On Call With Dr. Anselm Anyoha

Dr. Anselm Anyoha

In this podcast, Dr. Anselm Anyoha, talks about the social, emotional, and physical health of children, and their journey from birth through preschool, and beyond. With over 30 years of experience, Dr. Anyoha provides compassionate answers to issues parents and children face from preschool through adolescents..

  1. FEB 25

    Episode-79-Why Won’t My Baby Stop Crying? A Pediatrician Explains Infantile Colic

    n this episode of On Call with Dr. Anselm Anyoha, we take a clear, compassionate look at infantile colic, one of the most frustrating and exhausting challenges in early infancy. Colic is defined as prolonged, inconsolable crying in otherwise healthy babies, typically beginning around three weeks of age and resolving by three to four months. Dr. Anyoha explains how colic differs from normal crying, including its classic pattern of intense, often evening-time episodes that persist despite feeding, diaper changes, and soothing. The episode walks parents through what colic looks like in real life, what families commonly try before seeking medical care—such as gripe water, formula changes, and soothing techniques—and how pediatricians carefully evaluate crying babies to rule out illness, infection, feeding problems, or gastrointestinal conditions. Dr. Anyoha also addresses the most common question parents ask: What causes colic? While the exact cause remains uncertain, possible contributors include digestive immaturity and heightened sensitivity to environmental stimuli. Importantly, parents are reassured that colic is benign, does not harm brain development, and resolves on its own. Practical coping strategies are emphasized, along with emotional support for overwhelmed caregivers. The episode closes with a powerful reminder: colic is temporary, parents are not to blame, and seeking support is essential during this demanding phase of early parenting.

    8 min
  2. FEB 13

    Episode-77-Leaving the Hospital and Seeing the Pediatrician: Your Baby’s First Visit Explained

    Your baby’s first visit to the pediatrician is one of the earliest and most meaningful milestones of parenthood. In this episode of On Call with Dr. Anselm Anyoha, we walk parents through what happens at that first appointment, why it matters, and how it helps families feel confident during the earliest days of a newborn’s life. Typically scheduled when a baby is three to five days old, this visit often marks the first time new parents leave the house with their newborn—car seat carefully buckled, questions swirling, and emotions running high. Dr. Anyoha explains that this visit is not just a medical checkup; it is the beginning of a long-term partnership between families and their pediatrician. The episode explains what pediatricians assess during this visit, including weight, length, head circumference, and how those measurements help track healthy growth and early brain development. Parents learn why it is normal for newborns to lose some weight after birth and how pediatricians look for healthy trends rather than single numbers. A full newborn physical exam is also reviewed, including reflexes, muscle tone, hip stability, umbilical cord healing, and circumcision care when applicable. A major focus is feeding guidance. Dr. Anyoha addresses common worries about breastfeeding and formula feeding, feeding frequency, vitamin D supplementation, and hunger cues. Parents are reminded that newborns typically feed every two to three hours, day and night, and that feeding on demand is key in the early weeks. The episode also covers newborn sleep and crying, helping parents understand that irregular sleep patterns and frequent crying are normal forms of communication, not signs of failure. Gentle soothing strategies—skin-to-skin contact, swaddling, holding, and talking softly—are discussed as ways to comfort babies while strengthening bonding and emotional security. Finally, Dr. Anyoha highlights warning signs pediatricians watch for, such as excessive weight loss, poor feeding, breathing difficulties, or signs of infection, and explains when parents should reach out for help. The episode closes with reassurance: most babies are healthy, most parents are doing far better than they realize, and confidence grows with time, guidance, and support.

    10 min
  3. FEB 7

    Episode-76-Separation, Trauma, and Resilience: Understanding the Child’s Experience

    Separation from caregivers is one of the most powerful and painful experiences a child can endure. In this episode of On Call with Dr. Anselm Anyoha, we explore how caregiver separation affects children emotionally, psychologically, and developmentally—and why protecting the caregiver-child bond is essential for healthy growth. Drawing on decades of pediatric practice and training in infant mental health and child development, Dr. Anyoha explains that children rely on caregivers not only for food and safety, but for emotional security and a sense of predictability. When separation occurs—whether due to divorce, illness, incarceration, immigration policies, war, or natural disasters—children often experience loss, confusion, and fear, regardless of the reason. The episode examines how separation affects children at different developmental stages. Newborns and infants may struggle to form secure attachments. Toddlers may cry inconsolably or regress in skills. School-aged children may show behavioral or academic difficulties, while adolescents may withdraw, become depressed, or express distress through anger and risk-taking behaviors. Younger children are especially vulnerable, but no age group is immune. Dr. Anyoha also discusses the psychological consequences of separation, including anxiety, aggression, depression, oppositional behavior, and long-term relational difficulties. Foundational work by John Bowlby on attachment and maternal deprivation is referenced, alongside modern neuroscience, confirming that prolonged separation can leave lasting emotional scars into adulthood. Importantly, the episode emphasizes hope and recovery. Children are resilient, and healing is possible when protective factors are in place—early reunification when safe, consistent and nurturing substitute caregivers, stable routines, and access to mental health support such as play therapy. Pediatricians play a crucial role by identifying early signs of trauma, supporting families, and advocating for stability and reunification. The episode concludes with a powerful message for parents, clinicians, and society: children need caregivers not only to survive, but to flourish. Minimizing unnecessary separation, responding quickly when it occurs, and ensuring every child has a dependable, loving adult is a shared responsibility.

    8 min

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In this podcast, Dr. Anselm Anyoha, talks about the social, emotional, and physical health of children, and their journey from birth through preschool, and beyond. With over 30 years of experience, Dr. Anyoha provides compassionate answers to issues parents and children face from preschool through adolescents..