Fashionably Late

Kirby & Ember
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Two lesbians join the party to talk about all things coming out late in life after being married to men and raising a family. Learn about our struggles, loves, discoveries, and all the in-betweens that you might want to know when you decide to come out in your 30's and 40's.

  1. The Kennedy's

    FEB 6

    The Kennedy's

    Kirby and Ember return after a two-month hiatus to share their journey of engagement, elopement, and the challenges of planning a wedding. They discuss the intricacies of the proposal, the magical moments of their engagement, and the fun-filled bachelorette party in Vegas. The couple reflects on their wedding day, the importance of communication in their relationship, and their commitment to living authentically as a married couple. They also touch on their future plans and the evolution of their identities.

    43 min
  2. Recovering

    12/08/2025

    Recovering

    We're back! 3 weeks post top surgery, and falling back into a normalcy. We've missed you all. As always, thanks for hangin' with us through all the adventures of life. Xo.

    27 min
  3. Unpacking Hidden Emotions

    11/10/2025

    Unpacking Hidden Emotions

    We are just days away from Kirby getting top surgery and the emotions are HIGH. As the day approaches, feelings are coming to surface - and while this is an extremely exciting time, it is also a very vulnerable time. In this episode we both open up about where our heads are at and how we have learned new ways to lean on each other and love one another more deeply. Thank you for sticking with us through the journey. We love and appreciate every one of you.

    36 min
  4. Just Checking In

    10/21/2025

    Just Checking In

    Join us for a quick catch-up as we share our weekend events with you and touch on some of the most recent things we have learned as not only a couple but as two mothers raising sons together as well.

    25 min
  5. Coming Out

    10/13/2025

    Coming Out

    National #comingout day has come and gone and we are here to re-surface some of what we navigated when coming out. How did we go from husband to wife - who did we tell first? What was our biggest fear in saying it out loud? These are just a few of the things we touch on in this episode. No matter what stage of the process you’re in - keep going - and remember, coming out has no timeline.

    20 min
  6. Pre-Top Surgery Q+A

    10/06/2025

    Pre-Top Surgery Q+A

    Time for an intimate Q+A! As Kirby's surgery date inches closer, so do the big feelings and a good healthy check-in can be so beneficial.

    41 min
  7. A Journey of Self Acceptance

    09/29/2025

    A Journey of Self Acceptance

    The idea of using our sexuality, as lesbians, for the male "gaze" is no longer something we can stand behind - and in this episode we talk about our "graduation" process through understanding that the only person we need acceptance from is ourselves. When you can truly live a life for you - and let go of society's expectations - you'll fall in love with yourself all over again.

    19 min
  8. This or That

    09/22/2025

    This or That

    Join us for a game of THIS or THAT, queer edition, obviously.

    20 min
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Ratings & Reviews

4.9
out of 5
18 Ratings

About

Two lesbians join the party to talk about all things coming out late in life after being married to men and raising a family. Learn about our struggles, loves, discoveries, and all the in-betweens that you might want to know when you decide to come out in your 30's and 40's.

Information

  • Creator
    Kirby & Ember
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    132
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    Fashionably Late

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