Doing Me So I Don't Read You

Hertis & Tiffani
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Sister and Brother conversations about what's going on in the world and our different interests in sports and makeup. 

  1. Sep 9

    Flock Cameras, AI Abuse, and the Surveillance Threat Hiding in Plain Sight

    Hertis shares the highlights from Atlanta’s Black Pride weekend, including a Beyoncé-themed celebration, a drag show, dancing, and getting tipped while performing. Tiffi brings the Virgo pride, allergy-season chaos, and plenty of commentary on everything from pool etiquette to the celebrities who make the sign look good. But the conversation takes a serious turn as Tiffi raises concerns about AI-generated child sexual abuse material and the legal loopholes surrounding it, along with the growing use of Flock surveillance cameras. They discuss how license-plate cameras can expose people’s movements and personal information, including the disturbing story of a police officer who allegedly used one to stalk a woman after she rejected him. You’ll also hear their thoughts on Beauty in Black and whether the series is improving as its cast develops their acting skills, plus reactions to the US Open, Coco Gauff, Naomi Osaka’s bold Allen Iverson-inspired look, and the relentless demands placed on women athletes. Tiffi questions the pressure surrounding Caitlin Clark, A’ja Wilson’s importance to the WNBA, and the lack of adequate rest and maternity support for women in sports. From the “pink rhinestone bandit” to movie updates, poolside reading, twerking lessons, and the reminder that your job, relationship, family, or friendships should never come before your own well-being, this episode moves effortlessly between laughter, culture, outrage, and real-life advice.

  2. Aug 19

    The Birthday Week Mix-Up That Almost Wrecked a Movie Plan

    A playful catch-up turns into a surprisingly sharp pop-culture and sports rundown, with Hertis and Tiffi Tool Time trading takes on everything from Spider-Man and Children of the Blood and Bone to the latest reality TV, birthday plans, and the weirdly chaotic world of live events. What starts with nail talk and movie plans quickly opens into a bigger conversation about what’s worth watching, what’s coming next, and why some stories feel more relevant than the headlines. Tiffi breaks down why Spider-Man works as more than just a blockbuster, while Hertis connects the movie’s themes to bigger questions about AI, human judgment, and the way people navigate secrets, loyalty, and identity. You’ll also hear: why Spider-Man hit differently this time the upcoming films and shows they’re actually looking forward to thoughts on The Real Housewives of Atlanta, Heart & Hustle, and American Horror Stories a lively sports check-in covering the WNBA, college football, women’s college sports, and Russell Westbrook’s retirement a very real birthday-week scheduling conflict that turns into an on-the-fly plan change why live shows, celebrity doubles, and “finessing” audiences are part of the modern entertainment game Tiffi Tool Time also spotlights Funny People in the Living Room, shares the love from new followers, and reminds listeners where to find the show and join the conversation. Hertis keeps the energy grounded with updates from everyday life, a fresh haircut, and the kind of off-the-cuff honesty that makes the episode feel like you’re listening in on friends who know how to keep it moving. Perfect for listeners who like their pop culture with personality, their sports takes unfiltered, and their conversations full of quick wit, random detours, and real opinions. Hertis hosts with a casual, witty style and shares the everyday updates, movie plans, and listener sign-off. Tiffi Tool Time brings the sharper commentary, pop-culture energy, sports opinions, and social shout-outs, including the plug for Funny People in the Living Room and her IG presence.

  3. Jul 29

    The Surprising Power of Imagination: Why People Are Fighting Over Fictional Characters

    Your subconscious might be holding back your true potential—until now. In this unpredictable, lively episode of Doing Me So I Dont Read You, Hertis and Tiffi Tool Time peel back the curtain on navigating life’s chaos, societal injustices, and finding light in dark times. What if the biggest shifts happen when you stop following the rules and start trusting your instinct? You don’t want to miss the raw honesty and humor that might just change how you see the world. They dive into the latest buzz around blockbuster movies like Spider-Man and Doomsday, revealing how pop culture sparks intense debates—often driven by ignorance and prejudice. Hertis shares why seeing Into the Spider-Verse and recent Marvel animations helps him stay connected to his roots, while Tiffi reflects on the outrage over casting choices that reveal societal biases. They expose how the entertainment industry unwittingly mirrors our deepest societal issues, and why ignoring this can cost us empathy and progress.

  4. Jul 15

    How Shedding Light on Racism and Resistance Awakens Collective Power

    Most people underestimate the power of small, everyday decisions — but in this episode, Hertis and Tiffi Tool Time reveal how tiny changes can dramatically shift your life’s course. Whether it's navigating travel mishaps, managing drinking experiences, or handling racially charged encounters, you'll discover the subtle yet impactful moves that turn adversity into opportunity. This episode dives into hilarious travel stories from New York, where superficial explorations are replaced by clear priorities, like avoiding overpriced drinks or funny encounters at gay bars. Hertis shares his surprising experience with watered-down liquor and how to spot the fake stuff—crucial knowledge for anyone who’s ever felt duped by establishments. Tiffi breaks down the provocative responses to racial tensions, highlighting how persistent bigotry still manifests in everyday life, from monkey sounds to police encounters, and the empowering ways individuals are standing their ground. You'll also explore the ongoing battle for LGBTQ+ rights amid a shifting societal landscape. Hertis and Tiffi discuss whether fighting back is inevitable or if future loopholes and increased visibility will naturally propel us toward equality. The conversation addresses recent sports controversies, including the protective response around female athletes like Caitlin Clark, revealing the deeply rooted racial and gender biases within modern sports. Plus, get insight into the secret talents of Blue Ivy, the future of the new Spider-Man universe, and the cultural significance of celebrity moments in Atlanta. Why this matters: Ignorance and prejudice threaten progress—yet awareness and strategy are your best weapons. Whether you’re fighting discrimination, navigating social pitfalls, or just want to stay woke about current events and pop culture, this episode equips you with sharpened insight, resilience, and humor to face today’s challenges head-on. Perfect for anyone tired of feeling powerless in the face of hate or injustice, this episode provides real stories with real lessons—proving that even small, deliberate actions can create ripple effects of change. Tune in to stay informed, inspired, and ready to turn life's chaos into your greatest advantage.

  5. Jun 10

    The Surprising Power of Authenticity: Why Embracing Your True Self Wins Support

    Most people think comedy is just about telling jokes — but for Tiffi Tool Time, it’s a powerful tool to challenge stereotypes and build confidence. When he took the stage at a local comedy contest, he didn’t just aim for laughs; he aimed to break barriers about sexuality, identity, and authenticity. Despite facing judgmental stereotypes about being a gay comedian, Tiffi set proved critics wrong, earning him passionate praise from the crowd and victory in the competition. In this episode, Tiffi shares how embracing his truth on stage transforms perceptions and opens doors—whether competing, performing, or just being himself. You’ll discover: the real story behind the comedy contest and why uniqueness wins; how humor can disarm prejudice and spark real conversations; and the mindset that keeps him pushing forward despite societal stereotypes. Plus, insights on navigating the entertainment world as a gay comedian, and how family, community, and authenticity fuel his growth. We also dive into the importance of representation and the impact of owning your narrative as a marginalized creator. Whether you’re a creative, an aspiring performer, or someone who needs a boost of courage to live boldly, this episode lights a fire to embrace your full self—because the world needs your voice, your laughter, and your truth now more than ever. Perfect for anyone feeling overlooked or underestimated because of who they are. If you believe humor can be a gateway to change, you’ll walk away inspired, better equipped, and ready to step into your power—just like Tiffi. Tune in to discover how standing out with authenticity can make you unstoppable. And stay tuned for more stories that challenge, entertain, and transform.

  6. May 20

    The Surprising Power of Authenticity in Comedy and How It Can Break Barriers

    In this episode, you'll get real about the challenges of navigating a saturated nightlife scene subdued by price hikes and urban traffic chaos, plus the clever ways some insiders use to get VIP treatment. We break down how social media platforms are weaponizing your online presence through AI theft, limiting your creative freedom, and censoring genuine content — all while gatekeeping talented voices. Our hosts share unforgettable stories of overcoming industry bias, producers playing favorites, and maintaining authenticity in a world that rewards conformity.

  7. Apr 15

    Weekend Plans and Entertainment Highlights

    Most companies overlook one of their most powerful opportunities for growth—yet it can be the secret weapon to skyrocketing success. In this episode, Hertis and Tiffi uncover how intentionally planning time off, like a designated "Diversity Day," not only boosts employee morale but also drives productivity and retention—giving your team a competitive edge in today’s corporate landscape. They dive deep into the practical strategy of blocking out key dates, leveraging company policies for work-life balance, and how these small shifts can lead to big returns for both employers and employees. You’ll discover how flexible scheduling around holidays and special days can transform team dynamics, reduce burnout, and even improve your bottom line. Plus, insights on how companies that truly prioritize their workforce attract top talent and foster loyalty in an increasingly competitive job market. The episode also explores the broader implications—why organizations ignoring employee wellbeing risk stagnation, and how embracing innovative scheduling can unlock untapped potential. Hertis and Tiffi share real-world examples from their own workplaces, and outline simple steps for implementing these ideas in your business or career today. Whether you're a manager looking to boost team performance or an employee eager to advocate for better work policies, this episode is essential listening. Learn how small changes in your schedule can lead to significant opportunities—empowering you to work smarter, live better, and lead with purpose. Don’t miss out on the game-changing strategies that can redefine your professional life.

  8. Feb 26

    The Surprising Ways Black Heritage Is Still Missing from Mainstream Recognition

    Unlock the surprising truth about Black heritage that most overlook—you're about to see how every day in our lives, history, and even technology is shaped by Black pioneers. In this episode, Hertis and TiffiToolTime dive into a lively conversation filled with personal transformations, cultural insights, and powerful stories of trailblazing Black women and men who dared to challenge systemic barriers long before mainstream recognition. From the importance of claiming our heritage outside the limited month of February to the legacy of grassroots heroes like Grandma Jackson, this episode reveals how resilience and community activism continue to inspire generations. You’ll discover the impact of Black innovation—did you know that most everyday inventions were crafted by Black inventors? Plus, hear insights on current sports controversies, the importance of supporting Black artists like Ari Lennox and Jill Scott, and the ongoing fight for racial equity in education, politics, and beyond. This conversation isn't just about the past—it's a call to acknowledge our ongoing history and embrace our power today. If you believe your voice matters and you're hungry for stories of strength, creativity, and activism that often go untold, this episode is your wake-up call. It’s perfect for anyone seeking inspiration, cultural pride, or to understand the deep roots shaping modern America. Tune in to reconnect with your heritage and fuel your journey of self-empowerment. Remember, your story is part of a larger legacy—listen now and be reminded of the impact you can have. That’s more than enough reason to hit play now.

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Sister and Brother conversations about what's going on in the world and our different interests in sports and makeup. 

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  • Creator
    Hertis & Tiffani
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Hertis & Tiffani
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