In this episode, Certified Divorce Lending Professional Stacey Ellison sits down with Jann Catto, founder of TLC Mediation, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®), and experienced divorce mediator. Together, they take a deep dive into how mediation, emotional awareness, and strategic financial guidance shape better outcomes for divorcing couples. Jann shares her unique background as a therapist, financial advisor, insurance professional, and CDFA®—and how that combination allows her to guide clients through some of the most difficult decisions of their lives. From navigating the emotional weight of divorce to understanding the financial realities of housing, cash flow, and settlement options, this conversation highlights why starting with mediation is often the most efficient, cost-effective, and empowering path for families. In this episode, Stacey and Jann discuss: Why mediation should be the first step before litigationHow emotions influence settlement decisions—and how professionals can help manage themThe importance of involving divorce professionals early (CDLP®, CDFA®, attorneys, therapists, and more)What couples must understand about keeping or selling the marital homeMortgage qualification challenges during and after divorceHow to avoid common settlement mistakes, especially around loan assumptions, alimony, and timelinesThe long-term impact of choosing a cooperative vs. combative divorce processWhether you’re a divorce professional, family law attorney, financial expert, mediator, or a homeowner navigating divorce, this episode offers actionable insights you won’t want to miss. Learn more about Jann Catto and TLC Mediation: https://www.tlcmediation.com Learn more about Divorce Mortgage Planning and the CDLP® framework: https://www.divorcelendingassociation.com If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share to support more conversations that bring clarity, confidence, and strategy to the divorce process. Visit www.divorceworkshop.com for more information and to take back control. At the Divorce Lending Association, our mission is to help divorcing homeowners make more informed decisions regarding their home equity solutions and the divorce team identify any potential conflicts between the divorce settlement, the mortgage, and real property. Divorce Mortgage Planning is the ability to put into play the desired outcome by pairing the needs and options available while incorporating the necessary details and clarity into an executable settlement agreement to obtain closure and peace of mind successfully. Are you going through a divorce and need information on refinancing your mortgage or buying anew home once the divorce is final? Often conflict arises out of a lack of knowledge. We have an amazing workshop available allowing you to take control of your situation and divorce mortgage planning so you are in a stronger position to negotiate while removing conflict and unrealistic expectations. Visit the Divorce Lending Association for resources and strategies on divorce mortgage planning.
