Meet Me at the Spot: Where Pleasure Meets Education

Holly Eckelberger
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This is the space where we get real about sex, relationships, and everything in between. I’m your host Holly Eckelberger, a long time sexual health educator, activist, and content creator. I will be your guide through conversations that blend curiosity, pleasure, and truth. Together with some amazing guests, we’ll break down stigma, celebrate bodies, and learn how to embrace sexual health with confidence and joy. Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com IG/Threads: @thatsexeducator YouTube: Meet Me at the Spot

  1. 2D AGO

    Episode 127: How Baking Became a Tool for Reproductive Justice

    This week, Becca shares her journey into reproductive justice advocacy, blending her passion for baking with pro-abortion activism. She discusses how her creative approach using cakes and accessible resources aims to combat stigma, support those seeking abortions, and promote reproductive justice worldwide. Becca Rea-Tucker (she/her) is a writer, baker, and reproductive justice advocate. She is the author of The Abortion Companion (Running Press, 2026) and Baking By Feel (Harper Wave, 2022). Her work explores bodily autonomy, stigma, food, joy, and shame, and has been featured in Lit Hub, Marie Claire UK, Vogue Italy, Oxford Review of Books, and more. She is the creator of @thesweetfeminist, a platform she built from the ground up. She lives in Austin, TX with her family. Resources mentioned: Ineedana.com Exposing Fake Clinics Connect with Becca @thesweetfeminist Patreon @beccareatucker Upcoming Projects/Promotions Her new book The Abortion Companion: An Affirming Handbook for Your Choice & Your Journey is out now! Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords reproductive justice, abortion support, advocacy, cakes, anti-abortion propaganda, fake clinics, resources, stigma, empowerment, book

    35 min

  2. MAR 26

    Episode 126: You Gotta Actually LIKE Your Partner

    This week, I talk with Byron and Margaret, the amazing duo behind the Beyond I Do podcast. They share their journey of creating a positive space for discussing marriage and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, intentionality, and grace. The couple reflects on their experiences with parenting, overcoming challenges, and the impact of podcasting on their relationship. They offer valuable insights on navigating conflicts, the significance of shared interests, and the necessity of liking your partner. Byron (he/him) and Margaret (she/her) McKie host The Beyond I Do Podcast. After 28 years of marriage, they know love comes easy, but staying connected takes effort. They share real stories and practical tools to help couples stay on the same team and build a marriage that lasts. Connect with Byron and Margaret: www.beyondidopodcast.com Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords podcast, marriage, communication, relationships, positivity, parenting, intentionality, grace, conflict resolution, vulnerability

    1h 5m

  3. MAR 18

    Episode 125: Beyond the "Talk"

    This week, I dive into the topic I get asked the most about as a sexual health educator: having the sex talk with youth. I talk about my reframing about this conversation while providing some conversation starters and my go-to resources that are inclusive and medically-accurate. This week's conversation is for all adults who have any type of relationship with or influence on youth. Make sure to follow me on IG for some more on this topic in the upcoming months! Resources Mentioned on the Show: AMAZE Scarleteen Sex, Etc. Advocates for Youth Planned Parenthood PFLAG  The Trevor Project  Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords sex talk, sex education, consent, puberty,s ex positive, parenting, teens, boundaries

    35 min

  4. MAR 12

    Episode 124: A Hard Pass on Parenthood

    This week, Holly sits down with content creator Carina North to talk about choosing a childfree life in a world that often assumes motherhood is inevitable. Carina shares how growing up in a religious environment shaped her early expectations about marriage and children, and how discovering the childfree community helped her realize parenthood is a choice—not an obligation. Together they explore the cultural pressure placed on women to have kids, the online backlash childfree women face, and the political and social narratives influencing reproductive choices today. Carina North is the voice behind Her Childfree Life, where she talks about living childfree by choice and what it really means to build a life on your own terms. Connect with Carina @ herchildfreelife on Threads, Instagram, and Substack  Website: www.herchildfreelife.com  Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords childfree lifestyle, childfree choice, reproductive choice, motherhood pressure, family planning, autonomy

    42 min

  5. MAR 5

    Episode 123: Changing Lives One Clitoris at a Time

    This week, Cady S. Moore shares her journey into sex education, discussing her experiences as an abortion counselor, her passion for sexual health education, and the importance of inclusivity in the field. We dive into the historical context of sexuality and control, personal experiences with vaginal wellness, and the launch of her new online sex shop, Motherlode, which aims to provide accessible and inclusive sexual health products. Cady emphasizes the need for education and advocacy in sexual health, highlighting the gaps in knowledge and resources available to individuals, particularly those with marginalized identities. Cady Moore is an AASECT-certified sexuality educator, coach, and pleasure nerd who’s been teaching for over a decade. Through her work she helps people unlearn shame and build pleasure-centered, affirming relationships. She’s the foundress of Age of Sexploration and she recently launched her curiosity-fueled sexual wellness shop, MOTHERLODE. Connect with Cady @ ageofsexploration  ageofsexploration.org Upcoming Projects/Promotions Check out Cady’s new sex shop! @ motherlode.market and motherlode-market.com Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords sex education, sexual health, vaginal wellness, reproductive rights, inclusivity, sex shop, personal experiences, advocacy, public health, empowerment

    46 min

  6. FEB 19

    Episode 122: From Pain to Movement Building

    This week, Jimanekia discusses the profound impact of trauma on personal and professional journeys, particularly in the realm of sexual education and advocacy. Jimanekia shares her experiences as a survivor and how these experiences shaped her work as a sex educator and advocate for marginalized voices. This discussion emphasizes the importance of community, the need for comprehensive sex education, and the challenges faced in addressing sexual violence in society. Jimanekia also talks about 'Tending the Garden,' a project she founded aimed at creating safe spaces for survivors, highlighting the necessity of inclusivity and support for all individuals affected by sexual assault. Jimanekia Eborn (she/her) is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. With a Masters in Health Psychology, she has worked in mental health for the past 14 years in sex education and sexual trauma support. Jimanekia is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and our allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending The Garden, a healing retreat for survivors, focused on survivors that have been marginalized. Connect with Jimanekia @ Jimanekia https://traumaqueen.love/ Upcoming Projects/Promotions Jimanekia is the founder of Tending the Garden, an organization for marginalized survivors who are looking for community, healing, education, and growth. They strive to provide this community through the retreat, workshops, live events and resources. Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords trauma, sexual education, sexual assault, community healing, empowerment, mental health, survivors, inclusivity, sex positivity, accountability

    53 min

  7. FEB 11

    Episode 121: De-Shaming Sex One Dildo at a Time

    This week, Dirty Lola shares her unexpected journey into the world of sex education, highlighting the importance of curiosity and continuous learning about our bodies and relationships. She discusses her initiative, Sex Ed-A-Go-Go, which aims to make sex education accessible and entertaining. The conversation also delves into the significance of understanding pleasure products, the impact of misinformation in sexual health, and the importance of collaboration among educators and medical professionals. Lola emphasizes the need for open discussions about sexual health and encourages listeners to stay curious as they navigate their own sexual journeys. Dirty Lola (she/her) has been getting real about sex, polyamory, and kink for over a decade—and doing it with a microphone in one hand and a dildo in the other. She’s the brains and brilliance behind Sex Ed A Go-Go, Netflix Sexpert on The Principles of Pleasure, and your go-to when you want your sex ed served hot, honest, and a little hilarious. Lola’s made it her mission to smash stigma, spread joy, and help folks find their pleasure groove. She’s teamed up with brands like Shag Brooklyn, B-Vibe, Blush, and Womanizer, and has been spotted dropping knowledge on The Cut’s YouTube channel, HBO, and Vice. Wherever there’s a conversation about pleasure that needs de-shaming, you’ll probably find her laughing loudly and passing out lube. Connect with Dirty Lola IG & Threads: @ DirtyLola    Website: DirtyLola.Co Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords sex education, sexual health, pleasure products, kink, relationships, sex positivity, sexual wellness, sex edutainment, sexual empowerment, curiosity

    52 min

  8. FEB 5

    Episode 120: Black History Month: Black Leaders Who Transformed Reproductive Health

    This week, I focus on the intersection of Black history and reproductive justice, highlighting the contributions of Black women and communities in shaping healthcare and reproductive rights. I emphasize the importance of recognizing historical figures and movements that have fought for dignity, access, and joy in reproductive health. The conversation covers various influential figures, including Dr. Rebecca Lee Crumpler, Fannie Lou Hamer, and organizations like SisterSong, while also providing actionable steps for listeners to support reproductive justice today. Accounts to Follow: @blackmamasmatter (Instagram/Twitter/X) – Black Mamas Matter Alliance, a national Black women-led maternal health & reproductive justice coalition.@sistersong_woc (Instagram) / @SisterSong_WOC (Twitter/X) – SisterSong Women of Color Reproductive Justice Collective, one of the foundational reproductive justice organizations.@blackmidwivesalliance (Instagram) / @black_midwives (Twitter/X) – National Black Midwives Alliance, organizing for birth and maternal health justice.@birthequity (Instagram/Twitter/X) – National Birth Equity Collaborative, focused on Black maternal and infant health policy and systems change.@sisterloveinc (Instagram) / @SisterLoveInc (Twitter/X) – SisterLove Inc., working on sexual health, HIV prevention, and reproductive wellness.@theafiyacenter (Instagram) – The Afiya Center, which transforms Black women’s sexual and reproductive health relationships.@southernbirthjustice (Instagram) – Southern Birth Justice Network, building maternal and reproductive justice in the South. Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords Reproductive Justice, Black History Month, Black Women, Healthcare, Dr. Rebecca Lee Crumpler, Fannie Lou Hamer, Black Panther Party, Loretta Ross, SisterSong, Dr. Elders, Black Maternal Health

    16 min
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This is the space where we get real about sex, relationships, and everything in between. I’m your host Holly Eckelberger, a long time sexual health educator, activist, and content creator. I will be your guide through conversations that blend curiosity, pleasure, and truth. Together with some amazing guests, we’ll break down stigma, celebrate bodies, and learn how to embrace sexual health with confidence and joy. Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com IG/Threads: @thatsexeducator YouTube: Meet Me at the Spot

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