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Paul Locatelli & Brian DeDiego
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THE REAL ESTATE, SEX & GOSSIP PODCAST W/ Paul Locatelli & Brian DeDiego What do you get when two very successful realtors sit down and decide to talk openly about everything ? “The Real Estate, Sex & Gossip” podcast is what. Join Paul Locatelli and Brian DeDiego as the unleash a “no filter” conversation each episode where nothing is safe. REAL ESTATE Listen in for some dramatic real estate success stories and stay tuned for the balance; some vignettes of business and some personal failures that both have learned from. Real estate market updates & strategies abound each episode… SEX Paul was a Versace model in the 90’s …. Brian was buying houses. Brian has since made a cottage industry to find out what the hell was going on at these photo shoots with all those beautiful people and the podcast is his last attempt to force Paul to divulge all the dirty secrets that he is convinced are being hidden. GOSSIP Rule #1 : Speak the truth. Rule #2 : EVERYTHING is on the table Rule #3 : ApplyRule #1 before detonation. Brian & Paul will dig into not only trending national gossip, but give time each episode to the local scene ( Including verifying/denying the rumor mill that includes their names ) Guests include national & local celebrities, leaders in business, athletes & entertainers.

  1. JAN 13

    Walnut Ave Women's Center: Raising Safety, Not Just Awareness

    Safety doesn’t begin with a form; it begins with someone who says yes. We sit down with Development Director Heather Heen to unpack how Walnut Avenue Family & Women’s Center supports survivors of domestic violence while investing in prevention that starts in preschool and reaches into high school classrooms. From first calls for help to court advocacy, confidential emergency housing, and the long road to stable rentals in Santa Cruz, Heather explains what “wraparound” really looks like when it’s trauma‑informed, culturally responsive, and guided by the participant’s own goals. We also dive into the prevention engine that powers long-term change: an Early Education Center that models safe routines for infants, toddlers, and preschoolers, and teen programs that teach boundaries, consent, and what healthy relationships look like. Inclusivity is non‑negotiable—services are open to women, men, nonbinary, transgender, and queer community members. Inside the organization, staff wellness is treated as mission‑critical, with mental health–informed leadership, flexible roles to reduce burnout, and an urgent call for certified early educators to keep classrooms strong. Funding realities come into sharp focus. Grants help but are restricted, and upcoming changes raise stakes for housing support. Unrestricted monthly gifts and grassroots fundraisers—like the She Is Beautiful race, living‑room raffles, and small team challenges—make immediate safety possible, including hotel stays when permanent housing takes time. We share a bold local pledge: a realtor commission challenge funneling five percent to Walnut Avenue, plus media support to put their services in front of more neighbors who need them. If you care about ending cycles of trauma, here’s your on‑ramp: donate monthly, volunteer for She Is Beautiful, start a micro‑fundraiser with friends, or connect a great early educator to the team. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend, and leave a quick review to help more people discover life‑changing resources.

    36 min

  2. JAN 13

    Real Estate Wrapped 2025, Reset For 2026

    A messy milestone turned into a market x-ray: our scrappy show crossed 2,000 downloads, and that sparked a bigger question—what actually creates momentum in real estate when the ground keeps shifting? We follow the thread from podcast habits to housing signals and map how consistency, guest energy, and smart channels beat loud noise every time. We start with a clear 2025 wrap: agent counts are falling, per-agent productivity is splitting, and sellers’ expectations still trail the data. The average first-time buyer is now 40, foreclosures remain low, and the economy feels divided—homeowners steadier, renters stretched by credit cards, auto loans, and student debt. Zooming into Santa Cruz, the city is building upward near bus corridors while routes consolidate to main arteries. Rents fill fast, for-sale lags behind, and prices are not “affordable” at first. As supply scales, we expect pressure to normalize and some demand to drift back toward single-family homes at the edges, especially as inheritance-driven sales hit the market in waves. Rates set the mood for 2026. We’re eyeing an average near six percent, with possible high-five dips that trigger pent-up demand. If that happens, prices likely firm, not fall, which makes the buy-now-refi-later play sensible for those with stable jobs. We also lay out the buyer map: dual-income tech households crossing from San Jose and the broader Bay Area, looking for lifestyle and space. Expect seasonality to return—spring surges, quieter winters—so plan your listings, pre-approvals, and renovation timelines with that rhythm in mind. On the business side, we call the marketing shot: LinkedIn and Substack outperform vanity metrics. A few high-signal conversations beat thousands of empty likes. Show the work, walk the neighborhoods, and let trust compound. Human guidance still wins where AI can’t—during the emotional, high-stakes moments of a purchase or sale. If you’re watching for telltales in 2026, watch rates and the Bay inflow. If you’re building an edge, build consistency and relationships. Enjoy this one—and if it helps you see your next move more clearly, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a quick review so more people can find the show. What signal are you watching first?

    27 min

  3. 09/29/2025

    Reggie Stephens & Chris Ellis : Building a Community-First Athletic Ecosystem in Santa Cruz

    The energy hits before the first question: mics are hot, plans are hotter, and a small town is ready to build something bigger than a gym. We sit down with Chris Ellis of Santa Cruz Athletic Club and coach/connector Reggie Stevens to map a full-stack youth development pipeline—supervised open-gym blocks, real recovery access, quarterly combines for clean data, and a bold twist upstairs: small-group tutoring that feeds straight into training. We get honest about culture shifts—why nightlife is fading while health and recovery surge—and how a “social club” can be a true community hub. Chris walks us through a recovery ecosystem that actually moves the needle: contrast therapy at three levels, a hard-shell hyperbaric chamber, red light therapy, heated yoga, and bio-acoustic rest protocols supported by on-site medical guidance. Reggie shows how Sunday Sessions turn drills into leadership labs, where a tough loss becomes a reset and a single girl in a field of boys is invited to lead the warm-up. The result is a development culture that values GPA as much as 40-yard splits—and gives every athlete a target, not just a pep talk. We also spotlight the surge in girls’ flag football. With the NFL backing and Olympic momentum, participation is jumping fast, and the need for smart programming, injury prevention, and real resources is urgent. Together, we outline a framework that uses off-peak hours to lower costs, supervised coaching to raise standards, and scholarships to widen the door—because talent is evenly distributed, but access isn’t. The call is clear: local businesses, parents, and coaches can help make Santa Cruz a model for community-first performance, where ambition meets infrastructure and kids leave stronger in body, mind, and voice. If this vision resonates, join us—subscribe, share this with a friend who cares about youth sports, and leave a review so more neighbors find it. Then tap the links, reach out, and let’s build this together.

    1h 12m

  4. 09/29/2025

    We Tried To Flip, Got Flipped—Here’s How Not To Donate $200K To Someone Else’s Profit

    What happens when flip fever meets a holding-pattern market? We pull back the curtain on real risk versus real reward, from off-market dynamics and “member-only” days-on-market games to the hard-money squeeze that quietly devours margins. We share a $200K lesson that still stings, break down why “buy right” starts with the exit and reverse-engineering your numbers, and explain why debt service, insurance, points, and HOA volatility belong in every model—before you lift a hammer. If you’re new to flipping, or tempted by a hot neighborhood, this conversation gives you a sharper checklist and a sturdier gut. We also talk shop about loyalty and communication—the unglamorous habits that actually make money. If your agent brought the deal, keep them in the loop through the exit. When a report comes in hot, call that day with options. There’s no such thing as bad news, only uncommunicated current events. And yes, location still matters in the most literal ways: backyard power lines, railroad tracks, or water-rights surprises can implode demand if you don’t price and plan for them. Then we zoom out to Santa Cruz’s evolution: high-end amenities, La Bahia’s return, downtown investment, and a gym that looks like Beverly Hills landed on the coast. Change is here, and over a longer horizon it could mean more jobs, better housing options, and less Highway 17 grind. The throughline is consistent—community, clarity, and craft. Whether you’re flipping, listing, or just trying to read the market, slow down and do the work upfront. Hit play to grab the playbook, then tell us: what’s the most overrated “rule” of this market you want us to test next? Subscribe, share with a friend who’s flip-curious, and leave a review so we know what to dig into next.

    50 min

  5. 01/28/2025

    Innovative Financing & 2025 Real Estate Trends w/ Ryan Buckholdt

    Get ready for an exhilarating journey through the fascinating world of real estate and lending trends as we welcome Ryan Buckholdt from Cross Country Mortgage. With decades of wisdom and a dash of humor, Ryan shares his unique insights into the mortgage industry, drawing from conversations with industry leaders like Mark Zandi from Moody's. He sheds light on the intricate dance of interest rates, inflation, and forecasts from heavyweights like Fannie Mae, all while keeping us entertained with clever anecdotes about political influences and personal experiences. Our discussion takes a deep dive into the current real estate market dynamics, exploring the hurdles and strategies for move-up buyers and the critical role of reputation in lending. Ryan, Paul and Brian dissect different loan qualification processes, highlighting unconventional routes to secure financing for individuals with non-traditional incomes. The conversation reveals the powerful impact of local economies, particularly in tech-savvy areas like Santa Cruz, and how they shape real estate transactions. We also navigate the complex world of innovative financial strategies, including leveraging cryptocurrency and stock portfolios for real estate investments — a forward-thinking approach that promises to reshape traditional market practices. As we wrap up, the episode turns its focus on the growing role of cryptocurrencies in real estate, diving into tax implications and documentation nuances. We round off with a lighthearted segment sharing personal contact details, encouraging direct connections with Ryan for those eager to explore his expert insights further. This episode is a must-listen for real estate aficionados and curious minds, blending professional wisdom with engaging stories and a touch of humor to keep you both informed and entertained. Get more info from Ryan: https://crosscountrymortgage.com/santa-cruz-ca-8048/ryan-buckholdt/ @ryanbuckholdt

    49 min

  6. 09/13/2024

    Santa Cruz Real Estate: Tips, Laughs, and Trash Talk

    What if you could master the art of balancing personal life and professional success in the chaotic world of real estate? Today, we’re joined by Shemeika Fox from EXP Realty and Greg Lukina from David Ling Real Estate, two industry experts with compelling journeys and invaluable insights. From the quirks of football season impacting open houses to humorous personal anecdotes about workout routines and favorite bridesmaid dresses, this episode promises a rollercoaster of laughs and practical wisdom. We even throw in some friendly jabs about sports teams and give a shoutout to local high school sports. Shemeika Fox, with her 20-year tenure in the industry, shares her evolving motivations and passion for real estate, providing a lesson in dedication and client connection. Meanwhile, Greg Lukina's unique transition from construction project management to real estate, armed with an MBA from Berkeley, sheds light on how diverse skill sets can lead to success. Both guests emphasize the importance of balancing personal relationships with professional demands, particularly in a community-driven market like Santa Cruz where personal relationships often trump corporate affiliations. Navigating the complexities of real estate, we also discuss the critical role of transparency and integrity in client-agent relationships. From new industry requirements for commission guarantees to the nuances of property pricing strategies, this episode is packed with expert advice. We stress the significance of a robust support network and integrity, encouraging clients to interview multiple agents to find the right fit. Wrapping up with practical tips on property pricing and the challenges realtors face, our episode with Shemeika Fox and Greg Lukina is a must-listen for anyone keen on the real estate market.

    41 min

  7. 07/12/2024

    The Double Meat Please Episode

    Buckle up for a chaotic and hilarious episode where our playful banter sets the stage for a deep dive into the world of branding, storytelling, and social media strategy. Joining us is Daniel J—aka Daniel West or @doublemeatplease—a fitness fiend with a passion for food and a knack for creating engaging content.  Want to master Instagram branding? You're in the right place. We dissect the art of crafting a compelling brand narrative and the secrets behind converting viral video views into loyal followers. Learn how top brands like Red Bull focus on lifestyle and excitement, not just the product. Daniel shares how his brand 'Double Meat Please' evolved from casual food reviews into a strategic marketing powerhouse, and we debate the merits of quality content versus frequent posts. Whether you’re running a restaurant, a liquor company, or just looking to up your social media game, this segment is packed with actionable insights. Finally, discover the passion and hustle behind Santa Cruise Vodka, a brand that’s as bold and irreverent as its creators. From winning double gold at the San Francisco Spirits Competition to expanding into BevMo, their journey is anything but ordinary. We also share personal anecdotes, from rebranding challenges to humorous content mishaps, and even touch on the importance of consistency in both personal and professional life. This episode is a rollercoaster of laughs, stories, and valuable lessons you won’t want to miss!

    50 min

  8. 05/21/2024

    Epique Realty's Blueprint for Modern Agents

    As we throw open the doors to Epique Realty, Paul and I are thrilled to usher you into the vibrant future of real estate. This episode is a treasure trove of insider knowledge, reflecting on our collective 55 years in the industry and the seismic shifts that have led us from eXp to our latest endeavor. Tune in for a candid look at how market trends, especially in these volatile times, are shaping the strategies of realtors and clients alike. We're sharing personal stories and unpacking the ethics that drive our practice, from the importance of emotional intelligence to the dangers of sacrificing client welfare for commissions. Dive into the heart of the real estate cosmos with us as we explore how Epique Realty is carving out a niche with its agent-centric philosophy and robust support system. You'll find out why we're convinced that this company stands poised to eclipse the competition, offering not just financial incentives but a culture of care that extends from healthcare benefits to AI-driven tools. We'll dissect the opportunities this presents for agents everywhere—how they can not only survive but thrive by embracing change and innovation in a traditionally rigid industry. In our journey through the real estate universe, we'll also highlight how Epique Realty supports agents beyond the sale with benefits that feel like a warm blanket in a cold market. From free IDX agent websites to leads that flow as abundantly as coffee in a broker's office, we're unpacking the tech tools and financial perks that are reshaping the landscape. Join us for an episode that's as much about building a successful career as it is about nurturing the human connections that make real estate about more than just bricks and mortar.

    49 min
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THE REAL ESTATE, SEX & GOSSIP PODCAST W/ Paul Locatelli & Brian DeDiego What do you get when two very successful realtors sit down and decide to talk openly about everything ? “The Real Estate, Sex & Gossip” podcast is what. Join Paul Locatelli and Brian DeDiego as the unleash a “no filter” conversation each episode where nothing is safe. REAL ESTATE Listen in for some dramatic real estate success stories and stay tuned for the balance; some vignettes of business and some personal failures that both have learned from. Real estate market updates & strategies abound each episode… SEX Paul was a Versace model in the 90’s …. Brian was buying houses. Brian has since made a cottage industry to find out what the hell was going on at these photo shoots with all those beautiful people and the podcast is his last attempt to force Paul to divulge all the dirty secrets that he is convinced are being hidden. GOSSIP Rule #1 : Speak the truth. Rule #2 : EVERYTHING is on the table Rule #3 : ApplyRule #1 before detonation. Brian & Paul will dig into not only trending national gossip, but give time each episode to the local scene ( Including verifying/denying the rumor mill that includes their names ) Guests include national & local celebrities, leaders in business, athletes & entertainers.

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  • Creator
    Paul Locatelli & Brian DeDiego
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Real Estate, Sex & Gossip
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