Love On Command

Shay Levister
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Helping professionals end chronic single-itist & manifest love on command with proven scientific techniques without uncertainty and disappointment!❤

  1. FEB 10

    How a High-Value Man Chooses His Wife (From a Man Who Actually Did It)

    In today's episode of Love on Command, it gets REAL—and honestly, it's a special one. I'm Shay, your Love Diva, and today I'm sitting down with Jamil Damji—and let me tell you… this episode is a FIRST. Because Jamil isn't just a guest… he's the fiancé of one of my clients, and he is living proof of what happens when a woman is willing to do the inner work and call in real love the right way. We talk about how he met his woman, what made her stand out instantly, why he wasn't interested in "fixer-uppers," and what high-performing, elite men are actually looking for when they're choosing a wife—not just a date. And ladies… he breaks down the exact qualities that make a man want to lock it down, commit, and build a life with you. So if you're a successful woman who doesn't need a man—but you do desire a partner you can build with—this conversation is going to shift your perspective in the best way. Press play, take notes, and get ready… because you're about to hear it straight from the great guy's mouth. Welcome back to Love on Command. 💋

    31 min

  2. JAN 28

    Stop Dating in the Dark

    Ladies… let's be honest. Most women are out here dating completely backwards. You're asking yourself, "How do I get him to like me?" or "How do I finally find my person?"—but what if I told you the real answer isn't more dating… it's understanding the science. Because love is not just magic. Love is biology. Love is predictable. And when you understand what's happening biochemically in the attraction process, you stop guessing, you stop wasting time, and you finally start moving with strategy. In this episode, I'm going to show you why men bond the way they do, what hormones are actually driving commitment, and how your personal love blueprint affects the kind of men you attract, choose, and hold onto. Most women don't realize they are triggering emotional bonding long before a man ever decides to commit—and that's where heartbreak happens. If you've ever felt like you've done everything right—successful career, beautiful life—and still wondered, "Why haven't I found my person?"… this conversation is for you. Because once you understand the phases of bonding, your archetype in love, and the deeper science behind attraction, you will never date in the dark again. Let's get into it.

    11 min

  3. JAN 20

    Dating in the Dark Is Costing You Love

    Ladies, we need to talk. If you are successful in your career, disciplined in your life, and powerful in every room you walk into—but somehow keep attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or weak men—this episode is for you. In this conversation, I'm breaking down the real reason dating keeps hurting you, and it has nothing to do with you being broken. It's about your patterns, your strategy, and the archetype you're unconsciously dating from. I'm going to show you why dating in the dark is dangerous—and why high-achieving women cannot date the same way everyone else does. Just like you wouldn't run a business, treat a patient, or walk into court without a plan, you cannot afford to approach love without self-awareness and diagnosis. If you've ever asked yourself: "Why am I winning everywhere except love?" "Why do I keep attracting the same kind of man?" "Is something wrong with me?" This episode will change the way you see dating forever. You are not broken. Your strategy is. And today, we turn the lights on.

    9 min

  4. JAN 7

    Why You Keep Attracting Build-A-Bears

    There are a lot of Build-A-Bears in this world. Loud men. Raggedy men. Men who never learned how to stand on their own two feet because they're still emotionally nursing from their mother. And yet… there are still GOOD men here. Masculine men. Provider men. Men who want to lead, protect, and commit. So why do so many women keep attracting the wrong ones? In this episode, I speak directly to the woman who has been hurt, disappointed, and rejected for so long that she learned how to survive without a man. I understand you. I've lived it. But that survival mode is keeping you trapped. It's blocking the very love you say you want. I'm sharing the truth about polarity, feminine energy, and the invisible love blocks that quietly sabotage relationships before they even begin. After working with thousands of women, I've seen the patterns. I know why some women effortlessly attract high-quality men and why others keep repeating the same painful cycle—even in marriage. This conversation is not soft. It's not popular. And it's not meant to entertain you. It's meant to wake you up. Because the most expensive decision you will ever make in your life is the man you choose. If you're ready to stop attracting Build-A-Bears and start choosing differently, this episode is for you. — Shay, Your Love Diva 💋

    9 min

  5. 12/30/2025

    Top Dating Mistakes Keeping You From a High-Value Man

    In this episode, I'm breaking down the top dating mistakes that keep powerful, intelligent women stuck in cycles of disappointment instead of in the arms of a high-value man who can truly love their soul. I'm going to lovingly—but directly—call out the patterns that sabotage love, including: Believing a man's words instead of his actions Moving too fast with the wrong man and skipping proper vetting Dating from insecurity instead of dating for growth Confusing dating with intimacy and giving benefits before commitment Dating is not about hope, potential, or chemistry alone. Dating is an interview process—and not everyone deserves access to your time, your heart, or your body. I'll teach you how to slow down, raise your standards, protect your energy, and position yourself to attract a man who is emotionally available, intentional, and capable of building a future with you. If you're tired of wasting time… If you're ready to stop repeating the same love lessons… And if you desire a romantic best friend who meets you at your level— This episode is for you.

    6 min

  6. 12/23/2025

    The 3 Categories Men Put Women In (And How to Be the Wife Category)

    How many of you feel like the clock is ticking? You want marriage. You want a family. You want children. And yet, when you look around at the dating pool, you feel the pressure of time and the frustration of settling for less than you deserve. In this episode, I speak directly to the women who come to me every single day — successful, beautiful, accomplished women who are tired of attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or beneath-their-level men. Women who have tried everything: therapy, retreats, coaching, matchmaking — and still haven't gotten the result they want. I'm here to tell you this: your age does not disqualify you, and your desire does not make you unrealistic. This is not about chasing men. This is about becoming the woman who naturally attracts the right one. If you're done wasting time, done ignoring red flags, and ready to get what you actually want — this episode is for you.

    10 min

  7. 12/16/2025

    Ma'am, His Sperm Is Reprogramming You

    Ma'am… we need to have a grown conversation. In this episode, I'm breaking down something most people don't want to talk about—because it's not "popular," it's not trendy, and it doesn't sound like the feel-good advice floating around online. But it might be the information that saves you. I'm Shay—your Love Diva. I'm a master's certified love strategist, and yes, I'm also a woman of science. I graduated pre-med biology, spent over a decade in pharmaceutical sales, and I've helped high-value women uplevel their love lives using the science of attraction for over ten years. And today, we're talking about what happens when you're sexually intimate with a man—because it's not "just sex." Even with a condom, you're still exposing your body to him. And according to research, semen isn't just fluid—it's biological data: proteins, hormones, and molecular messengers that communicate with your immune system and reproductive system. Meaning your body can adapt, adjust, and respond to a man's presence in ways you may not even realize. So if you've ever wondered why you felt anxious after sleeping with him… why you felt emotionally off… why you stayed attached to an ex you know was toxic… we're going there. Because the real question is: is he worth it? Is he worth how your body may be responding long-term? Is he worth what he might be leaving behind—biochemically, emotionally, mentally? This episode is for the woman who's done being reckless with access to her body and is ready to start moving like a wife—strategic, intentional, and protected.

    9 min

  8. 12/10/2025

    When They Go Quiet: How to Handle the Pull Away Phase

    Hey my loves, it's Shay, your Love Diva, and today we're getting into something real — the Pull Away Phase. You know that moment when everything feels good, the connection is growing, and then boom… they start acting different. Less calls, slower texts, more distance, and you're sitting there trying not to overthink yourself into a stress nap. In this episode, I'm teaching you what the pull away phase really is, why it happens, and how to respond like a woman (or man) who knows their worth. We're talking about the biggest mistake people make — chasing — and what to do instead so you stay grounded, confident, and emotionally in control. Because baby… if they wobble, you don't collapse. Press play and let your Love Diva walk you through it.

    7 min
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Helping professionals end chronic single-itist & manifest love on command with proven scientific techniques without uncertainty and disappointment!❤

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  • Creator
    Shay Levister
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    99
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    Copyright© 2019, Shay Better, LLC, ALL RIGHT RESERVED
  • Show Website
    Love On Command