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Video essays, internet analysis, and cultural commentary on sexuality, gender, and personal identity. Somewhere between wet, dry, and fxcking confused. Welcome to our community of confused cxnts and philosophical slxts💦🌵💕 Contact: s0wets0dry@gmail.com @s0wets0dry on everything Fiji (Researcher, Host, Producer) Insta: @s0wet TikTok: @FijiTheSiren

  1. JAN 23

    the politics of madness: what defines mental "health"?

    Read the companion essay to this video on substack !!!: https://substack.com/@s0wets0dry  Follow on instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, TikTok and more: https://linktr.ee/s0wets0dry  For collaborations and inquiries email s0wets0dry@gmail.com Today, we’re breaking down mental illness: what it is, where it comes from, and how it became defined by psychiatry, diagnosis, and the modern mental health industry. This video essay explores the history of mental illness, the history of psychiatry in America, the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), therapy culture, medication, and how “madness” has been shaped by colonialism, racism, sexism, capitalism, and eugenics. In 2026, more people than ever are being diagnosed with depression, bipolar disorder, PTSD, anxiety, ADHD, and other mental health conditions. Therapy and psychiatric medication are more accessible than ever, yet many of us still feel broken, unstable, paranoid, exhausted, or “crazy.” So what if the problem isn’t just our brains? This episode examines how mental illness became medicalized, institutionalized, racialized, gendered, and monetized, and why suffering is often treated as a personal defect rather than a rational response to an increasingly unstable world. We look at the rise of therapy culture and TherapyTok, BetterHelp and online therapy platforms, the American Psychiatric Association, Big Pharma, the chemical imbalance theory, and the political weaponization of “mental health” by both the left and the right. We also explore lived experience with diagnosis, including bipolar II disorder, PTSD, depression, medication, rehab, and long-term therapy, and what happens when you start questioning whether your diagnosis explains you… or disciplines you. Topics covered in this video essay include: mental illness explainedhistory of psychiatryDSM and psychiatric diagnosistherapy culture & TherapyTokBetterHelp and online therapyBig Pharma and psychiatric medicationbipolar disorder & hypersexualityPTSD & traumathe Enlightenment concept of Reason (logos vs eros)How to Go Mad Without Losing Your Mind by La Marr Jurelle BruceDrapetomania and scientific racismeugenics in the United Statesforced sterilization in Californiaasylums, lobotomies, and electroshock therapyWomen and Madness by Phyllis Cheslerpsychiatric imperialism & neurosexismracialization of schizophreniaW.E.B. Du Bois and double consciousnessneuroleptics and antipsychoticsGen Z mental health statisticscapitalism, burnout, paranoia, and social collapsepsychosis vs spiritual awakeningDave Chappelle’s mental breakdown“snaps and clicks” theorymadness as political identity If you’re searching for: mental illness explainedhistory of psychiatrytherapy culture critiquebipolar disorder explainedDSM explainedpsychiatric diagnosisBig Pharma and mental healthmedication vs therapygen z mental healthis mental illness biological or social this episode provides the historical, political, and philosophical context behind modern mental health. Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1bzB3ikEsOgkDz01G4EN4yCRzZdariwe91bqOEbJYbQk/edit?tab=t.0  #videoessay #mentalhealth #mentalillness #psychiatry #historyofpsychiatry #therapyculture #bipolar #ptsd #diagnosis #dsm #bigpharma #genz #capitalism #burnout #psychology #philosophy #culturalcritique #politicaltheory #therapy #medication #trauma #neurodivergent #madness #sanity #socialtheory #internetculture Disclaimer: This video is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes only. I do not own the rights to any clips, music, or images used. All third-party content is included strictly under fair use for purposes of commentary, criticism, analysis, and discussion. Fiji (researcher, host, producer, editor)instagram: @s0wettwitter: @s0wettiktok: @fijithesirenyoutube: @fijithesiren

    1h 22m
  2. 12/12/2025

    divine feminine energy, feminism, and… fascism?

    im on substack now !! subscribe for articles and email updates whenever new episodes are released: https://substack.com/@s0wets0dry Today, we’re breaking down a pink pill that is far too popular, though for understandable reasons. The divine feminine energy coaching/ advice trend has roots in feminism… and fascism. We’re going to look at how the reinforcement of patriarchal gender roles became disguised as pretty pink Pinterest-worthy mental and spiritual self-help.We’re talking: Willow Smith’s song Female Energy, the girlboss era, witch feminism, When God Was a Woman by Merlin Stone, The Divine Feminine by Mac Miller, Google Trends for “feminine energy” terms, Mormons, Carl Jung’s psychology with Aspects of the Feminine and Masculine, the divine masculine and feminine theory’s connection to fascism, Eros and the Mysteries of Love by Julius Evola, the myth of the hermaphrodite, gender essentialism, semiotics, and The Love Witch.If you’re searching for a video essay about divine feminine explained, feminine energy meaning, feminine energy coaching critique, or why divine feminine content is trending, this episode gives you the historical, political, and psychological context behind the aesthetic/ trend.Intro: 00:00:00 - 00:01:13Divine Feminine Energy and Feminism: 00:01:13 - 00:25:11What Does Divine Feminine Energy Mean Today? 00:25:11 - 00:33:47The Jungian Psychotherapy Roots of Divine Feminine Energy Coaching 00:33:47 - 00:50:32The Fascism behind Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine Coaching 00:50:32 - 01:02:05The Modern Danger of Femininity Coaching 01:02:05 - 01:07:28The Love With and Self-Help for Women 01:07:28 - 01:13:03Wrap up: Wet, Dry, and Confused 01:13:03 - 01:26:07Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1WV8tEH20twe9IGylcXSMDj8aTJngabojJWpesMuZl2c/edit?tab=t.0#heading=h.xp4frjo6d83o #videoessay #divinefeminine #feminineenergy #masculineenergy #feminineenergycoach #divinemasculine #femininitycoaching #femininity #jungianpsychology #genderessentialism #girlboss #witchfeminism #selfhelpcritique #popcultureanalysis #spiritualitytrends #newagetiktok #feminism #culturalcritique #thelovewitch #willowsmith #macmiller #philosophy #genderstudies #internetculture #aesthetictrends Disclaimer: This video is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes only. I do not own the rights to any clips, music, or images used. All third-party content is included strictly under fair use for purposes of commentary, criticism, analysis, and discussion.Fiji (researcher, host, producer) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: ‪@fijithesirenMaximo (video editor)‬maximosarzano16@gmail.com)

    1h 26m
  3. 10/03/2025

    sexy vs erotic: a tale of two bathwaters🫀🛁

    This episode/video essay is about… bathwater. Sydney Sweeney’s Dr. Squatch Bathwater Bliss ad, the bathtub scene in Saltburn, the difference between “sexy” and “erotic,” and why capitalism keeps selling us desire but never giving us the real thing.We’re talking: Sydney Sweeney’s controversial Dr. Squatch ad campaign, Elle jones substack essay “everyone is sexy and no one is erotic,” the difference between sexy and erotic, sexiness in marketing, Georges Bataille’s theory of eroticism as violence and excess, Saltburn and erotic desire, Byung-Chul Han’s Agony of Eros, capitalism, possession, consumption, and more.Intro: Sydney Sweeney address backlash to Dr. Squatch ad campaign and compares it to Jacob Elordi’s bathwater: 00:00:00 - 00:03:34Everyone is sexy and no one is erotic: the viral substack essay: 00:03:34 - 00:07:31The difference between sexy and erotic: 00:07:31 - 00:17:03Eroticism in the movie Saltburn with analysis from Georges Bataille’s Eroticism: Death & Sensuality: 00:17:03- 00:29:25Sex Sells: The Marketing Strategy behind Sydney Sweeney’s Sexy Ad Campaign: 00:29:25 - 00:39:00Desire & Possession: The Agony of Eros by Byung-Chul Han 00:39:00 - 00:55:06Feminist Critiques of Sydney Sweeney’s Ad Campaign 00:55:06 -01:04:49Wrap Up: Wet, Dry, & Confused 01:04:49 01:11:26Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JlgG4V344bWITgXy3RpigZCZSV-SEcpo8oAi_lbhTww/edit?tab=t.0Disclaimer: This video is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes only. I do not own the rights to any clips, music, or images used. All third-party content is included strictly under fair use for purposes of commentary, criticism, analysis, and discussion.#SydneySweeney #Bathwater #Saltburn #JacobElordi #DrSquatch #AmericanEagleAd #SweeneyControversy#SexyVsErotic #Desire #Eroticism #Feminism #ChoiceFeminism #PopCultureAnalysis #VideoEssay#GeorgesBataille #ByungChulHan #AgonyOfEros #PhilosophyTok #TheoryTube #s0wetS0dry #Podcast #DeepDive #MediaCriticism Join the community of confused pussies and philosophical slxts💦🌵 follow on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dryFiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: ‪@fijithesiren‬ Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. I do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode. All content is used under fair use.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

    1h 11m
  4. 08/08/2025

    is pleasure in submission to men anti-feminist?

    I’m backkk! This podcast episode/ video essay asks: Why do so many women find pleasure in submission to men? And if they do, is it anti-feminist? I’m talking: Princess Treatment, trad wives, gender roles, BDSM kinks and submission fantasies, Sabrina Carpenter’s Man Child and Man’s Best Friend album controversy, choice feminism, satire and irony, fantasy vs reality, men and women dynamics, listener stories, polls, and more. Choice Feminism: Is princess treatment a kink? 00:00:00 - 00:12:41 Why Do Women Find Pleasure in Submission: Our Innate Sexuality versus the Influences of the Patriarchy 00:12:41 - 00:23:59 The Kinky Sub’s Feminist Dilemma: Our Toxic Relationship to the Patriarchy 00:23:59 - 00:36:02 Sabrina Carpenter’s Man’s Best Friend: Coping with this Dilemma through Irony and Satire 00:36:02 - 00:41:47 Is Your Submission a Fantasy or Reality?  00:41:47 - 01:05:29 Wrap Up: Wet, Dry, and Confused 01:05:29 - 01:14:48 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1gVwq-jfwpYhHkFrz5x4E1cVLJgEWkLcWSGac8LNERAk/edit?tab=t.0  Join the community of confused pussies💦🌵  follow on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com  This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. I do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode. All content is used under fair use. ---  Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

    1h 15m
  5. 05/29/2025

    i want you to know me but i don’t: the meta irony meme iceberg

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: Does anyone really know you? And are meta irony memes Gen-Z’s way of balancing the yearning to be known with our inability to take anything seriously? We’re talking: Who knows you the best?, who really knows you at all? How well do you want everyone in your life to know you?, internalized shame, people pleasing, the fear of being fully known, oversharing, over-explaining yourself, trying to be more digestible for other people, Ava Louise, lore, should you tell your significant other everything?, meta-irony, post-irony, Ethel cain’s Tumblr post about the irony epidemic, get-z’s lack of sincerity, the mummification of Kamala Harris’s campaign, the risk of being sincere, core values, polls,  listener stories, and more💦🌵  Sources:  Does Anyone Really Know You? 00:00:00 - 00:19:07 The Ethics and Memeification of Your Lore 00:19:07 - 00:30:26 How much Lore should you share with your partner? 00:30:26 - 00:46:54 Gen-Z Meta Irony Memes and the sincerity crisis 00:46:54 - 01:22:40 Is the inside joke a good thing? 01:22:40 - 01:35:19 What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:35:19 - 01:54:02 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* ---  Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

    1h 54m
  6. 05/21/2025

    she’s Mother, mommy kinks, and the need for nurture

    This week on s0 wet s0 dryFiji and Autumn ask: Why is everyone calling everyone Mother on social media?  We’re talking: Mother’s roots in black queer communities, ballroom and drag culture, misusing the word “Mother”, found and chosen family, the need for community in today’s political climate, the ethics of using AAVE polls, mommy kinks, Gen-Z’s need for nuture, Gen-Z’s need for mothering, listener stories, and more💦🌵  Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1A5dFgl_yB6ZJGcJMKHR1DZQ0E255Xg8Omkpg01xfhZ4/edit?usp=sharing  Tracing the origins of Mother in the black and transgender community: 00:00:00 - 00:11:33 Everyone is calling everyone mother on social media 00:11:33 - 00:30:59 Mommy kinks and the need for nurture 00:30:59 - 00:54:39 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 00:54:39 -01:12:46 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* ---  Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

    1h 13m
  7. 05/15/2025

    he's not just a man, he's my babygirl

    This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: What are babygirl men? Why do we want to nurture men? And are these terms emasculating? We’re talking: Famous babygirl men, submissive and breedable men, ideals for masculinity, breeding kinks, heroic masculinity, toxic masculinity, submissive kinks, boyfriends siimping, men in crisis, the toxic soft boy, pyschological patriarchy, emasculating men, Jeremy Strong as Kendall Roy in Succession, Timothee Chalamet, men in crisis, men and women dynamics, truly seeing men for who they are, polls, lister stories, and more💦🌵  Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1OxuypWpu0Q8m9iNu0HWeJHaIYrR192Lpzoz7Bi8iC_w/edit?tab=t.0 What is a baby girl man? 00:00:00 -00:29:38 Kendell Roy: men we want to nurture 00:29:38 - 00:36:00 Why do we want babygirl men? 00:36:00 - 00:56:51 Is calling men “Babygirl” rooted in more patriarchy?/ Men in Crisis: What is positive masculinity without being emasculating? 00:56:51 -  01:22:06 What is positive masculinity? 01:22:06 - 01:35:01 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about babygirl men 01:35:01 - 01:48:08 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* ---  Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

    1h 48m

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Video essays, internet analysis, and cultural commentary on sexuality, gender, and personal identity. Somewhere between wet, dry, and fxcking confused. Welcome to our community of confused cxnts and philosophical slxts💦🌵💕 Contact: s0wets0dry@gmail.com @s0wets0dry on everything Fiji (Researcher, Host, Producer) Insta: @s0wet TikTok: @FijiTheSiren

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