Meet Me at the Spot: Where Pleasure Meets Education

Holly Eckelberger
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This is the space where we get real about sex, relationships, and everything in between. I’m your host Holly Eckelberger, a long time sexual health educator, activist, and content creator. I will be your guide through conversations that blend curiosity, pleasure, and truth. Together with some amazing guests, we’ll break down stigma, celebrate bodies, and learn how to embrace sexual health with confidence and joy. Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com IG/Threads: @thatsexeducator YouTube: Meet Me at the Spot

  1. Sep 23

    Episode 134: Reclaiming Sexuality at Any Age: The Power of Erotica w/ Ash

    This week, Ash shares her journey into audio erotica, the importance of safe exploration of sexuality, and the societal stigmas around sex work and erotica. We discuss the power of reclaiming sexuality at any age, especially during perimenopause, and the evolving landscape of erotica and sex positivity. Ash (she/her) is a podcast host who chats all things audio erotica and smut with popular creators in the space. With her guests, she explores the emerging world of audio erotica, the creative and sociological aspects of the genre, how it impacts our understanding of sexuality and empowerment, and of course, there are many laughs, insights and engaging discussions along the way. She is a 40-something mom living outside of Toronto. She uses her political and historical background combined with elder millennial insights to create a fun, engaging and insightful space for her guests to discuss their roles in the audio erotica space. Her ability to balance the more serious aspects of sexuality and empowerment with the creative and fun components of the space allows for her listeners to get to know her guests in a deeper way than they are usually able to. Connect with Ash @audiofunwithash on IG Upcoming Projects/Promotions AudioFun with Ash podcast Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.comReal Sex Ed Workshops: https://www.thatsexeducator.com/real-sex-ed-workshopsSign Up for my Newsletter: Click to fill out the formKeywords erotica, sexuality, sex work, perimenopause, audio erotica, sex positivity, taboo, empowerment, safe exploration, societal stigmas

  2. Sep 16

    Episode 133: Don’t Suck Dick: Rediscovering Yourself Through Kink with Mel

    This week, Mel returns to the podcast for an update! She discusses how her understanding of masculinity shifted through her interactions in the kink community, how her views on body positivity have changed, and so much more! To learn more about why traditional sex ed in the US doesn’t cover a fraction of necessary information, check out the “Who Decides What We Learn About Sex?” workshop on my website. Through a female domination lens, Mel becomes Diosa and discovers the underworld of kink and what it teaches us about power, control, and masculinity. Connect with Mel IG: feminist.insights Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.comReal Sex Ed Workshops: https://www.thatsexeducator.com/real-sex-ed-workshopsSign Up for my Newsletter: Click to fill out the form Keywords kink, sexuality, consent, safety, body positivity, gender roles, trauma healing, non-monogamy, impact play, sensory play

  3. Sep 9

    Episode 132: The Power of Somatic Healing in Sexual Liberation with Mx. Queen

    This week, Mx. Queen shares their journey into sexology, emphasizing the importance of somatic work, healing from trauma, and the power of authenticity in the field of sexual health education.  To learn more about the basics of sexual health prior to listening to this episode, check out the “What is Sexual Health Anyway?” workshop on my website. Mx. Queen, LCSW. M.Ed. (Queen/they) is a clinical integrative somatic sexologist, Erotic Intelligence Coach, TEDx speaker, Author, and Founder of Erospirituality Centre. Through their integrative somatic sexological practice, Erospirituality.com, Queen supports sexuality and gender-affirming professionals, spiritual entrepreneurs, and the erotically curious to heal their erotic self with their erotic intelligence courses, healing intensives, and decolonial comprehensive sexuality education. Connect with Mx. Queen IG and TT: @SistaSexologist; Youtube: @HealingtheEroticSelf Website: Erospirituality.com  Upcoming Projects/Promotions The Other EQ Quiz at EroticIntelligence.co and Healing the Erotic Self Erotic Healing Intensive & Decolonial SAR Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.comReal Sex Ed Workshops: https://www.thatsexeducator.com/real-sex-ed-workshopsSign Up for my Newsletter: Click to fill out the form Keywords sexology, somatic work, trauma healing, sexual liberation, racial justice, queer identity, embodied healing, pleasure, social justice, mental health

  4. Sep 2

    Episode 131: Back to School and Reproductive Justice

    This week, I explore the complexities of reproductive justice, sex education policies, and digital safety for teenagers as many Americans are gearing up for back to school. I discuss the impact of legislation, the importance of accurate information, and practical ways for parents and communities to support youth. Resources Discussed: Who Decides What We Learn About Sex? Screenshots Last Forever: Digital Sexual Safety 101 Beyond the Talk: Having Real Conversations About Sex with Youth Interested in booking me for customized workshops or speaking engagements? Fill out the contact form HERE. Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.comReal Sex Ed Workshops: https://www.thatsexeducator.com/real-sex-ed-workshopsSign Up for my Newsletter: Click to fill out the form Keywords reproductive justice, sex education, digital safety, teen sexting, curriculum censorship, parental communication, AI deepfakes, legal landscape, youth empowerment

  5. Aug 26

    Episode 130: Supporting Asexuality & Other Diverse Sexual and Romantic Identities w/ Aubri Lancaster

    This week, Aubri Lancaster shares her journey from exploring sexuality to becoming a leading advocate for asexuality and aromanticism education. We discuss the importance of inclusive healthcare, systemic challenges, and how language and community-building can foster understanding and support for diverse identities. To learn more about LGBTQ+ identities including Ace and Aro, check out the “Outside the Binary: Sex, Gender, and Identity 101” workshop on my website. Aubri Lancaster (Bri/she) is an independent AASECT and ANTE UP! Certified Sexuality Educator, conducting workshops and trainings for clinicians and sexuality professionals since 2021 and in-home adult toy parties since 2003. As a Greyromantic Asexual person Aubri has lived experience and a connection to the Asexual and Aromantic communities that provides a unique perspective on the issues facing the changing landscape of sexuality and orientation today. Connect with Aubri @AceSexEducation on IG Website: AceSexEducation.com  Upcoming Projects/Promotions Aubri has a multitude of workshops and trainings on their website. Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.comReal Sex Ed Workshops: https://www.thatsexeducator.com/real-sex-ed-workshopsSign Up for my Newsletter: Click to fill out the form Keywords Asexuality, Aromanticism, Healthcare, Systemic Change, Community Building, Sexuality Education, Inclusivity, Medical Professionals, Identity, Advocacy

  6. Apr 22

    Episode 129: Every Ending is a New Beginning

    This week, I reflect on season four of the show, highlighting key themes of pleasure, autonomy, social justice, and community in sexual health education. I share my insights and areas of personal growth. Finally, I talk about the next big step for me and why I’m taking a break from the mic! FREE Guides from Previous Episodes: Sexy Season Survival Guide Pleasure and Advocacy Reset Inventory Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords sexual health, pleasure, autonomy, social justice, community, education, podcast, season review, workshops, reproductive justice

  7. Apr 8

    Episode 128: Creating Space for LGBTQ+ and Disabled Voices

    This week, Mike and Dory share their inspiring journey of creating the Othering Podcast, advocating for marginalized communities, and navigating the challenges of online activism. They discuss the importance of community, the power of laughter, and strategies for handling hate while emphasizing the significance of joy and authenticity in activism. Mike (he/him) and Dory (she/her) are the hosts of the Othering Podcast, a podcast that advocates for the disabled and LGBTQ+ by providing guests a platform to share their story and speak out.  Dory lives with CRPS, and several other disabilities including mental health issues. She is an ambulatory wheelchair user. Mike lives with Di imitating depression and anxiety. Connect with Mike and Dory @ Otheringpodcast www.otheringPodcast.com Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords Podcast, LGBTQ, Disabled, Activism, Community, Online Hate, Joy, Advocacy, Social Media, Mental Health

  8. Apr 1

    Episode 127: How Baking Became a Tool for Reproductive Justice

    This week, Becca shares her journey into reproductive justice advocacy, blending her passion for baking with pro-abortion activism. She discusses how her creative approach using cakes and accessible resources aims to combat stigma, support those seeking abortions, and promote reproductive justice worldwide. Becca Rea-Tucker (she/her) is a writer, baker, and reproductive justice advocate. She is the author of The Abortion Companion (Running Press, 2026) and Baking By Feel (Harper Wave, 2022). Her work explores bodily autonomy, stigma, food, joy, and shame, and has been featured in Lit Hub, Marie Claire UK, Vogue Italy, Oxford Review of Books, and more. She is the creator of @thesweetfeminist, a platform she built from the ground up. She lives in Austin, TX with her family. Resources mentioned: Ineedana.com Exposing Fake Clinics Connect with Becca @thesweetfeminist Patreon @beccareatucker Upcoming Projects/Promotions Her new book The Abortion Companion: An Affirming Handbook for Your Choice & Your Journey is out now! Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords reproductive justice, abortion support, advocacy, cakes, anti-abortion propaganda, fake clinics, resources, stigma, empowerment, book

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This is the space where we get real about sex, relationships, and everything in between. I’m your host Holly Eckelberger, a long time sexual health educator, activist, and content creator. I will be your guide through conversations that blend curiosity, pleasure, and truth. Together with some amazing guests, we’ll break down stigma, celebrate bodies, and learn how to embrace sexual health with confidence and joy. Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com IG/Threads: @thatsexeducator YouTube: Meet Me at the Spot

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