Meet Me at the Spot: Where Pleasure Meets Education

Holly Eckelberger
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 This is the space where we get real about sex, relationships, and everything in between. I’m your host Holly Eckelberger, a long time sexual health educator, activist, and content creator. I will be your guide through conversations that blend curiosity, pleasure, and truth. Together with some amazing guests, we’ll break down stigma, celebrate bodies, and learn how to embrace sexual health with confidence and joy. Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com IG/Threads: @thatsexeducator YouTube: Meet Me at the Spot

  1. 6D AGO

    Episode 121: De-Shaming Sex One Dildo at a Time

    This week, Dirty Lola shares her unexpected journey into the world of sex education, highlighting the importance of curiosity and continuous learning about our bodies and relationships. She discusses her initiative, Sex Ed-A-Go-Go, which aims to make sex education accessible and entertaining. The conversation also delves into the significance of understanding pleasure products, the impact of misinformation in sexual health, and the importance of collaboration among educators and medical professionals. Lola emphasizes the need for open discussions about sexual health and encourages listeners to stay curious as they navigate their own sexual journeys. Dirty Lola (she/her) has been getting real about sex, polyamory, and kink for over a decade—and doing it with a microphone in one hand and a dildo in the other. She’s the brains and brilliance behind Sex Ed A Go-Go, Netflix Sexpert on The Principles of Pleasure, and your go-to when you want your sex ed served hot, honest, and a little hilarious. Lola’s made it her mission to smash stigma, spread joy, and help folks find their pleasure groove. She’s teamed up with brands like Shag Brooklyn, B-Vibe, Blush, and Womanizer, and has been spotted dropping knowledge on The Cut’s YouTube channel, HBO, and Vice. Wherever there’s a conversation about pleasure that needs de-shaming, you’ll probably find her laughing loudly and passing out lube. Connect with Dirty Lola IG & Threads: @ DirtyLola    Website: DirtyLola.Co Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords sex education, sexual health, pleasure products, kink, relationships, sex positivity, sexual wellness, sex edutainment, sexual empowerment, curiosity

    52 min

  2. FEB 5

    Episode 120: Black History Month: Black Leaders Who Transformed Reproductive Health

    This week, I focus on the intersection of Black history and reproductive justice, highlighting the contributions of Black women and communities in shaping healthcare and reproductive rights. I emphasize the importance of recognizing historical figures and movements that have fought for dignity, access, and joy in reproductive health. The conversation covers various influential figures, including Dr. Rebecca Lee Crumpler, Fannie Lou Hamer, and organizations like SisterSong, while also providing actionable steps for listeners to support reproductive justice today. Accounts to Follow: @blackmamasmatter (Instagram/Twitter/X) – Black Mamas Matter Alliance, a national Black women-led maternal health & reproductive justice coalition.@sistersong_woc (Instagram) / @SisterSong_WOC (Twitter/X) – SisterSong Women of Color Reproductive Justice Collective, one of the foundational reproductive justice organizations.@blackmidwivesalliance (Instagram) / @black_midwives (Twitter/X) – National Black Midwives Alliance, organizing for birth and maternal health justice.@birthequity (Instagram/Twitter/X) – National Birth Equity Collaborative, focused on Black maternal and infant health policy and systems change.@sisterloveinc (Instagram) / @SisterLoveInc (Twitter/X) – SisterLove Inc., working on sexual health, HIV prevention, and reproductive wellness.@theafiyacenter (Instagram) – The Afiya Center, which transforms Black women’s sexual and reproductive health relationships.@southernbirthjustice (Instagram) – Southern Birth Justice Network, building maternal and reproductive justice in the South. Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords Reproductive Justice, Black History Month, Black Women, Healthcare, Dr. Rebecca Lee Crumpler, Fannie Lou Hamer, Black Panther Party, Loretta Ross, SisterSong, Dr. Elders, Black Maternal Health

    16 min

  3. JAN 28

    Episode 119: Improving Intimacy with Communication, Connection, and Pleasure

    This week, Dr. Stacy Friedman shares her journey into sexology, emphasizing the importance of connection and communication in relationships. She discusses her podcast, The Purple Passion Project, and offers practical advice for enhancing intimacy, especially during the holiday season. Dr. Stacy highlights the significance of playful interactions and the use of toys and lube to spice up relationships, while also addressing the challenges of painful sex and the need for open dialogue about sexual health. Dr. Stacy Friedman (she/her) is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex and intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of the Purple Passion Project podcast. She has 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years working in the sexuality field. Connect with Dr. Stacy @ drstacyfriedman drstacyfriedman.com Upcoming Projects/Promotions Dr. Stacy has her own podcast called the Purple Passion Project and is working on about 14 new e-books and some courses that will be available soon. Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords sex education, sexual health, intimacy, relationships, sex therapy, painful sex, sex coaching, sexual wellness, connection, sexual empowerment

    46 min

  4. JAN 14

    Episode 118: Immigration, Empathy, and the Truth About the American Dream

    This week, Heidy De La Cruz shares her journey into podcasting and the inspiration behind her show, 'The American Dream in the Eyes of Immigrants.' Heidy discusses the importance of storytelling in understanding the immigrant experience, the challenges faced by those navigating the immigration system, and the emotional impact of sharing these stories. She also highlights her coaching method for aspiring podcasters and emphasizes the need for curiosity and compassion. Heidy De La Cruz (she/her) is a podcaster, speaker, and podcast launch coach. Heidy is the host of the two-time award-winning podcast "The American Dream in the Eyes of Immigrants," where immigrants share their journey of coming to the United States. Connect with Heidy @ heidy.delacruz13 on Instagram https://heidydelacruz.com Upcoming Projects/Promotions Heidy is a podcast launch coach - if anyone is interested in starting their own podcast, she has a 6-week program called, The V.O.I.C.E. Method. Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords podcasting, immigration, American Dream, storytelling, podcast coaching, immigrant stories, cultural exchange, empathy, community, curiosity

    1h 2m

  5. JAN 8

    Episode 117: A Different Kind of New Year: Reflection Over Resolutions

    This week, I discuss the shift from traditional New Year's resolutions to a focus on reflection and intention for the year 2026. I emphasize the importance of checking in with oneself, understanding sexual and reproductive rights, and the role of education in advocacy. The conversation explores how pleasure can be integrated into self-care and resistance, encouraging listeners to engage in personal and community advocacy while setting intentions for growth and connection. Get your FREE 2026 Pleasure & Advocacy Reset Inventory HERE. Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords New Year, intentions, reflection, sexual health, advocacy, pleasure, education, reproductive rights, self-care, community care

    18 min

  6. 12/17/2025

    Episode 116: Sex Ed, Reimagined: Where Pleasure Gets to Exist

    This week, Krista and I explore the importance of sex education as a means to remove shame associated with seeking pleasure and happiness in life. We hope to challenge societal norms that impose limits on pleasure, advocating for a more open and accepting perspective. Krista White (she/her) is a multi-genre writer and the founder of Kiki For The Future, a sex ed app and website that curates free sex ed resources for the LGBTQIA+ community. All of her work centers around pleasure, liberation, and joy. Connect with Krista @ kikitheapp Website: kikitheapp.com Upcoming Projects/Promotions Please dm Krista if you are a student and/or Black trans person who would like to help grow our Patreon community in exchange for a free annual membership! Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords sex education, pleasure, happiness, shame, well-being, LGBTQ

    34 min

  7. 12/10/2025

    Episode 115: Kink, Clarity, and the Magic of Saying Exactly What You Need

    This week, Lilithfoxx discusses the significance of communication and consent in kink, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. She emphasizes that kink allows for explicit discussions about roles and consent, which can be beneficial for those who struggle with social cues in other contexts. Play Negotiations Checklist Anti-Racism Hub Accessibility Hub Lilithfoxx is a queer, neurodivergent Board-certified sexologist and CSE exploring kink, identity, and inclusion through pleasure-focused, stigma-free education. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, HuffPost, and more. Connect with Lilith @ TheLilithFoxx on Instagram, Facebook, and Bluesky Website: LilithFoxx.com Upcoming Projects/Promotions Check out her shop at shop.lilithfoxx.com for lifetime access to classes and resources Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords kink, communication, consent, neurodivergent, social cues, roles, explicit discussion

    37 min

  8. 12/04/2025

    Episode 114: What to Know Before You Ho, Ho, Ho: The Ultimate Holiday Sexual Health Guide

    In this week’s episode, I discuss the complexities of sexual health and wellness during the holiday season. I explore the emotional challenges that arise, the dynamics of casual hookups, and the importance of maintaining intimacy in relationships. I also provide practical tips for navigating political conversations at family gatherings, engaging in advocacy, and setting boundaries to protect one's emotional and sexual well-being. The episode emphasizes the right to pleasure and the importance of community care during the holidays. The Sexy Season Survival Guide Music Hip Hop Christmas by Twin Musicom is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Artist: http://www.twinmusicom.org/ Let's Connect! Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.comInstagram: @that_sex_educatorWebsite: thatsexeducator.com Keywords holiday sexual health, casual hookups, emotional wellness, advocacy, boundaries, family gatherings, sexual wellness, LGBTQ rights, reproductive justice, holiday stress

    19 min
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 This is the space where we get real about sex, relationships, and everything in between. I’m your host Holly Eckelberger, a long time sexual health educator, activist, and content creator. I will be your guide through conversations that blend curiosity, pleasure, and truth. Together with some amazing guests, we’ll break down stigma, celebrate bodies, and learn how to embrace sexual health with confidence and joy. Email: thatsexeducator@gmail.com IG/Threads: @thatsexeducator YouTube: Meet Me at the Spot

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