I am Love - Tina's Podcast

Tina Memic

I am Love - Tina's Podcast is all about Empowerment, Self-care and mindfulness. I am a Family Constellation Facilitator and Life Coach and will talk mainly about the power of constellations and how you can utilize this amazing tool to set yourself free and remove blockages and reoccurring patterns from you life. 

  1. 1D AGO

    The Spiritual Ego Trap

    In this episode, I speak with Lotus about a subtle but powerful trap on the spiritual path: the spiritual ego. At some point in the journey, many people begin to identify as “healed,” “awake,” or even “enlightened.” But what happens when spirituality becomes another mask… another identity the ego hides behind? And then comes the next layer… You learn how to manifest. You learn how to tap into the quantum field. You begin to understand energy, frequency, alignment. And suddenly… it feels like you know.  But what happens then? Very often, the ego doesn’t disappear. It evolves. It becomes more refined, more spiritual, more convincing. So let me tell you this, the moment you think you are enlightened… you are not. Because enlightenment is not something you can claim.  True growth is not about bypassing pain or constantly “being in the light.” It’s about the willingness to meet what is real, raw, and sometimes uncomfortable. In my experience, real humility begins where certainty ends. And this is something I deeply learned through constellation work. As facilitators, we are not the most important person in the room. We are the least important.  We don’t lead from ego, from knowing. We step back. We listen. We allow something greater to move through the field. The moment we think we are the ones doing the work… we are already out of alignment. Maybe this is the real invitation: To stay humble. To stay open. To stay human. Because the deeper truth might be this: The more we believe we have arrived… the further we are from truth. It is wonderful that so many of you are on this path, but the moment we identify with it, we feel important due to it and we look down on others as more "advanced" it's time to notice, we have fallen into the spiritual Ego trap. Enjoy the listen!  Welcome to I am Love. Thank you for tuning in. My name is Tina.I am happy to speak with you about Family Constellations a modality that completely fascinates me.I am a facilitator and teacher of this modality, and love to share insights that might help you see clear and set yourself free!

    24 min
  2. MAR 3

    Trauma, Shock & the Nervous System – A Message from Dubai

    Today’s episode is deeply personal. I’m recording this from Dubai, my home for more than 20 years. A city I love. A country I am endlessly grateful for. A place where I have grown, built my life, learned constellation work, and opened my heart. This weekend, we experienced something unexpected and frightening. Dubai was targeted amid geopolitical tensions. And although this city is considered one of the safest in the world, something happened that reminded me: When the unknown strikes, the body reacts. Even when the mind knows you are safe… Even when you trust… Even when you believe… The body can still go into shock. In this episode, I speak about: What trauma actually isWhat happens in the nervous system during shockFight, flight, freeze - and why freeze often feels like powerlessnessWhy the unknown is so destabilizingHow media exposure and social feeds intensify fear responsesWhy children and animals mirror our regulationThe difference between primary and secondary emotionsWhy suppressed emotions become stored traumaHow to regulate your body somaticallyI also share something vulnerable: Although I felt mentally calm and deeply trusting, my body was trembling. I woke up shaking. My system was frozen. And that made me reflect on something bigger. In constellation work, we understand that we don’t only carry our personal experiences. We carry the imprints of our lineage. Modern science now supports this through the field of epigenetics — showing that trauma can be passed down through generations. Sometimes what feels overwhelming in the present moment is older than us. In this episode, I guide you through: A simple ancestral release visualizationSomatic regulation tools (breathwork, movement, EFT tapping)The Hawaiian healing philosophy of Ho’oponoponoWhy compassion dissolves trauma faster than angerHow to step back into your rightful place as the child in your systemYou are not here to carry what does not belong to you. You are here to live your life. And maybe one of the most powerful things we can do in times of fear is to regulate ourselves, because when we regulate, everyone around us regulates too. I saw it in my rescued cats. When I calmed my body, they calmed too. We are deeply connected — through what systemic work calls the morphogenetic field. So in this episode, I also speak about something radical: Sending love even to those who cause harm. Not because we agree. Not because we accept. But because love shifts the field. If this topic resonates with you and you feel you need support in processing shock, fear, or inherited trauma, I’ve recently launched my AI Systemic Coach “SOL” — a digital extension of my work. You can explore it here: www.constellationsdubai.com This is part of a bigger vision - a place where we learn how to regulate, heal, grow and expand together. And A Ho’oponopono reminder: I’m sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. Thank you. Say it to yourself. Say it to the part of you that is afraid. Say it to the part that froze. And please remember: Limit your news exposure. Your nervous system was not built for the amount of information we consume daily. Choose wisely what you expose yourself to. Everything carries energy. I’m sending you love from my heart to yours. Stay safe. Welcome to I am Love. Thank you for tuning in. My name is Tina.I am happy to speak with you about Family Constellations a modality that completely fascinates me.I am a facilitator and teacher of this modality, and love to share insights that might help you see clear and set yourself free!

    16 min
  3. FEB 20

    Modern Women, Traditional Values - Finding Balance in a Changing World

    Modern women are exhausted. We are building careers, raising children, running households, being wives, daughters, leaders — and often the emotional backbone of everyone around us. And somewhere in between all of that, we quietly ask ourselves: Where am I in all of this? Am I a good mother? Am I a good wife? Am I allowed to want independence and partnership at the same time? In this episode, Lotus Habbab - inspirational woman, film maker, life coach, facilitator and more, joins me to discuss this pressing topic. How can modern women balance it All!? We explore one of the most delicate and misunderstood systemic dynamics in modern society: the order of love inside a family. From a systemic constellation perspective, there is a natural hierarchy that brings peace and stability. The couple comes first. The partnership is the foundation. The child is the result of that union. When a baby is born, it is completely natural for the mother’s focus to shift. Biology takes over. The bonding phase is sacred. Especially the first three years are a crucial imprinting time for a child’s nervous system, sense of safety, and emotional foundation. And yet, if the partnership is forgotten, if the man is emotionally sidelined tension enters the system. Many women today are torn between modern independence and traditional values. We want to earn money. We want to feel empowered. We want to be self-sufficient. And at the same time, we long to be present mothers and deeply connected wives. So how do we balance this? What happens when traditional structures clash with modern expectations? What does it mean systemically when a woman places the child above the husband long-term? What happens when financial reality does not allow a woman to stay home, even if she desires to? How do we navigate extended family dynamics without entering power struggles? In this episode, we explore: • Why the partnership must remain the emotional anchor • Why children feel safer when the couple bond is strong • The importance of the early imprint years • The systemic consequences of misplaced hierarchy • How modern women can honor both independence and relational order • How to create balance without burnout This episode is is about understanding invisible systemic forces.  And embracing that every person is unique, every relationship is unique.  When the order is clear, love can flow. When love flows, balance becomes possible. Let’s talk about how modern women can stop surviving, and start thriving! Love, Tina  Welcome to I am Love. Thank you for tuning in. My name is Tina.I am happy to speak with you about Family Constellations a modality that completely fascinates me.I am a facilitator and teacher of this modality, and love to share insights that might help you see clear and set yourself free!

    20 min
  4. JAN 29

    Identity crisis - who are you really?

    Who are you really? Beneath all the roles you play? In this deep and soulful conversation, I sit down again with Nora Selim, a gifted life coach, movement and cycle dance teacher, and conscious leader in the corporate world. Together, we explore the layers of identity we wear throughout life—and how easily they can become invisible limitations. We speak about the many masks we identify with: I am a daughter. I am a partner. I am a mother. A teacher…. And is that all that I am? And how every “I am” can subtly narrow our sense of self if we mistake it for who we truly are. This episode dives into the nature of conscience, the idea of a “good” or “bad” conscience, and how deeply it is shaped by conditioning, culture, and value systems. What feels right or wrong in one part of the world may feel completely different in another. We also reflect on a fundamental truth: each of us is unique. We all carry different belief systems, perspectives, and inner moral compasses, and none is inherently better or more “right” than another.  True healing and inner freedom begin when we allow this diversity to exist, when we meet one another without judgment, and when we release the need to change or fix someone in order to feel safe. Together, we reflect philosophically and compassionately on: Identity and self-definitionConditioning, morality, and cultural valuesThe fear of being a “good” or “bad” personLetting go of roles, masks, and attachments that no longer serveAccepting ourselves and others without the need to change themReconnecting with your core truth beyond labelsWe are all One!?This is a gentle yet powerful conversation that invites you to pause, reflect, and look inward, toward the space beyond roles, beyond judgment, and closer to who you truly are. ✨ A spiritual, thought-provoking episode for anyone ready to soften their identity and meet themselves, and others, more honestly. Welcome to I am Love. Thank you for tuning in. My name is Tina.I am happy to speak with you about Family Constellations a modality that completely fascinates me.I am a facilitator and teacher of this modality, and love to share insights that might help you see clear and set yourself free!

    25 min
  5. JAN 15

    Business and Spirituality - Do they belong together?

    In this episode, I explore a question that many people still see as controversial:Do business and spirituality belong together – or should they be kept separate? Together with wonderful host Nora Selim, Conscious Leader in the Corporate-, and Spiritual World, we dive into an honest and lively conversation about what it really means to lead, decide, and create in the business world while staying deeply connected to intuition, emotions, and inner truth. We speak about: Can and should spirituality and business be combined? Why spirituality is not something you add to business – but something you already bring with youHow intuition, gut feeling, emotions, and inner guidance naturally influence decision-makingWhy businesses thrive when we stop separating “professional” from “human”What happens when leaders allow themselves to feel, sense, and trust moreHow conscious leadership creates healthier companies, cultures, and outcomesAt the heart of this conversation is a simple truth: We are spiritual beings having a human experience – also at work. And when we allow our full humanity into business, something powerful unfolds. This episode is for leaders, entrepreneurs, and professionals who feel that there must be another way of doing business – one that is aligned, conscious, intuitive, and deeply human. Business and spirituality are not opposites. They are meant to work together. Enjoy the conversation. Welcome to I am Love. Thank you for tuning in. My name is Tina.I am happy to speak with you about Family Constellations a modality that completely fascinates me.I am a facilitator and teacher of this modality, and love to share insights that might help you see clear and set yourself free!

    30 min
  6. 11/24/2025

    Motherhood and the Myth of Doing It All

    Welcome back, beautiful souls. In today’s episode, I’m joined by the incredible Sara Tuqan – Mind Coach, Mother, and a woman who speaks with so much honesty and depth about what mothers are truly going through. We’re diving into one of the biggest illusions of our time: the idea that a mother must be perfect, do everything flawlessly, and never fail. So many women are carrying this silent pressure – to prepare the perfect lunchbox, raise the perfect child, show up as the perfect partner, stay fit, be emotionally available, keep the house running, build a career… and somehow still look radiant doing it. Let me break it to you: It’s impossible.And it was never meant to be the standard. Today, we’re here to burst that illusion – gently but clearly. Because motherhood is not about performing life. It’s about living it. Enjoying it. Being present.  And for that, a mother must learn to put herself first. Not out of selfishness, but out of wisdom. A nourished, rested, fulfilled woman becomes a grounded, present, loving mother. When your cup is full, everything flows with more ease. Your child is automatically more happy and healthy too.  So in this conversation, Sara and I explore the expectations, the fears, the guilt, and the deep liberation that comes when you let go of the myth that you have to do it all. Let’s step into truth, compassion, and freedom together. Love, Tina  Welcome to I am Love. Thank you for tuning in. My name is Tina.I am happy to speak with you about Family Constellations a modality that completely fascinates me.I am a facilitator and teacher of this modality, and love to share insights that might help you see clear and set yourself free!

    12 min
  7. 11/13/2025

    Conscious Parenting and the Imprint of our Childhood

    In this episode, Sara Tuqan - Life Coach and Facilitator joins us, to dive deep into the hidden architecture of childhood: how the way we were parented shapes our nervous system, our relationships, our confidence, and the way we show up in the world. I explore conscious parenting as a path of awareness, healing, and responsibility… not perfection. We talk about how a child’s greatest need is not toys, achievements, or entertainment, but the regulated, present, loving nervous system of a parent. Presence is the medicine. Presence is the imprint.  Presence is the legacy. We also dive into: - The unseen impact of our own childhood wounds How unfinished stories from our early years replay in adulthood, in love, work, parenting, and self-worth. - The Father Connection How our relationship with our father influences our inner masculine and inner feminine — our ability to take action, to trust ourselves, to receive, to choose partners, and to feel safe in the world. - Mama’s Boys & the Rite of Passage From a constellation perspective: what happens when a boy stays too long in the mother’s field, what true separation looks like, and how a father’s presence supports healthy masculinity. - Inner Child Healing and why we all should be doing it.  - Why the “here and now” is the foundation of parenting A child feels the parent’s state before they hear their words. We explore how embodiment, regulation, and simple awareness can transform the entire family system. This episode is not only for parents, but for every adult who is still healing the child they once were. It is a journey of remembrance, responsibility, and liberation. Tune in with an open heart. You may discover pieces of yourself you’ve never met before. With love, Tina  Welcome to I am Love. Thank you for tuning in. My name is Tina.I am happy to speak with you about Family Constellations a modality that completely fascinates me.I am a facilitator and teacher of this modality, and love to share insights that might help you see clear and set yourself free!

    53 min

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I am Love - Tina's Podcast is all about Empowerment, Self-care and mindfulness. I am a Family Constellation Facilitator and Life Coach and will talk mainly about the power of constellations and how you can utilize this amazing tool to set yourself free and remove blockages and reoccurring patterns from you life.