Grown & Growing by Keion and Shaunie Henderson

Keion Henderson, Shaunie Henderson
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Grown & Growing by Keion and Shaunie Henderson features media mogul Shaunie and husband Keion Henderson. The two hold no punches, deliver powerful relationship insights, actionable real-life advice, and revealing moments in their development as a power couple in the spiritual and culture spaces.

  1. 5D AGO

    Marriage Communication Hacks: Stop Fighting Over These 5 Things

    Ever wonder why couples argue about the smallest things? Turns out, it’s never just about the dishes. In this episode, Keion and Shaunie Henderson get real about the everyday battles—laundry habits, thermostat wars, remote control drama, and even calendar chaos—that show up in every relationship. With honesty, humor, and faith-driven insight, they reveal what’s really underneath those surface-level disagreements. You’ll hear the unfiltered talk behind what “grown and growing” really looks like—plus practical advice for managing blended families, communication pitfalls, and differing parenting styles. Whether you’re partnered up, managing household tension, or simply want to laugh at the moments we all recognize, this conversation delivers clarity and comfort. Key takeaways: - How minor household disputes (like dishes and laundry) reveal deeper emotional needs- Dealing with phone and screen boundaries in your home- Navigating calendar clashes and finding teamwork in scheduling- Making peace with different parenting styles and backgrounds- Why control, respect, and routine matter more than you think Listen in for relatable wisdom, laughs, and helpful strategies to grow—together. Subscribe now for more real conversations that make adulthood easier. CHAPTERS00:00 - Intro00:53 - Petty Arguments in Relationships01:54 - Dishes and Dishwasher Debate03:54 - Laundry and Folding Clothes06:03 - Underwear Longevity Showdown07:00 - Thermostat and Temperature Wars08:19 - Remote Control Disagreements10:02 - Kitchen Counter Clutter13:14 - Rapid Fire Recap13:55 - Schedule and Calendar Conflicts17:14 - Bedtime Routine Differences20:02 - Parenting Styles and Evolution24:24 - Navigating Split Parenting26:13 - Openness to Different Parenting Styles26:24 - Phone and Screen Frustrations29:53 - Who Does More at Home32:14 - Competition vs. Partnership36:14 - Outro/Closing

    37 min

  2. FEB 5

    Struggling With Self-Doubt? Why Quiet Confidence Outlasts the Noise

    Is confidence something you’re born with—or could the loudest person in the room be the one struggling most? In this refreshingly honest conversation, Keion and Shaunie Henderson pull back the curtain on the myth of “having it all together” and explore the difference between real, quiet confidence and the kind that’s just for show. Using personal stories, hard-won lessons, and moments of raw vulnerability, they get real about how faith, setbacks, and self-awareness shape authentic self-assurance. You’ll gain new insight into building confidence from within—even when life is falling apart on the outside. Key takeaways: Why “forced” confidence is easy to spot (and what it’s hiding)The surprising power of vulnerability in leadership and relationshipsHow external changes (makeovers, filters, milestones) rarely lead to true confidenceThe link between faith, culture, and lasting self-beliefWhat to do when encouragement falls flat—and how to truly support others Listen for honest stories, practical wisdom, and the energy to keep growing—even when you want to give up. If you find value in these conversations, be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro00:14 - The Problem with Forced Confidence01:24 - Edited Lives and Inauthenticity02:32 - Masking Insecurity vs. Being Yourself03:24 - The Cost of External Confidence04:06 - True Confidence Comes from Within05:19 - Happiness Is an Inside Job05:50 - Confidence Defined: Quiet Certainty06:38 - Confidence vs. Validation from Others07:09 - Projecting Confidence When It's Not Felt08:16 - Behind the Scenes: Struggles with Leadership09:46 - Coping with Crisis and Overwhelm12:20 - The Weight of Hidden Struggles14:43 - Performative Confidence Versus Honesty16:03 - Control, Not Confidence17:11 - Sacrifice, Responsibility, and Pressure18:44 - Finding Faith in Uncertainty20:19 - What To Do When Faith Feels Distant21:07 - Needing Empathy Before Encouragement22:17 - When You Just Don't Know23:19 - Experiencing True Loss and Setback26:17 - The Difference: Fake vs. Actual Confidence27:22 - Empowerment vs. Enablement28:46 - Real Empowerment and Lasting Confidence29:54 - Outro

    30 min

  3. JAN 29

    Stop Minimizing Pain: Truths About Healing, Therapy, and Grief

    What does it really mean to “heal well” when life cuts deep? Keion and Shaunie Henderson get real about the messy, ongoing journey of healing—why “just pray about it” isn’t always enough, and how everyone’s process is personal. This episode unpacks the myths and realities around grief, emotional pain, and the cultural pressure to move on. You’ll discover why true healing isn’t one-size-fits-all and how scar tissue—emotional and physical—can keep us stuck if we rush the process. Through honest, faith-informed stories and lived examples, Keion and Shaunie break down the real work of healing and how you can support yourself and others with empathy, not judgment. Listen in to learn: Why real healing takes time (and shortcuts only create scar tissue)How to honor your pace and respect others’ painThe difference between “healing soft” and healing strongPractical ways to support loved ones without minimizing their struggleStories of resilience, grief, and hard-won wisdom from the Hendersons’ own lives Don’t just cope—grow while you heal. If this honest conversation sparks something in you, hit subscribe for more real talk on growing, healing, and living with intention. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro00:11 - Defining the Healing Process00:34 - Personal Approaches to Healing01:07 - Types of Hurt and Their Impact01:17 - Individual Healing Journeys01:50 - Grieving as a Continuous Process02:05 - Cultural Pressures on Pain02:22 - Validating Feelings and Reactions02:46 - Supporting Others Through Hurt03:25 - Faith and Minimalizing Healing04:03 - The Role of Communication05:11 - Hurting Well Without Harming Others06:12 - Real Life Examples of Grief07:05 - Healing Soft vs. True Healing08:45 - Scar Tissue as a Healing Metaphor12:11 - Childhood Experiences and Scar Tissue16:07 - Parenting Styles and Their Impact18:14 - Reflecting on Parental Influence19:17 - Reconciling Past and Present Relationships21:02 - Lifelong Healing and Growth22:02 - The Process Never Ends22:45 - Learning to Suffer Well23:06 - Outro

    23 min

  4. SEASON 2 TRAILER

    New Season of Grown & Growing Podcast! by Keion and Shaunie Henderson

    New episodes every week! Grown & Growing by Keion and Shaunie Henderson features media mogul Shaunie and husband Keion Henderson. The two hold no punches, deliver powerful relationship insights, actionable real-life advice, and revealing moments in their development as a power couple in the spiritual and culture spaces.

    1 min

  5. JAN 22

    Healthy Boundaries or Emotional Weapons? The Truth About Protecting Yourself

    Is “setting boundaries” really about protecting yourself, or are we building emotional walls out of fear? In this candid episode, Keion Henderson and Shaunie Henderson challenge the boundary buzzword—and unpack how often “boundaries” become weapons, excuses, or emotional armor that keeps out both hurt and healing. Digging into cancel culture, friendship, vulnerability, and the mental health crisis, Keion Henderson and Shaunie Henderson get real about where we learn to push people out—and what it costs us. You’ll walk away with fresh perspective on whether your boundaries are helping you grow or just keeping you stuck. Listen in for hard-won insights and laughter as they break down: Are boundaries helping or hurting your relationships—and your own growth?The (sometimes messy) difference between healthy limits and fear-based wallsHow cancel culture, social media, and mental health are all colliding for this generationWhen “boundaries” are protection… and when they’re emotional punishmentAvoiding regret: admitting when you got it wrong and letting people in Get faith-driven, no-fluff advice on building connections without losing yourself. Hit follow so you don’t miss the next episode—your next breakthrough could be one conversation away. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Intro00:11 - Defining Boundaries01:30 - Boundaries and Cancel Culture03:46 - Cancel Culture’s Impact on Mental Health05:40 - Boundaries vs. Fear07:00 - Healthy vs. Fear-Based Boundaries09:00 - Personal Stories of Setting Boundaries11:05 - Differences in Male and Female Friendships13:12 - Navigating Social Interactions14:09 - How Many Chances Before Boundaries15:45 - Protecting Others From Yourself17:27 - Trust, Fear, and New Relationships19:20 - Bringing Old Boundaries Into New Spaces21:27 - Losing and Letting People In22:04 - Boundaries as Punishment23:04 - Setting Boundaries on First Dates25:08 - Regret Over Unnecessary Boundaries26:06 - Baggage and Relationship Expectations27:40 - Are Boundaries Just Excuses?28:37 - Outro/Closing

    29 min

  6. 12/18/2024

    Keion and Shaunie’s Black Love Story Is Powered by Joy

    “Is love found or created?” Keion asks to kick off this episode. The Hendersons discuss Black love and Black joy, emphasizing the need to understand what brings happiness to oneself and to our partner. Reflecting on their love story, Shaunie declares that they found love and then created joy. Keion affirms that the superpower of their relationship is consistently choosing to love one another by cultivating joy together. The Hendersons also confess that imposing one’s rules and standards on a partner may block the other's joy. They highlight the importance of self-sacrifice and prioritizing the happiness of their partner. Shaunie shares how Keion’s efforts to learn what fills her joy tank strengthens their love and why contributing to their relationship brings her joy. In this episode, we learn how to love your partner better by speaking their love language, why it's important to celebrate your partner’s path to joy, and how to discover what fuels your joy so you can share it with your partner. We have to be intentional about discovering what brings us joy as individuals instead of expecting to find it in our relationships.  As Keion faithfully reminds us, just like growth, joy is an inside job.  For further growth, check out The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman.

    39 min

  7. 12/11/2024

    Shaunie and Keion are Two Stars in the Same Galaxy

    As sought-after public figures, Keion and Shaunie maneuver sharing the spotlight in marriage and business. The cultural and religious superstars illuminate how they tag team and complement each other in work and life: Keion tends to assume a “visionary” big-picture role while Shaunie typically functions as a detail-oriented “facilitator.” In this episode, the Hendersons unpack why “competition isn’t good for the house” and how to keep “business baggage out of the bedroom.” As leaders at church and at home, they’ve learned to swap visionary-facilitator roles based on what their partner needs.  Tips and advice include how to set boundaries between work and home, why communicating crucial decisions with your partner early on helps them trust the final outcome, and why it’s important not to “split the negative” but share both successes and failures. It takes growth on the inside to not only share the spotlight with your partner but to help each other shine. Above all, Keion reminds us that “You cannot share the spotlight without also sharing the darkness.”

    40 min

  8. 12/04/2024

    Keion Says “If You Don’t Discipline your Kids, the System Will”

    Black children in America are growing up in a society that often reduces them to destructive stereotypes. Keion and Shaunie Henderson discuss how they’ve used discipline as a shield to keep their children safe. Keion emphasizes the importance of teaching children to respect authority while also instilling in them a sense of self-worth and the ability to navigate societal expectations. Shaunie shares her concerns about raising Black children in a world that often misunderstands and misjudges them. They also touch on the fear of police encounters, the need for discipline and respect, and the empowerment of Black girls. In this episode, we learn why discipline helps mitigate consequences Black children may face in the future, how to empower them to achieve while combating negative stereotypes, and why the Hendersons regularly upgrade their parenting strategies. While recognizing the challenges of being Black today, Keion and Shaunie remain hopeful that we will have a future where character, not skin color, determines one's worth.

    36 min
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