Living Boldly with Queen Martins

Queen Martins
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Living Boldly with Queen Martins is a safe space for vulnerable & candid conversations with trailblazing individuals whose story of courage and ability to take up space without apology, inspires me. I hope these stories light you up, give you the courage to face your fears and guides you to live the life of your dreams.

Episodes

  1. Why Having a “Niche” Is Making You Broke in 2026 - Tomike Adeoye

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    Why Having a “Niche” Is Making You Broke in 2026 - Tomike Adeoye

    Most creators are told to "niche down" to be successful, but Tomike Adeoye built a multi-million Naira empire by doing the exact opposite. Known as one of Africa’s most authentic influencers, she has successfully turned her personality into a salary while running multiple businesses including Mallia World and Lighthouse Studio.In this episode, Tomike shares the raw, unpolished reality of the creator-CEO life. She reveals why she was editing brand ads while in active labor contractions and how she walked away from a ₦9.6 million deal to protect her brand's "No Discount" rule.From her "Hold God by the Collar" strategy for prayer to managing her hair business when pregnancy made it physically impossible to show up, this is the unfiltered truth about what it takes to stay at the top. Tomike explains why being "nice" shouldn't be confused with being weak and how she maintains a "Spirit of Excellence" across every business she touches.Stop shrinking. Start positioning. This is how you live boldly.Subscribe for more bold conversations.Follow Living Boldly IG - https://www.instagram.com/livingboldly_?igsh=MWpsMXdpcXRvcWsyNw%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTT - https://www.tiktok.com/@_livingboldly?_r=1&_t=ZS-94AE1irBFbNX - https://x.com/livingboldlypod?s=21Host Outfit from www.esobyliman.com. This Podcast is supported by Taptap Send.If you send money home to Nigeria from the US, UK, EU, Canada or Australia, this is for you.Use TAPTAPQUEEN for $20 bonus on your first transfer. https://taptapsend.onelink.me/Lrab/wrhmi3vxTimeStamps00:00 – Intro01:48 - Meet Tomike02:10 – Why I refused to niche down 04:04 – How Mallia World was born 04:47 – My next beauty business move 04:55 – Ad break: Tap Tap Send 05:51 – Tomike’s Structure Behind Her Success07:47 - Being Stern vs Being Fun09:49 – What guides all my decisions 10:19 – Choosing the right business partner 14:20 – Systems that keep everything running 16:00 – Why we play gospel in the salon 17:43 – Losing my mum brought me closer to God 18:14 – Putting God first, always 19:53 – My story became someone else’s blessing 21:13 – How God showed up at my mum’s burial 22:37 – How I built my community 23:26 – Why I hated being called “Olori Ebi” 25:52 – How to earn audience trust 28:16 – Was Tomike's friendship strategic? 32:11 – Motherhood didn’t slow me down 33:52 – Having a truly supportive husband 35:34 – Raising kids in the spotlight 37:47 – Has fame cost me anything at all? 38:29 – Rapid fire questions 42:07 – Final thoughts 42:38 – Sponsor gifts moment

    43 min

  2. 12/26/2025

    Coming home to my siblings (A Christmas Reunion)

    What happens when you slow down and reconnect with the people who knew you first? In this holiday special of Living Boldly, I sit down with my siblings for an honest, laughter-filled conversation about growing up together — the memories that shaped us, the ways we still get on each other’s nerves, and the quiet moments that remind us we always have each other’s backs. We reflect on our childhood, family traditions, and how our shared history continues to influence the lives we’re building today. As the year comes to a close, this episode is a heartwarming reminder that family isn’t just where you come from — it’s often what grounds you as you grow. In this episode, we explore:• How growing up together shaped who we are today• The reality of sibling relationships — love, tension, and growth• Why having people who truly know you matters more than you think Question of the day:As the year wraps up, how has growing up with your siblings influenced who you’ve become? Share in the comments 🤍 Timestamps:00:00 – Intro01:59 – How our family influenced our creative paths05:40 – Childhood and choosing a creative career08:00 – King Martins on never experiencing the 9–5 life09:31 – Our most formative childhood memory13:01 – Realizing “these are my siblings and I have their back”15:30 – Queen Martins on family traditions we still keep16:49 – What’s kept our sibling bond strong over time20:55 – Moments we stood up for each other26:50 – Handling conflict and irritation37:16 – Admiration for each other47:25 – How our parents shaped our mindset and values56:46 – Outro #LivingBoldly #Family #Siblings #YearEndReflection Don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe to join the #BoldFam. Listen now:Spotify | Apple Podcasts Follow us:Instagram | TikTok

    58 min

  3. 12/06/2025

    Building Identity, Partnership and Purpose with Jumoke and Ladi Shotonwa

    What does it really take to know yourself before marriage? How do two people build a partnership without losing their individuality? And why do sacrifices in parenting and pregnancy feel different for men and women? In this powerful episode of the Living Boldly Podcast, Jumoke Shotonwa and Ladi Shotonwa open up about identity, marriage and intentional growth in a way that is honest, relatable and deeply insightful. Jumoke shares how values and self-awareness shaped her journey before marriage, and how becoming more audacious changed who she was as a partner. Ladi breaks down his philosophy on creating value before saying “I do” and why individuality should never disappear inside marriage. They walk us through how they met, the freedoms they enjoyed while single, and the shifts that come with parenting and pregnancy. Jumoke speaks on the emotional and physical demands of being a primary caregiver. Ladi reveals what men often need but rarely express during pregnancy and how both partners can support each other. You’ll hear how they juggle demanding jobs, entrepreneurship and raising a toddler full time, what alone time looks like now, and how their partnership continues to sharpen who they are as individuals. They also break down their approach to communication and staying grounded on difficult days. This episode is filled with clarity, honest realities and lessons on how to build a marriage that grows because both people are growing.

    42 min

  4. 11/20/2025

    Navigating Female Friendship as Business Partners with Zainab Balogun & Bolanle Olukanni.

    Ever tried running a business with a close friend? How do you keep the friendship intact when tensions rise, personalities clash, and your business starts revealing sides of each other you weren’t expecting?In this episode of Living Boldly, media powerhouses Zainab Balogun and Bolanle Olukanni share raw, unfiltered stories about how they balance female friendship, business, and travel adventures. You’ll hear about:How their friendship started and evolved through shared experiencesThe trust and vulnerability needed to make a female friendship lastHandling business challenges without letting them destroy the relationshipRecognizing character traits in each other that weren’t always appealing and learning to navigate themPlanning trips, celebrating wins, and maintaining loyaltyDealing with possessive friends, long-distance challenges, and the impact of social mediaIf you’ve ever wondered how to start a business with a female friend, how to maintain female friendships, or just love hearing bold women share real-life lessons, this episode is packed with insight, tension, and advice you won’t hear anywhere else.#livingboldly #friendshipgoals #BusinessBesties #femaleentrepreneurship #BoldWomen #adultfriendships #FriendshipAndBusiness #femalefriendship Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livingboldl... Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@_livingboldly...

    58 min

  5. 11/05/2025

    How Deep Do Male Friendships Really Go? FT Daniel Etim Effiong & Efa Iwara

    Male friendships aren’t just about vibes and banter. They can be deep, emotional, and complex. In this episode, Daniel Etim Effiong and Efa Iwara open up about conflict, vulnerability, ego, and the tough decisions that shape their five-man group, Cinque. It’s an honest and refreshing look at male friendship — raw, real, and rarely heard.

    40 min

  6. 11/02/2025

    My Mum Put Me In The Hot Seat & Here's What Happened!

    In this episode, I hand the mic to my mum as she puts me in the hot seat. Together, we unpack the detours, delays, and defining decisions that shaped my journey — from leaving a thriving media career in Nigeria, to pursuing an MBA at Columbia, to starting over in a new country and industry. We talk about growing up as the resilient firstborn, taking bold leaps of faith, navigating delayed timelines, and finding purpose when life doesn’t go as planned. This honest and heartfelt conversation is a reminder that detours aren’t denial — sometimes, they’re divine redirection.

    37 min

  7. 11/27/2024

    Building a Fashion Empire with Bisola Adeniyi

    In this episode, host Queen Martins sits down with Bisola Adeniyi, CEO of Lady Biba, a premium women's wear brand celebrated for empowering professional women. From navigating self-doubt and anxiety to celebrating 10 years of entrepreneurial success, Bisola shares her powerful journey of building a thriving fashion brand.

    39 min

  8. 11/26/2024

    How to Thrive Under Pressure with Prof. Modupe Akinola

    In this episode of Living Boldly with Queen Martins, Prof. Modupe Akinola, stress expert and coach to high performers (including Chris Hemsworth on Nat Geo’s Limitless), shares powerful insights on managing stress and building resilience. With her experience at Columbia Business School, Prof. Akinola answers your most pressing questions about handling rejection, prioritizing self-care, creating supportive communities, and making courageous life choices.

    34 min

  9. 11/17/2024

    From Public Housing to Microsoft: Wilson Darko’s Journey

    Wilson Darko shares his incredible journey from Ghana to America, growing up in public housing, and becoming a Microsoft Product Manager. His story is a beautiful reminder of faith, resilience, and the legacy parents create through their sacrifices. Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation about turning challenges into success!

    38 min

  10. 10/16/2024

    How to Make a Career Change at 30 with Shelley Marie Mihn

    Thinking about changing careers? In this episode, Queen Martins chats with Shelly Marie Mihm, who left her opera career to become a consultant. You’ll learn how to embrace change, overcome sunk costs, and pursue new dreams at any stage. Listen for inspiring insights on career transitions, self-acceptance, and bold living—and discover practical strategies to navigate life’s big shifts.

    34 min

  11. 10/14/2024

    Crushing Self Doubt with Captain Zoya Agarwal

    In the debut episode of The Living Boldly Podcast, Queen Martins chats with Captain Zoya Agarwal, the world’s youngest woman to command a Boeing 777 and the first to fly over the North Pole. Zoya shares how she conquered imposter syndrome, turned fear into bold choices, and unlocked her limitless potential. Tune in for practical tips and daily inspiration to help you soar toward your dreams!

    27 min

  12. 02/02/2023

    Living Boldly with Queen Martins - Trailer

    Welcome to Living Boldly with Queen Martins, a safe space for vulnerable & candid conversations with trailblazing individuals whose story of courage and ability to take up space without apology, inspires me. I hope these stories light you up, give you the courage to face your fears, and guide you to live the life of your dreams.

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Living Boldly with Queen Martins is a safe space for vulnerable & candid conversations with trailblazing individuals whose story of courage and ability to take up space without apology, inspires me. I hope these stories light you up, give you the courage to face your fears and guides you to live the life of your dreams.

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