Mindset Medicine Show With Dr. Julia Bowlin

Julia A Bowlin, M.D.
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This Mindset Medicine Podcast is the place to hang out with a “Doc” who steps out of the Box (Or should I say exam room)….This is a no nonsense unfiltered and in your face place to just hang and learn strategies on how to be happier, healthier, and more fulfilled at work AND at home. Dr. Julia and her guests remove their professional veneer and verbal filters to bring you REAL tips, tools, and hacks that she and her colleagues have found to be helpful after 40 years in the self-help and health industry that helps them unwind, organize, and manage the chaos that life and personal belief systems create.

  1. 5d ago

    Decisions without drama: Why every choice is just the brain's best guess — and what it takes to trust it again.

    IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE Every decision you make is really just your brain's best guess — and the goal was never to guess perfectly. This final episode of the series is about the space between what you predict and what actually happens, and choosing to meet that space with open hands instead of drama. KEY INSIGHT What it looks like: gripping tightly to a plan, then feeling loss or frustration the moment reality shows up looking different. What it gets called: not trusting yourself. Poor planning. Things going “wrong.” What it actually is: your brain doing exactly what brains do — making a best guess, then updating it. The drama was never in the gap itself. It was in how tightly you were holding the original guess. This episode includes a guided Unicity Moment™ — a relaxation and self-reflection exercise. This is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are currently experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services in your area. Listener discretion is advised, and participation is always optional. REFLECTION QUESTION What would it be like to look at the gap between what you predicted and what actually happened — without deciding it means something went wrong? BOOKS WORTH YOUR TIME To Me I Thee Wed — my own book on marrying yourself first: learning to love, honor, and cherish yourself so that whoever you partner with, you bring the best version of you to it. Referenced in every episode. Being You: A New Science of Consciousness by Anil Seth — a widely praised, genuinely readable look at how your brain constantly predicts and updates your experience of reality. It's the science behind everything this episode, and honestly this whole series, has been circling. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING That wraps this month — the exhaustion of a thousand small choices, the difference between failing and being full, why being wrong is never the opposite of being wise, the weight of dreading what hasn't happened yet, and now, trusting your brain's best guess enough to meet whatever actually grows. If any of it landed with you, I'd love to know. Next month, we're turning toward something different — questioning what you're carrying that was never actually yours to begin with, and what still fits. The newsletter is where I share what's coming next first. Join at juliabowlinmd.com. CONNECT WITH DR. JULIA Linktree (all links): https://linktr.ee/JuliaBowlin.MD Website: https://www.juliabowlinmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIasxi_iBRBFd1CYuCEeD-g Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJuliaBowlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliabowlinmd/ Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/JuliaBowlinMD LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliabowlinmd/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/juliabowlinmd   Thank you for spending time with me. Until next time, may you be happy, be healthy, and be fulfilled. Dr. Julia.   📣 Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links included here are affiliate links, meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you if you purchase through them. I only recommend products, books, and resources I personally use and believe in. Thank you for your support!

    Decisions without drama: Why every choice is just the brain's best guess — and what it takes to trust it again.

  2. Sep 23

    Dreading What Hasn't Happened Yet: How anticipating a decision can be more draining than making it.

    Dreading What Hasn't Happened Yet How anticipating a decision can be more draining than making it. IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE A decision you've already made — settled, done — and still, some part of you keeps bracing for how it turns out. This episode is about the weight of a future that hasn't happened yet, and why that bracing can cost you more than the outcome itself ever will. KEY INSIGHT What it looks like: a low, constant hum of “what if this doesn't work out,” running in the background of an otherwise fine day. What it gets called: worrying too much. Not trusting the decision. Being unable to relax. What it actually is: anticipatory processing — your brain treating an unresolved future almost like an ongoing threat, simply because it prefers questions closed rather than open. This episode includes a guided Unicity Moment™ — a relaxation and self-reflection exercise. This is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are currently experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services in your area. Listener discretion is advised, and participation is always optional. REFLECTION QUESTION Is there anything actually happening right now that needs your attention? Or is this just a future that hasn't arrived yet, asking for energy it doesn't need from you today? BOOKS WORTH YOUR TIME To Me I Thee Wed — my own book on marrying yourself first: learning to love, honor, and cherish yourself so that whoever you partner with, you bring the best version of you to it. Referenced in every episode. Overcoming Anticipatory Anxiety by Sally M. Winston, PsyD & Martin N. Seif, PhD — a CBT-based guide, written by two anxiety specialists, that unpacks exactly the pattern this episode is about: worrying about what hasn't happened, catastrophic future-thinking, and decision paralysis. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING If this one landed for you, staying with the series matters — next time, I'm closing out the month, looking at what it means to trust a decision as the brain's best guess. The newsletter is where I share what's coming next first — new episodes, live events, and the occasional offer, before anyone else hears about it. Join at juliabowlinmd.com. CONNECT WITH DR. JULIA Linktree (all links): https://linktr.ee/JuliaBowlin.MD Website: https://www.juliabowlinmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIasxi_iBRBFd1CYuCEeD-g Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJuliaBowlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliabowlinmd/ Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/JuliaBowlinMD LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliabowlinmd/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/juliabowlinmd   Thank you for spending time with me. Until next time, may you be happy, be healthy, and be fulfilled. Dr. Julia.   📣 Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links included here are affiliate links, meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you if you purchase through them. I only recommend products, books, and resources I personally use and believe in. Thank you for your support!

    Dreading What Hasn't Happened Yet: How anticipating a decision can be more draining than making it.

  3. Sep 16

    Being Wrong Isn't the Opposite of Wise: What it means when a decision goes sideways — and why that doesn't erase the wisdom that made it.

    IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE... Sometimes a decision that felt completely right in the moment — a good read on someone, a thorough conversation, a genuine yes — doesn't turn out the way it was "supposed to". This episode is about the gap between what we predict and what actually happens, and why that gap doesn't mean the original call we made was foolish. KEY INSIGHT What it looks like: replaying a decision over and over, hunting for the clue that should have given it away. What it gets called: bad judgment. A gut that can't be trusted. “I should have known.” What it actually is: hindsight, dressed up as insight. Wisdom gets measured by what was reasonably knowable at the time — not by how the outcome eventually unfolded. This episode includes a guided Unicity Moment™ — a relaxation and self-reflection exercise. This is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are currently experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services in your area. Listener discretion is advised, and participation is always optional. REFLECTION QUESTION Given only what I knew then, not what I know now — was it actually a reasonable call? BOOKS WORTH YOUR TIME To Me I Thee Wed — my own book on marrying yourself first: learning to love, honor, and cherish yourself so that whoever you partner with, you bring the best version of you to it. Referenced in every episode. Everything Is Obvious by Duncan J. Watts — a sharp, well-researched look at why outcomes only feel predictable in hindsight, and why that “I should have seen it coming” feeling is usually an illusion, not evidence. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING If this one landed, staying with the series matters — next time, I'm looking at what it feels like to brace for a decision long before it's even made. The newsletter is where I share what's coming next first — new episodes, live events, and the occasional offer, before anyone else hears about it. Join at juliabowlinmd.com. CONNECT WITH DR. JULIA Linktree (all links): https://linktr.ee/JuliaBowlin.MD Website: https://www.juliabowlinmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIasxi_iBRBFd1CYuCEeD-g Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJuliaBowlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliabowlinmd/ Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/JuliaBowlinMD LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliabowlinmd/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/juliabowlinmd   Thank you for spending time with me. Until next time, may you be happy, be healthy, and be fulfilled. Dr. Julia.   📣 Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links included here are affiliate links, meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you if you purchase through them. I only recommend products, books, and resources I personally use and believe in. Thank you for your support!

    Being Wrong Isn't the Opposite of Wise: What it means when a decision goes sideways — and why that doesn't erase the wisdom that made it.

  4. Sep 11

    Full, Not Failing: What it means when the our minds runs out of room, not out of ability.

    Episode 2: Full, Not Failing What it means when the mind runs out of room, not out of ability. IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE Everything got checked off the list — patients seen, dinner made, a game made it to on time. So why does saying “no” to a simple weekend request happen before the question even finishes? This episode is about the difference between failing and being full. A mind that's run out of working room doesn't fail — it protects itself, the only way it knows how, by shutting the door on one more ask. KEY INSIGHT What it looks like: a reflexive “no,” a 9:30 collapse into bed, a sense of never quite catching up. What it gets called: not managing well enough. Not organized. Not strong enough to carry it all. What it actually is: character and capacity are two different things — and a mind that ran out of room isn't a verdict on who someone is. This episode includes a guided Unicity Moment™ — a relaxation and self-reflection exercise. This is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are currently experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services in your area. Listener discretion is advised, and participation is always optional. REFLECTION QUESTION What might it be like to notice the moment mental and physical capacity runs thin, a little sooner than usual? BOOKS WORTH YOUR TIME To Me I Thee Wed — my own book on marrying yourself first: learning to love, honor, and cherish yourself so that whoever you partner with, you bring the best version of you to it. Referenced in every episode. Scarcity: Why Having Too Little Means So Much by Sendhil Mullainathan and Eldar Shafir — a research-backed look at how having too little of anything, time, money, sleep, taxes the mind's bandwidth. It's the science behind exactly what this episode is about: capacity, not character. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING If this one landed, staying with the series matters — next time, I'm looking at what it means when a decision doesn't turn out the way it was expected to. The newsletter is where I share what's coming next first — new episodes, live events, and the occasional offer, before anyone else hears about it. Join at juliabowlinmd.com. CONNECT WITH DR. JULIA Linktree (all links): https://linktr.ee/JuliaBowlin.MD Website: https://www.juliabowlinmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIasxi_iBRBFd1CYuCEeD-g Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJuliaBowlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliabowlinmd/ Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/JuliaBowlinMD LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliabowlinmd/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/juliabowlinmd   Thank you for spending time with me. Until next time, may you be happy, be healthy, and be fulfilled. Dr. Julia.   📣 Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links included here are affiliate links, meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you if you purchase through them. I only recommend products, books, and resources I personally use and believe in. Thank you for your support!

    Full, Not Failing: What it means when the our minds runs out of room, not out of ability.

  5. Sep 3

    The Cost of a Thousand Small Choices: Why the exhaustion isn't about any one decision — it's about how many we're carrying at once.

    The Cost of a Thousand Small Choices Why the exhaustion isn't about any one decision — it's about how many we're carrying at once. IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE... Everything got done today. The inbox, the charts, the calls, the kids' dinner. So why does one small question at the back door — “where's the milk?” — feel like the last straw? This episode is about the kind of tired that doesn't come from one hard decision. It's about the hundreds of small ones that stack up before that one ever arrives — and why the reaction to the smallest ask of the day usually has nothing to do with the ask itself. KEY INSIGHT: What it looks like: a short fuse over something tiny, going blank in front of the fridge, a flat “I don't care, you pick.” What it gets called:  Impatience. Moodiness. Not having it together. What it actually is:  a decision-making system that's been asked to choose, weigh, and evaluate all day — clinically, professionally, personally — and simply run out of deliberate fuel before the day did. This episode includes a guided Unicity Moment™ — a relaxation and self-reflection exercise. This is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are currently experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services in your area. Listener discretion is advised, and participation is always optional. REFLECTION QUESTION What might change if the next small snap got treated as information instead of a character flaw? BOOKS WORTH YOUR TIME To Me I Thee Wed — my own book on marrying yourself first: learning to love, honor, and cherish yourself so that whoever you partner with, you bring the best version of you to it. Referenced in every episode. The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less by Barry Schwartz — a clear-eyed look at how too much choice quietly erodes wellbeing, and exactly the kind of research this episode leans on. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING If this one found you at the right moment, staying with the series matters — next time picks up right where this leaves off, looking at what it means when the mind feels full instead of failing. The newsletter is where I share what's coming next first — new episodes, live events, and the occasional offer, before anyone else hears about it. Join at juliabowlinmd.com. CONNECT WITH DR. JULIA Linktree (all links): https://linktr.ee/JuliaBowlin.MD Website: https://www.juliabowlinmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIasxi_iBRBFd1CYuCEeD-g Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJuliaBowlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliabowlinmd/ Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/JuliaBowlinMD LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliabowlinmd/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/juliabowlinmd   Thank you for spending time with me. Until next time, may you be happy, be healthy, and be fulfilled. Dr. Julia.   📣 Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links included here are affiliate links, meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you if you purchase through them. I only recommend products, books, and resources I personally use and believe in. Thank you for your support!

    The Cost of a Thousand Small Choices: Why the exhaustion isn't about any one decision — it's about how many we're carrying at once.

  6. Aug 27

    Speaking Without Armor: Speaking up doesn't have to mean bracing for a fight first.

    In This Episode We Explore Why speaking up and bracing for a fight often feel like the same move, even though they aren't What the body does with an honest conversation when it's been trained to treat speaking up as a threat Why the brain reaches for control — tone, wording, posture — when the real target is uncertainty, not the other person A guided Unicity Moment™ for setting down the readiness to defend, without needing to give up readiness to speak   Key Insight It looks like confidence — finally speaking up after staying quiet. What it can actually be: the same old protection, just wearing a firmer voice instead of silence. The armor and the honest sentence were never the same thing, even though they got fused together over time. This episode includes a guided Unicity Moment™ — a relaxation and self-reflection exercise. This is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are currently experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services in your area. Listener discretion is advised, and participation is always optional. Reflection Question What am I actually trying to control in this conversation, since I can't control how the other person responds? Books Worth Your Time The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson — a fitting companion to this episode: about choosing what's actually worth bracing for, and letting go of the rest. To Me I Thee Wed by Dr. Julia Bowlin — my own book, for anyone who wants more of this work between episodes.   Thank You for Listening If any part of this one met you somewhere real, I'd love to hear about it — reach out anytime. That's a wrap on August. Thank you for spending this month exploring voice with me — finding it, understanding its cost, and learning what it can sound like without the armor on. New themes coming in September. Connect With Dr. Julia Linktree (all links): https://linktr.ee/JuliaBowlin.MD Website: https://www.juliabowlinmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIasxi_iBRBFd1CYuCEeD-g Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJuliaBowlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliabowlinmd/ Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/JuliaBowlinMD LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliabowlinmd/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/juliabowlinmd  Thank you for spending time with me. Until next time, may you be happy, be healthy, and be fulfilled. Dr. Julia.   📣 Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links included here are affiliate links, meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you if you purchase through them. I only recommend products, books, and resources I personally use and believe in. Thank you for your support!

    Speaking Without Armor: Speaking up doesn't have to mean bracing for a fight first.

  7. Aug 19

    What Your Silence Could Cost You: Staying quiet has a price — even when nothing looks like it's missing.

    What Your Silence Could Cost You Staying quiet has a price — even when nothing looks like it's missing. In This Episode We Explore Why the price of staying quiet rarely arrives all at once — and why that makes it so easy to miss How a pattern of being called on for expertise (not friendship) can quietly erode a relationship, even when the person still cares The real difference between a pure assumption and a meaning attached to something that actually happened A guided Unicity Moment™ to notice — without needing to solve — the stories we've quietly written about someone's silence   Key Insight It looks like being generous, or being "the reliable one." What it actually risks becoming: a quiet question of whether you're valued for yourself, or for what you provide — and a cost that keeps compounding as long as that question stays unspoken. This episode includes a guided Unicity Moment™ — a relaxation and self-reflection exercise. This is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are currently experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services in your area. Listener discretion is advised, and participation is always optional. Reflection Question Is the meaning attached to someone's silence, or absence, the only one available — or just the first one that showed up? Books Worth Your Time To Me I Thee Wed by Dr. Julia Bowlin — my own book, for anyone who wants more of this work between episodes. Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves by Amy Ahlers — a direct match for this episode's core idea: the stories we quietly assign meaning to and start treating as settled fact, even when they were never tested. Thank You for Listening If any part of this one met you somewhere real, I'd love to hear about it — reach out anytime. Next time: "Speaking Without Armor." Speaking up doesn't have to mean bracing for a fight first. Connect With Dr. Julia Linktree (all links): https://linktr.ee/JuliaBowlin.MD Website: https://www.juliabowlinmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIasxi_iBRBFd1CYuCEeD-g Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJuliaBowlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliabowlinmd/ Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/JuliaBowlinMD LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliabowlinmd/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/juliabowlinmd  Thank you for spending time with me. Until next time, may you be happy, be healthy, and be fulfilled. Dr. Julia.   📣 Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links included here are affiliate links, meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you if you purchase through them. I only recommend products, books, and resources I personally use and believe in. Thank you for your support!

    What Your Silence Could Cost You: Staying quiet has a price — even when nothing looks like it's missing.

  8. Aug 12

    Finding Your Frequency: What was learned early about speaking up could quietly be running the show now.

    "Finding Your Frequency" What got learned early about speaking up could quietly be running the show now.  In This Episode We Explore Why going quiet — or softening, hedging, editing — often started as protection, not personality What a child's nervous system does with a look, a tone, or a grip on the arm that says "not now" The difference between a pattern and an identity, and why the two get confused A guided Unicity Moment™ to notice — without forcing — what's underneath all that editing Key Insight It looks like being easygoing. It gets called a personality trait — low-drama, diplomatic, "just not a confrontational person." What it actually is: a prediction the brain built early, and never stopped running, long after the room that taught it stopped being dangerous. This episode includes a guided Unicity Moment™ — a relaxation and self-reflection exercise. This is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or psychiatric care. If you are currently experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a licensed professional or emergency services in your area. Listener discretion is advised, and participation is always optional. Reflection Question Is there a moment this week where the honest answer and the one that got said out loud weren't quite the same thing? Books Worth Your Time Feel the Fear... and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers — a direct companion to this episode's core idea: the fear underneath staying quiet isn't a flaw to fix, it's a pattern to understand.   To Me I Thee Wed by Dr. Julia Bowlin — my own book, for anyone who wants more of this work between episodes. Thank You for Listening If any part of this one met you somewhere real, I'd love to hear about it — reach out anytime. Next time: "What Your Silence Could Cost You. Staying quiet has a price — even when nothing looks like it's missing." Connect With Dr. Julia Linktree (all links): https://linktr.ee/JuliaBowlin.MD Website: https://www.juliabowlinmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIasxi_iBRBFd1CYuCEeD-g Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJuliaBowlin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliabowlinmd/ Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/JuliaBowlinMD LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliabowlinmd/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/juliabowlinmd  Thank you for spending time with me. Until next time, may you be happy, be healthy, and be fulfilled. Dr. Julia.   📣 Affiliate Disclosure: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Some links included here are affiliate links, meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you if you purchase through them. I only recommend products, books, and resources I personally use and believe in. Thank you for your support!

    Finding Your Frequency: What was learned early about speaking up could quietly be running the show now.
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This Mindset Medicine Podcast is the place to hang out with a “Doc” who steps out of the Box (Or should I say exam room)….This is a no nonsense unfiltered and in your face place to just hang and learn strategies on how to be happier, healthier, and more fulfilled at work AND at home. Dr. Julia and her guests remove their professional veneer and verbal filters to bring you REAL tips, tools, and hacks that she and her colleagues have found to be helpful after 40 years in the self-help and health industry that helps them unwind, organize, and manage the chaos that life and personal belief systems create.

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