Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connectio

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Do you find yourself with a marriage falling apart at the seams? A body that is riddled with stress and anxiety? How about the kind of tension that seeps into every area of your life? If that sounds like you, you have come to the right place. If you are a highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life, this is the place for you. We will cover topics from pornography to finances, health, spiritual life, communication, intimacy and so much more. My hope is that this will be a place that brings you the breakthrough in your life and marriage that I so desperately needed.

  1. 5h ago

    You Don't Have a Sex Problem

    If we're talking about intimacy, I refuse to hand you another surface-level trick like the ones on magazine covers, because your sex life is not a petal problem, it's a root system. In this episode I'm sharing pieces of my own story I've never fully unpacked here, from the purity culture belief that I could never say no, to the season our bedroom door was deadbolted shut while we were separated, to the miracle of where we are now. If physical intimacy in your marriage has gone dormant, I want you to hear me: dormant is not dead, and the roots are far more changeable than you think. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why sex is the bloom, not the whole rosebush ➡️ The purity culture lie that trained me to have zero boundaries ➡️ How fight, flight, freeze, fawn, and flop show up around touch ➡️ Why sexual trauma lives in the body, not just your memories ➡️ The root audit: which areas of you are thriving, thirsty, or dormant ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— 🌿 If your body leaned in during this episode, that's your sign. Join Becky, Julie, and Bridget at the Wild + Rooted Retreat 2026 for three days of breathwork, somatic healing, and sacred sisterhood on the Eastern Shore of Delaware.➡️ Grab your spot before it's gone

  2. Aug 14

    You've Done the Work. So Why Does Part of You Still Feel Stuck?

    This episode started as a conversation Julie Brumley recorded for her own podcast, and the minute I listened back, I knew it had to live here too. The three of us — me, Julie, and Bridget Covill — went deep on a question I hear constantly from women who have done years of inner work: why does part of me still feel like it's holding on? We talked about shame, where it actually lives in the body, what breathwork does that nothing else can, and what becomes possible when healing stops happening in isolation. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why high-functioning, self-aware women still carry a hidden undercurrent of shame ➡️ How shame shows up in the body — and in intimacy — before you even have words for it ➡️ What breathwork reveals that journaling and Zoom calls simply cannot ➡️ The difference between surface-level friendship and real sacred sisterhood ➡️ What relational healing looks like in person — and why some layers can't be softened alone ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— 🌿 If your body leaned in during this episode, that's your sign. Join Becky, Julie, and Bridget at the Wild + Rooted Retreat 2026 for three days of breathwork, somatic healing, and sacred sisterhood on the Eastern Shore of Delaware. ➡️ Grab your spot before it's gone ———————————————————————— Connect with Julie Brumley Julie is a trauma-informed adoptee coach and podcast host helping women heal the core wounds of abandonment, belonging, and identity through body-based work and the power of being truly witnessed. ➡️ Instagram ———————————————————————— Connect with Bridget Covill Bridget is a reset breathwork facilitator who helps women release what they've been carrying so their aliveness can come back online. ➡️ Instagram

  3. Aug 7

    It's Not a Spiritual Attack. It's Not Agoraphobia. Here's What It Actually Is.

    I'm recording this from my front porch because I've been carrying something for 37 years that I've never had words for until this weekend, and I feel absolutely called to share it now. What I'm walking you through today is my own story, raw and chronological, from crowded school gyms as a little girl to the worst season of my marriage to burying my mom, and how all of it finally connects to one term I'd never heard in 15 years of coaching: post-traumatic derealization. If even one person listens to this and feels like someone finally gets it, this episode did exactly what it was supposed to do. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Becky's lifelong experience with derealization and why it took 37 years to find the right name for it ➡️ The difference between dissociation, depersonalization, and derealization, explained in plain language ➡️ How grief and major loss can push the nervous system into shutdown, and why that's not weakness ➡️ What has actually helped Becky move through her longest episode yet, from crying to breathwork to therapy ➡️ The triggers and warning signs to watch for in your own nervous system ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

  4. Jul 31

    When You've Tried Everything and Still Feel Stuck

    There's something powerful about two practitioners who can just cut straight to what's actually keeping women stuck. My guest Marina Triner and I get into the real reason why understanding your patterns is never enough on its own, why your nervous system isn't broken even when it feels that way, and how the smallest moments, like hearing the door open when your husband comes home, are actually where the deepest rewiring happens. If you've done all the therapy, read all the books, and still keep ending up in the same place, this one is for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why insight alone doesn't create lasting change, and what has to happen in the body first ➡️ The link between childhood emotional neglect and the overgiving patterns showing up in your marriage today ➡️ How to stay regulated when your partner gets dysregulated, and why that changes everything ➡️ The difference between expectations and standards, and why that distinction gives you your power back ➡️ What it actually looks like to build secure attachment with yourself so your world stops crashing when he has a bad day ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— 🔗 Connect with Marina Marina is a renowned somatic coach, and has supported thousands to move through stuckness, unleash their power, and step into unprecedented visionary success in their relationships, careers and life through profoundly transformative body-based approaches that go to the deep roots: addressing triggers, emotional healing and nervous system regulation. She has mentored thousands of clients through her coaching, online courses, and live programs. Explore support from Marina here: https://marina-yt.mykajabi.com/offers/PAWQhZHu/checkout

  5. Jul 24 ·  Bonus

    Rest Is Your Birthright

    Rest Is Your Birthright This week’s episode is all about reclaiming rest — not as a reward, but as a birthright. I’m sharing my personal journey of overcoming productivity addiction and how I’ve come to see rest as essential, sacred, and powerful. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ Why rest isn’t something you have to “earn” ➡️ My story of unlearning hustle culture and embracing softness ➡️ How productivity addiction shows up in the nervous system ➡️ Practical ways to prioritise rest without guilt ➡️ The connection between rest, self-worth, and embodiment 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Come say hello on Instagram! ➡️⁠ instagram.com/becky_aste⁠ and DM me the word “PODCAST” for a free training resource that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgment here ;) Here’s my website! ➡️⁠ www.idobreakthrough.com⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠⁠]

  6. Jul 17

    Shame Says Hide. Marriage Says Come Closer.

    I used to lie awake at 9:47pm listening to a voice in my head tell me exactly what was wrong with me, and for years I thought that voice was telling the truth. In this episode I'm naming that voice as shame, showing you why it lives in your body and not your thoughts, and why it quietly runs more marriages than money, parenting, and intimacy combined. Then I'm handing you the one tool I've watched dissolve shame faster than anything else in 15 years of this work, and it's so simple you can practice it in your kitchen tonight. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The real difference between guilt and shame, and why confusing them is costing you ➡️ The three costumes shame wears in your marriage that you'd never recognize as shame ➡️ Why you can't think, journal, or affirm your way out of a body in collapse ➡️ The courtroom your husband never asked to be the judge in ➡️ A three-move practice small enough to do mid conversation with dinner on the stove ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

  7. Jul 10

    I Came to Save My Marriage. I Ended Up Saving Myself.

    This week I'm joined by Julie Brumley, my client support coach, and one of our Root to Rise clients who came to us three years ago desperate to save a marriage that was slipping away before it ever really began. What she shares in this episode is the most honest version of this journey I can offer you: the marriage didn't survive, but she did, and she walked away with a connection to herself, her body, and God that she never knew was possible. If you're pouring everything into saving your relationship right now, I want you to hear what happened when she stopped abandoning herself in the process. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Realizing your husband checked out before counseling even started ➡️ When the biggest healing happens inside yourself instead of your marriage ➡️ Learning the language of your body and what your triggers are trying to tell you ➡️ Finding a faith that feels personal instead of forced ➡️ Why the goal is coming home to yourself, whether the marriage makes it or not ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

  8. Jul 3

    It's Not Intuition If It Feels Like Fear

    I've been the woman who did all the therapy, all the modalities, all the healing programs, and still stood frozen at every crossroads not trusting my own next step, so this conversation with Vanessa Soul cracked something open for me. We get into why so much of what we call indecision is actually a fawn response in disguise, and how to tell the difference between old fear recycling and the real, quieter voice of intuition. If you've been waiting for angels and trumpets to tell you which way to go, this episode is your permission to stop waiting and start feeling your yes in your body again. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why "I can't decide" is often a fear of abandonment in disguise ➡️ How to tell the difference between intuition and old trauma recycling ➡️ Coming back to your own sovereignty when everything feels off kilter ➡️ Self-mothering practices for when you need your mom and she's not there ➡️ A four-part grief process to clear the slate in any relationship ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— Connect with Vanessa Soul Vanessa Soul is the host of the Power and Purpose Podcast, a career and business astrologer, and trusted intuitive advisor. She supports entrepreneurs and professionals in building success that feels aligned, profitable, and soul-led. Her work bridges strategy and spirituality in a way that feels both practical and expansive. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Astrology: 3-Session Clarity Package (Podcast PROMO) - Vanessa Soul - Sacred Soul Energetics⁠⁠⁠⁠ (10% discount) ⁠⁠⁠⁠linktr.ee/vanessasoul⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: @vanessaasoul⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Power & Purpose Podcast (All Apps)⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube: Vanessa Soul⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: Vanessa Spiva⁠

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Do you find yourself with a marriage falling apart at the seams? A body that is riddled with stress and anxiety? How about the kind of tension that seeps into every area of your life? If that sounds like you, you have come to the right place. If you are a highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life, this is the place for you. We will cover topics from pornography to finances, health, spiritual life, communication, intimacy and so much more. My hope is that this will be a place that brings you the breakthrough in your life and marriage that I so desperately needed.

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  • Channel
    Podfox Media
  • Creator
    Becky Aste
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    178
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026

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