When a civil war reduced her dean's office and 17 years of research to ashes, Fay Niewiadomski was left with a briefcase and one question: who am I when the title is gone? That reset became the foundation of her book Decisions That Matter: Rethink, Reimagine and Reset Your Life, and of a coaching career built on one belief: you have power, so stop giving it away. In this episode of Unpacked with Ron Harvey, Ron sits down with Fay, a Jamaica-raised, Lebanon-based leadership coach and former university dean, for a candid conversation about decisions, trust, and what leadership costs when it isn't real. In this episode: The difference between a decision and a choice, and why saying "I have no choice" surrenders your powerWhy knowledge and competence are not the same thing, and why making money is not the same as creating valueThe courage gap: why leaders won't hold their teams or themselves accountable, and why leadership is not a popularity contestHow Fay earned trust in a war zone by treating everyone fairlyRebuilding trust: look in the mirror, admit your mistakes, and be the brand that keeps its promiseThe hidden cost of ineffective leadership: people forget you the moment you lose the titleCommunication as the wiring that powers a business: speaking at, to, and with someoneThe four journeys of a leader: the Personal Odyssey, Walking with Lions, the Ascent of the Warrior, and the Dance of the MagicianWhy putting yourself first is not selfish, and how character becomes destinyFay Niewiadomski is a leadership coach, strategic communication consultant, and author of Decisions That Matter: Rethink, Reimagine and Reset Your Life. A former university dean who lived through 15 years of civil war in Lebanon, she coaches leaders one on one and works with organizations on strategic communication and business emotional intelligence. She publishes two blog posts a week on leadership dilemmas and staying irreplaceable in the age of AI. Get the book: Decisions That Matter is available on Amazon, Amazon UK, IngramSpark, and Kindle Connect with Fay: LinkedIn and YouTube (links in the show notes) Connect with Ron Just Make A Difference: Leading Under Pressure by Ron Harvey “If you don’t have something to measure your growth, you won’t be self-aware or intentional about your growth.” Learn more about Global Core Strategies . . . . . Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the speakers and guests and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any organization or entity. The information provided in this podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice. Listeners should consult with their own professional advisors before implementing any suggestions or recommendations made in this podcast. The speakers and guests are not responsible for any actions taken by listeners based on the information presented in this podcast. The podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice or services. The speakers and guests make no representations or warranties of any kind, express or implied, about the completeness, accuracy, reliability, suitability or availability with respect to the information, products, services, or related graphics contained in this podc...