Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connectio

Podfox Media
  • 4.8 (40)
  • MENTAL HEALTH
  • UPDATED WEEKLY

Do you find yourself with a marriage falling apart at the seams? A body that is riddled with stress and anxiety? How about the kind of tension that seeps into every area of your life? If that sounds like you, you have come to the right place. If you are a highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life, this is the place for you. We will cover topics from pornography to finances, health, spiritual life, communication, intimacy and so much more. My hope is that this will be a place that brings you the breakthrough in your life and marriage that I so desperately needed.

  1. 6D AGO

    When Staying Hurts and Leaving Scares You: A Survivalist's Take on the Hardest Decisions of Your Life

    Dub Paetz spent 80 days completely alone in the sub-zero Arctic as a finalist on Season 11 of Alone, and the parallels to what so many of us experience in our emotional and relational lives are undeniable. What struck me most wasn't just his physical survival skills, but the way extreme isolation forced him to face decades of buried wounds and come out the other side more himself than ever. If you've ever felt like you're navigating your own kind of wilderness, this episode is going to hit different. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What 80 days alone in the Arctic teaches you about the human spirit ➡️ How childhood wounds resurface under pressure and what to do with them ➡️ The mental battle of a lose-lose decision and how to survive it ➡️ Why tapping out isn't always losing and when following your gut is the real win ➡️ How radical authenticity can heal old wounds and become your greatest superpower ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Register here for UNSPOKEN!  ⁠https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— 🔗 Connect with Dub: Dub Paetz is a standout survivalist from Season 11 of the hit series Alone - one of the most intense survival competitions on television, watched by millions worldwide. On the show, elite survivalists are dropped completely alone in the wilderness with just a few tools and must survive longer than anyone else for a chance to win a half a million dollars.  Dub, a fifth-generation fly fisherman and former hunting and fly-fishing guide with over 15 years in the Idaho backcountry, proved his wilderness expertise as a finalist on Season 11- facing extreme cold, isolation, and the mental grind of surviving completely off the land. https://www.youtube.com/@dubgonewild https://www.youtube.com/@WildTogetheradventures/shorts

    43 min

  2. MAR 6

    I Stopped Trying to Change My Husband

    In this episode, I'm sitting down with my dear client and friend Kristi, whose journey through unimaginable loss, a cancer scare, betrayal, and a crumbling marriage led her to one of the most profound transformations I've ever had the privilege of witnessing up close. What she shares about learning to stop controlling everything and finally come back to herself is the kind of raw, hard-fought wisdom that can only come from walking through the fire. If you've ever felt like the ceiling and the floor disappeared out from under you all at once, this conversation was made for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Navigating grief, a cancer scare, and betrayal — all at the same time ➡️ How anxiety and control were secretly running the show ➡️ The shift from trying to fix your partner to getting rooted in yourself ➡️ Asking the hard question: "Am I justified, or am I winning?" ➡️ What healing actually looks like when you stop trying to do marriage "the right way" ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Register here for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

    27 min

  3. FEB 27

    Raising Emotionally Healthy Kids Without Fear and Shame

    What if the parenting advice we were handed wasn't actually aligned with how God designed our kids? This week, I'm sitting down with Meaghan Hampton, LPC-Associate and founder of Soul Care for Families, and we are going deep on this topic. If you grew up in the church, were handed certain parenting books, or ever felt that knot in your stomach when a teaching just didn't sit right, this one is for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How developmental psychology and your faith actually work beautifully together ➡️ What the nervous system and attachment science tell us about our kids' behavior ➡️ The real cultural and scriptural context behind "spare the rod" ➡️ Scripts and mantras for sibling conflict, big emotions, and spicy toddler moments ➡️ Why trusting your maternal intuition is part of your healing, not a threat to your faith ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Register here for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Meaghan Hampton 🔗 Meaghan Hampton is an LPC-Associate and the founder of Soul Care for Families, where she helps Christian parents raise emotionally healthy, spiritually grounded children through the integration of developmental psychology, nervous-system science, and Christian theology. Her work focuses on attachment, co-regulation, and cycle-breaking parenting, offering a grace-centered alternative to fear- and shame-based approaches. She creates educational resources and content that equip families to parent with both clinical wisdom and faithfulness to Scripture. https://www.instagram.com/soulcareforfamilies/ https://stan.store/soulcareforfamilies

    33 min

  4. FEB 20

    What Grief, a Hospital Scare, and the Year of the Horse Taught Me About Starting Over

    This episode is one of the most personal ones I've recorded in a long time, and I'm so grateful you're here for it. I'm sharing what's really been on my heart — grief, a hospital scare, breathwork, my nervous system, and the quiet courage it takes to keep showing up when life feels this tender. If you've ever wondered what healing actually looks like in real time, this one's for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The poem I wrote for my mom's celebration of life and what it taught me about love and loss ➡️ Why healing rarely looks dramatic, and what those tiny faithful steps actually feel like ➡️ Navigating hypervigilance and fragility when loss keeps showing up all around you ➡️ How authenticity in leadership (and in life) creates more connection than perfection ever could ➡️ Shedding old identities and making room for miracles in this new season ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Register here for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

    25 min

  5. FEB 13

    I Thought I Had to Be Perfect to Keep Him

    This week I'm joined by one of my Root to Rise clients, and hearing her share how she went from constant hypervigilance and fear of abandonment to genuine peace in her relationship reminded me why I do this work. Sonia's breakthrough wasn't about fixing her partner or finding the perfect relationship strategy, it was about learning to slow down, trust herself, and stop abandoning herself in the name of keeping someone close. Her story is proof that the answers we're frantically searching for outside ourselves have been inside all along. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How anxiety in relationships shows up even when there's no "obvious" trauma or reason ➡️ The nervous system roots of anxious attachment and hypervigilance in intimacy ➡️ Learning to slow down, be still, and trust yourself instead of over-explaining or seeking permission ➡️ Why suppressing emotions with tools backfires—and how to actually listen to your body's messages ➡️ Breaking free from the healing trap of constantly chasing the next program or coach ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Register here for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

    35 min

  6. FEB 6 · BONUS

    BONUS REPLAY: Somatic Strength & Sanity When the World Seems Scary

    In this episode, I share tangible, practical ways to create safety in your mind and nervous system during turbulent personal and political times. With so much collective fear and uncertainty, I invite you to root deeper into your somatic, spiritual, and subconscious safety than ever before. Join me as we cultivate somatic strength and sanity when the world feels scary. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ Practical strategies to foster nervous system safety ➡️ Navigating fear and uncertainty with somatic awareness ➡️ Deepening spiritual and subconscious grounding ➡️ Cultivating resilience in challenging times ➡️ Becky’s “Flu Shot” recipe for wellness and immune support Becky’s “Flu Shot” Recipe — Blend 1 squeezed lemon, 1 tbsp Manuka honey, 1 tbsp elderberry, Vitamin C, Vitamin D, Zinc, 1 inch peeled ginger, 1 inch peeled turmeric, ½ cup frozen organic pineapple, 1–2 cups coconut water or filtered water. Pour through a strainer and bottoms up! 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Register here for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Come say hello on Instagram! ➡️⁠ instagram.com/becky_aste⁠ and DM me the word “PODCAST” for a free training resource that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgment here ;) Here’s my website! ➡️⁠ www.idobreakthrough.com⁠Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠]

    26 min

  7. JAN 30

    How Betrayal Trauma Rewrites Your Body's Literal Chemistry

    In this episode, I sit down with Elizabeth Scarcella to explore why you might still feel physically depleted even after doing deep emotional and nervous system work. We unpack the biochemistry of betrayal trauma: how cortisol floods your system like a firefighter that won't stop spraying water, dampening your thyroid, draining your progesterone, and throwing your entire hormone cascade into chaos. Elizabeth shares her own story of navigating betrayal while discovering that true healing requires addressing both nervous system regulation and hormonal harmony. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The cell danger response and why your body stays in defense mode long after trauma ends ➡️ How chronic cortisol creates a domino effect that impacts thyroid, progesterone, estrogen, testosterone, and insulin ➡️ Real-world signs your body is still biochemically stuck in survival mode (sleep issues, brain fog, inflammation, low libido) ➡️ Why emotional healing alone can't restore hormonal balance—and what's missing from most recovery approaches ➡️ A trauma-informed, simplified approach to lab work and supplements that actually supports your nervous system ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Register here for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Elizabeth Scarcella 🔗 Elizabeth Grace is a neuroscience and functional medicine practitioner, hormone health expert, and best-selling author of Rise. She helps high-achieving Gen X women heal the root causes of their exhaustion, anxiety, and hormone chaos so they can finally feel calm, clear, and fully themselves again. Her free quiz: https://reveal-the-root.scoreapp.com/ IG & FB: @elizabethscarcella

    30 min

  8. JAN 23

    Why Men Seem Avoidant & Lessons About Male Shame

    This week, I'm joined by Christina Lane to talk about something that keeps so many of us stuck: what happens when love has hurt us so deeply that our bodies literally can't tell the difference between intimacy and danger anymore. We explored how triggers aren't proof that something's wrong with us; they're actually invitations for deeper connection if we know how to work with them. Christina shared why men aren't actually "avoidant" (they're just terrified in a different way than we are), how sitting in discomfort beats solution-hunting every time, and what it really takes to rebuild safety after betrayal. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why love is inherently painful and how to get comfortable with emotional discomfort ➡️ The real reason men shut down (and why labeling them "avoidant" makes everything worse) ➡️ How to tell the difference between a present-moment trigger and an old wound replaying ➡️ Co-creating safety through somatic rituals instead of perpetual compromise ➡️ Why your body, not your mind, gets the final say on whether intimacy feels safe again ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Register here for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Christina Lane 🔗 Christina Lane is a Somatic Embodiment Coach and educator whose work centers around nervous-system regulation, emotional safety, and embodied intimacy. Through her coaching containers, group programs, and membership community, she helps individuals reconnect with their bodies, unlearn survival responses, and create relationships rooted in safety instead of fear. Her mission is to help people experience love and connection not by performing or people-pleasing, but by coming home to themselves, where safety, desire, and authenticity can coexist. Website: www.christinalanecoaching.com Instagram: instagram.com/christinalanecoaching/ Medium: https://medium.com/@christinalanecoaching/

    38 min
See All (155)

Trailer

4.8
out of 5
40 Ratings

About

Do you find yourself with a marriage falling apart at the seams? A body that is riddled with stress and anxiety? How about the kind of tension that seeps into every area of your life? If that sounds like you, you have come to the right place. If you are a highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life, this is the place for you. We will cover topics from pornography to finances, health, spiritual life, communication, intimacy and so much more. My hope is that this will be a place that brings you the breakthrough in your life and marriage that I so desperately needed.

Information

  • Channel
    Podfox Media
  • Creator
    Becky Aste
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    155
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026

More From Podfox Media

You Might Also Like