Real Estate, Sex & Gossip

Paul Locatelli & Brian DeDiego
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THE REAL ESTATE, SEX & GOSSIP PODCAST W/ Paul Locatelli & Brian DeDiego What do you get when two very successful realtors sit down and decide to talk openly about everything ? “The Real Estate, Sex & Gossip” podcast is what. Join Paul Locatelli and Brian DeDiego as the unleash a “no filter” conversation each episode where nothing is safe. REAL ESTATE Listen in for some dramatic real estate success stories and stay tuned for the balance; some vignettes of business and some personal failures that both have learned from. Real estate market updates & strategies abound each episode… SEX Paul was a Versace model in the 90’s …. Brian was buying houses. Brian has since made a cottage industry to find out what the hell was going on at these photo shoots with all those beautiful people and the podcast is his last attempt to force Paul to divulge all the dirty secrets that he is convinced are being hidden. GOSSIP Rule #1 : Speak the truth. Rule #2 : EVERYTHING is on the table Rule #3 : ApplyRule #1 before detonation. Brian & Paul will dig into not only trending national gossip, but give time each episode to the local scene ( Including verifying/denying the rumor mill that includes their names ) Guests include national & local celebrities, leaders in business, athletes & entertainers.

  1. SEP 29

    Reggie Stephens & Chris Ellis : Building a Community-First Athletic Ecosystem in Santa Cruz

    The energy hits before the first question: mics are hot, plans are hotter, and a small town is ready to build something bigger than a gym. We sit down with Chris Ellis of Santa Cruz Athletic Club and coach/connector Reggie Stevens to map a full-stack youth development pipeline—supervised open-gym blocks, real recovery access, quarterly combines for clean data, and a bold twist upstairs: small-group tutoring that feeds straight into training. We get honest about culture shifts—why nightlife is fading while health and recovery surge—and how a “social club” can be a true community hub. Chris walks us through a recovery ecosystem that actually moves the needle: contrast therapy at three levels, a hard-shell hyperbaric chamber, red light therapy, heated yoga, and bio-acoustic rest protocols supported by on-site medical guidance. Reggie shows how Sunday Sessions turn drills into leadership labs, where a tough loss becomes a reset and a single girl in a field of boys is invited to lead the warm-up. The result is a development culture that values GPA as much as 40-yard splits—and gives every athlete a target, not just a pep talk. We also spotlight the surge in girls’ flag football. With the NFL backing and Olympic momentum, participation is jumping fast, and the need for smart programming, injury prevention, and real resources is urgent. Together, we outline a framework that uses off-peak hours to lower costs, supervised coaching to raise standards, and scholarships to widen the door—because talent is evenly distributed, but access isn’t. The call is clear: local businesses, parents, and coaches can help make Santa Cruz a model for community-first performance, where ambition meets infrastructure and kids leave stronger in body, mind, and voice. If this vision resonates, join us—subscribe, share this with a friend who cares about youth sports, and leave a review so more neighbors find it. Then tap the links, reach out, and let’s build this together.

    1h 12m

  2. SEP 29

    We Tried To Flip, Got Flipped—Here’s How Not To Donate $200K To Someone Else’s Profit

    What happens when flip fever meets a holding-pattern market? We pull back the curtain on real risk versus real reward, from off-market dynamics and “member-only” days-on-market games to the hard-money squeeze that quietly devours margins. We share a $200K lesson that still stings, break down why “buy right” starts with the exit and reverse-engineering your numbers, and explain why debt service, insurance, points, and HOA volatility belong in every model—before you lift a hammer. If you’re new to flipping, or tempted by a hot neighborhood, this conversation gives you a sharper checklist and a sturdier gut. We also talk shop about loyalty and communication—the unglamorous habits that actually make money. If your agent brought the deal, keep them in the loop through the exit. When a report comes in hot, call that day with options. There’s no such thing as bad news, only uncommunicated current events. And yes, location still matters in the most literal ways: backyard power lines, railroad tracks, or water-rights surprises can implode demand if you don’t price and plan for them. Then we zoom out to Santa Cruz’s evolution: high-end amenities, La Bahia’s return, downtown investment, and a gym that looks like Beverly Hills landed on the coast. Change is here, and over a longer horizon it could mean more jobs, better housing options, and less Highway 17 grind. The throughline is consistent—community, clarity, and craft. Whether you’re flipping, listing, or just trying to read the market, slow down and do the work upfront. Hit play to grab the playbook, then tell us: what’s the most overrated “rule” of this market you want us to test next? Subscribe, share with a friend who’s flip-curious, and leave a review so we know what to dig into next.

    50 min

  3. JAN 28

    Innovative Financing & 2025 Real Estate Trends w/ Ryan Buckholdt

    Get ready for an exhilarating journey through the fascinating world of real estate and lending trends as we welcome Ryan Buckholdt from Cross Country Mortgage. With decades of wisdom and a dash of humor, Ryan shares his unique insights into the mortgage industry, drawing from conversations with industry leaders like Mark Zandi from Moody's. He sheds light on the intricate dance of interest rates, inflation, and forecasts from heavyweights like Fannie Mae, all while keeping us entertained with clever anecdotes about political influences and personal experiences. Our discussion takes a deep dive into the current real estate market dynamics, exploring the hurdles and strategies for move-up buyers and the critical role of reputation in lending. Ryan, Paul and Brian dissect different loan qualification processes, highlighting unconventional routes to secure financing for individuals with non-traditional incomes. The conversation reveals the powerful impact of local economies, particularly in tech-savvy areas like Santa Cruz, and how they shape real estate transactions. We also navigate the complex world of innovative financial strategies, including leveraging cryptocurrency and stock portfolios for real estate investments — a forward-thinking approach that promises to reshape traditional market practices. As we wrap up, the episode turns its focus on the growing role of cryptocurrencies in real estate, diving into tax implications and documentation nuances. We round off with a lighthearted segment sharing personal contact details, encouraging direct connections with Ryan for those eager to explore his expert insights further. This episode is a must-listen for real estate aficionados and curious minds, blending professional wisdom with engaging stories and a touch of humor to keep you both informed and entertained. Get more info from Ryan: https://crosscountrymortgage.com/santa-cruz-ca-8048/ryan-buckholdt/ @ryanbuckholdt

    49 min

  4. 09/13/2024

    Santa Cruz Real Estate: Tips, Laughs, and Trash Talk

    What if you could master the art of balancing personal life and professional success in the chaotic world of real estate? Today, we’re joined by Shemeika Fox from EXP Realty and Greg Lukina from David Ling Real Estate, two industry experts with compelling journeys and invaluable insights. From the quirks of football season impacting open houses to humorous personal anecdotes about workout routines and favorite bridesmaid dresses, this episode promises a rollercoaster of laughs and practical wisdom. We even throw in some friendly jabs about sports teams and give a shoutout to local high school sports. Shemeika Fox, with her 20-year tenure in the industry, shares her evolving motivations and passion for real estate, providing a lesson in dedication and client connection. Meanwhile, Greg Lukina's unique transition from construction project management to real estate, armed with an MBA from Berkeley, sheds light on how diverse skill sets can lead to success. Both guests emphasize the importance of balancing personal relationships with professional demands, particularly in a community-driven market like Santa Cruz where personal relationships often trump corporate affiliations. Navigating the complexities of real estate, we also discuss the critical role of transparency and integrity in client-agent relationships. From new industry requirements for commission guarantees to the nuances of property pricing strategies, this episode is packed with expert advice. We stress the significance of a robust support network and integrity, encouraging clients to interview multiple agents to find the right fit. Wrapping up with practical tips on property pricing and the challenges realtors face, our episode with Shemeika Fox and Greg Lukina is a must-listen for anyone keen on the real estate market.

    41 min

  5. 07/12/2024

    The Double Meat Please Episode

    Buckle up for a chaotic and hilarious episode where our playful banter sets the stage for a deep dive into the world of branding, storytelling, and social media strategy. Joining us is Daniel J—aka Daniel West or @doublemeatplease—a fitness fiend with a passion for food and a knack for creating engaging content.  Want to master Instagram branding? You're in the right place. We dissect the art of crafting a compelling brand narrative and the secrets behind converting viral video views into loyal followers. Learn how top brands like Red Bull focus on lifestyle and excitement, not just the product. Daniel shares how his brand 'Double Meat Please' evolved from casual food reviews into a strategic marketing powerhouse, and we debate the merits of quality content versus frequent posts. Whether you’re running a restaurant, a liquor company, or just looking to up your social media game, this segment is packed with actionable insights. Finally, discover the passion and hustle behind Santa Cruise Vodka, a brand that’s as bold and irreverent as its creators. From winning double gold at the San Francisco Spirits Competition to expanding into BevMo, their journey is anything but ordinary. We also share personal anecdotes, from rebranding challenges to humorous content mishaps, and even touch on the importance of consistency in both personal and professional life. This episode is a rollercoaster of laughs, stories, and valuable lessons you won’t want to miss!

    50 min

  6. 05/21/2024

    Epique Realty's Blueprint for Modern Agents

    As we throw open the doors to Epique Realty, Paul and I are thrilled to usher you into the vibrant future of real estate. This episode is a treasure trove of insider knowledge, reflecting on our collective 55 years in the industry and the seismic shifts that have led us from eXp to our latest endeavor. Tune in for a candid look at how market trends, especially in these volatile times, are shaping the strategies of realtors and clients alike. We're sharing personal stories and unpacking the ethics that drive our practice, from the importance of emotional intelligence to the dangers of sacrificing client welfare for commissions. Dive into the heart of the real estate cosmos with us as we explore how Epique Realty is carving out a niche with its agent-centric philosophy and robust support system. You'll find out why we're convinced that this company stands poised to eclipse the competition, offering not just financial incentives but a culture of care that extends from healthcare benefits to AI-driven tools. We'll dissect the opportunities this presents for agents everywhere—how they can not only survive but thrive by embracing change and innovation in a traditionally rigid industry. In our journey through the real estate universe, we'll also highlight how Epique Realty supports agents beyond the sale with benefits that feel like a warm blanket in a cold market. From free IDX agent websites to leads that flow as abundantly as coffee in a broker's office, we're unpacking the tech tools and financial perks that are reshaping the landscape. Join us for an episode that's as much about building a successful career as it is about nurturing the human connections that make real estate about more than just bricks and mortar.

    49 min

  7. 02/23/2024

    Love, Law, Real Estate and the Unpredictable Journey Through Divorce

    Have you ever stood amidst the rubble of a home renovation and seen it as a metaphor for divorce? It's messy, unpredictable, and requires expert navigation. Join us as family law attorney Darlene Kemp lends her wisdom and experience.  If you've wondered how modern marriages can withstand the test of time or why some end in a courtroom battle, this episode is your gateway to understanding. We bridge the gap between legal expertise and spiritual reflection, guiding you through the societal changes that have shaped today's divorce landscape. Mike's take on the spiritual implications of marriage and divorce complements Darlene's legal acumen, ensuring you leave with a more nuanced understanding of these complex issues. We don't shy away from discussing the financial sting of attorney fees or the strategic considerations in long-term versus short-term marriages, all while maintaining a thread of relatable humor throughout. We wrap up with a conversation that could save you from the public spectacle of divorce court. Exploring alternative routes, Darlene underscores the benefits of privacy and emotional well-being when resolving divorce and custody issues privately. And for those contemplating a walk down the aisle again, we tackle the evolving perspective on prenuptial agreements in multiple marriages. So, settle in for a heartfelt, informative, and yes, even entertaining journey through the maze of divorce, where we promise more than a few unexpected turns and valuable takeaways.

    1h 7m

  8. 12/19/2023

    The Real Estate, Infrastructure & Matt Machado Episode !

    Santa Cruz County's very own director of public works, Matt Machado, joins us for a candid conversation that peels back the layers on the scenic yet challenging landscape of local real estate and infrastructure. As Matt shares his transition from Stanislaus County to our breezy Santa Cruz shores, we get an insider's look at the policy shifts and government enhancements he's championing. Our chat navigates through the quirky traits of our community and zeros in on the nitty-gritty of fostering impactful changes in housing and transportation. Strap yourself in for an eye-opening cruise along Santa Cruz's winding roads, where you'll learn about the delicate dance of county and city services amidst land use conundrums and financial quagmires. It's a rollercoaster ride through property tax puzzles, the need for septic system overhauls, and the harsh reality of natural disaster impacts, all narrated with Matt's refreshingly straightforward take. Plus, you won't want to miss our robust discussion on the latest efforts in construction and how even small victories can pave the way for a smoother future. As we wrap up our journey, we don't shy away from the personal touch—sharing stories from the front lines of navigating the county permit process and how to stand your ground when it comes to public works and county inspectors. We highlight the collective push for streamlined governance and celebrate the small yet significant strides being made in public transit and permit processes. Dive into the heart of community dialogue, where we emphasize the power of connection and the transformation that can come from joining forces to create a more connected and well-managed Santa Cruz.

    50 min
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THE REAL ESTATE, SEX & GOSSIP PODCAST W/ Paul Locatelli & Brian DeDiego What do you get when two very successful realtors sit down and decide to talk openly about everything ? “The Real Estate, Sex & Gossip” podcast is what. Join Paul Locatelli and Brian DeDiego as the unleash a “no filter” conversation each episode where nothing is safe. REAL ESTATE Listen in for some dramatic real estate success stories and stay tuned for the balance; some vignettes of business and some personal failures that both have learned from. Real estate market updates & strategies abound each episode… SEX Paul was a Versace model in the 90’s …. Brian was buying houses. Brian has since made a cottage industry to find out what the hell was going on at these photo shoots with all those beautiful people and the podcast is his last attempt to force Paul to divulge all the dirty secrets that he is convinced are being hidden. GOSSIP Rule #1 : Speak the truth. Rule #2 : EVERYTHING is on the table Rule #3 : ApplyRule #1 before detonation. Brian & Paul will dig into not only trending national gossip, but give time each episode to the local scene ( Including verifying/denying the rumor mill that includes their names ) Guests include national & local celebrities, leaders in business, athletes & entertainers.

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  • Creator
    Paul Locatelli & Brian DeDiego
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Real Estate, Sex & Gossip
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