Live Faith First Podcast

Live Faith First Podcast w/ Elliot Sands

There’s a way to live that focuses on what brings us together. Let's honestly look at the things that divide us so we can find practical solutions to bridging those divides. https://linktr.ee/livefaithfirst

  1. 3d ago

    There’s No Finish Line to Grief

    Content Note: This episode contains candid discussion of suicide, the death of a child, grief, depression, and suicidal thoughts. If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts or is in crisis, in the United States call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Join us at The Bright Side for your daily dose of positive news and inspiration: https://livethebrightside.com/ Grief doesn’t follow a timeline. It doesn’t look the same for everyone. And it isn’t something we simply “get over.” In this deeply personal conversation, Elliot sits down with author Laura Busse to talk about the unimaginable loss of her 23-year-old son, Evan, who died by suicide in 2021. Laura shares who Evan was—a brilliant young man with a huge heart for people on the margins—and what happened when her family suddenly found themselves navigating grief, trauma, guilt, and questions they never expected to face. Laura describes herself as once being “grief illiterate.” After Evan’s death, she discovered that grief reaches far beyond sadness, affecting our bodies, identities, relationships, families, and even our relationship with God. She also talks candidly about her anger with God—and why wrestling with Him ultimately drew her closer rather than driving her away. Elliot and Laura also explore how differently members of the same family can grieve, the guilt that often follows suicide loss, and why people who are hurting need our presence more than our explanations. Laura offers practical guidance for walking alongside someone in grief: keep showing up, remember the difficult dates, resist the urge to fix their pain, and give them permission to grieve in their own way.  And perhaps most importantly, Laura reminds us that healing doesn't require leaving the person we love behind. As she puts it, “There’s no finish line to grief. I am healing.”  Laura Busse is an author, speaker, certified grief coach, and founder of Grief and Hope, a ministry devoted to helping people navigate profound loss and rediscover hope and healing. After her 23-year-old son, Evan, died by suicide in 2021, Laura began combining her lived experience of traumatic loss with grief education and more than 20 years of experience as a Bible study author and teacher. Laura is the author of The Unimaginable: God, Grief, and the Questions That Won’t Go Away. Elliot Sands is the host of the Live Faith First podcast—a dynamic space where faith meets real-world challenges. With a rich background as a pastor, school principal, health-tech co-founder, and now Operations Director of Churches Addressing Poverty-Silicon Valley, Elliot brings deep wisdom and practical insight to every conversation.  As a husband, father, and grandfather, he weaves personal experience with thoughtful discussion, tackling tough topics with clarity and compassion. Live Faith First is all about bridging divides—whether in society or the church—encouraging listeners to step beyond echo chambers and build real, meaningful relationships across the aisle, the street, or the table. Connect with Laura Busse Website Instagram Facebook Connect with Live Faith First Website: livethebrightside.com Instagram: @LiveFaithFirst TikTok: @livefaithfirst Facebook: facebook.com/LiveFaithFirst  YouTube: youtube.com/@livefaithfirst

    There’s No Finish Line to Grief
  2. Sep 16

    The Journey is Too Much for You

    Join us at The Bright Side for your daily dose of positive news and inspiration: https://livethebrightside.com/ Change is inevitable. Sometimes we choose it. Sometimes it chooses us. And even the changes we celebrate—a wedding, graduation, a new baby, a new season of life—can bring unexpected loss and grief. In this episode of the Live Faith First Podcast, Elliot sits down with pastor, author, and birder Courtney Ellis to talk about her book, Weathering Change: Seeking Peace Amid Life’s Tough Transitions. Courtney explains why change is so difficult, how we can prepare spiritually for transitions before they arrive, and why curiosity and self-kindness can help us navigate the uncertain spaces between what was and what comes next. Drawing lessons from Scripture and the natural world, Courtney explores “ecotones,” aging, adaptability, resilience, and what water can teach us about finding a new path when life puts a boulder in our way. Elliot and Courtney also discuss what it means to encounter God in seasons of disorder, why we shouldn't pressure ourselves to immediately discover the “lesson” in our suffering, and how remembering God's past faithfulness can anchor us when the future feels uncertain. Whether you're facing a career transition, an empty nest, aging, a changing relationship, loss, or simply a season that doesn't look the way you expected, this conversation offers a reminder: change is hard, but we don't face it alone. Courtney’s newest book, Weathering Change, combines Scripture, pastoral wisdom, personal stories, and lessons from creation to explore how we can approach life's transitions with preparation, curiosity, adaptability, and resilience. Courtney Ellis is an author, speaker, pastor, podcaster, and avid birder based in Orange County, California. She serves alongside her husband, Daryl, at Presbyterian Church of the Master in Mission Viejo, where they have pastored together for more than twelve years. Courtney holds an M.A. in English Literature from Loyola University and an M.Div. from Princeton Theological Seminary. She is the author of seven books published by InterVarsity Press, Tyndale, and Broadleaf, including Looking Up: A Birder's Guide to Hope Through Grief and her newest book, Weathering Change: Seeking Peace Amid Life's Tough Transitions. She also hosts The Thing With Feathers, a podcast exploring birds and hope through conversations with ornithologists, naturalists, pastors, artists, poets, and others. Elliot Sands is the host of the Live Faith First podcast—a dynamic space where faith meets real-world challenges. With a rich background as a pastor, school principal, health-tech co-founder, and now Executive Director of Faith First, Elliot brings deep wisdom and practical insight to every conversation.  As a husband, father, and grandfather, he weaves personal experience with thoughtful discussion, tackling tough topics with clarity and compassion. Live Faith First is all about bridging divides—whether in society or the church—encouraging listeners to step beyond echo chambers and build real, meaningful relationships across the aisle, the street, or the table. Connect with Courtney Ellis Website Instagram Substack Facebook Connect with Live Faith First Website: livethebrightside.com Instagram: @LiveFaithFirst TikTok: @livefaithfirst Facebook: facebook.com/LiveFaithFirst  YouTube: youtube.com/@livefaithfirst

    The Journey is Too Much for You
  3. Sep 2

    Why the End Times Should Give You Hope, Not Fear

    Join us at The Bright Side for your daily dose of positive news and inspiration: https://livethebrightside.com/ What if Christians have been thinking about the end times all wrong? For many of us, conversations about Jesus’ return immediately bring up debates about the rapture, tribulation, millennium, Antichrist, or trying to figure out when it will all happen. But for the earliest Christians—and for generations of believers facing suffering and persecution—the return of Jesus was fundamentally a message of hope. In this episode of the Live Faith First Podcast, Elliot Sands sits down with pastor and author Benjamin Vrbicek, author of The Restoration of All Things: How the Promise of Christ’s Return Brings Us Comfort Today, to rediscover that hope. Rather than trying to construct an end-times timeline, Benjamin invites us to consider what Jesus’ return actually promises: bodies restored, injustice answered, suffering ended, relationships made whole, and creation finally freed from the brokenness we experience today. Elliot and Benjamin explore the difference between heaven and the new heavens and new earth, whether Christians should fear final judgment, what Revelation is actually trying to communicate, and why the promise that God will ultimately make all things right can change how we live today. For anyone who has found end-times conversations confusing, frightening, or simply exhausting, this is a different kind of conversation about Jesus’ return—one centered on the promise that this broken world will not always be this way. Benjamin Vrbicek is an author and the lead teaching pastor at Community Evangelical Free Church in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. Before entering pastoral ministry, Benjamin studied mechanical and aerospace engineering at the University of Missouri. He later earned his Master of Divinity from Covenant Theological Seminary. Benjamin has written extensively about Christian life, ministry, and theology and previously served as managing editor for Gospel-Centered Discipleship. His books include Don't Just Send a Resume, Struggle Against Porn, and the coauthored Blogging for God's Glory in a Clickbait World. His newest book, The Restoration of All Things: How the Promise of Christ’s Return Brings Us Comfort Today, moves the conversation about the end times away from sensationalism and speculation and back toward the biblical promise of hope—especially for those who are suffering. Benjamin and his wife, Brooke, have six children and live in Pennsylvania. Elliot Sands is the host of the Live Faith First podcast—a dynamic space where faith meets real-world challenges. With a rich background as a pastor, school principal, health-tech co-founder, and now Executive Director of Faith First, Elliot brings deep wisdom and practical insight to every conversation.  As a husband, father, and grandfather, he weaves personal experience with thoughtful discussion, tackling tough topics with clarity and compassion. Live Faith First is all about bridging divides—whether in society or the church—encouraging listeners to step beyond echo chambers and build real, meaningful relationships across the aisle, the street, or the table. Connect with Benjamin Vrbicek Website: Benjamin Vrbicek About Benjamin: About Benjamin Vrbicek The Restoration of All Things: Book information from Benjamin Benjamin's writing: Fan and Flame Blog Christianity Today excerpt: Communion Points Us Forward and Backward at Once Instagram Facebook Connect with Live Faith First Website: livethebrightside.com Instagram: @LiveFaithFirst TikTok: @livefaithfirst Facebook: facebook.com/LiveFaithFirst  YouTube: youtube.com/@livefaithfirst

    Why the End Times Should Give You Hope, Not Fear
  4. Aug 19

    Life First. Work Second.

    Join us at The Bright Side for your daily dose of positive news and inspiration: https://livethebrightside.com/ How do you build businesses without losing your family? Can you embrace AI without sacrificing your creativity? And what does sailing across the Pacific Ocean teach you about trusting God? In this episode of the Live Faith First Podcast, Elliot Sands sits down with brothers Zach and Jason Francis—entrepreneurs, former HGTV stars, founders, husbands, and fathers—to discuss how faith shapes every area of life, from business and technology to parenting and adventure. You may know Zach and Jason from HGTV's Tiny Luxury, where they helped pioneer the luxury tiny home movement. Today they're building Willo, an AI-powered business platform designed to help entrepreneurs turn ideas into thriving companies. Together they discuss: Sailing across the Pacific as teenagers and how it shaped their faith Why God's creation points us toward His greatness Navigating entrepreneurship with integrity How to use AI without losing your unique voice Raising children in an increasingly technological world Building businesses that serve your family instead of replacing it Why curiosity, adventure, and faith belong together The importance of choosing business partners—and spouses—who "fight fair" Whether you're an entrepreneur, a parent, a technology enthusiast, or simply trying to follow Jesus in a complicated world, this conversation is filled with practical wisdom and encouragement. Zach and Jason Francis are entrepreneurs, business builders, AI innovators, and former HGTV personalities best known for co-founding Tiny Heirloom and starring in the hit HGTV series Tiny Luxury. Together, the Francis brothers have launched and acquired numerous businesses spanning real estate, branding, AI, Web3, software, and consumer products. Growing up in Oregon, Zach and Jason developed an entrepreneurial mindset early, building homes as teenagers before embarking on a nine-month sailing expedition across the Pacific Ocean with their father—an experience that profoundly shaped both their faith and approach to business. Today they are the co-founders of Willo, an AI-powered business operating platform that helps entrepreneurs launch and run businesses more efficiently while maintaining a distinctly human approach to creativity, leadership, and relationships. Both are passionate about helping founders build companies without sacrificing faith, family, or personal integrity. Elliot Sands is the host of the Live Faith First podcast—a dynamic space where faith meets real-world challenges. With a rich background as a pastor, school principal, health-tech co-founder, and now Executive Director of Faith First, Elliot brings deep wisdom and practical insight to every conversation.  As a husband, father, and grandfather, he weaves personal experience with thoughtful discussion, tackling tough topics with clarity and compassion. Live Faith First is all about bridging divides—whether in society or the church—encouraging listeners to step beyond echo chambers and build real, meaningful relationships across the aisle, the street, or the table. Connect with Jason and Zach Francis Website: https://www.francisbrothers.com/ Willow.ai: https://www.willo.ai/ HGTV: https://www.hgtv.com/shows/tiny-luxury Connect with Live Faith First Website: livethebrightside.com Instagram: @LiveFaithFirst TikTok: @livefaithfirst Facebook: facebook.com/LiveFaithFirst  YouTube: youtube.com/@livefaithfirst

    Life First. Work Second.
  5. Aug 5

    It’s One Thing To Be Friendly…

    Join us at The Bright Side for your daily dose of positive news and inspiration: https://livethebrightside.com/ Everyone wants to belong. We all know what it feels like to be seen, understood, and accepted—but we also know what it feels like to be the outsider. In this episode of the Live Faith First Podcast, Elliot Sands sits down with Parfait Bassalé, author of The Way of Befriending, to explore how ordinary people can become extraordinary bridge-builders in an increasingly divided world. Growing up across multiple countries in West Africa before immigrating to the United States, Parfait experienced firsthand what it meant to search for home and belonging. Those experiences eventually shaped both his ministry and his calling: helping people create spaces where others feel seen, heard, and valued. Together they discuss: Why belonging is a fundamental human need The difference between being friendly and truly befriending someone How curiosity breaks down barriers Asking better questions that lead to deeper conversations Why forgiveness is essential for building relationships The power of becoming "the unexpected friend" How churches can create cultures where everyone feels welcome Whether you're navigating political division, cultural differences, or simply wanting to become a better friend, this conversation offers practical wisdom for building genuine relationships. Parfait Bassalé is an author, speaker, musician, and consultant. He is dedicated to helping individuals and organizations cultivate cultures of belonging, curiosity, and meaningful connection. Born in the Republic of Benin, Parfait spent much of his childhood moving throughout West Africa before immigrating to the United States. His own experiences of displacement, identity, and searching for home profoundly shaped his passion for helping others move beyond polarization and into authentic relationships. Through workshops, consulting, speaking, music, and writing, Parfait equips churches, nonprofits, schools, and organizations to create environments where people feel genuinely seen, heard, supported, and valued. His book, The Way of Befriending, offers a practical roadmap for overcoming division through courageous curiosity, empathy, forgiveness, and intentional friendship. He lives in Olympia, Washington, with his wife and three children. Elliot Sands is the host of the Live Faith First podcast—a dynamic space where faith meets real-world challenges. With a rich background as a pastor, school principal, health-tech co-founder, and now Executive Director of Faith First, Elliot brings deep wisdom and practical insight to every conversation.  As a husband, father, and grandfather, he weaves personal experience with thoughtful discussion, tackling tough topics with clarity and compassion. Live Faith First is all about bridging divides—whether in society or the church—encouraging listeners to step beyond echo chambers and build real, meaningful relationships across the aisle, the street, or the table. Connect with Parfait Bassalé Website: https://www.parfaitbassale.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Parfaitonline Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parfaitonline/ Connect with Live Faith First Website: livethebrightside.com Instagram: @LiveFaithFirst TikTok: @livefaithfirst Facebook: facebook.com/LiveFaithFirst  YouTube: youtube.com/@livefaithfirst

    It’s One Thing To Be Friendly…

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