcare system. Time and again, individuals arrived at their breaking point—often because they lacked the proper guidance, preventive care, or time with their primary provider to address issues before they escalated. Stacy’s firsthand experience revealed a troubling pattern: patients waiting for hours in overcrowded, stressful environments, only to receive temporary solutions that failed to address the root cause of their concerns. Many would return to the ER weeks later, caught in a cycle of frustration and uncertainty. The same issues were prevalent in primary care, where rushed visits, long wait times, and one-size-fits-all approaches left patients feeling unheard and unsupported, without a clear plan to address their health. Motivated to provide a better solution, Stacy founded Remedy Functional Medicine to redefine healthcare through a functional medicine lens. Her practice is rooted in the belief that every patient deserves time, understanding, and a personalized approach to care. Stacy’s mission is to bridge the gaps in conventional medicine, offering a compassionate and empowering approach that ensures patients never feel like a number. Through Remedy Functional Medicine, she delivers the kind of care that prioritizes connection, clarity, and lasting results. Stacy's Contact information: https://www.remedyfunctionalmedicine.com/ hello@remedyfunctionalmedicine.com Terms of Service and Disclaimer: https://www.remedyfunctionalmedicine.com/terms-of-service Follow Stacy: https://www.instagram.com/stacymarienp/ During the podcast there is a discount code revealed! Don’t miss out if you want to visit Stacy! **More about The Real Ex's: NEW! Check out our website: https://www.TheRealExs.com Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast Spotify | Apple | iHeart Radio | Amazon Podcast | Audible | Anchor.fm | YouTube Don’t forget to check out our sponsors! https://www.therealexs.com/sponsors Here's to strength, connection, and holistic well-being! Love to all! xo   Amy & Sofie - The Real Ex’s - DISCLAIMERThe Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast and content posted by Sofie and Amy are presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk.  Our intention is not to be a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professionals, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have, and they should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for such conditions or situations.

    1h 4m
  5. 01/02/2025

    Ep 64: Three things all women need to do when you start perimenopause

    The Real Ex's will launch its second season in 2025, featuring Stacy Marie, RN, a double board-certified Family Nurse Practitioner (FNP-BC) and Adult-Gerontology Acute Care Nurse Practitioner (AGACNP-BC). She will join Sofie and Amy as the resident functional health expert. This season will focus on women's health issues and aims to demystify the latest information so women can effectively navigate their most critical years. Stacy will highlight three essential strategies for women over 35 to adopt, challenging the long-standing habits ingrained in daily life: eating adequate protein, consuming enough fiber, and stopping under-eating. More about Stacy: Stacy Marie Ronquillo, NP, brings over 17 years of healthcare experience, including more than a decade spent in the fast-paced and demanding environment of the emergency room. During her time in the ER, she witnessed the immense challenges patients face when navigating the conventional healthcare system. Stacy’s firsthand experience revealed a troubling pattern: patients waiting for hours in overcrowded, stressful environments, only to receive temporary solutions that failed to address the root cause of their concerns. Many would return to the ER weeks later, caught in a cycle of frustration and uncertainty. The same issues were prevalent in primary care, where rushed visits, long wait times, and one-size-fits-all approaches left patients feeling unheard and unsupported, without a clear plan to address their health. Motivated to provide a better solution, Stacy focuses her practice with rooted belief that every patient deserves time, understanding, and a personalized approach to care. At Remedy Functional Medicine, patients receive more than symptom management—they receive thorough assessments, individualized plans, and tools to address the root causes of their health concerns. By focusing on prevention, metabolic health, and whole-body wellness, Stacy helps her patients regain control of their health while avoiding unnecessary prescriptions or emergency visits. Stacy’s mission is to bridge the gaps in conventional medicine, offering a compassionate and empowering approach that ensures patients never feel like a number. Through Remedy Functional Medicine, she delivers the kind of care that prioritizes connection, clarity, and lasting results. Stacy's Contact information: https://www.remedyfunctionalmedicine.com/ hello@remedyfunctionalmedicine.com Terms of Service and Disclaimer: https://www.remedyfunctionalmedicine.com/terms-of-service Follow Stacy: https://www.instagram.com/stacymarienp/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555156183768 More about The Real Ex's: NEW! Check out our website: https://www.TheRealExs.com Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast Spotify | Apple | iHeart Radio | Amazon Podcast | Audible | Anchor.fm | YouTube Don’t forget to check out our sponsors! https://www.therealexs.com/sponsors Here's to strength, connection, and holistic well-being! Love to all! xo   Amy & Sofie - The Real Ex’s - DISCLAIMER: The Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast and content posted by Sofie and Amy are presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk.  Our intention is not to be a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professionals, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have, and they should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for such conditions or situations.

    1h 12m
  6. 06/20/2024

    Ep 63: Discovering your Life’s Passion and Purpose with Ratika Hansen

    The Real Ex's special guest is Ratika Hansen, Sofie's close friend and former co-worker. Ratika is a mother of twin boys, has a full-time corporate job, is a three-time Amazon Bestselling contributing author, and is a lifelong learner. Her mantra is to learn it, use it, love it, and share it. Among other workshops, she is a certified facilitator of the Passion Test, a simple yet profound way to get clear about what is most important to you and align your life with those things.  Living our true passions allows us to transform our lives and bring our very best to the world in a special way that only we can. Ratika will return next week to walk Sofie and Amy through this powerful process. Books referenced during the podcast (Ratika Hansen - contributing author): Inspired by the Passion Tests: The #1 Tool for Discovering Your Passion and Purpose by Janet Bray Attwood & Geoff Alfleck Your Shift Matters: Breakdown to Breakthrough by Dana Zarcone Awakening the Amazing in You: How to Thrive in the Midst of Chaos by Janet Bray Attwood, Chris Attwood, Catherine Allon, Debra Eklove, Rolf Erickson, Ratika Hansen, Kay McDonald, James Buffalo Moreno, MaryLynn Navarro, Betsey Sarris   As always, keep an eye on our social media channels and website for updates. And if you have any topics you'd love us to cover or questions you'd like us to answer in future episodes, please feel free to reach out! (rxop.yourstory@gmail.com)  Subscribe to our podcasts, follow our latest on Instagram  and Facebook and don’t forget to join our FaceBook Group “ Social Club PDX”. YouTube is live! More video’s coming and all the podcasts are available!  Remember to subscribe @therealexs Subscribe to The Real Ex’s Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/therealexs/subscribe $1.99 per month! -No Ads on all podcasts -Bonus unedited podcast videos -Subscription-only juicy podcasts -Bloopers Coming soon…The Real Ex’s AfterHours, Special Guests, and more! Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com Share our podcast to your friends: (copy and send) “Hey Fabulous BFF!  I found this podcast you will love! Check it out -“The Real Ex’s of Portland” anywhere you listen to podcasts!  Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast Spotify | Apple | iHeart Radio | Amazon Podcast | Audible | Anchor.fm | YouTube Cheers, The Real Ex’s DISCLAIMER The Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast and content posted by Heather, Sofie and Amy are presented solely for general informational, educational and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk.  It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist or other qualified professionals, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for such conditions.

    44 min
  7. 06/05/2024

    Ep 62: Part 2 - Everything you need to know about psilocybin services with Jenna - Psychedelic, Mushroom, Mental Health expert

    The Real Ex's continue their psilocybin discussion with Jenna, a mental health therapist with over 20 years of experience helping clients navigate anxiety, depression, substance dependence, and post-traumatic stress. In this part 2 podcast, learn more about how psilocybin services source their mushrooms from licensed manufacturers and how more research has expanded to include veterans, PTSD, substance abuse, and micro-dosing ("Low Dose Administration") is being used for all sorts of life-altering diseases.  Jenna works at Fractal Soul (www.fractalsoulpdx.com) as the Executive Director and Integration Lead. Resources from the podcast:  Fractal Soul: https://www.fractalsoulpdx.com Dosed Movie: https://www.dosedmovie.com/ CNN The Whole Story with Anderson Cooper, “Magic Mushrooms. Can they change your mind?”  https://www.cnn.com/videos/health/2023/06/14/psychedelics-magic-mushroom-david-culver-ron-1-actws-vpx.cnn As always, keep an eye on our social media channels and website for updates. And if you have any topics you'd love us to cover or questions you'd like us to answer in future episodes, please feel free to reach out! (rxop.yourstory@gmail.com)  Subscribe to our podcasts, follow our latest on Instagram  and Facebook and don’t forget to join our FaceBook Group “ Social Club PDX”. YouTube is live! More video’s coming and all the podcasts are available!  Remember to subscribe @therealexs Subscribe to The Real Ex’s Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/therealexs/subscribe $1.99 per month! -No Ads on all podcasts -Bonus unedited podcast videos -Subscription-only juicy podcasts -Bloopers Coming soon…The Real Ex’s AfterHours, Special Guests, and more! Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com Share our podcast to your friends: (copy and send) “Hey Fabulous BFF!  I found this podcast you will love! Check it out -“The Real Ex’s of Portland” anywhere you listen to podcasts!  Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast Spotify | Apple | iHeart Radio | Amazon Podcast | Audible | Anchor.fm | YouTube Cheers, The Real Ex’s DISCLAIMER The Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast and content posted by Heather, Sofie and Amy are presented solely for general informational, educational and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk.  It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist or other qualified professionals, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for such conditions.

    36 min
  8. 05/30/2024

    Ep 61: Everything you need to know about psilocybin services with Jenna - Psychedelic, Mushroom, Mental Health expert

    The Real Ex's got an in-depth lesson with Jenna, a mental health therapist and Psilocybin services professional. She is an excellent resource for anyone interested in learning more about psychedelics (psilocybin) and their potential therapeutic benefits. Jenna holds a Master's Degree in Professional Counseling and has over 20 years of experience helping clients navigate anxiety, depression, substance dependence, and post-traumatic stress. She specializes in working with clients diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and frequently speaks at conferences on the intersection of psychedelics and BPD. Jenna works at Fractal Soul (www.fractalsoulpdx.com) as the Executive Director and Integration Lead. This podcast is part one of two series. Stay tuned next week! Resources from the podcast:  Fractal Soul: https://www.fractalsoulpdx.com Dosed Movie: https://www.dosedmovie.com/ CNN The Whole Story with Anderson Cooper, “Magic Mushrooms. Can they change your mind?”  https://www.cnn.com/videos/health/2023/06/14/psychedelics-magic-mushroom-david-culver-ron-1-actws-vpx.cnn As always, keep an eye on our social media channels and website for updates. And if you have any topics you'd love us to cover or questions you'd like us to answer in future episodes, please feel free to reach out! (rxop.yourstory@gmail.com)  Subscribe to our podcasts, follow our latest on Instagram  and Facebook and don’t forget to join our FaceBook Group “ Social Club PDX”. YouTube is live! More video’s coming and all the podcasts are available!  Remember to subscribe @therealexs Subscribe to The Real Ex’s Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/therealexs/subscribe $1.99 per month! -No Ads on all podcasts -Bonus unedited podcast videos -Subscription-only juicy podcasts -Bloopers Coming soon…The Real Ex’s AfterHours, Special Guests, and more! Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com Share our podcast to your friends: (copy and send) “Hey Fabulous BFF!  I found this podcast you will love! Check it out -“The Real Ex’s of Portland” anywhere you listen to podcasts!  Follow us and let us know what you think about our podcasts: www.instagram.com/therealexsportland  https://www.facebook.com/theRealExs Email your stories or comments to:  rxop.yourstory@gmail.com The Real Ex's of Portland Podcast Spotify | Apple | iHeart Radio | Amazon Podcast | Audible | Anchor.fm | YouTube Cheers, The Real Ex’s DISCLAIMER The Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast and content posted by Heather, Sofie and Amy are presented solely for general informational, educational and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk.  It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist or other qualified professionals, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for such conditions.

    45 min

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Become a Paid Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/therealexs/subscribe Grab a glass of wine and listen in as Heather, Amy, and Sofie (The Real Ex's) tell their story of how they all dated (and in one case married) the same man. Their story has been criticized or people were completely shocked, but in the end they all wanted to hear more! So the Ex’s took their monthly half-off “Wine-Wednesday” girls-night-out (GNO) to a weekly podcast. They laughed so much on their GNO that after 4 hours they were told to get their ‘laughing-beautiful-asses’ (#LBA) out! BTW ½-off Wine was nixed! Happy Wine-Wednesday! CHEERS! Heather, Sofie, and Amy