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In this compelling episode of the Resilience in the Pews series, Christy sits down with her good friend and fellow Enneagram 8 friend,  Jessica Taylor to explore the theme "Your View Isn’t Their View", focusing on tackling anxiety and healing from church wounds.  

As co-pastors, Jessica and her husband have turned their past church wounds into a mission of healing and understanding within their own ministry.
Jessica discusses the importance of loyalty—a trait deeply ingrained in her and something she values immensely in both personal and spiritual contexts. She shares insights into how this trait has influenced her life and leadership, and reflects on whether loyalty should hold as much importance for others as it does for her.
Through her journey, Jessica encountered significant challenges, including dealing with differing perspectives among close friends which led to deep wounds. She offers advice on navigating such emotionally charged situations, especially for those who, like her, have a high loyalty meter.
Additionally, Jessica recounts how her "challenger personality" played a role in both exacerbating and healing her past church wounds. She opens up about the anxiety this tension caused and the strategies she employed to cope with it.
In their current pastoral roles, Jessica and her husband are committed to not repeating the mistakes that led to their own spiritual injuries. They have implemented specific steps in their church leadership to foster a nurturing and inclusive community.
This episode is especially meaningful for anyone struggling to trust or find their place in a church community again. Jessica provides hopeful insights and practical steps for rebuilding trust and finding a supportive faith community. Tune in for a story of resilience, perspective, and the power of a healed heart to lead others toward healing.

Jessica Taylor is a mother, speaker, nonprofit owner, author, and co-host of the podcast, Pastors’ Wives Tell All. She is a dynamic leader and creative, who runs Come Away missions, a nonprofit serving the people of Rwanda, Africa. She sends multiple teams to Rwanda each year to serve alongside a local Rwandan pastor.  She serves on staff at her local church as the missions and women’s ministry leader.

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In this inspiring episode of the Resilience in the Pews series, we dive into the remarkable life of Hilda, whose story of faith and determination unfolds in unexpected ways. Our episode, titled "Unexpected Miracles," explores how Hilda, despite being physically limited to a tricycle and later a wheelchair, overcame immense challenges and societal stigmas from her upbringing in Cameroon to finding her true community and calling in journalism.
Hilda’s journey began with her family seeking help from a witch doctor, a common practice in her culture for those deemed "cursed" due to disabilities. She shares her terrifying experiences and how her budding faith in Jesus provided protection and strength during these dark times. The conversation also touches on the painful yet all-too-common experiences of misguided healing services within the Christian community, which tested her faith but never broke her spirit.
One of the most profound parts of Hilda's story is her battle with severe depression, which led her to the brink of suicide. She discusses this dark period with candor, offering hope and advice to others who may be facing similar struggles. The unexpected miracle here is her survival and continued faith in God’s plan for her life.
As Hilda navigated through college, she found her tribe—a community that showed her the true meaning of Jesus's love and support. She shares a poignant story about her advocacy for a new wheelchair, demonstrating her resilience and ability to effect change. Inspired by another person's story of overcoming physical limitations, Hilda realized her own potential to make a significant impact.
Now a successful journalist, Hilda uses her platform to share stories of faith, resilience, and the power of unexpected miracles. Join us as Hilda imparts her wisdom and insights, proving that miracles don’t always look like you'd expect, but they come just when you need them most. This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith.

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Join us on a heartfelt journey with Brant Hansen in the latest episode of the Fearless Tips and Talks podcast, part of our resilience-in-the-pews series.

This episode, titled "God is Good," features Hansen, an author and radio personality known for his engaging storytelling and insightful doodles. In his latest book, "Life is Hard. God is Good. Let’s Dance," Brant explores the complexities of faith with simplicity and humor, offering a fresh perspective on walking with Jesus without getting lost in dogma.
In this episode, Brant discusses the themes of his book, sharing stories that will make you laugh, cry, and perhaps even dance with joy. He delves into the role humor plays in communicating deep truths and reflects on growing up as a pastor's kid, his experiences with autism, and how these have shaped his unique view of Christianity. Brant also recounts an inspiring story of three young women from the University of Oklahoma’s women’s softball team, whose expressions of faith on a national stage challenged conventional views on women's roles in church.
This episode is a call to embrace the simplicity and joy of faith, even in challenging times. Tune in to hear Brant’s take on keeping faith real and accessible, the importance of community support for families with autistic members, and his advice on managing stress and anxiety in today’s world.
Whether you're a faithful follower or just curious about how humor and honesty can reveal profound spiritual truths, this episode promises to be both enlightening and entertaining.

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Join us on  for a powerful episode with Angel Williams, a beacon of faith and resilience, as she shares her journey of overcoming excruciating abuse and finding a "Healthy Fear of God."

Angel's story, set against the backdrop of a childhood marred by physical and sexual abuse at the hands of her father—a leader in her church—offers a raw, unfiltered look into the complexities of faith, fear, and forgiveness.

In this episode, part of our "Resilience in the Pews" series, we delve into how Angel navigated her anxiety and church wounds to foster a relationship with God not based on fear of punishment but on reverence and awe. Her insights offer hope and guidance to those wrestling with their own church wounds or seeking to understand how God can use imperfect people in holy ways.

A word of caution: Angel's recounting of her experiences may be triggering for abuse survivors. We encourage listeners to approach this episode with care. Discover how Angel's unyielding spirit and deep-rooted faith in Jesus illuminate the path to healing and a healthy fear of God.

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In this episode of Resilience In the Pews, we explore the authentic and often challenging journeys of the hosts behind "Pastors Wives Tell All." From confronting the stigma of being tatted-up women of faith to tackling imposter syndrome and the complex dynamics within church communities, Stephanie, Jessica, and Jenna share their personal stories and the lessons they've learned. They discuss the resilience required to navigate criticism, the courage to challenge conventional religious spirits, and the intimate struggles that come with their unique positions. The conversation delves into the widespread issues faced by churches today, as observed through the confidences shared by pastors' wives, and offers advice on addressing these problems. Through a blend of vulnerability and strength, they reveal how they've dealt with personal and communal church hurts, including the impact on their marriages and their own faith journeys.

The episode closes on a note of hope, highlighting powerful redemption testimonines that speaks to the healing and transformative power of genuine community and understanding within the church. Join us as we uncover the raw and redemptive stories of faith, resilience, and the power of standing firm in one's beliefs amidst adversity.

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Our guest today is a veteran investigator reporter and founder of The Roys Report.

Christy asked Julie these questions and more! 
What are the three top common themes of bad behavior/unhealth that you see within the churches you are reporting on? I often see that the churches you are reporting on, decline to comment. Why do you think that is? How do you conduct an investigation fairly? Has your reporting ever been wrong? If so, what action steps did you take? How would you like to address your critics who think you are causing division by your reporting?Do you read the comments on your social pages and blogs? How do you protect your heart from all the mean things being said? Part of your mission is not only reporting the truth, but restoring the church. What is your vision for restoring the church?What are your goals for making that mission (restoring the church) happen in the short term and long term? Messages that Julie mentioned can be found on her YouTube Channel.

Resources:
Katie Roberts
BozLaw
Christine Jones
The Roys Report
Diane Langberg
A Church Called Tov
Wade Mullen (Something is Not Right) 
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